In this special episode of Love Each Other Better, I sat down with Brian G. Murphy — author of Love Beyond Monogamy, certified relationship coach, and co-founder of the Queer Theology podcast. In this illuminating interview, Brian shares insights on navigating non-monogamy and open relationships, including:

How to navigate differing desires between partners and approach the conversation about opening a relationship
Handling jealousy and fostering intentional, authentic communication
Why even couples who choose to stay monogamous can benefit from exploring these questions consciously
Aligning relationships with personal values while considering the impact on your partner

Whether you're exploring the possibility of an open relationship, looking for support in your already-established open relationship, or simply looking to build more authenticity and intentionality into your monogamous partnership, don't miss this opportunity to get high-integrity guidance and insights from Brian G. Murphy.

About Ali's Guest

Brian G. Murphy is an author and certified relationship coach helping people build thriving relationships on their own terms without shame or "shoulds" through his coaching practice Relationshift.

He's also the co-founder of QueerTheology.com, a resource hub, online community, and the longest-running queer spirituality podcast which helps LGBTQ+ and polyamorous people heal from religious harm and live into their values.

He is the author of Love Beyond Monogamy and co-author of Reading The Bible Through Queer Eyes, which will be published by HarperOne in fall 2026.

Connect with Brian G. Murphy

Social Media: @thisisbgm on all the places, but especially Instagram, Threads, and YouTube

Website: https://www.thisisbgm.com

Free Commitment Clarity Checklist - http://thisisbgm.com/commitment

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