🎙️ Love Psycho – Season 2, Episode 3

Intimacy & the Anxious-Avoidant Cycle in Gay Men

With Michael Pezzullo, LMFT

🧠 Episode Overview

In this episode, we break down the anxious-avoidant cycle—why one person craves closeness while the other pulls away, and why that dynamic can feel so intense.

Joined by therapist Michael Pezzullo, LMFT, we also get into his personal journey, his practice, and why he chose to focus on working with gay men. Together, we explore how intimacy shows up in our relationships—and what gets in the way of building something real and secure.

🔥 What We Cover

The push-pull dynamic between anxious & avoidant partners
Why this cycle feels so addictive
Michael’s work with gay men & his approach to therapy
Barriers to intimacy and emotional availability
Practical ways to build healthier, more secure connections

💡 Key Takeaways

Intensity isn’t the same as intimacy
You shouldn’t have to earn consistency
Secure connection feels calm, not confusing

🔗 Connect with Michael Pezzullo

Website: https://www.michaelpezzullo.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelpezzullolmft/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Therapy-for-Gay-Men

📣 Follow the Podcast

Instagram: @lovepsychopodcast