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In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have competency and how this is expressed in the qualities of the Enneagram Type 5. Phil Vischer of The Holy Post and creator of VeggieTales joins the show and shares how the desire to be competent has shaped his story as well as his journey to tell the difference between being competent versus all-knowing. Everyone plays Your Worst Nightmare, where they discover if Phil has any secret fears.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have authenticity and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 4. Author and counselor Aundi Kolber joins the show and shares how the desire to be authentic has shaped her life as well as her journey to tell the difference between authenticity and being unique. Everyone plays Show Me You Know Me, where Jesse tries to channel all his fourness to read Aundi’s mind.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have value and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 3. Psychologist, author and podcaster Dr. Alison Cook joins the show and shares how the desire to be valuable has shaped her life as well as her journey to tell the difference between value and success. Lindsey and Dr. Alison play Lie Detector, where they show off their story-telling skills true and otherwise.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to be loved and wanted and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 2. Singer, song-writer, Andrew Greer joins the show and shares how the desire to be loved has shaped his life as well as his struggle to tell the difference between being loved and being needed. Everyone plays What’s Your Number, where Jesse and Lindsey try to guess what Andrew likes and dislikes.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to be good and how this is expressed in Type 1s. Kendra shares about how in the past, it was hard to tell the difference between goodness and perfection. Everyone plays Best Story Wins, where the group attempts to beat-box.

In today’s episode, Jesse and Lindsey explore what it means to be people created by God to desire. They answer the question, “How do I know whether or not to act on my desires?” They also explore the nine key motives that shape us.

What do you desire? Should you embolden or ignore your desires? What if your desires are signs pointing toward something deeper? On this episode of The EnneaCast, Jesse Eubanks and Lindsey Lewis kick off a brand new series on desire. They’re joined by renowned psychiatrist and author Dr. Curt Thompson as they explore the nature of desire and what happens when people see their longings only as immoral or irrelevant. How do we wield our desires in all their power and magnitude as followers of Jesus? What do we do with our broken dreams? Listen in as they explore Jesus’ first words in the gospel of John: “What do you want?”

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Join Lindsey for the last preview of Jesse's new book "How We Relate." They talk about how the Enneagram can help us see the areas of our lives that need healing and repentance. Jesse gives some final thoughts and answers Lindsey's final questions. The book is out now! Get your copy at howwerelatebook.com