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You've done everything right. The education, the career, the title, maybe even the online presence people admire. So why does your own life still feel like it belongs to someone else?In this episode, Dammy breaks down what it actually means to live in alignment, and why reinvention (not a new job, not a new look) is the real work most women are skipping. She shares her own 20 year detour chasing a career that was never hers, and what it took to finally choose differently.This is Luxury State of Mind. Where luxury isn't just an upgrade. It's the alignment.Chapters:0:00 You did everything right, so why doesn't it feel like yours1:45 What luxury actually means (and what we've been told it means)4:30 The real message behind Luxury State of Mind: reinvention7:30 The 20 year career detour11:30 Giving yourself permission14:00 The tool Dammy made to help you find your next step15:00 OutroTools:Take the Reinvention Quiz: [] Free Webinar Replay: https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836 Book a Visibility Clarity Experience: https://calendly.com/theplannter/the-visibility-clarity-experience-cloneFollow Luxury State of Mind: IG: https://www.instagram.com/luxstateofmindshow/

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836Have you ever felt like everyone else is getting their pick and all that is left for you is the option between worse and worser?In this episode of LSM On The Road, Dammy sits down for afternoon tea at Bangkok at Beltline to have a very real conversation about what to do when your situation tries to rewrite your identity. Because your circumstances are not your story. And you were never made for the crumbs.This one is for the woman who has been feeling stuck, overlooked, or forced into options she never wanted. Pull up a chair.Scriptures: Isaiah 43: Jeremiah 29:11 Chapters:0:00 — You have been feeling like a second-class citizen2:00 — The low moment that started this conversation5:00 — Point 1: Your situation is telling you a story — but it is not the truth9:00 — Point 2: What God says about you (Isaiah 43:3-4)14:00 — Point 3: Nothing external will deliver you — only God19:00 — Your takeaway this weekWatch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836Book a Visibility Clarity Experience — https://calendly.com/theplannter/the-visibility-clarity-experience-cloneGet the Time on Your Terms workbook — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/products/time-on-your-terms-workbookInvite Dammy to speak — contact@luxurystateofmind.com

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836Someone messaged Dammy and said she spent a long time watching people do what she wanted to do. Then two days before sending this message, she started anyhow. And things are already moving.In this episode, we are talking about why watching other people feels like preparation but is actually a form of hiding — and what it actually takes to stop watching and step into your own lane.Certainty does not come before you start. It comes because you started.Chapters: 0:00 The listener message that started it all 0:30 Watching other people feels like inspiration — but is it? 3:00 Comparison and why it keeps you stuck 5:30 Starting anyhow is not reckless — it is faith in motion 9:00 The women who move are not more brave than you 12:30 Courage is not a personality trait — it is practiced 15:30 Takeaway — write this sentence down this weekWatch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836 Ready to go deeper? Learn about the Visibility Clarity Experience — https://calendly.com/theplannter/the-visibility-clarity-experience-clone Book Dammy to speak at your next event — contact@luxurystateofmind.com

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836The outside world is moving fast. Everyone is jumping into different lanes. And the more you follow someone else's strategy the more invisible you become.In this episode, we are talking about how to build a personal brand that no one else could copy — because it is built entirely from who you are. Your values. Your interests. Your story. Your capacity. Not someone else's strategy forced into your life.Chapters:0:00 The world is moving fast — here is how to stay grounded0:30 You are not invisible because you are not doing enough2:45 Stop using someone else's strategy6:00 You are the remix — you are the differentiator8:18 Conversations Over Dinner — building from your own values9:30 Create your own opportunity14:00 Build from a grounded identity17:00 Takeaway — one question to ask yourself this weekWatch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836Ready to go deeper? Learn about the Visibility Clarity Experience — https://calendly.com/theplannter/the-visibility-clarity-experience-cloneBook Dammy to speak at your next event — contact@luxurystateofmind.com

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836I have watched the Michael Jackson movie twice. Gone deep on the documentaries. And what fascinated me most was not just his talent. It was how he stayed devoted to his craft for decades without burning out.In this episode, I'm breaking down three things Michael Jackson did that we can apply right now to how we build — with childlike wonder, without obligation, and without losing ourselves in the process.Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836Ready to go deeper? Learn about the Visibility Clarity Experience — https://calendly.com/theplannter/the-visibility-clarity-experience-cloneBook Dammy to speak at your next event — contact@luxurystateofmind.comMichael Jackson Doc: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwrMQboAabU Chapters:0:00 Introduction2:17 Find Your Wonder — Be a Student Like MJ6:44 The Tension You Feel Is a Call to Go Higher13:56 Move From Counting the Steps to Feeling the Music19:30 Takeaway — How to Have Fun This Week21:05 Conversations Over Dinner — Join Us in Dallas

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836You have been calling it an introvert thing for years. The reason you are not posting, not speaking up, not showing up in the spaces you are supposed to be in.But being introverted is a description of a personality. Being invisible is a choice.In this episode, I am breaking down three reasons why your introvertedness is not an excuse to stay hidden — and what it is actually costing you to keep using that label as a hiding place.Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836Ready to go deeper? Learn about the Visibility Clarity Experience — https://calendly.com/theplannter/the-visibility-clarity-experience-cloneBook Dammy to speak at your next event — contact@luxurystateofmind.com

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836What would happen if the fear of what people think no longer robbed you of the growth and opportunities already available to you right now?In this episode I am sharing what 30 days of going live on LinkedIn every single day taught me — and it had nothing to do with followers or reach. It changed me as a person. And I want to tell you how letting go of the fear of being perceived opened me up to opportunities I never saw coming.Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836Ready to go deeper? Learn about the Visibility Clarity Experience — https://calendly.com/theplannter/the-visibility-clarity-experience-cloneBook Dammy to speak at your next event — contact@luxurystateofmind.com

Watch the Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar replay — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836You have the vision. You have the drive. But you also have a full-time job, responsibilities, and a life that does not pause for your dreams.In this episode, I am sharing exactly how I have been building Luxury State of Mind while working a 9-5 — the real investment, the daily decisions, and the one thing that actually keeps you going when you are tired and wondering if it is worth it.This is not a hustle harder episode. This is a build smarter and stay in it longer episode.Get my workbook Time on Your Terms — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/products/time-on-your-terms-workbookGet my workbook Time on Your Terms here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/products/time-on-your-terms-workbookReady to go deeper? Learn about the Visibility Clarity Experience — https://calendly.com/theplannter/the-visibility-clarity-experience-cloneBook Dammy to speak at your next event — contact@luxurystateofmind.com

Ready to go from invisible to visible? Join the free webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/9812f0f665You have the talent. You have the skills. So why does it feel like opportunities keep passing you by?In this episode, we are talking about the real cost of staying invisible — and it goes much deeper than missed promotions or money. We are talking about the emotional cost.The exhaustion of competing in a lane that was never yours. The self-doubt that keeps you waiting for permission that never comes.If you have been waiting until you have it all figured out before you show up — this one is for you.Join the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/9812f0f665Work with Dammy: https://linktr.ee/dammyoshodiSpeaking Inquiries: contact@luxurystateofmind.com

You are not invisible. You are hiding. And the tricky part is most of us don't even know we're doing it.In this episode, we are breaking down the 7ways highly talented women unconsciously block themselves from the opportunities they actually deserve.Not because they aren't capable. Not because they aren't ready. But because somewhere along the way they learned that staying small was safer than being seen.📅 UPCOMING: Stop Hiding, Start Showing Up — Free Live Webinar, Wednesday, May 13th at 7pm CST → https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/9812f0f665 Work with Dammy: https://linktr.ee/dammyoshodiSpeaking Inquiries: contact@luxurystateofmind.com