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Madame Speaker Says
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Madame Speaker Says is the podcast for women of colour ready to own the mic, drop that book and get paid like a legend.
Join Magogodi oaMphela Makhene - author, speaker and coach - for real talk, shortcuts and receipts to help you lead with confidence — on stage, on the page and way beyond the 9–5. No caucacity, no crusty old school leadership.
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They Loved Me, Nobody Hired Me: Why Your Talks Aren't Converting Into Clients
1w ago00:13:44Tap to summarize🎙️ 💥 Learn how to Speak up for Your Excellence: https://lovekindcure.kit.com/b80a66aa37They clapped. They cried. They told you it was the best thing they'd ever seen — and then nobody hired you. That's not a talent problem. It's not even a confidence problem. 👀 What's actually going on? THIS VIDEO UNPACKS:-- Why your talk needs a "job" before you ever walk on stage — and the one question I ask every client before we even get on a call-- The exact window after you speak when people are primed to say yes and how fast it slams shut-- The one sentence that decides whether people leave inspired or leave ready to hire you.A couple years back I led a retreat for a room full of corporate executives, and when I tell you it was stiff — you could've dropped a pin and heard it echo. One guy, built like a big buffy bear, came at me sideways the second I asked an opening question, like I was there to run some cute little woo-woo thing on him. By the end of that session? Same guy is walking side by side with me, telling me everything about his company. People were crying. The room was electric. Electric. 🔥And it still didn't book me again. Not because the work wasn't real — because that retreat didn't have a job. I never architected it to convert. That's mistake number one, and it's probably costing you clients right now too.Then there's the flip side — missing the moment entirely. I once sat through a multi-day experience so good the whole room felt like friends by lunch. The founder never made the ask in the room. I got in my Uber, called my baby to say Mommy's flying home, landed, walked into my house — still nothing. Days later, an email shows up trying to recreate a moment that was already gone. 😬YOUR TURNOf the 3 issues we talk about in the video—your talk as no job, you missed the moment, or your promised land is unclear--which one is showing up in your talks right now?👇🏽 Drop it in the comments, I've got popcorn and I'm waiting...CHAPTERS0:00 They Loved Me, Nobody Hired Me2:00 The One Thing Your Talk Needs Before You Walk On Stage4:50 The Retreat That Never Rebooked Me7:00 You're Missing the Conversion Moment7:35 The Keynote Where the Ask Came Too Late10:25 The Promised Land Problem12:10 What TED Gets Right About Selling Without Selling13:40 Learn More: The Whole Damn TalkRESOURCES📚Innards — My debut, a short story collection and among Guardian Best Fiction Books of 2023.🎤 Work with me. Learn more about The Whole Damn Talk: https://madamespeakersays.comLET'S CONNECT📲 Are we instagram friends? https://www.instagram.com/madamespeakersays/👩🏽💻 Storytelling website: http://www.magogodi.com🎤 Madame Speaker Says site: http://www.madamespeakersays.com#PraisedNotHired #GetHiredMore #ClientAttraction #BusinessGrowth #TheWholeDamnTalk📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
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Your Work Doesn't Speak for Itself - The Most Expensive Lie Brilliant Women Believe
2w ago00:11:37Tap to summarizeLearn how to Speak up for Your Excellence - The Whole Damn Talk.We've told brilliant women one of the most expensive lies in the world--that if the work is good enough, it'll speak for itself.It won't.I just closed out a season of interviews with women whose work has shaped institutions, ideas, their communities and countries—Wanuri Kahiu, who became the first Kenyan director to take her film to Cannes, Lebo Mashile who turned Sarah Baartman's story into a play and now an opera, Alicia DeLia, reimagining how we move money in the Global South, Rachel Cargle on the personal renaissance, Dr. Kemi Doll revolutionizing gynecologic care for Black and Brown bodies and Dr. Djamila Robeiro, the woman who disrupted a white-centric publishing industry and gave Brazil new language for dissecting power. On paper, completely different lives. Underneath, the exact same pattern: not one of them got here by quietly becoming excellent and waiting to be discovered. Each one learned how to make others being understand why her work mattered.That's the skill. And we celebrate it far too little.In this episode, you learn:Why "your work will speak for itself" is costing you the opportunities that are actually yoursHow you're already a public speaker every single day — whether you'd ever call yourself one or notWhy the skills don't change whether you're in front of 2 people or 2,000What I actually do (hint: I can't make you smarter — I help the room understand how smart you already are)And what's coming nextIf you're an expert with a body of work you've spent forever building, this one's for you.🎙️ Hit subscribe so you don't miss the next episode. 💬 Got a question about translating your own expertise? Send it my way, here. Chapters 00:00 — The one thing every guest had in common01:04 — The women of this season, and why they could all speak to their work02:13 — The expensive lie: "work hard and your work will speak for itself"03:17 — Translation is a skill (send me your questions)04:20 — You're already a public speaker, even if you'd never call it that05:32 — Two people or two thousand: the skills don't change06:29 — "I can't make you smarter. I make the room understand how smart you are."07:32 — Turning expertise into bank: 18 crisp minutes that move people to act08:37 — The throughline I didn't expect to find09:45 — What's next: turning the lens on you10:46 — Why I'm betting on Black and brown womenResources📚 Innards — My debut, a short story collection and among Guardian Best Fiction Books of 2023.🎤 The Whole Damn Talk: https://madamespeakersays.comConnect with Magogodi Magogodi: http://www.magogodi.com Madame Speaker Says: http://www.madamespeakersays.com 📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
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The Overnight Success That Took 20 Years | Rachel Cargle on Building a Movement From One Idea
3w ago00:59:16Tap to summarizeRachel Cargle on the quiet years behind "overnight" success — building The Loveland Foundation from one Instagram post, self-knowledge, and real thought leadership.You keep watching other people blow up overnight. Meanwhile you've got the idea, the skill, the whole thing — and it's still just sitting in your notes app. So what are they doing that you're not?"All I had to do was usher them into place — because I had already dreamt it out." — Rachel CargleThese days, The New York Times calls and quotes Rachel Cargle. But the moment that "made" her wasn't luck and it wasn't sudden. One Instagram post — asking if we could pay the therapy bills of Black women — raised $10,000 in 24 hours and grew into a foundation that's funded over $10 million in mental health care. It looked like an overnight win. It wasn't. That post sat on top of almost 20 years of quietly curating herself — all the way back to a 10-year-old practicing handwriting she admired until it became her own. So by the time the money and the right people showed up, she already knew exactly where everything went. This episode is the part nobody posts: the long, quiet work that makes the loud moment land. You'll learn:The real reason your idea hasn't taken off yet — and the unglamorous work that actually changes thatHow Rachel turned one vulnerable post into a $10M movement, and why it wasn't the post that did itWhat those 20 quiet years actually looked like — and how to use the years before anyone's clapping so you're ready the day they areHow to get so clear on what you want that the right people and money come find youWhy she walked away from a Columbia degree, and what she chose insteadOne small move you can make this week to startHere's the thing: the talk inside you is the same kind of quiet work. The Whole Damn Talk is the three hours where we build it — the talk that makes a room not just nod, but book you, sign up, join what you're building. I only take five clients a month. Book a call at madamespeakersays.com.New episode every Sunday. Follow Madame Speaker Says so you don't miss one.Chapters00:00 — The authority The New York Times calls now00:00 — Curating yourself since age 10: the handwriting story00:00 — Why she left Columbia00:00 — Building rooms instead of waiting to be invited into one00:00 — One post, $10,000, 24 hours: the Loveland Foundation00:00 — Why it wasn't actually overnight00:00 — What being public really costs00:00 — Your move this week00:00 — Rapid fireResources📚 A Renaissance of Our Own: A Memoir & Manifesto on Reimagining: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/635409/a-renaissance-of-our-own-by-rachel-e-cargle/🌿 The Loveland Foundation: https://thelovelandfoundation.org🎤 The Whole Damn Talk: https://madamespeakersays.comConnectRachel Cargle: @rachel.cargle Madame Speaker Says: @madamespeakersays 📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
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Building Authority No One Can Take | Djamila Ribeiro on Power & Speaking Unapologetically
4w ago01:26:01Tap to summarizeWhat does it cost to keep waiting for the world to confirm what you already know about yourself?Djamila Ribeiro's answer will stop you: "People didn't give the opportunity to me, so I created the opportunity — because I knew my value."Djamila Ribeiro is one of the most important philosophers at work in the world right now. She coined a concept that gave Brazil new language for power. When the publishing industry couldn't hold her work, she built a publishing house. When 90% of books in her country had been written by white people for fifty years, she launched a collective that published 80 Black authors. When the United Nations needed someone to speak on the International Day of Recognizing the Victims of Slavery, they called her — the first Brazilian civilian ever invited to that stage. She gave herself three words before she walked up: speak unapologetically.This is a masterclass in what happens when you stop waiting for permission and start building from what you already know.In this episode, Djamila breaks down:Why the moment she read Toni Morrison's The Bluest Eye at 19 didn't just change her — it issued her a demand, and what she did with itWhat it actually means to know your value before the academy, the industry, or the institution confirms it — and how that self-knowledge becomes the foundation everything else is built onHow she diagnosed a market that wasn't built for her work and built an alternative market instead of waiting for it to changeWhat happened the day she found out a stranger had built a community library by hand in a poor neighborhood and named it after her work — and what it teaches you about building something that outlasts youThe one concrete move she gives her students before she sees them again — not over the course of the semester, but before next timeThe three words she gave herself before walking onto the floor of the UN General Assembly — and why they are the only preparation that mattered🔔 Subscribe to Madame Speaker Says - new episodes every Sunday. Join the conversation - madamespeakersays.comChapters00:00 Introduction — Djamila Ribeiro02:30 Toni Morrison at 19 — What Recognition Demands of You08:00 Brazil's Racial Landscape — The Last Country to End Slavery in 1888👀13:30 University at 27 — Self-Knowledge Before the Degree19:00 Lugar de Fala & the Feminismos Plurais Publishing Collective27:30 The Library in Campinas — When the Work Leaves Its Creator33:00 What Brazil Can Teach the Rest of the World37:30 Take the Floor — Rapid Fire44:30 The UN General Assembly — Speak Unapologetically48:00 The Whole Damn Talk — Work with MagogodiResources Mentioned📚 The Bluest Eye — Toni Morrison📚 Where We Stand — Djamila Ribeiro (Yale University Press, 2024)📚 Letters to My Grandmother — Djamila RibeiroConnect with Djamila🔗 djamilaribeiro.com.br📱 Instagram: @djamilaribeiro1📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
Transcribe →AI Wants to Erase You. Here's How I Use Clause to Sharpen My Talks & Essays.
Jun 700:18:55Tap to summarizeWhat does it cost to let a machine make you sound smooth? Because the machine is trained for smooth. And smooth is forgettable.In this solo episode, Magogodi —host of Madame Speaker Says— goes deep on the move most people get exactly backwards. Feed AI "here's the assignment, just write it for me," and you'll sound like a corporate talking machine — forgettable, in a room you fought to get into. The fix isn't to stop using AI. It's to stop letting AI write for you, and start using it as the most ruthless editor you've ever had. Magogodi walks through the exact process she used to write an application against 1,300 people — owning every first draft herself, then handing it over to sharpen, fact-check and remember what she forgot. And she's been edited by big thinkers at the Iowa Writer's Workshop, Harvard Review and W.W.Norton, so she doesn't say "ruthless editing" lightly.In this episode, Magogodi breaks down:Why you own the first draft, every time—so the thinking stays yours, plus the voice-note hack for when you freezeThe five words that turn AI into a beast editor—and why they surface what most human editors missHow to use AI as your fact-checker and your memory bank—the kind that sifts your own life and hands you back the story you forgot was the best partHow to protect your idiosyncrasies—your singular unique phrasing, weird jokes and tone— so your talk still sounds like a human, not a panelWhy ethics matters around here, and why use Claude over the rest.Your authority is in how unmistakably yourself you sound when you connect with folks through the real AF human stuff they're navigating. Used right, AI doesn't flatten that —it makes you clearer, sharper and more obviously, you.When you're done, do the one thing no machine can do for her: rate Madame Speaker Says 5 stars on Apple Podcasts and leave a review.🔔 Subscribe to Madame Speaker Says — new episodes every Sunday. madamespeakersays.comChapters 00:00 Introduction & What You'll Learn Today 02:00 The Fear: AI Is Making You Sound Like Everyone Else 04:00 The Machine Is Trained for Smooth — and Smooth Is Forgettable 06:00 Move 1: Own the First Draft — Pretend the Internet Doesn't Exist 08:30 The Voice-Note Hack for When You Freeze 10:30 Move 2: "Show Me My Blind Spots" — AI as Beast Editor 14:00 Move 3: AI as Your Fact-Checker — More rigorous than The New Yorker 17:00 Move 4: AI as a Memory Bank That Sifts for What Matters 20:30 Move 5: Protect Your Idiosyncrasies — Keep the Weird Jokes 24:00 Why Claude, and Why Ethics Matter Around Here 27:00 Your Move This Week 29:00 The Whole Damn Talk — Work with MagogodiResources Mentioned: 🤖 Claude — claude.ai 📚 Innards — https://wwnorton.com/books/9781324051008Work with Magogodi The Whole Damn Talk — 3 hours, one-on-one. Your hook, your spine, your one-liner, your business case. Built from scratch. Five spots a month. Learn More → madamespeakersays.com📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
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She Grew Up Between Two Worlds. Now She's Changing How Money Moves Between Them | Alicia DeLia Part 2/2
May 3100:54:32Tap to summarizeWhat does it cost to put something sacred on a term sheet? For women in leadership and impact investing, this question is everything.Alicia DeLia's answer will stop you: "I don't think there's a cost in putting it there. I think there's a cost in not putting it there. And that's what we've seen this world become."In Part 2 of this two-part conversation, Alicia — founder of Buen Vivir Capital Institute — goes deep on the building of something entirely new. She tells the story of growing in a multi-class family, with ambassadors on her Cameroonian chief father's side and watching her Salvadoran immigrant mother put in overtime to make sure the check cleared for her school field trip. That childhood became the architecture of everything Alicia is building. Alicia breaks down:What Buen Vivir actually means — the Ubuntu of Latin America — and why pairing an Indigenous philosophy with a capital institute is not an oxymoron, it's the pointHow growing up multi-class — not just multiracial — shaped her entire approach to fundraising and who gets fundedWhy she built an institute and not a fund — and what thinking in 40-year infrastructure actually looks likeThe real reason she chose Mexico City over New York or DC for her launch — and what it teaches women in leadership about where to seek your first yesWhy "it's fun to do capital this way" is not soft — it's the most subversive thing you can say in a funding roomHow to curate a room where power shifts without anyone having to announce itHaven't listened to Part 1? Go back. This conversation builds on everything there.🔔 Subscribe to Madame Speaker Says — new episodes every Sunday. madamespeakersays.comChapters 00:00 Introduction & What You'll Learn Today 03:30 Why She Left the Consulting Seat 07:00 Growing Up Multi-Class — Ambassadors and $15 Field Trips in the Same Week 13:00 What Buen Vivir Actually Means — The Ubuntu of Latin America 18:30 Pairing Something Sacred With a Term Sheet 24:00 "I Don't Think There's a Cost in Putting It There" 29:00 Why She Chose Mexico City Over New York or DC 35:00 How to Curate a Room Where Power Shifts 40:00 It's Fun to Do Capital This Way 44:00 Right Relationship — Credit to Jessica Norwood and RUNWAY 48:00 Building for 40 Years — Why It's an Institute Not a Fund 52:00 The Money Game — Rapid Fire 57:00 The Whole Damn Talk — Work with MagogodiResources Mentioned: 📚 The Body Keeps the Score — Bessel van der Kolk 🌺 VidaAfroLatina — Lori Robinson → vidaafrolatina.org Connect with Alicia 🔗 LinkedIn: Alicia DeLia 🏢 Buen Vivir Capital Institute: linkedin.com/company/buen-vivir-capital-instituteGet Madame Speaker Says Coaching The Whole Damn Talk in 3 hours. Your hook, your spine, your one-liner, your business case. Built from scratch. Five spots a month. → madamespeakersays.com#ImpactInvesting #WomenInPhilanthropy #BlackWomenLeaders #BuenVivir #MadameSpeakerSays📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
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Fundraising for Other People's Stories: Alicia DeLia on Taking Up Space in Impact Investing — Part 1
May 2400:39:56Tap to summarizeWhat does it cost to spend 20 years raising money for other people's stories — and then decide your story is worth funding?Alicia DeLia has been in the impact investing sector since before it had a name. She worked at FINCA International when microlending was a radical idea. She raised capital for movements. She built a consulting firm. And somewhere in the middle of all of that, she watched the sector she believed in get watered down — from bold, disruptive activism into "profit as usual with a sprinkle of impact."In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Alicia breaks down what it actually takes to take up space in impact investing when the sector wasn't designed to see you — not as a leader, not as a founder, not as someone whose story is fundable.Alicia breaks down :Why following your curiosity is more reliable than following your purpose How to know when you've outgrown your plant pot — before you talk yourself into staying What the impact investing sector got wrong — and what taking up real estate in a broken space actually looks like How a woman singing in Spanish in a side room at a conference in Atlanta became one of the most important partnerships in Alicia's work Why the ancestors conspire — and how to train yourself to follow the signalIn Part 2, Alicia breaks down the building of Buen Vivir Capital Institute — the philosophy, the Mexico City launch, and what relational infrastructure actually means for women moving capital in 2026.Subscribe now so Part 2 lands straight in your feed.Chapters00:00 Introduction & What You'll Learn Today 03:30 Meet Alicia DeLia — 20 Years in the Money Game 07:00 The Belief You Have to Shed Over and Over to Take the Leap 11:30 Your Body Knows Before Your Brain Does 14:00 Follow Your Curiosity — Not Your Purpose 17:30 "I Never Feel Like the Boxes Are Checked. I Just Do It." 22:00 Where Does Audacity Actually Come From? 26:00 The Worst Case Scenario Is Lovely Most of the Time 30:00 What's Wrong With Impact Investing Right Now 35:30 "The Gatekeeping Is So 40 Years Ago" 38:00 The Woman Singing in Spanish — And What the Ancestors Knew 44:00 On Not Shedding What Is Sacred to Do This Work 48:00 Right Relationship — What Capital Can Actually Feel Like 51:00 The Whole Damn Talk — Work with MagogodiResources Mentioned:📚 The Body Keeps the Score — Bessel van der Kolk 🌺 VidaAfroLatina — Lori Robinson → vidaafrolatina.orgConnect with Alicia📸 Instagram: @adelia4peace 🔗 LinkedIn: Alicia DeLia 🏢 Buen Vivir Capital Institute: linkedin.com/company/buen-vivir-capital-instituteGet Madame Speaker Says CoachingThe Whole Damn Talk — 3 hours. Your hook, your spine, your one-liner, your business case. Built from scratch. Five spots a month. → madamespeakersays.com#ImpactInvesting #WomenInPhilanthropy #BlackWomenLeaders #BuenVivir #MadameSpeakerSays📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
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How to Give a Keynote When You're an Expert — Not a Speaker
May 1700:37:00Tap to summarizeYou said yes to the keynote. The panic slammed into you, right after.Because yes, you have the expertise. You have the receipts. What you don't have is a way to turn twenty years of knowledge into a keynote that lands. Because knowing your field and knowing how to give a keynote are two completely different skills — and nobody told you that until right now.Your expertise won't give the keynote for you. Clarity will. Structure will. The right story will.In this solo episode, host Magogodi gives you three concrete moves to build a keynote that sounds like you, commands the room, and travels long after you leave the stage.You will walk away knowing how to: Name what you actually stand for, not your title, your argumentFind the one story that makes your authority land and stickBuild the 90-second spine that becomes your keynote and rewrites your bioNo speechwriter. No TED coach. Three public speaking moves. Doable before your keynote date.Ready to build your whole talk? The Whole Damn Talk is a 3-hour one-on-one intensive. We build your keynote from scratch — hook, spine, one-liner, business case. Five spots a month. madamespeakersays.com.Chapters:00:00 You're Not Being Rejected. You're Not Even on the List. 02:30 What You're Walking Away With — Stay for All Three Moves 04:00 Your Excellence Is Not Going to Save You. Here's What Will. 06:30 "I Don't Have a Talk Right Now" — And Why That Sentence Is the Problem 09:00 Lebo Mashile: She Built the Vision Before Anyone Co-Signed It13:00 Wanuri Kahiu: She Named the Genre Before the Genre Existed 17:30 Dr. Kemi Doll: She Made Her Excellence Impossible to Ignore 21:30 Move 1 — Name It. Your Argument. Not Your Title. 25:00 Move 2 — Find the One Story That Proves You're Right 28:00 Move 3 — Build the 90-Second Talk That Gets You on the Shortlist 31:00 The Whole Damn Talk — What We Build Together in 3 Hours 34:30 Your Work Will Not Speak for Itself. That's Your Job.Episodes Mentioned🎙️ Dr. Kemi Doll: Your Excellence Is Not Enough. On Black Women's Health, Authority & Building in Public → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/madame-speaker-says/id1814213243?i=1000767012758🎙️ Fear, Faith & Afro Bubblegum: Wanuri Kahiu on Following the Idea That Won't Let Go → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/madame-speaker-says/id1814213243?i=1000763653315🎙️ Fame, Shame & The Freak Show Part II: Lebo Mashile on Turning Pain Into Power → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/madame-speaker-says/id1814213243?i=1000762218836Work With Magogodi The Whole Damn Talk — 3-hour private coaching intensives. Learn More → More madamespeakersays.com📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
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Dr. Kemi Doll: Your Excellence Is Not Enough. On Black Women's Health, Authority & Building in Public
May 1001:21:38Tap to summarizeYou have been excellent your entire life. You did the work nobody else would do. You stayed late. You got the credentials. You built the thing — and then you kept quiet about it, because somewhere along the way someone told you that talking too much would make you look like you weren't serious.And so you stayed silent. And excellent. And invisible--This episode is your wake up call!Dr. Kemi Doll is a double board-certified gynecologic oncologist, Professor at the University of Washington, Founding Director of The GRACE Center, co-founder of ECANA — the first-ever national advocacy organization for Black women with uterine cancer — and the author of A Terrible Strength, out now. She spent over a decade inside the institution doing the science no one else would do. And then she posted on Instagram and sent out a survey — and built a movement.By the end of this conversation, you will know exactly why your excellence has been working against your authority, what it actually cost her to build in public, and the one move that changes everything — starting this week.Here's what you'll walk away with:Your work will never speak for itself — and brilliant women who keep waiting for it to become footnotesA fellowship office, 5:30 PM, one tap on the shoulder — and who gets to write the story of your excellenceThe Instagram post and survey that became ECANA — and the architecture behind turning a decade of expertise into a movementShe stopped doing one thing — and it unlocked everythingWhy she flew Black women with uterine cancer to Hawaii — and what institutional tools look like in service of communityWhat visibility actually costs — and the thing everyone's scared of that nobody says out loudWhat your body has been trying to tell you that the medical system decided you didn't need to knowFearlessness is a scam — here's what you actually do with the fearThis is an episode about the moment you stop letting other people write the story of what your excellence means.Chapters00:00 — Introduction03:00 — The tap on the shoulder: who gets to write the story of your excellence11:00 — The one thing she stopped doing that unlocked everything19:30 — The Instagram post, the survey, and the birth of ECANA28:00 — The Hawaii meeting: institutional tools in service of community36:00 — Survivor-led, not physician-led: how stepping back compounds authority43:30 — The real cost of visibility — and the fear nobody names out loud50:00 — A Terrible Strength and what your body has been trying to tell you57:00 — Rapid fire: fearlessness, the wildest dream, and building your ECANA📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
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When Failure Is the Point: Joan Godoy on Why Taking Up Space Takes Nothing From Anyone Else
May 301:13:07Tap to summarizeYou've spent years making other people powerful. You built the thing, ran the coalition, trained the leaders, held the room together. Somewhere in all of that — you stopped asking what you want. Not the organization. Not the mission. You.This episode is the intervention.Joan Godoy is the CEO of Radical Partners, co-founder of Fuckup Nights Miami, and one of the most quietly radical builders in the social impact sector. She spent $1.5 million dollars a year amplifying other people's leadership. And then her executive coach asked her one question that froze everything — and set her free.By the end of this conversation, you will know exactly why you keep giving your authority away, what it is actually costing you, and the one move that starts building it back in your own name.Here's what you'll walk away with:The question that will make you stop hiding behind the institution you built — and start claiming authority in your own nameWhy failure is not a lesson to extract — it's the thing that made you brave enough to jumpHow to know when a crisis is actually an invitation to build something nobody else has the guts to buildThe hybrid model that saved Radical Partners — and why it applies to every woman sitting between two worlds afraid to claim eitherWhy the most dangerous move a builder makes is staying invisible inside the thing she createdThe three Cs that tell you exactly where your authority lives — independent of any title, any org, any room that hasn't let you in yetWhat it actually costs to step into the center — and why your coach has never asked you that questionThis is not an episode about Joan. This is an episode about the moment you stop building authority for everyone except yourself.CONNECT WITH JOAN: radicalpartners.org Instagram: @radicalpartnersMENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: 🔥 Fuckup Nights Miami — the global movement in 200+ cities built on one radical premise: go public with what didn't work 🏛️ Leadership Lab — Radical Partners' flagship five-month cohort for BIPOC community leaders, nearly 200 graduates deep 🌍 Global Shapers Community — World Economic Forum initiative where Joan first refused to give the accomplishment speech — and accidentally started a movement 📖 The Fuckup Nights Manifesto — the document that broke open a two-hour conversation that changed everything 🧠 Arathi Ramapushnam — the executive coach whose one question dismantled years of self-erasure 🎙️ Abstract on Netflix — why bold work always divides the room, and why that means you're doing it rightTIMESTAMPS: 03:00 — The accomplishment speech she refused to give — and what happened when she told the truth instead 09:15 — Failure sucks, but it instructs: what shame actually is, where it comes from, and why you'll never outrun it 18:40 — How to know when to stay silent and when to act: the George Floyd moment that built Radical Partners' most powerful program 27:00 — The hybrid bet: how she moved from 90% grants to selling more than they raise — and what that unlocks for you 36:20 — The $1.5 million question: what it actually costs to make everyone else visible when you're still invisible yourself 42:00 — The one question your coach has never asked you — and why answering it changes everything 51:00 — The three Cs: how to locate your authority when it has nothing to do with your title, your org, or anyone's permission 55:30 — Rapid fire: Guatemala or Miami, the failure she won't applaud, bachata, and chocolate-covered humanity📧 JOIN - Expect fresh newsletters every week or so, where I share bare truths, storytelling tips and plenty of F-bombs.Ready to turn your ideas into influence? APPLY for 1:1 coaching to transform your voice into your greatest asset.
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