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Big Sean on the Power of Peace and Purpose

Making Space with Hoda Kotb

Published: Wed Aug 20 2025

Chart-topping rapper Big Sean has spent nearly 15 years in the spotlight, but his path to success wasn’t always easy. The Detroit native joins Hoda Kotb to reflect on his evolving relationship with fame, from believing he was destined for stardom at a young age to how he views notoriety today. In this revealing conversation from April 2025, he also shares lessons from his new book, Go Higher: Five Practices for Purpose, Success, and Inner Peace, a guide he follows to be the best version of himself every day.

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Podcast Summary: Making Space with Hoda Kotb

Episode: Big Sean on the Power of Peace and Purpose
Date: August 20, 2025
Host: Hoda Kotb
Guest: Big Sean

Episode Overview

In this heartfelt and deeply introspective conversation, Hoda Kotb sits down with Grammy-nominated rapper and now author, Big Sean. The episode explores themes of purpose, resilience, personal peace, and inner growth. Big Sean candidly reflects on his rise to fame, battles with addiction and mental health, finding contentment beyond success, and the transformative power of family, creativity, and mindfulness. Rich in relatable stories, practical wisdom, and vulnerable admissions, this episode is a guide to making space for self-acceptance and self-care.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Redefining Success and Purpose

  • Chasing Hits vs. Chasing Happiness

    • Big Sean reflects on his early career, driven by external milestones, only to realize that, “the feeling you're really looking for is unconditional, for real. But you're looking for it in something that's conditional.” (03:12)
    • Creative fulfillment, for him, ultimately stemmed from creating for love, not validation.

  • Creative Acts as True Joy

    • “There's nothing more creative than creating a creation... whether you're making a song, whether you're making a book, whether you're making a human being, whatever it is, you know, creating.” (03:46 – Big Sean)

2. Childhood, Imagination & Overcoming Doubt

  • Raised in a Motown-influenced household, Big Sean grew up “fearless, happy… just had a crazy imagination” (04:38).

  • Despite early naysayers doubting a Detroit kid could make it, Sean persisted:

    • “I just looked at it as, there's gotta be a way. I wasn't trying to prove anybody wrong... I was really just pursuing my passion.” (06:50)

  • Found success through consistency and self-belief, recounting selling mixtapes at school and now having a recording studio named after him at his former high school (07:40).

3. Challenges of Fame & Mental Health

  • Fame’s Pressures:

    • Fame brought unexpected responsibilities and stress. “Especially when you're the only one from your environment... it's like if you're emitting light… the moss and the things… are going to be coming at you and they like pulling at you.” (08:32)

  • Burnout & Addiction:

    • After early career success, Sean “crashed out around [his] third album” due to overwork and losing touch with himself.
    • He revealed his struggle with Adderall addiction: “Once you cut that out cold turkey, you're like completely depressed… I had to redo my foundation completely. And that took me a couple years, honestly…” (09:34–11:53)
    • Realization: the mind, body, and spirit are interconnected, and self-care is non-negotiable.

4. Happiness, Simple Joys, and Family

  • Happiest Moments:

    • Sean identifies a core childhood memory as his happiest: “We saw The Empire Strikes Back, and I remember we went to McDonald's right before and had a 20 piece nugget. That was like one of the happiest days of my life. I can't explain why.” (14:13)
    • Importance of family, especially his grandmother—a WWII veteran whose story was depicted in a film (15:10–16:04).

  • Perspective on Loss:

    • “If I lost it all, it wouldn’t be losing it all because I gained so much already that that can't even be monetized.” (18:12)
    • The richness of experience and wisdom is invaluable.

5. Writing the Book: "Go Higher"

  • The title “Go Higher” originated from one of his songs, later expanded “to give it more of an action” (18:57).

  • Sean doubted he had enough life for a memoir but realized, “Success is a feeling. It's an emotion. It's a happiness… I am one of the most successful people in the world if you look at it like that.” (19:33)

  • His book is intended as “armor” for readers, especially those who might not have the support he had from his family.

  • Recommended Books:

    • Inspired by his mother to read works like The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, Ask and It Is Given, The Four Agreements, The Alchemist, and others to jumpstart his own spiritual growth (21:06).

6. Speaking Out About Mental Health

  • Big Sean openly discusses struggles with depression and suicidal thoughts:

    • “There was a time where I definitely wanted to like, off myself. I was done, you know, life was just too much for me to handle.” (22:06)
    • His faith and inner work helped him through: “God… going within… digging deep, like soul searching. I had to re-establish my faith, trust in my faith.” (23:08–23:36)

  • Limiting social media to protect mental space:

    • “I don't read comments like I used to at all. Just lately I've realized how fast time is going… I put my time back into my craft.” (24:51)

7. Therapy, Healing, and Practice

  • Therapy has been crucial for him “on and off for years.”

    • “The beauty about therapy is… you can unload and you just leave it there and you feel so much lighter.” (27:30–28:19)

  • Encourages loved ones, including his father, to try therapy despite cultural stigma.

  • Sees therapy as trial and error: “It's like finding the right barber or the right restaurant.” (29:22)

8. Daily Practices for Peace

  • Sean's ideal “just for me” day is simple: waking up late, journaling, meditating, watching anime, making music, and “enjoying my solitude.” (29:54–30:51)
  • Finds joy both in solitude and with family, especially his son.
  • The birth of his son was a “soul shifting” transformation, awakening his “inner child” and sense of wonder (31:17–31:20, 34:47–35:39).

9. Parenting, Presence & Wisdom

  • Hoda and Sean reflect on the importance of mindful parenting—focusing on the whole being: mind, body, spirit, and emotions, teaching kids to ask themselves what they need (32:07–32:32).

  • Sean emphasizes separating self-worth from external success, a lesson that took him years to learn (32:52).

  • Wisdom from Will Smith:

    • “All you gotta do is give them some water and some sunlight and get out of the way. Don't try to twist those branches.” (34:19—Will Smith, paraphrased by Hoda)

  • Reconnecting with nature and joy through his son:

    • “I've been like looking at the trees, and I'm like, man, this is a real nice tree.” (35:39)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

  • Finding Purpose Outside Success:

    • “What I really was looking for is just purpose, happiness, and to be inspired and to be able to create.” (03:12 – Big Sean)

  • On Dealing with Pressure:

    • “You’re scared to lose it… You overwork yourself and realize that, no, that's moving out of desperation. That's actually a fear based way.” (09:34)

  • On Healing and Interconnectedness:

    • “Your physical is part of your mental, and your mental is part of your spiritual, and your emotional is part of your physical. And everything is just all interconnected.” (11:53)

  • Return to Basics for Happiness:

    • “I didn't have much growing up and I was happy, too.” (18:12)

  • Experience as True Wealth:

    • “Even if I went back to exactly where I started, it wouldn't be the same place in a lot of ways.” (18:52)

  • On Suicidal Thoughts:

    • “There was a time where I definitely wanted to like, off myself… life was just too much for me to handle.” (22:06 — Big Sean)

  • Self-Care Tools:

    • “This book, these practices that I do, it's like putting armor on… life can do anything it wants to do, but it doesn't dictate your happiness.” (20:33)

  • Advice from Will Smith:

    • “All you gotta do is give [kids] some water and some sunlight and get out of the way.” (34:19—paraphrased by Hoda)

  • Inner Child and Fresh Perspective:

    • “I enjoy seeing life through my son's eyes… It has awakened my inner child again.” (34:47–34:53 – Big Sean)

  • On Letting Go After Setbacks:

    • “If things don't go my way, I kinda just like, I'll still feel it, it'll sting. But I'll be like, that's it, man.” (33:49)

Key Timestamps

| Timestamp | Segment | Summary | |------------|-------------------------------------------------|----------------------------------------------------| | 03:12 | Pursuing Purpose Over External Validation | Sean discusses shifting from chasing numbers to pursuing fulfillment | | 06:50 | Overcoming Doubt as a Young Detroiter | Sean on resisting naysayers and staying focused | | 09:34 | Burnout, Addiction, and Hitting Bottom | Details his Adderall dependency and depression | | 14:13 | Happiest Childhood Memory | Star Wars and 20-piece chicken nuggets | | 18:12 | Perspective on Losing Success | Why he's not afraid to lose it all | | 19:33 | Book Writing & Redefining Success | Why he finally wrote "Go Higher" | | 22:06 | On Suicidal Thoughts | Speaking openly about depression's depths | | 27:30 | Therapy and Healing | Approaches to therapy and breaking stigma | | 29:54 | His Perfect Solo Day | Journaling, meditation, music, anime, and solitude | | 31:17 | Impact of Fatherhood | How his son transformed his perspective | | 32:07 | Mindful Parenting with Hoda | Both share their approaches (mind/body/spirit/etc.) | | 34:19 | Will Smith’s Parenting Advice | Letting kids be themselves | | 36:16 | Daughter’s “Another Tree” Moment | Hoda shares her daughter's life lesson |

Tone & Style

The tone of the episode is deeply earnest, vulnerable, and at times playful. Big Sean is reflective, open, and wise, with a casual and approachable delivery. Hoda Kotb is warm, empathetic, and insightful, fostering a space for honesty and real connection.

Takeaways

  • Success is less about external validation and more about self-acceptance, growth, and creation.
  • Fame did not shield Big Sean from struggles with mental health, addiction, or doubts about purpose; acknowledging and addressing them was key.
  • Therapy, faith, supportive family, and daily practices (journaling, meditation) are essential for his peace and motivation.
  • Parenting and seeing the world through a child’s eyes renews appreciation for simple joys and present moments.
  • Vulnerability about mental health can be a gift to others still in the struggle.

Final Thoughts

Big Sean’s interview is a testament to the power of self-reflection, vulnerability, and inner work. His journey from ambitious Detroiter to world-famous artist (and new author) is relatable not for its glamour, but for his honesty about setbacks, lessons, and healing. Hoda Kotb’s genuine engagement elicits memorable stories and universal wisdom, making this episode both a comfort and an inspiration for anyone seeking greater peace and purpose.

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