I Can Be Scared and Still Be Brave

Summary

Podcast Summary: "I Can Be Scared and Still Be Brave"
Mantra with Jemma Sbeg
Release Date: August 11, 2025

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Introduction

In the August 11, 2025 episode of "Mantra with Jemma Sbeg", hosted by Jemma Sbeg of OpenMind, listeners are introduced to the week's guiding phrase: "I can be scared and still be brave." Jemma outlines the podcast's structure, emphasizing the unpacking of the mantra's meaning, personal anecdotes, actionable journal prompts, and a weekly challenge designed to integrate the mantra into listeners' lives. She encourages audience engagement through social media, ratings, reviews, and participation in the OpenMind community for exclusive content and bonus episodes.

Understanding Fear: Natural Emotion vs. Barrier

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Jemma delves into distinguishing between fear as a natural, protective emotion and fear that acts as a barrier to personal growth. She explains that fear is an essential emotion evolved to keep us safe by signaling danger and prompting caution. However, when fear becomes overly protective—likened to a "helicopter parent"—it can stifle growth and prevent individuals from pursuing opportunities that lie just beyond their comfort zones.

Key Insights:

• Protective Fear:

  • Examples:
    • Declining a job misaligned with personal values (00:00 - [03:41])
    • Avoiding unsafe situations like walking alone at night
    • Hesitating on risky financial investments due to insufficient information
  • Function: Grounds individuals, prompting reflection and intentional action.

• Limiting Fear:

  • Characteristics:
    • Driven by "what if" scenarios (e.g., "What if I fail?")
    • Based on exaggerations rather than facts
    • Causes feelings of shrinking and inaction
  • Function: Constrains potential, often rooted in insecurity rather than genuine danger.

Notable Quote:

"If fear is keeping me safe, it will feel grounding. If fear is keeping me small, it will feel like a contraction."
— Jemma Sbeg [08:15]

The Essence of Bravery

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Transitioning from fear, Jemma explores the concept of bravery. She contrasts the childhood perception of bravery—celebrated and straightforward—with the complex bravery required in adulthood. According to Jemma, true bravery involves embracing uncertainty and discomfort, trusting oneself and the universe to navigate unknowns.

Key Insights:

• Bravery Defined:

  • Handling the discomfort of uncertainty
  • Trusting oneself and the process
  • Visualizing positive outcomes instead of focusing on potential failures

• Practical Strategies to Cultivate Bravery:

  1. Regulate Anxiety: Implement strategies to soothe fear responses, enabling clearer interpretation of fear signals.
     • Example: Deep breathing to calm racing thoughts before making decisions.
  2. Move Physically and Mentally: Engage in physical activities or take decisive actions to prevent stagnation.
  3. Name the Fear: Identify and articulate the purpose behind specific fears (e.g., "This fear is expanding me").
  4. Future Self Visualization: Envision the benefits of overcoming fear and how future achievements can be realized.

Notable Quote:

"Bravery is really choosing another thought, choosing another outcome that feels safe enough in our mind that we will get to a place of action."
— Jemma Sbeg [12:30]

Personal Reflections on Fear and Bravery

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Jemma shares three pivotal moments in her life where fear intersected with bravery, leading to significant personal growth:

1. Moving Out at 17:

   • Fear: Leaving a familiar environment to live alone in a new city.
   • Bravery: Embracing independence despite uncertainty.

2. Ending a Serious Relationship:

   • Fear: Letting go of a long-term partner and the possibility of future loneliness.
   • Bravery: Prioritizing personal well-being and integrity over comfort.

3. Quitting Her Job:

   • Fear: Leaving a stable position to pursue self-employment.
   • Bravery: Stepping into the unknown to follow her passion.

Key Insights:

• Common Theme: Each brave decision involved stepping away from comfort towards opportunities that initially felt terrifying but ultimately led to profound personal fulfillment.
• Gratitude for Fear: Jemma emphasizes how these fearful moments were gateways to positive life changes, highlighting that bravery does not eliminate fear but redefines the relationship with it.

Notable Quote:

"Fear is a gateway. I think that being scared is a sign that I'm often doing something right."
— Jemma Sbeg [20:45]

Actionable Steps: Moving from Fear to Bravery

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Jemma outlines practical steps to transform fear into action:

1. Regulate Anxiety:

   • Utilize personal strategies or seek professional help to manage anxiety, allowing for better discernment of fear's source.

2. Physical Movement:

   • Engage in activities like walking, dancing, or exercising to dissipate fear-induced tension and foster clarity.

3. Name and Understand Fear:

   • Articulate specific fears and their underlying purposes to demystify and address them effectively.

4. Visualize Positive Outcomes:

   • Focus on the best possible outcomes to counteract the negativity of fear-based thoughts.

5. Affirm Self-Capability:

   • Continuously affirm personal strength and readiness to tackle challenges, building confidence over time.

Notable Quote:

"You can't make the wrong decision if you're making a decision because at least you're doing something."
— Jemma Sbeg [26:10]

Journal Prompts and Weekly Challenge

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To facilitate deeper engagement with the mantra, Jemma provides thoughtful journal prompts and a weekly challenge:

Journal Prompts:

1. Subtle Acts of Bravery: Reflect on overlooked brave actions that led to personal growth.
2. Areas Avoided by Fear: Identify aspects of life where fear prevents action and envision how embracing bravery could alter these situations.
3. Long-term Impact: Contemplate the potential transformations from consistently embodying the mantra.

Weekly Challenge: Brave Conversation Challenge

• Task: Initiate a slightly uncomfortable but necessary conversation with a friend, family member, or colleague.
• Objective: Practice bravery by addressing uncomfortable situations, setting boundaries, or expressing needs.
• Engagement: Share experiences on social media or connect with Jemma through OpenMind's platforms to discuss outcomes and receive support.

Notable Quote:

"If nothing else, just start telling yourself you're capable until you feel it. Until you feel capable just to take even one small baby step."
— Jemma Sbeg [28:45]

Final Reflections

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Jemma concludes by reinforcing that bravery does not eradicate fear but redefines how one interacts with it. She encourages embracing small acts of bravery in daily life to build resilience against more significant fears. By taking proactive steps and addressing fears incrementally, individuals can navigate larger challenges with greater confidence and less hesitation.

Key Takeaways:

• Continuous Bravery: Incorporate small, brave actions into everyday life to strengthen overall courage.
• Embrace Uncertainty: Accept that fear will persist, but use it as a guide rather than a hindrance.
• Persistence: Understand that not every day will be comfortable, but consistent effort leads to meaningful growth.

Notable Quote:

"Bravery doesn't mean that fear is going to go away. It's going to keep coming up, but it allows you to sit beside it and almost appreciate it in a strange way."
— Jemma Sbeg [30:35]

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Conclusion

In this empowering episode, Jemma Sbeg masterfully navigates the intricate relationship between fear and bravery. By dissecting fear's role, sharing personal stories of courageous decisions, and providing actionable steps, she offers listeners a comprehensive guide to embracing their fears and harnessing them as catalysts for growth. The journal prompts and weekly challenge further enable individuals to internalize the mantra "I can be scared and still be brave," fostering a mindset that transforms fear from a barrier into a powerful ally on the journey to personal development.

Transcript

[Gemma Spaeck]

Foreign this is Open Mind. Welcome back to a brand new week. Here is your mantra I can be scared and still be brave. I'm Gemma Spaeck and every Monday I give you a simple but powerful phrase to to really just consider and bring into your life a philosophy to guide you into the week ahead and hopefully even beyond. In each episode, you guys know we unpack what our mantra really means, how it has shown up in my own life, and how you can bring it into yours. I also offer you journal prompts and a weekly challenge to help you take what we talk about and put this mantra into real action at OpenMind. We really value your support, so please make sure to share your thoughts on social media and remember to rate, review and follow Mantra to help others discover the show. For more exclusive content, monthly bonus episodes, early access and ad free listening, join our Open Mind community on Apple Podcasts. Each month I also have the opportunity to respond to your questions and comments in our bonus episodes. So if you have a question, dilemma or theory theory based on this episode, please leave a comment below or DM me on Instagram @mantraopenmind. Stick around. We'll be right back after this short pause.

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Okay, let's get right into it. My lovely listeners, it is time for this week's mantra. I can be scared and still be brave. I'm going to say that one more time. I can be scared and still be brave. Let's begin with this question. How do we distinguish between fear as a natural human emotion and fear as a barrier to our potential? Being scared is obviously our brain trying to tell us something, and we obviously want to listen. But is it always trying to tell us that something is dangerous? Or is it maybe just trying to tell you that something is new, or that something is different, or that something is just slightly beyond your comfort zone? But we're interpreting that message incorrectly. We're interpreting it as a sign not to do something when the fear is really calling us to, of course, be brave. So we need to understand that distinction first to be able to act accordingly. Let's start with a little biology or history lesson into fear. Because fear, like every single emotion, is a really vital one. That's why we have it. You guys know that on this podcast we will never say that an emotion is bad or negative or evil or whatever, because each of them serves a really unique purpose. It's essential for being who we are and operating at a high level. So in its purest form, fear is here to keep us alive. It's the part of our brain that scans for danger, that makes us hesitate before taking a risky leap. And it has literally evolved to simply help you survive. Fear is, it's incredibly wise. It's our protector. But sometimes I think it can be a little bit like a helicopter parent, like just a little bit too cautious, just a little bit too safe. So much so that we don't really get the opportunity to go break a leg or to grow. So when fear is genuinely keeping us safe, when fear is very important to listen to and to consider, it often is quite intuitive. It's practical. It's rooted in preserving our well being. I'll give you some concrete examples of this. When you turn down a job because it feels misaligned with your values, that fear that you're feeling isn't about inadequacy, it's about integrity. When you are hesitating to walk Down a dark street at night, alone. That fear is your survival instinct kicking in. It's not self doubt feeling uneasy about a new relationship because you're seeing certain behaviors that remind you of past harm and that are red flags. That's not paranoia. That is based on evidence and pattern recognition. Or let's think about it financially, when you say no to a risky investment because you don't have all the information and your gut is telling you no, that fear is not holding you back from success, that fear is reflecting something that you've probably noticed or can tell that maybe your conscious brain has been able to fully recognize yet. So this is when we should listen. When fear feels realistic, when fear allows us to take a step back and reassess. And when fear feels almost like a complete answer. Bear in mind you can still decide to go for the risky investment. You can still decide to go for the uneasy relationship. But fear has done its job for you, right? It's done its rightful job. It's told you to pause, it's given you more information. It has given you the warning, whether that turns out being okay or not. That all just becomes further evidence and allows you to further hone the communication skills that you and fear have. Basically, it allows you to better understand what fear is telling you why, when to listen, when to ignore it. What is a real sign that you should be scared? The other side of this is when fear is being overprotective and trying to keep us small. And when it's trying to do that, it is very loud, it is very annoying, it is very anxious, repetitive, limiting, not based on too much evidence. A lot of the time you can tell that your fear is trying to limit you when it starts with a what if, because what ifs are really just based in delusional possibility. What if people reject me? What if I fail? What if this is the wrong choice? What if everything goes wrong? It doesn't speak in certainties. It's not speaking in facts, it's not speaking in evidence. It's only speaking in exaggerations. Here is a very simple framework that I often use. If fear is keeping me safe, it will feel grounding. It will make me pause, reflect. It will make me act with intention. If fear is keeping me small, it will feel like a contraction. It will feel like shrinking. It will ask me to act from a place of not having enough information and of being very trigger happy. It will feel like a little voice in my head that is not wisdom, but insecurity. And that kind of sounds more like a fear of my potential than a fear of something genuinely dangerous or scary happening to me. Start asking yourself, is this warning me of true harm, or is this just a discomfort that comes from stepping into a new version of myself? And this really works to reframe our relationship with being scared, because, again, it allows us to have that conversation with our fear, right? We aren't just letting it be a dictator. It really allows us to say, I'm scared, and then add an and at the end of that statement, not just stop right there. I'm scared. And maybe that's a good chance to pause and think, I'm scared. And it's just because this is new to me. I'm scared. And just because I'm scared doesn't necessarily mean I'm in danger. I'm scared. And I welcome the feeling. You see, there is a whole life that opens up when you and fear become colleagues rather than enemies. Because a lot of what expands your life and challenges you will naturally be scary. As humans, we aren't comfortable with uncertainty, but every new beginning is going to be uncertain. That's why it's a beginning. So fear, in that way, I think, also has an important message for you. It's often incredibly accurate. This is something it's very good at. It is very accurate and good at detecting the exact edge of your comfort zone. What feels eerily similar to being scared, being excited, being really close to the start line, being right about to jump. So if you're scared, not only is that not a bad thing, it might actually be a good thing. It might be that it's telling you, like, this is the right decision. This is where growth begins. This is going to be so big for your life that maybe your brain can't compute it right now, but that's because it's such a mystery. And how much excitement comes from mystery. You still have to act. You still have to do something. In fact, I think you're called to do something when you feel that fear is just holding you back from your potential. This, of course, brings us to a second very important concept in this episode, which is bravery. You know what I was talking about with a friend the other day? When we were kids, we talked about bravery so much. Like, we were always asked to be brave. If we were brave. It was like a badge of honor. It was exciting to be brave and to be told that we were brave and to be courageous. Where did that go? Because I don't know about you, but being an adult requires me to be a lot more brave than I was as a kid. I wish someone would just say, you're being really brave right now, the way that they did when I was four or five. Bravery, to me, really asks us to be okay with not knowing that everything is actually going to be okay, but doing it anyways. So bravery is actually our ability to handle the discomfort of uncertainty. It asks us basically to trust ourselves and trust the universe, trust the forces around us, trust that we are going to figure things out, trust that things are going to work out. If you want to channel bravery, what I find really useful to do is to imagine and picture all the best ways, the amazing ways that this thing can work out, rather than just focusing on what can go wrong. Remember, a lot of what we fear is in our imagination. And so bravery is really choosing to choose another thought, choosing to choose another outcome that feels safe enough in our mind that we will get to a place of action. Think about it. If this thing you're afraid of actually hasn't happened yet, if it only exists in your mind, it is no more likely to happen than the thing that you most want to happen. Your fear, like, can't predict the future because you can't predict the future. And fear is you. It's all about having a mindset that will make discomfort feel like opportunity, because that is really what it is. That is the message we are trying to really end with today. I think it's also important to reflect on past experiences where you have both been scared and also brave. Those right there offer you the best reassurance that this isn't just going to be completely all right, but it actually might be incredible. It might unlock something absolutely marvelous for you, as it has done in the past. Look around at your life right now. There is something in your past that felt really scary to do that you are reaping the benefits of now. What if you did that scary thing, that new scary thing in this moment? Gosh, what's waiting for you behind this door? I just love talking about this. I really think that fear is a gateway. I think that being scared is a sign that I'm often doing something right. Even if, you know, every now and again, I still let it kind of keep me small. That's just normal. That's natural. That's human. So I want to talk about how we can really galvanize us and get ourselves to move from a place of inaction because of fear to seeing things as an opportunity. We're going to take a quick break, but when we return, let's get deeper into this. Let me give you some gems channel prompts. Let's interrogate this fear more. I want to give you a weekly challenge as well and also my own further personal ideas around fear, bravery and being scared. So stay with us.

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Welcome back. Now that we have looked at the meaning behind today's mantra, I can be scared and still be brave. And let's get personal. I want to share some of my own insights and reflections about this very important phrase. I want to talk about three times in my life that I've been scared. Three times. Not the only three times, but three times that I can remember being very, very terrified, almost not doing something, but which I can look back now at and think, wow, that was such a turning point for me. And a lot of them happened when I was kind of young. The first one was moving out at 17, moving out when I was kind of like in a city and in a town where most people didn't really do that for college and didn't really do that for university and moving to a place eight hours away where I knew no one. I'm sure a lot of you guys have done that as well. It takes a lot of bravery to do that. It takes a lot of bravery to not even know who you are yet and still be okay with starting over. The second thing was leaving my first really serious relationship. You know, I thought this person was like forever to me. I remember being so scared to see what else was out there. I remember being so scared by the possibility of letting other people down. So scared of not finding anyone better. And we know how that turned out. I am so glad that I did. I can't imagine still being with that person and missing out on the life that I had now. But that doesn't take away from the fact that I was very, very scared. And finally, one in kind of semi recent memory was quitting my job. I feel like I talk about this quite a bit on the podcast because it was such a moment for me, but it was scary and it was scary. Primarily all of these things were scary because there was a place that I was comfortable in. There was a place where I knew where everything sat, what everything was about, and what I had to do day to day. And then there was a place where I knew none of that. I didn't know what it was gonna be like in this new city. I didn't know it was gonna be like being single for the first time in a long time. I didn't know what it was gonna be like being self employed. And in all of these circumstances. I did initially really resist and I thought about it probably a little bit too long and a little bit too hard. Probably could have acted sooner, especially in that second one. This is what I would have missed out on if I had let myself stay comfortable. I would have missed out on meeting almost every single friend that I have now. Some of my best friends, my sole friends. I would have missed out on meeting my soulmate, my beautiful partner. I would have missed out on travel. I would have missed out on meeting some even more incredible people who I get to work with. I would have missed out on being in London and having the best meal of my life with my dad because I took a risk on my business. I would have missed out on meeting my dog. I would have missed out on buying my apartment. Like every single thing that I'm grateful for right now came from fear. And I just can't even begin to express to you guys how much I see this as a doorway, sometimes even as like a sign that I'm on the right path. One of my favorite quotes that I love, which I reflect on probably weekly. I was literally talking with one of my friends about this yesterday who's doing this really cool creative thing that she's scared of. We were talking about this idea that if your dreams aren't scary, they probably aren't big enough. When a dream truly matters, you know, it threatens the ego's comfort because I think it asks you to be more than what you are and to challenge the limits of what you believe you can be. And your identity really challenges your imagination in a way that's terrifying. It requires the death of the familiar. It requires you to kind of metaphorically step off the edge into the unknown and hope that something is going to catch you or hope that you'll be okay if it doesn't. But if you don't kind of dare to dream big, how do you think you're ever going to act in a way that gets you achieving big dreams? Dreams don't obviously always have to be scary, right? Sometimes they just make sense and they are those small baby steps we take, but they should always lead us to something bigger and bigger. That kind of terrifies us a little bit. Why not? The universe isn't greedy. The universe wants to give you what you desire. If you prove that you are willing to step into the right space to claim it. With that in mind, here are some ways that we can really move past fear into that active space. Firstly, and this cannot be overstated enough, you have to learn how to regulate or just soothe your anxiety or your fear response so that you can really listen to what it has to say underneath. Obviously anxiety and panic and just general anxiety. General stress is going to get in the way of us being able to interpret when fear is real and when fear can be dismissed. As someone with anxiety, I found that when I was first approached with uncomfortable situations, it was very hard to tell whether I was overreacting or whether this was my intuition. What was helpful was having strategies that I knew could regulate myself, that I knew would regulate me, and that I knew would calm me down. If this was just fear and if it was just the fear of my potential, if it was actually something real, I knew these strategies probably wouldn't work because there was a deeper calling. So essentially what I mean is helping myself get rid of that first layer of my fear response so I could really listen to what was going on deeper, knowing that if I was breathing deep, if I was Grounded. If I was calming my racing brain and that thought was still showing up, then it was probably one that I could listen to. But you can't act from a place of panic, right? You can't be constantly panicking, thinking you're going to make a good decision. So whatever way that you manage your anxiety, I'm sure you have your own strategies or can get help with those strategies from a therapist. Make sure you have them in your arsenal. Secondly, when in doubt, move, move physically. Dance, go for a walk, go for a run. And also move kind of in terms of your life. Like just do something. Movement is always going to get you somewhere faster, even if it's the wrong place. But that means you can always come back. It's better than just standing still. The biggest life tip I ever got from someone is essentially, you can't make the wrong decision if you're making a decision because at least you're doing something. And that's really what I want you to bring into any fear based situation. It's also important, helpful to name the fear and name its purpose. The purpose of this fear is that it's expanding me. The purpose of this fear is that it's showing me the path. The purpose of this fear is that it is challenging me. It's stretching me. It's a workout for what I think I'm capable of. What an opportunity. You can also really write out what you want from your future self and how fear could get you there. Like what awaits you after the fear. But also how you could follow fear into the depths of what feels bigger for you. And just keep telling yourself that you're ready until you start to believe it. You guys know a deep philosophy I have and a deep truth that I know based on psychology and science. The words you speak to yourself and the beliefs you have about yourself do become reality. So if nothing else, just start telling yourself you're capable until you feel it. Until. Until you feel capable just to take even one small baby step. Okay, it's time to take these insights and turn them into actionable steps for your life. When we come back, I'm going to share some journal prompts and our weekly challenge. So just stick around for more after this quick break.

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Welcome back. Let's just take a few minutes to really ground this week's mantra in your real life. I can be scared and still be brave. Let's start with, of course, our deep thought of the day. This is from someone called Mary Ann Rademaker. Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, I will try again tomorrow. I like this quote because it is an element we haven't quite touched on just yet. Just because there are hard days doesn't mean it isn't the right path. Not to sound like woo woo, but sometimes you are being tested and sometimes you also aren't going to win every single time and every single day. And sometimes fear isn't always going to be exciting, it's just going to feel terrible. As long as you hang on and try again tomorrow, you are doing as much as you can for yourself. I love collecting stories of people who feel like they're almost at the edge of giving up and then suddenly everything changes for them who are so scared and then suddenly it all goes right. You know, musicians, actors, elite athletes, everyday people where fear is really the beginning for them. You can always try again tomorrow. You don't have to be successful every single day. You don't have to even be comfortable every single day. Just hold on. Whilst we're in this reflective mindset about this week's mantra, let's take it a little bit deeper. I'm going to share a few journal prompts to help you explore this mantra in a way that is truly sitting with you in this moment. Again, if journaling isn't your thing. I feel like I say this every episode. If you just don't have a pen and paper handy if you're driving, if you're working, that is okay. Just take a quiet moment to simply reflect on these prompts wherever you are. Firstly, when you look back at your life, what's a subtle, perhaps even overlooked act of bravery that you've demonstrated in your life that you might not have recognized at the time, but which really led you to a more expansive place? Next, what is one area where you typically avoid taking action because of fear? If you were to really embrace this mantra today, how might you approach this situation differently? And finally, what would it truly mean for your life in the coming months or years if you fully embrace the belief that you can be scared and still be brave every single day? Now that you've made that space to reflect, let's give our mind just a moment to rest, to sit with those thoughts. In just a second, you'll hear a custom music track, and I encourage you to really take this opportunity to process this week's reflections in whatever way way feels right. Wherever your thoughts choose to go, no pressure, no expectations. If this is something that doesn't connect with you, just Skip ahead around 30 seconds. But as you settle in, just keep our mantra in mind. I can be scared and still be brave. Just let it shape your thoughts. Let it connect with you in whatever way feels fit. Satan. Beautiful. It's always amazing how much comes up when we just let ourselves be quiet and let ourselves be still kind of scary sometimes what we're kind of avoiding thinking about, but also very enlightening. So I hope that exercise was helpful to you. Now that you have had that chance to find that calm and to ground yourself, let's take all that refreshed energy. Let's channel it into action. It's time for our weekly challenge. This week, our challenge is the Brave Conversation Challenge. Choose one person in your life, a friend, family member, colleague with whom you have to have a slightly uncomfortable but necessary conversation with. Prove to yourself in that that you can be brave, that this is something that you can bring into your everyday life, that positive things do come out of addressing uncomfortable situations or facing your fear. You could be setting a boundary. You could just be having a hard conversation about something they said, just asking for something you really need. Just lean into the fear, get comfortable with the discomfort and see how much bravery you can really take into this situation. I'd love to hear how this challenge goes for you. I'm going to do this. I know exactly who I need to talk to. I need to get it over with. So if you want to do it too, reach out to me at Matra Open Mind to share how it went. Share your thoughts. Share your questions. You guys know that every month I do a special bonus episode where I answer your questions and reflections about our recent Mantras. This is available exclusively on Open Mind, but if you want to participate, please feel free to DM me at matropenmind or leave a comment below. All right, as we wrap up this week's episode, I want to share a few final thoughts about this week's Mind Mantra. I can be scared and still be brave. My final thought that I want to share is that I know I've talked about being scared and being fearful in a very large, expansive context. Sometimes we can be very scared about small things, about things that might feel minute to others but are big for us. Just bringing bravery into everyday situations and just asking yourself, what if I just did this? What if I just acted? I think we actually suffer less when we just do and when we just kind of rip the band aid off and just let fear sit in our life and address it when it comes up. That way when big fears and big scary moments emerge, we feel more prepared. So that's really what I want people to understand about being brave. It doesn't mean that fear is going to go away. It doesn't mean that fear might disappear. It's going to keep coming up, but it allows you just to kind of sit beside it and almost appreciate it in a strange way and live with it and let it guide you. So this week and beyond, just keep hanging on, keep walking forward, keep seeing where being scared might actually lead you.

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