Are You Smarter Than A Feminist?

Summary

Podcast Summary: Marriage and Martinis – "Are You Smarter Than A Feminist?"

Episode Overview In the May 19, 2025 episode of Marriage and Martinis, hosts Danielle and Adam delve into the intricacies of feminism through a fun and challenging Jeopardy-style game titled "Are You Smarter Than A Feminist?" This episode, aired on Mother’s Day, strikes a balance between celebrating motherhood and exploring significant feminist topics with humor and heartfelt discussions.

Introduction and Setup The episode begins with a warm Mother's Day greeting, acknowledging the role of motherhood in their lives. Danielle introduces the episode's theme by unveiling a specially crafted Jeopardy game aimed at testing and expanding their knowledge on feminist issues.

Use of Technology in Content Creation Danielle shares her experience using ChatGPT to develop the game, expressing both appreciation and frustration:

• Danielle [03:00]: “I feel like for topics, it's good. But when you get into the writing of things, it doesn't quite understand my mind.”
• Adam [04:17]: “I know all the things that I've been using it a ton recently for the new business... it just gives me the proper output.”

They discuss the limitations of AI in capturing the nuanced and chaotic nature of human creativity, highlighting the need for more personalized tools.

Jeopardy Game: Exploring Feminist Topics The core of the episode revolves around the Jeopardy game, where Danielle poses questions across various categories, and Adam attempts to answer them. The game covers a range of topics, including human anatomy, historical legal cases, and fictional representations of women.

1. Category: Your Body’s Been Lying to You

   • Question [12:33]: “True or false: The clitoris has more nerve endings than the penis.”
   • Adam [12:39]: “True.”
   • Danielle [12:56]: “Less than 8,000 nerve endings in the penis.”

   This segment emphasizes biological facts about female anatomy, debunking common misconceptions.

2. Category: Fictional Female Characters

   • Danielle challenges Adam with questions about iconic female characters from movies like The Breakfast Club and Bonnie and Clyde. Despite Adam’s struggles, these discussions shed light on the portrayal of women in media and the cultural impact of these characters.

3. Category: Roe v. Wade and Women’s Rights

   • Danielle presents historical questions about Roe v. Wade and its implications:
     • Question [29:20]: “What year was Roe v. Wade decided by the Supreme Court?”
     • Adam [29:51]: “1973.”
     • Danielle [30:01]: Explains the historical context and repercussions of the decision.

   This dialogue not only tests factual knowledge but also explores the ongoing debates surrounding reproductive rights.

4. Category: Criminalization and Legal History

   • Question [22:07]: “True or false: Spousal rape was legal in some US states until the 1990s.”
   • Adam [22:19]: “True.”

   The conversation highlights the evolution of legal protections for women and the lingering effects of outdated laws.

Humor and Light-Hearted Banter Amidst the serious topics, Danielle and Adam infuse humor into the episode:

• Adam [07:29]: “So, do you want to tell me how that works?”
• Danielle [12:05]: “Give me half for that.”

This balance ensures the episode remains engaging and enjoyable while tackling important issues.

Insights on Feminism and Social Dynamics Throughout the game, the hosts reflect on broader feminist themes:

• The challenges of maintaining inclusivity in business settings, especially during events like Pride.
• Danielle’s frustration with AI tools not fully capturing her chaotic creative process.
• Adam’s acknowledgment of the progress and ongoing struggles within feminist movements.

Conclusion and Community Engagement The episode wraps up with Danielle promoting her online community, "3am Uprising," encouraging listeners to join a supportive space focused on feminist discussions and activities. The hosts reiterate their appreciation for listeners, especially on Mother’s Day, fostering a sense of community and shared purpose.

Notable Quotes

• Danielle [03:29]: “Chat GPT does not understand my mind.”
• Adam [29:58]: “I was closer than a decade.”
• Danielle [43:27]: “Roe v. Wade was not like a free for all.”

Final Thoughts "Are You Smarter Than A Feminist?" is an engaging episode that combines education with entertainment, offering listeners both knowledge and laughter. Danielle and Adam's dynamic interplay highlights the complexities of marriage, parenting, and feminist issues, making this episode a must-listen for those seeking authentic conversations on contemporary social topics.

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Transcript

[Adam]

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[Danielle]

Race the sails.

[Adam]

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[Danielle]

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[Adam]

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[Danielle]

Sam.

[Adam]

Hey, everybody. Welcome to Mariner Martinis. I'm Adam. Here's Danielle.

[Danielle]

Hi.

[Adam]

So first off, happy Mother's Day. Well, thank you to a wonderful mother who has raised our children impeccably.

[Danielle]

Impeccable. That's our son's favorite word. Now our 13 year old. Impeccably. How was school today? It was impeccable. I don't know where he got that from.

[Adam]

And second of all, I have not said this in a very long time. I don't know what we're talking about.

[Danielle]

Yeah, you haven't said that.

[Adam]

Right. I've been very good about that, but this time I don't.

[Danielle]

Yeah. Well, it's Mother's Day, and so of course I came up with a topic and made all the questions and the answers and everything like that.

[Adam]

Yeah. What? I don't understand why you're laughing about that.

[Danielle]

I mean, Adam, like sweating because you were brushing me. So we've been doing like some heavier episodes and just the world is heavy right now feels like that. And so I wanted to do something like fun and light, but also timely and relevant, so I made a little Jeopardy game.

[Adam]

Oh, wow.

[Danielle]

It's. The sheet is right next to you.

[Adam]

I didn't look at it.

[Danielle]

Oh, I handed it to you.

[Adam]

No, you put it in front of me. But I didn't look. I know at what point I'm supposed to.

[Danielle]

So you can look.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

Okay. So I made a Jeopardy game. And then if you want to, next week can be your turn.

[Adam]

And it's been a long time since we played a game.

[Danielle]

I know. For doing that, I think you are so welcome. But two things. First off, I was like, trying a little bit to use Chat GPT. I've been trying to use it some because I'm so overwhelmed.

[Adam]

There's nothing wrong with that. I don't like the. The stigma against using ChatGPT. Like for certain things, I guess.

[Danielle]

Yeah. I mean, look, when I've tried to use it, when I've tried to use it, I. I feel like for topics, it's good. But when you get into the writing of things, I. I guess I. So in my mind know what I want to say, you know, and this is one thing that I've noticed with Chat Chat Chat GPT is that it does not understand my mind.

[Adam]

Wow.

[Danielle]

I'm the opposite, See, because I am chaos, right? Like, I have no organizational skills. I have no. Like, when I put some A topic together, the way I do it is like I just throw a bunch of shit on the floor. I mean, proverbially, proverbially speaking. And like then just kind of match it all up, like in my mind and it's way too organized and you know, has like, it's three steps ahead of me, but also three steps behind me, if that makes any sense. We need an ADHD version or I need an, a woman's ADHD version of Chat GPT.

[Adam]

That's clarifying it because for me, I know all the things that I've been using it a ton recently for the new business and for all kinds of things involved with, with the business. So I type into it. Here's what I'm thinking, here are my thoughts, right? And I just type, type, type, type, type, and it spits back to me and I'm like, yes, that's what I was trying to say. So it's fair to use because I didn't say, hey, ChatGPT, make this for me. What ideas do you think? Like, I give it all the input. It just gives me the proper output.

[Danielle]

Right, right, I noticed that. But I also noticed that there are certain things like, you know, when I'll say things like, you know, give me something inappropriate or, you know, funny and wrong, like funny and quote, unquote wrong, and it spits something back and I'm like, oh, come on, that's like a Tuesday morning for me. Like, it doesn't go quite to the level that I need of inappropriateness and, you know, it's like a limit, I guess it doesn't want to get sued.

[Adam]

Well, I think, I think AI at this point is still woke, so it's having trouble doing those kinds of things.

[Danielle]

Damn. Starting already, huh?

[Adam]

I'm fucking with you. Listen, what the fuck do I know?

[Danielle]

Yeah, I, I just feel like some things are. You need a, a unique human to do, you know, like, and so I think that there are certain. I was watching something though, that was saying that Chat GPT, you know, how they. There are certain things, like for instance, if you put in a picture, you say you want a picture of a watch, right? Like that says 1203. No matter what time you put in the picture, that it, like if it does an image Will be like, this is just an example of something. Will be 10, 10, no matter what time you put it. Because what it does is it scans the. The Internet, the web, and most watch pictures and watch advertisements. The hands are at 10, 10.

[Adam]

Interesting.

[Danielle]

So it still is like, you know, there's a lot of issues with that.

[Adam]

That's because you're not paying for ChatGPT. Whatever. Four or five. Right. Like, I use the free one.

[Danielle]

I don't know. No, I think. I think that's an overall thing. And I also think that, like, for instance, if you. If you want words on an image.

[Adam]

I had problems with that.

[Danielle]

Yeah. So stuff like that, especially if you say if it does it and then you ask it to, like, generate a different one. Forget it. Forget it.

[Adam]

Yeah. When I. When I was first looking, like, designing a logo and like, all things for my website and, you know, I was trying to use ChatGPT to get me started, and then I would kind of freelance and do it on my own. It was not at all, like, it didn't get any letters right. Like, none of the words were right. Yeah, like, it was a weird. It was laid out kind of weird.

[Danielle]

Oh, I guess you have to. You think about even, like, Siri and Alexa, and they're still, you know, they get 50% of what you say right or 50% wrong. Like, there's those kinds of things. Like, they're, you know, it's.

[Adam]

We're getting there.

[Danielle]

It's hit or miss.

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

Okay, so the Jeopardy. Game, I had a few titles, but the one that I decided on because we already did, Are you smarter than a fifth grader? And we failed. So one of them that I have is, are you smarter than a feminist? The other one I had is. Hold on. I have so many.

[Adam]

Wait, I don't see that on my.

[Danielle]

No, no, that's just the name of the game. Those are the categories. You're gonna read those in a minute.

[Adam]

Gotcha.

[Danielle]

The other ones were the. The mansplain games.

[Adam]

You want me to tell you how that works?

[Danielle]

Yeah. So funny and facts. You'd know if you listened to women.

[Adam]

Okay. This is going to be a fun game. I can't wait.

[Danielle]

I tried to be fun. Yeah, I'm having trouble being constantly. It's not. It's not going great. Okay, so do you want to read everybody the. The list of topics now? Obviously, it will take us forever to get through all of these, so I was thinking we just do a certain amount. And I was thinking if you get like, we should do a. A Bet. If you get like. Like, we should pick an amount we're gonna do. If you get 50%, right. You win, and I have to do something or, like, more than 50. Right. If you get less than 50. Right. The other way around.

[Adam]

Okay, so this is an actual Jeopardy game where I have to, like, know the answers to your questions.

[Danielle]

Yeah.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

I try to make them very well. You know what? Some of. A lot of it is a review of other things you've learned in episodes we've done.

[Adam]

No, I don't remember anything.

[Danielle]

Well, that's not good. That is not good. Okay. But. So there.

[Adam]

I'm not here to learn. I'm here to have a. What a wonderful time with my wife and connect with you and be with each other. That's my goal for the.

[Danielle]

For doing this podcast now you need to learn. Okay, so there are a few. There was a tattoo. Choosing one that I came in. No, no, the bet. The bet. What we could do for a bet.

[Adam]

Oh, we have to, like. Like an impractical jokers kind of thing where if you lose, you ha. Like, you don't get to. You choose the other person's tattoo.

[Danielle]

Yes, but I'm not. Like, it can't be something like, I'm not getting a penis on me.

[Adam]

No. Like Jaden Smith leg. That's what they did.

[Danielle]

I mean, we. I think we would have to come up with, like, what they would be, and they would have to be something.

[Adam]

Respectful to each other.

[Danielle]

Well, like. Yeah. Something fun but meaningful, kind of. But, like, you pick mine, and I would pick yours.

[Adam]

Yeah, I'm good with that.

[Danielle]

Okay.

[Adam]

I'm ready for my next one, by the way.

[Danielle]

Okay, well, this might be the next one.

[Adam]

Okay. I'm gonna lose.

[Danielle]

And then the other one is that you have to. If you lose, you have to make a donation to the organization of my choice, which would obviously be like Planned Parenthood.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

Yeah, but. And then there was another one that was that you have to make a video that I post on my feed on. On Instagram saying that, you know, you lost to your wife because she's so brilliant.

[Adam]

I'll say it on here. I don't want to do the video, but tattoo me up. That's my choice.

[Danielle]

So should we do tattoos?

[Adam]

That's fine. Yeah. Because I. I've been. Well, I already know what the next one I want is, so I'll do. I guess two. I'll do yours, and then the one that I wanted to do, too.

[Danielle]

All right. Maybe I'll put something in the stories and People can choose what we have to get.

[Adam]

Well, that's not fair because I already said the one that I don' Want to do. So everybody's going to say, yeah, that's the one he's going to do.

[Danielle]

No, what we're saying, we're not going to do that. I don't want to. I don't want it to be anything that's like. We're going to look at and be like, bl. Like, right. You know.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

Okay.

[Adam]

Bring it on.

[Danielle]

Okay, so here we go.

[Adam]

Do I choose?

[Danielle]

Yeah, you choose. And I have the questions and the answers. And I have plenty of background information for all the answers too, because I knew you would be wondering and you'd want more information, which I obviously get.

[Adam]

Okay. Your body's been lying to you. I'll start with a hundred dollars.

[Danielle]

Your body's been lying to you. This is a. Wait, can you keep track of, like, points? Because you know I'm not good at that.

[Adam]

I don't. You have a pen?

[Danielle]

Yeah. Here. True or false? True or false. The clitoris has more nerve endings than the penis.

[Adam]

True.

[Danielle]

Do you know how many.

[Adam]

Oh, come on. That's not.

[Danielle]

I know. I'm just asking. You got it right. You got it right. What?

[Adam]

72? 143. No, I. I don't know. 4.

[Danielle]

How many nerves endings?

[Adam]

8 million, 8,000.

[Danielle]

Okay, I get a hundred nerve endings.

[Adam]

How many the penis have.

[Danielle]

Oh, who cares?

[Adam]

Oh, good.

[Danielle]

Less than 8,000.

[Adam]

Exactly.

[Danielle]

Listen, we don't need any more information about men, okay? There's 27,000 studies you could look up right now.

[Adam]

There's lots of lonely men out there these days.

[Danielle]

Oh, here we go.

[Adam]

Next is, what are Ro mates?

[Danielle]

Romate? Like Rover v. Wade. Ro mates instead of roommates. Oh, see, I was funny. Witty.

[Adam]

Say what? 100.

[Danielle]

Say what? True or false? The ERA Equal Rights Amendment is fully ratified in the U.S. do you know what that even means?

[Adam]

I don't even know those words.

[Danielle]

Meaning, like, it went through the Equal Rights Amendment, like, was voted through, that women are supposed to have equal rights to men in pay and in, you know, all of the other.

[Adam]

Okay, so I'm gonna say no because there's still an issue out there with this happening.

[Danielle]

That's correct. It has not been ratified. Still in 2025.

[Adam]

Crazy.

[Danielle]

Yes.

[Adam]

Aren't you impressed that I even, like, thought it through and knew why it was not?

[Danielle]

These are the hundred dollar questions. Is the G spot scientifically proven to exist in all women? The G spot, do you know what that is?

[Adam]

That's not funny. I've been there.

[Danielle]

The G spot.

[Adam]

In all. No, I'm gonna say no. All. I. I would assume there are women out there that lack the G spot.

[Danielle]

Yes. And. Well, first of all, there's a lot of debate about what and where the G spot actually is. And it can be different for women. And yes, there has not been any. Like, the G spot is an actual scientific thing.

[Adam]

No, I'm killing it.

[Danielle]

Killing it.

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

Okay.

[Adam]

What the fuck? History 300.

[Danielle]

She gave us preppy blazers, manipulation as an art form. Form, and some of the most iconic mean girl moments ever to grace the croquet field.

[Adam]

I. I don't even. I can't even. Read it to me again.

[Danielle]

She gave us preppy blazers manipulation as an art form. Remember? It's fiction. Right.

[Adam]

Is it. So is.

[Danielle]

A character or. If you. Even if you name the movie, I'll give it to you.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

Manipulation as an art form and some of the most iconic mean girl moments ever to grace the croquet. Or is it Croquette Field? You can just give me the movie Working Girl. Give me Heather Chandler Tethers.

[Adam]

I never saw that.

[Danielle]

I'm sorry, what?

[Adam]

Yeah, I never saw that.

[Danielle]

How. Wait, Christian Slater's in it.

[Adam]

What does that mean?

[Danielle]

I don't know. I feel like you've seen every Christian slave.

[Adam]

No, I haven't seen everyone, but I. I like him. I haven't seen everything, but that's one of the ones.

[Danielle]

How have you not. I know. There's like a list of movies that get them all confused that you haven't seen. There's some others on it.

[Adam]

There's a weird list of 80s movies I never saw.

[Danielle]

That's crazy that you never saw Heather's.

[Adam]

All right, all right.

[Danielle]

You want me to give you a different one?

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

Okay. A different.

[Adam]

Wasn't Working Girl like the. The Square Blazer.

[Danielle]

Yeah. Yeah. It was a very, very good guess.

[Adam]

Thank you.

[Danielle]

It was excellent. I'm super impressed. It was fantastic. She was the ultimate cool mom with pink velour cocktail hour and an open door policy on teenage chaos and gossip. Pink velour cocktail hour. I don't know if you've seen this movie either.

[Adam]

She. Pink Velour.

[Danielle]

She's a cool mom.

[Adam]

Cocktail hour.

[Danielle]

I'm not a regular mom. I'm a cool mom.

[Adam]

No.

[Danielle]

What?

[Adam]

No, I'm not.

[Danielle]

Who is Mrs. George in mean Girls? Did you see Mean Girls?

[Adam]

Yes.

[Danielle]

Oh, once. God, it's like I don't even know.

[Adam]

I would like to watch that again. I did see it once.

[Danielle]

I think, oh, God, you have to watch that again.

[Adam]

I mean, I love the cast, so.

[Danielle]

The movie's so good. Tina Fey is the way she directed it. For me, this Pride month this year just hits different. I really feel like each of us needs to step up and support the LGBTQ community in all the different ways. And right now, it's harder than ever for business owners to be openly inclusive and foster a nurturing environment for everyone, no matter of their identity. And so we need to support those businesses also. And if you're a team leader or a business owner, you know how much it matters to show up for people during Pride. But let's be honest. Figuring out what to do, making sure it's inclusive, meaningful and fun, that's a whole project. That's why I'm so excited to share Kabloom. They run virtual Pride events hosted by amazing drag queens. Think drag bingo, team games, and an educational Pride party that feels joyful, not forced. It's stress free, totally vetted, and gives your team a chance to laugh, connect, and celebrate with intention. Bonus. Kabloom donates 10% of its profits to LGBTQ nonprofits as a thank you for being a marriage and martinis listener. You'll get 15% off when you mention the podcast. Head to kabloom events.com to book something your team will remember. That's Kabloom and K A B L O O M events dot com. I already booked my event and I definitely think you should go over there and check them out and book yours.

[Adam]

Give me another one. Okay, well, wait, where are we? What category?

[Danielle]

Fictional.

[Adam]

Famous fictional first.

[Danielle]

Yeah.

[Adam]

Okay. Yeah, give me another one. I like these.

[Danielle]

Okay.

[Adam]

Even though I'm not getting them, right? I like them.

[Danielle]

This 80s teen icon had a brother who forgot her birthday.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

A crush on Jake Ryan. This was the hundred dollar one.

[Adam]

No, no, this is easy. But I.

[Danielle]

And a whole generation rooting for her awkward greatness, Molly Ringwald. No.

[Adam]

What?

[Danielle]

What's her name in the movie?

[Adam]

Oh, come on. I have a real name. Isn't that better?

[Danielle]

No. I'll give you half for that. I need her name in the movie.

[Adam]

Give me a hint that I don't know.

[Danielle]

A hint. How do I give you a hint?

[Adam]

Rhyme it with something.

[Danielle]

A bantha.

[Adam]

Samantha. Yes, yes.

[Danielle]

Samantha Baker.

[Adam]

Right? No, I know Molly Ringwald. I don't know Samantha Baker.

[Danielle]

Really?

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

Oh, my God.

[Adam]

I'll give me 50.

[Danielle]

Believe it. She forgot my birthday.

[Adam]

No, I could picture it. I can see it. I know the whole.

[Danielle]

You know what movie that. That film.

[Adam]

Is really.

[Danielle]

Yeah.

[Adam]

Sixteen Candles.

[Danielle]

Yeah. I mean, what. What. What year? Sorry.

[Adam]

Oh, the exact year. No.

[Danielle]

84.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

Okay.

[Adam]

Access denied for 100.

[Danielle]

Ooh, this is a good one.

[Adam]

All right, give me something else. The laws. Lies. No, I don't want that.

[Danielle]

Access denied for how much?

[Adam]

Start me at 100. I'm, you know, I'm not feeling.

[Danielle]

Oh, this is good. You should know this. But you won't even if you give the nickname for it. I will allow it. You don't even have to give the medical terminology.

[Adam]

I hope not.

[Danielle]

All right, what are. You can even name one of the two medications used in a medical abortion. It might have happened.

[Adam]

Plan B.

[Danielle]

Yes. Okay.

[Adam]

Yes.

[Danielle]

But do you know either of the medical terminology, Medical names? Well, it's important because it is a big. Right now they're putting. You know, they. They want. The Republicans want to. Some of them want to ban it, so it is an important thing to know, but. Okay, it's. And I'm not good at the names.

[Adam]

Yeah. No. Who is?

[Danielle]

I mean, Mifa Prestone.

[Adam]

Right.

[Danielle]

Mifa Prestone and Misa Prostal.

[Adam]

I'm gonna stay away from this justice stuff.

[Danielle]

Don't stay away from the justice stuff. This is the stuff you need to know.

[Adam]

Yeah, but I don't know. But I'm gonna lose, so I have to stay away from it for the purpose of the game. All right, fine. Give it to me for a hundred.

[Danielle]

Which one? Access denied.

[Adam]

No, the low. The justice. Lady Justice. Those lies in lady justice.

[Danielle]

Oh, okay.

[Adam]

RBG.

[Danielle]

Huh?

[Adam]

RBG. That's got to be it for 100. That's the one. I know.

[Danielle]

No. True or false? Spousal rape was legal in some US states until the 1990s.

[Adam]

True. I knew that.

[Danielle]

Yep. Do you know what? I. I actually do know this. I don't have it written here.

[Adam]

It's got to be.

[Danielle]

Do you know what the last state to get rid of it was? And what. What was?

[Adam]

Alabama.

[Danielle]

No.

[Adam]

Aren't they, like, all backwards on the.

[Danielle]

Well, all the southern. Most of the southern states are backwards. But do you know which was the. The last to criminalize spousal rape in the year?

[Adam]

Missouri.

[Danielle]

No. North Carolina. In 1993. It was. It was not illegal. You could not accuse your spouse of rape until.

[Adam]

In Carolina.

[Danielle]

Until 1993.

[Adam]

Is that one of those laws that was, like, still on the books, but if it ever happened, they actually.

[Danielle]

Who wants to even take that chance?

[Adam]

No, no. What I'm saying is, like, if I was raised.

[Danielle]

Yeah, I know, because women are always believed when they're raped. Why do you think no women ever come forward? And people always say, well, why didn't she come forward? Because of that? No, of course not. What? No one's ever giving a woman a benefit of the doubt in that. In that situation, unfortunately, fictional femme fatales.

[Adam]

Okay, you pick.

[Danielle]

Fictional female femme.

[Adam]

All right, give me the 400. Let's go crazy.

[Danielle]

Wow. Look at you go. Okay. What? 400?

[Adam]

Sure.

[Danielle]

Okay. Who was the first woman. Well, this is a good one at. Who was the first woman to run for US President?

[Adam]

You're not talking about, like, the final two. Right? Like, so. Like, in the whole campaign.

[Danielle]

Right, right. That she, you know, she tried to run for a primary.

[Adam]

I don't know. I don't know. I. You know, like, obviously, I would have said Hillary Clinton for the first. You know, for the. For the vote, for the presidency, but I don't know as far as the candidates, you know, when it's spread out, and so I don't know.

[Danielle]

All right, wait. Well, so she. You want me to tell you?

[Adam]

Yeah, of course I want to know these things.

[Danielle]

She announced that she was running for president of the United States. In 1871, although women did not have the right to vote, it was not illegal for women to run for office. Victoria became the official nominee of the Equal Rights Party. She was the first woman to run for president. Historians argue that it was more symbolic than a viable candidacy. Victoria did not receive a significant number of votes and was not yet 35 years old, the minimum age for the presidency, according to the Constitution Institution. I think that was actually from famous and fictional firsts.

[Adam]

Yeah, because that's not.

[Danielle]

Categories are too similar. So she's not a. She's not fictional. She was a. A real person.

[Adam]

All right, so give me some fiction. I want some, like.

[Danielle]

Oh, some movie stuff or something. Yeah, okay.

[Adam]

I'm crossing off that loss, by the way, so.

[Danielle]

Why?

[Adam]

Because it wasn't fiction, so.

[Danielle]

Oh, Lord.

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

Oh, come on.

[Adam]

I'm ahead.

[Danielle]

No, that doesn't.

[Adam]

Give me. Give me some fictional femme fatales.

[Danielle]

Oh, boy.

[Adam]

Okay, just tell me which. Which numeric numeral. Question amount.

[Danielle]

What?

[Adam]

100, 200, 300, 500. Doesn't matter. Any of them. Fictional femme fatales.

[Danielle]

Oh, see, it's hard to do fictional characters with you.

[Adam]

Why?

[Danielle]

Because I don't feel like you're gonna know, like, a lot of the good. Like, have you ever seen Little Women?

[Adam]

No.

[Danielle]

No. Have you ever seen. Yeah, I mean, there's a lot of these that I feel like maybe I didn't. Oh, oh, here's a good one. Wow. See, I don't know if you're gonna. All right, I'll do this one. She was the only girl in detention, wore too much eyeliner, and made were all a little messed up. Messed up sound like a mantra.

[Adam]

Well, that's the Breakfast Club, right?

[Danielle]

Do you remember her name?

[Adam]

No.

[Danielle]

Do you remember who played her?

[Adam]

Nope, I don't remember any of their names. So it's not.

[Danielle]

You don't remember the. Who played the actress who played her?

[Adam]

No.

[Danielle]

She was also insane. Elmo's Fire.

[Adam]

Never saw it. That's on my list. That's on my 80s list.

[Danielle]

I mean, how can you.

[Adam]

Well, no, I know. I know Molly Ringwald. I know that actress. That's the only name. No, I know Emilio Estevez. No, I'm saying from the move, like, because you're judging me as, like, you know, the male characters, but, you know. No.

[Danielle]

That name doesn't mean anything to you, Ali Sheedy?

[Adam]

No.

[Danielle]

That's crazy. All right, well, anyway, her name was Allison Reynolds in the Breakfast Club.

[Adam]

All right. But I got it right.

[Danielle]

It was 19.

[Adam]

That's what matters. I mean, how much was that question worth?

[Danielle]

Really? Get that right?

[Adam]

I said the Breakfast Club. That was what you're looking for.

[Danielle]

No, it wasn't.

[Adam]

All right, give me. I'll take 100.

[Danielle]

Oh, my God.

[Adam]

Keep it going. Women who kill it for 200.

[Danielle]

Women who kill it for. For how much? 200.

[Adam]

My answer is Danielle.

[Danielle]

Very funny. Okay. Bonnie of Bonnie and Clyde. Have you seen Bonnie and Clyde? I feel like we watch. You've never seen Bodi and Clyde?

[Adam]

I saw Thelma and Louise. Does that count?

[Danielle]

Bonnie of Bonnie and Clyde. Right. And they were real people. The Bonnie and Clyde?

[Adam]

Yeah. Those are the. The bank. Yeah. The bank robbers.

[Danielle]

Yeah. Oh, my God. You have. You would love Bonnie and Clyde.

[Adam]

Maybe I have.

[Danielle]

Oh, my gosh. Faye Dunaway and Warren Beatty. Yeah. Oh. What? Oh, my. Yeah, I think you have. I think we watched it a long time ago together. Okay. Bonnie of Bonnie and Clyde was a famous poet.

[Adam]

What? Was there a question there?

[Danielle]

Yes. True or false? Sorry. Was she a famous poet?

[Adam]

Was Bonnie from Bonnie and Clyde? If a famous poet.

[Danielle]

Yeah.

[Adam]

Yes.

[Danielle]

Correct.

[Adam]

I know. I did research when I. After I watched the movie to find out the background of Bonnie.

[Danielle]

Yeah. Huh.

[Adam]

To learn.

[Danielle]

Yeah, I'm sure. I probably didn't even know her name was Bonnie. I just thought the movie was called Bonnie and Clyde.

[Adam]

All righty. I. So I think we touched upon every category except for one, which is what? Romance and realities, Roman, realities.

[Danielle]

Okay, so do you want to do that one?

[Adam]

Yeah, let's go for it.

[Danielle]

Okay.

[Adam]

I'm killing it, so bring it on.

[Danielle]

I mean, which number?

[Adam]

Give me 100.

[Danielle]

Okay. In what year?

[Adam]

Oh, come on.

[Danielle]

No, this is an important one. No, you need to. You should know this.

[Adam]

Can I have a decade?

[Danielle]

No. You can. I'll give you a five year.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

What year was Roe v. Wade decided by the Supreme Court? What year?

[Adam]

Oh, I. Wasn't it in the 60s?

[Danielle]

I'm not saying anything. I give you a five year. That's very nice to me.

[Adam]

7.

[Danielle]

No. 1973. You don't see all the shirts that say 1973. No, no, it's not. Pretty good. You didn't even get the right decade.

[Adam]

I was. I was closer than a decade. I was. You know What? I say 67. You said 73.

[Danielle]

I mean, I would think that's a little bit obvious. Obvious that it's, like, probably during, like, the women's movement.

[Adam]

The women's movement. It's always a women.

[Danielle]

No. Well, okay, so make it so we don't have to always have a woman's movement and we won't have a woman.

[Adam]

I'm working on it.

[Danielle]

No, you're not. Not even a little bit.

[Adam]

I'm learning today while we're doing this.

[Danielle]

Yeah. Because I have to teach you. Okay.

[Adam]

So that's a loss.

[Danielle]

That's a loss in. In so many ways.

[Adam]

Where. Let's go back to the movie.

[Danielle]

No, no, no, no. Do something else.

[Adam]

Sex, Lies and trivia for 400.

[Danielle]

Sex, lies and trivia for 400.

[Adam]

Did you ever see the movie Sex, Lies in videotape?

[Danielle]

Yes, of course.

[Adam]

I never did. But the. Like, I remember the, like, the promos for it.

[Danielle]

Angie McDowell. Andie McDowell.

[Adam]

Was that a good. Was it a good movie or.

[Danielle]

It's like a cult classic.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

Yeah, it's James Spader. Yeah, I think you would like it.

[Adam]

It's too late.

[Danielle]

Or, you know, you can say that about all of them, but that's my point.

[Adam]

Like, I, I. All the movies that I haven't seen from the 80s, like, I don't watch. I'm like, am I too late? Like, is. I mean, worth it anymore?

[Danielle]

I. I think one time, instead of watching Rocky, you could put on one of these.

[Adam]

I haven't watched Rocky in a long time, but I did just watch Friends movie with Talia Shire. Nonas. Excellent movie with Vince Vaughn.

[Danielle]

Like, is that Netflix?

[Adam]

Netflix. Brand new. 2025 new movie, Worth a watch. Really good.

[Danielle]

And it's based on a true story about.

[Adam]

Based on a. Grandmas who.

[Danielle]

Who cook.

[Adam]

Yeah. So, yeah. He opens a restaurant in honor of his mother.

[Danielle]

He pays them.

[Adam]

Right? Just. Yeah. I mean, as best he could. At least in the beginning. Which was. It doesn't matter. Watch the movie. It's really good.

[Danielle]

Okay.

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

Okay. What are we doing? Sex, Lies and trivia.

[Adam]

Yes.

[Danielle]

Okay. What country created a government issued sex manual in the 1500? Government issued sex manual in the 1500s.

[Adam]

I need to know which government existed in the 1500s then? Jesus.

[Danielle]

Government. I mean, which created by the government.

[Adam]

What government was considering female sexuality in the 1500s? It's got to be. Is it. Is it Japan?

[Danielle]

Oh, you're very close. Very close.

[Adam]

Can I. I mean, you can guess again.

[Danielle]

You won't get it right, but.

[Adam]

Okay, so just give it to me. I'm close enough.

[Danielle]

China.

[Adam]

Really?

[Danielle]

Yep. China? Yep.

[Adam]

That's surprising.

[Danielle]

I feel like I don't. I have a feeling that it probably, like, wasn't for any type of good reason.

[Adam]

Yeah. But I feel like they won't even do that today. Well, you know, like.

[Danielle]

Well, maybe there was like a shortage of babies being born back then. I don't know. Or maybe they did. Maybe they didn't want people having more babies. Like, maybe they were overpopulated and so they were showing them how not to have babies.

[Adam]

You're giving them too much credit. All I know is I'm winning. I'm gonna go crazy here with Access denied for 500. 500 macaroonies.

[Danielle]

Wow, you're getting. You're getting a little arrogant.

[Adam]

Well, listen, I'm winning by far, so I gotta take a chance.

[Danielle]

Yeah. Because every single one, you're like, I won that one. What percentage of abortions happen in the first trimester?

[Adam]

What's my range?

[Danielle]

What do I get the trimester?

[Adam]

I can't give you like the exact percent. So, like, do I get like a 10 number leeway or 5.5percent leeway? You and your.

[Danielle]

Because this is a lot of misinformation that we're clearing up.

[Adam]

I mean, my guess would be like 85%.

[Danielle]

Is that your final answer? Yeah, it's over 90%. Over 90. So I'm giving it to me. You know, all these people talk about, like, the third trimester.

[Adam]

It's like, God forbid, like, that that's the reason for a third trimester abortion.

[Danielle]

What?

[Adam]

God forbid. Like, it's not an emotion. You know?

[Danielle]

It's not. But there's a lot of misinformation about that.

[Adam]

I just earned myself 500.

[Danielle]

No, I don't think that counts.

[Adam]

You said over 90. Because I said 85.

[Danielle]

I know. The answer actually is over 90%.

[Adam]

I. I said over 85.

[Danielle]

I mean, okay, but then you're never gonna get anything wrong.

[Adam]

Alrighty, give me what the history 100.

[Danielle]

Who was lobotomized for being too rebellious as a teen? She's from a famous family.

[Adam]

Can you give me a time period?

[Danielle]

I am going to say. Actually, I think I might have that. I'm going to give you the 30s to 50s. 1930s to 50s. She was lobotomized.

[Adam]

Marilyn Monroe.

[Danielle]

Are you for real?

[Adam]

What the.

[Danielle]

Who do I know From a famous family?

[Adam]

No, she's famous all by herself. Who. Who. What's a famous family from the 30s and like, is it a Rockefeller?

[Danielle]

Oh, see, that would have been a better guess. Now that makes sense, right? There are lots of famous families.

[Adam]

It was Ford, Henry Ford, the Kennedys. They were around in the 30s and 40s.

[Danielle]

Around she. So Rosemary Kennedy was president in the 60s. Was the SIS. You know, and you know that. So this is J.F. i'm sorry, RFK Jr. Who's our now health and human Services. It is.

[Adam]

I have not consumed any red dye.

[Danielle]

Aunt. His aunt. Who was lobotomized. All right. Even though he's the one who has the worm in his brain. So she was the sister of President Robert F. Kennedy. And she was described as being developmentally delayed. In her early 20s, her behavior became more erratic and difficult to manage, prompting her father, Joseph Kennedy, to authorize a lobotomy in 1941 without informing his wife or other children. The procedure left Rosemary unable to speak intelligibly or walk properly. For the rest of her life. She was institutionalized and hidden from public view. Her case is often cited as a tragic example of how women, especially those deemed, quote, unquote difficult, were subject to extreme medical interventions to maintain family reputations or social control. 1941, she had that done.

[Adam]

Race the rudders.

[Danielle]

Race the sails.

[Adam]

Race the sails. Captain, an unidentified ship is approaching. Over. Roger, wait. Is that an enterprise sales sales solution. Reach sales professionals, not professional sailors. With LinkedIn ads, you can target the right people by industry, job title and more. We'll even give you a $100 credit on your next campaign. Get started today at LinkedIn.com results, terms and conditions apply. RFK Jr Jr has a sister, right?

[Danielle]

Yes.

[Adam]

And she has that vocal issue, too, right?

[Danielle]

Well, a little bit. Not nearly as much as him.

[Adam]

Right, but. So is that a genetic thing?

[Danielle]

Like maybe. What is that maybe I don't know. Might be. Might be genetic. But she hates him.

[Adam]

Yeah, but it's just so bizarre that they share that.

[Danielle]

Yeah.

[Adam]

Huh.

[Danielle]

Yeah, it is interesting. Here he has RFK Jr's voices caused by spasmodic DPH. Spasmodic dysphonia is a rare neurological disorder that causes a strained voice. RFK Jr says he's had the disorder for decades and treats it with Botox injections, a common treatment.

[Adam]

Give me say what for 400. I'm. I'm keeping score.

[Danielle]

I know you are.

[Adam]

As we're going tonight, I'm.

[Danielle]

Yeah, I know. You've cheated on every single one in all 50 states. What was the year. I'll give you a five year. Whatever. When women could finally sit on juries. You can give me a decade in all 50 states. Women could sit on juries in the 70s. Yeah. Holy. How'd you get that?

[Adam]

I knew that. I researched this before.

[Danielle]

How'd you get that? Isn't that crazy?

[Adam]

It makes sense to me.

[Danielle]

Like the 1970s. You. You know what the requirement is to sit on a jury? You have to be an American citizen, and women couldn't do it until the 1970s.

[Adam]

Fictional femme fatales.

[Danielle]

500 fictional femme fatales for 500.

[Adam]

Make sure they're fictional this time, please.

[Danielle]

She told you to, quote, unquote, make good choices, handed out condoms like mints and accidentally hosted an underage rager.

[Adam]

Wait, okay. So is this a movie? She handed out condoms? Yes. Oh, man. It's like the equivalent. Equivalent of the tip of my tongue. I gotta pause it. I. Read it to me one more time.

[Danielle]

She told you to, quote, unquote, make good choices, handed out condoms like mints and accidentally hosted an underage rager.

[Adam]

Oh, God. You. You. Wait. Do you want the person or the movie?

[Danielle]

I mean, at this point, no, it's not going to be correct, but I'll take whatever you want. I'm sick of giving you. You've had, like, 75 lifelines.

[Adam]

That's not true at all. I've done well. I know this and I can't bring it up. Is it an 80s movie?

[Danielle]

No.

[Adam]

Oh, then I don't. Give it to me.

[Danielle]

10 things I hate about you, Ms. Pesky, played by Alison Janney.

[Adam]

Yes. I love that movie.

[Danielle]

So do our kids.

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

Yep.

[Adam]

Damn. I'll take the loss.

[Danielle]

Yeah, you will.

[Adam]

What was that?

[Danielle]

100 got it wrong.

[Adam]

500.

[Danielle]

400.

[Adam]

200.

[Danielle]

I think you said 400.

[Adam]

Damn. All right, we'll do a couple more.

[Danielle]

Sure.

[Adam]

Your body's been lying to you for 300.

[Danielle]

Your body's been lying to you for 300.

[Adam]

Is this one about the male body?

[Danielle]

What do you think is. We've done plenty of research about the male body. 300. Okay. True or false? Row. The decision of Roe allowed for abortion for all nine months without restrictions.

[Adam]

I would say false.

[Danielle]

That is correct.

[Adam]

Yeah, that makes sense. Give it to me again.

[Danielle]

Same. What? The same category.

[Adam]

Yeah. What did I just say what the amount was? Give me 400.

[Danielle]

Okay. What was the Supreme Court ruling margin in roe v. Wade?

[Adam]

40.

[Danielle]

No. Yeah. No, there's nine justices. What was the ruling? What was the count?

[Adam]

Oh, I would say five to four.

[Danielle]

Nope. Seven to two.

[Adam]

Damn. Really?

[Danielle]

It's interesting, too, because, like, have you seen what's going on with Amy Coney Barrett now? You know, she's conservative justice, and all the mega now hate her because she's like.

[Adam]

Oh, wait, wait, no, no, no. Explain to me, why did the MAGA now hate her?

[Danielle]

Well, because she has ruled against Trump in a few things, and they're expecting her to rule for Trump and every single thing.

[Adam]

I didn't know that. I thought she would rule for Trump for every.

[Danielle]

So do we all. Yeah, but. But first of all, when he gave his State of the Union, he, like, didn't acknowledge her when he walked by. And. And she. I mean, look, she was part of the. Look, she voted to overturn.

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

Roe v. Wade. So she's obviously. I'm not trying to say that she's claimed she's any kind of, you know, advocate for women or anything.

[Adam]

Yeah. But that wasn't a thing for Trump. That was because he put in a religious, believing woman into the Supreme Court. Who. Right.

[Danielle]

Well, yeah, but I mean, constitutionally, anyway. I'm not going to get into it, but, you know. Yeah, it should have been upheld, but she overturned it. Roe v. Wade. But now she voted against him in a few, you know, big. Yeah. And so he's pissed because obviously he thinks that every justice he put in. And, you know, Kavanaugh, what's one thing she voted against?

[Adam]

Let me look, is it too little, too late or, like, good for her or how we feeling?

[Danielle]

I mean, both. Right. Like, I. Listen, I. I obviously think it's disgusting that, you know, I'll never forgive her for being part of overturning Roe v. Wade. But she also is the only conservative justice who is, you know, actually following, you know, the Constitution to a T in certain things.

[Adam]

So it's hard. You have to, like, give respect for that. But on the other hand.

[Danielle]

Yeah, look, Difficult situation. Yes. I mean, you know, and it's like.

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

And she's getting a lot of blowback for it. You know, she's dealing with a lot from it. Not that, like, okay, so, you know, she. When you're appointed by Trump, you gotta expect that shit's gonna come with it. So she voted against him using the Alien enemies Act of 1798, which is what he's using for using, you know, for deporting to El Salvador. So she. She voted against it because the Alien Enemies act is only supposed to be used in wartime. And they're claiming that, like, it's an invasion of illegal immigrants. And so that's the wartime. And she's saying, like, no, that's not what you're. You cannot use it for that. So she voted, you know, against him for that, which is huge, because, you know, that's. I mean, I'm glad that she did. Although he's not upholding it anyway. You know, he. She. It was 9 to 0 to bring what's his name, Brego Garcia, back to. To the United States to facilitate it, which is, you know, stupid language, but still 9, 0. And he's not back. So, you know, it's not even like any of the court rulings right now even matter, but hopefully something will happen, right?

[Adam]

Like, it doesn't matter what the law is at this point or what the Constitution says at this point. Right.

[Danielle]

Like, that's why they say we're in a constitutional crisis.

[Adam]

All right, let's do a couple more. Okay, I forgot what this category is, but let's try it again. Ro mates and realities for 300.

[Danielle]

Ro mates and realities for. That's what I think. That's what we just did also.

[Adam]

Oh, is it?

[Danielle]

I think so.

[Adam]

Oh, then I didn't circle it. Okay, let's go back to Women who kill it for 400.

[Danielle]

Okay. Women who kill it for 400.

[Adam]

So you never even spoke about, like, A League of Their Own or, you know, listen, those are Women who Kill.

[Danielle]

It right there, what you were doing. Like, you. When I am putting this stuff together, there's so much pressure because you're like, let's go, let's go, let's go. Like, right? You. You make me. I'm, like, sweating by the time I'm done because not only do I have to do all the work, but. But you're giving me some kind of, like, ridiculous time frame.

[Adam]

If I watch you, like, you know, you're half doing that, half on Instagram, half on.

[Danielle]

You know, it's okay. It's fine.

[Adam]

But that's the pressure. So if it's okay.

[Danielle]

Mother's Day, okay. I'm allowed to have some joy. Which famous woman ran a drug cartel in Miami in the 1970s?

[Adam]

Oh, I saw that movie.

[Danielle]

I know you did.

[Adam]

I don't know her name. I was a wonderful. Or was it a movie? Or was it a. Yeah, I don't know her name.

[Danielle]

Her name was Griselda Blanco.

[Adam]

Great, great series.

[Danielle]

Yeah, I really liked it. A lot of people didn't, but I think. I don't know. I don't know. But I thought that. What's her name? Who did it? What's her name from Modern Family. Why can't I remember her name?

[Adam]

Oh, right.

[Danielle]

Oh, come on. Who knew who played her, you know? Yeah. Sovia Vergara.

[Adam]

Yes.

[Danielle]

Yeah, yeah, she did awesome. I thought. Yeah.

[Adam]

People thought otherwise.

[Danielle]

Yeah. I think there were a lot of people who didn't think that she did a good job.

[Adam]

Oh, my God. Yeah, she did great.

[Danielle]

Yeah. But, yeah, so she. She was the godmother of cocaine and called Black Widow. Yeah. And she. By the time it's done, you know, you hate her. So. Yeah. And then she was. Well, I won't say it. In case people haven't seen. I won't give any spoilers.

[Adam]

All right. One more famous and fictional character. No. Famous and fictional firsts. 500 famous and fictional firsts.

[Danielle]

Who was the first US female Secretary of state?

[Adam]

No clue. Hillary Clinton.

[Danielle]

No, but that was a. I thought that's what you were gonna say. And I am 4% impressed.

[Adam]

Give me more than.

[Danielle]

Come on. Really? She's very famous.

[Adam]

Nancy Pelosi.

[Danielle]

Oh, for.

[Adam]

Sam. I. I don't know any secret Secretary of state anything.

[Danielle]

Madeline Albright.

[Adam]

I know the name. Don't know who it. I thought that was like a poet from 1843. Yeah. Yeah. Really? I know, I know. Look, I don't know politicians. The only politicians I know is either the president or in the last eight years. Because it's so.

[Danielle]

I mean, I know I do miss the time when I didn't know who. Any of the secretaries of any. Who was in anybody's cabinet or, like, about, like.

[Adam]

I. I just, you know.

[Danielle]

Do you know how many people from Fox News, officially Trump has hired to be in his cabinet?

[Adam]

Yes. 4.

[Danielle]

Is that really your answer?

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

23.

[Adam]

Oh, 20.

[Danielle]

Close 3. Yeah.

[Adam]

Yes. You have to. When you say Fox News, you have to air, quote, news.

[Danielle]

Right. Because obviously. Yeah, but, yeah, she. She was a Democrat. In 1992, her political stardom began to Rise and Clinton named her ambassador of the United Nations. At the UN she gained a reputation for tough mindedness and fear and fierce advocate for u. S. Interests. And she promoted an increased role for the United States in UN Operations, particularly those with a military component. Her nomination in the position of Secretary State was unanimously confirmed by the Senate in 1997. I wonder when that last time that that happened was. Yeah.

[Adam]

I want to say I thank you for learning me more about women's lib.

[Danielle]

Wait, I have a few bonus questions. Oh, can I. I was just gonna.

[Adam]

Say, like, on this. Today, this mother's Day, I appreciate learning more about the struggle of women and you know what I'm saying? Yeah.

[Danielle]

Wait, I have a few. Can I just give you a few bonus questions?

[Adam]

No, because I already won.

[Danielle]

No, you didn't win. I mean, it's all such bullshit, but. All right. What activity in the 1800s. Okay. Were women discouraged from doing because it would believe it was believed it would harm their fertility. But common activity were women discouraged from doing because it was believed it would harm their.

[Adam]

Horseback riding.

[Danielle]

Oh, that's a good one.

[Adam]

Yeah.

[Danielle]

But no.

[Adam]

Is it a sport of some.

[Danielle]

Very similar.

[Adam]

A sport of some kind. Sort of chicken plucking.

[Danielle]

I guess it's a sport. Riding a bike.

[Adam]

Oh, okay, I win. Next.

[Danielle]

Which actress has won the most Oscars for acting in Academy Awards history?

[Adam]

Nicole Kidman.

[Danielle]

No.

[Adam]

Marilyn Monroe.

[Danielle]

You're like my dad. Like any song that would come on. When I was in the car growing up, it was either Madonna or Michael Jackson. Those were the only two people he knew. It could be like Guns n Roses and he'd be like, is this Michael Jackson? Katherine Hepburn.

[Adam]

Okay. Yeah.

[Danielle]

Did you see on Golden Pond?

[Adam]

Nope.

[Danielle]

My God, it's like I don't even know you. Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. One more. Hold on, hold on.

[Adam]

One more. Let's go.

[Danielle]

Who was Jane Roe instead of Jane Doe in the case? Do you know her real name?

[Adam]

Nope.

[Danielle]

So Jane Roe was a pseudonym for Norma McCorvey. Norma McCorvey was a working class unmarried woman in Texas who became pregnant in 1969. Oh, the same isn't the same year that they landed on the or they walked on the moon.

[Adam]

Not because it's easy, but because it's hard.

[Danielle]

See, of course, you know that she didn't want to continue the pregnancy, but couldn't afford to travel or access a safe abortion. Two young lawyers, Sarah Weddington and Linda Coffey, took her case all the way to the Supreme Court, even though Norma never actually got an abortion. By the time the case was decided in 1973, she had already given birth and placed the baby up for adoption. Wow. The court ruled 7 to 2 in favor of Roe, saying that due process clause of the 14th Amendment protects a woman's right to privacy, including her decision to end a pregnancy. And so the trimester framework was, the first trimester, a government could not interfere. Second trimester, government could regulate to protect health. Third trimester, state could restrict, except if the woman's life was at risk. So, like, everyone talks about it as if it was like a free for all right with Roe v. Wade that you could get one until the day you were. You know, I mean, the most ridiculous thing that. I've had way too many arguments about women having abortions, you know, in their ninth month, but that wasn't even allowed under Roe v. Wade, so.

[Adam]

Okay, well, that's when due process meant something, for fuck's sake.

[Danielle]

Tell me about it. Okay.

[Adam]

That was. That was so fun.

[Danielle]

Yeah.

[Adam]

And I won. So you.

[Danielle]

So you know what? You. You won because I turned it into the. Like, literally. I had to manipulate. I had to dumb down all the answers.

[Adam]

Win is a win.

[Danielle]

No, I'll take it.

[Adam]

No, I got the. I got the scoreboard right here, which means I'm gonna start designing your tattoo.

[Danielle]

Unless it's probably gonna be Snoopy. That's the only thing you know how to draw. I'm not getting a Snoopy tattoo, by the way. All right.

[Adam]

Oh, that's a good idea.

[Danielle]

Oh. I want to say right now, for the next couple days, if you go to the link in the show notes or in our bio on Instagram, I'm giving a free week in the 3am uprising. What? We have around 45 members right now. Everyone is fantastic. We're having a blast. Coming up, we have drag bingo. We're gonna be doing virtual drag bingo. We have our first book clubs coming up, and the book we're reading is fantastic, and it's gonna be an awesome discussion. We're doing documentary clubs. We have. We're talking to an author who wrote a book called Kissing Girls on Shabbat in June, and we had a black genealogist on who. Oh, Walter, who was on the podcast who's so fantastic, and he taught us all, like, what we never learned about slavery and post slavery, and it was amazing. So. And every day we're on the platform having discussions, and we're just. We're having an awesome time, and it's giving me. It's getting me through this period. So if you want to be in a place with all like minded women who know that Roe v. Wade happened in 1973. Then I was very close. Adam is not allowed to be there, which he's devastated about.

[Adam]

I am Nowhere near the 3am uprising. And you're all welcome.

[Danielle]

Yes, that is correct.

[Adam]

Although.

[Danielle]

Yeah.

[Adam]

If you want to make a bet, if you get to your thousandth member, I will show up for your drag get together.

[Danielle]

I don't even want to get to a thousandth member. I like knowing everybody. Like we've all we've had every week, we've had our event sessions every week and like it's like eight to 10 people. Even though that there's, you know, 40 plus. Because like I have. There's a lot of events. You come to what you can come to, you don't to what you don't.

[Adam]

I was offering something that now I'm.

[Danielle]

Gonna take back and well, I don't want a thousand members. I'm not.

[Adam]

And I don't want to dress in drag.

[Danielle]

Don't say never. But anyway, it's, it's. The platform is big enough where everyone has, you know, all this relevant stuff to take part in, but also intimate enough that like we're all.

[Adam]

I love it.

[Danielle]

Teaching each other and it's been. I, I love it. I absolutely love it. Like I'm up until 2am doing work for it because I want to like, I love it. So. Yeah. So come join us and the. I'll put the link in the show notes.

[Adam]

Awesome.

[Danielle]

All right.

[Adam]

That was so fun.

[Danielle]

Oh, good. I'm so.

[Adam]

Thank you for bringing back the fun.

[Danielle]

I'll. I'm gonna start designing your tattoo.

[Adam]

No, no, no, no, no.

[Danielle]

All right, guys, have a great week.

[Adam]

And happy Mother's Day to all the moms out there. Thank you so much.

[Danielle]

Happy Mother's Day and happy Nurturing day. Even if you not a mom, you're still a nurturer. So.

[Adam]

Okay.

[Danielle]

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