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🎙️ LOVE LIES & ALIBIS | How Long Is Too Long?

How long is too long to wait for marriage?

We hear it all the time... "Marriage is just a piece of paper." But is it really?

In this week's Love Lies & Alibis Quick Take, we're talking about long engagements, long-term relationships, and whether there comes a point when waiting becomes settling.

Would you stay with someone for 5 years? 10 years? 20 years... if marriage is something you truly want?

And here's the real question...

After spending decades building a life together, are you okay with being remembered as the "special friend" in someone's obituary?

👀 This one's guaranteed to spark a debate.

Drop your thoughts in the comments. I want to hear both sides.

🎧 Watch now on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.

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