David Pollack (33:02)
Fired. My mom, my mama. Nick knows this. My mama be like, man, you were let go. I was like, stop. She goes, stop telling people you were fired. I was like, mama, they told me to go away and not come back. So you can spin it however you want, Mama. Like, fired, let go. Whatever they say, go away. We don't want you anymore. So, yeah, unfortunately, Mick, I got a live experience with that. And I think. I think sometimes people just like you introduced me with so many accolades and things that I've been successful at. Dude, I've failed all along the way. I mean, I have failed so much more than I have succeeded. And I like to share those because those are real. And I think God has used every single one of them. Like, you don't have the success without the failure. And so for us, learning how to deal with failure, learning how to deal with adversity is huge. Kid, teenager, adult, senior citizen. Like, we have to understand, if you're not in a storm, if you're not in adversity, it's coming. It's not if, it's when. And so, you know, for me, I got it in high school. When I was a sophomore in high school, I didn't play varsity. I didn't play jv. Because I was kind of stuck between two worlds. I had a dream. I told you, Mick. I had a dream of playing in the NFL. I was giving up all these things, got frustrated, got ticked off in a moment. Then I quit. Just dropped. I quit. And guess what? I had a coach, Eddie Shadix, who believed in me and saw something in me before I did. And he's like, hey, man, just come work out. We'll do some curls and we'll get pretty for the girls. I'm like, deal. Cool. I'm in. And then all of a sudden, I grow. And then all of a sudden, I get stronger and stronger and stronger. And now football is really fun when you're the hammer, not the nail. And so, like, he believed in me, but I had to face that adversity to learn to work and to grow and to get bigger and stronger. And then I knew what it was like to succeed, but I also knew it was like to fail. And, you know, same thing at Georgia, switching three positions in three years or in one year, one calendar year. I think nowadays it's easy. And some of us are like, no, I'm this. I think my goal is this. I think I'm. That you have no clue. Like, there are going to be things that change along the way. Are you willing to see it, adapt and adjust and be great where you're at? Like, if you're in a job right now and your job is to get coffee, do it to the best of your ability. Like, crush it. Do it to a point where somebody looks at you in the company like, man, they do that with joy. They do that with something a little bit different, man. Like, that's how we've got to approach those things. Because when we hit that adversity, when it comes to you, how do I respond? What does my response look like? Because here's what I've learned from adversity every single dagum time. 17th pick in the NFL draft, I'm making my NFL dream come true that I dreamed about since I was 6 years old. I'm doing it, like, exactly what I wanted to do. One play. Bam. Broken neck, done, gone. Like, you know what I learned in that one moment? I learned that that one moment led to two years of rehab and two years of recovery and a lot of grind. And I went from a healthy body that was strong as crud, that could do anything I wanted to do to a guy that could do very little with a halo in my skull and couldn't lift weights. I benched 455 in college, when I got out of my neck brace and I got cleared to lift, I benched 135 twice. And it looked like this. Shaking like this. What's inside of you? What's next? Am I going to quit? Am I going to roll over? No. Every day. What can I do today to get me better? What are my goals today? And really, that's when it started developing for me. For every day counts. That was my mantra. And I started texting myself the night before and I started just saying, I will not go to bed without these three things done. Like, this is going to get done. And that was. Most of those, by the way, then were physical because I was trying to get my body back to some assortments of normalcy. And then it turned into spiritual and then it turned into like family related, as simple as, like, hey, I'm going to tell my baby girl today three times that I love her. And it's a small goal, but like, I had to start developing those systems and those small goals so I could get wins. So now, man, here's the thing. We serve a God that is so big and so great and a God that tells us in the scripture that he is for us. He didn't say he's for us when you're getting a raise or he's for us when things are going the way you want him to go. He's for us all the time. He wants good things for us. And so when I go through a challenge, man, and something's hard, good. What is God going to teach me in this moment? There's something that I need to learn. In this moment, there's something that's coming my way. Like my NFL career. Gone. College game day. Fantastic. This is awesome. Got to travel the country and go see all the different schools and got to do things that I never thought I would get to do. I got to do that. Gone. I'm not crying because it's over now. I'm smiling because it happened. Like, I'm so thankful that that happened. I got to do that. I can't imagine what God has for me next. Like, whatever it is, I know it's good. And all those situations, man, I can take all those different things, individual adversity moments. And I can tell you, like, with my neck, and I'll close with that. Like, with my neck, like, I'm a better dad right now because I broke my neck. I'm a better husband because I broke my neck. I'm a, I'm better. I'M a better friend. I'm a better son. Like, because God said, slow down, be still. And my relationship with God was one way. When I had time, like, I'll talk to you. Yeah, Yeah, I got a little bit of. I got a little bit of time between team meetings. I got a little bit of time. I'm running here, running there. I got a little bit of time to talk to you. It's really hard to hear from God when you don't sit still and listen to Him. Like, a relationship requires talking back and forth and communication back and forth. Show me your girlfriend that you have when you don't communicate with her. I would argue they don't exist. It doesn't happen. So I really. The Bible says, be still and know that I am God. And I got to do that in those situations. And then God's taking me to the next step and the next step and the next step and teaching me all these different things about me, about my family, those in my life, who are in my life for the right reasons. And it's really gotten me ready to be a dad, man, and to be able to handle some of those moments with my kids with adversity and to show them and to teach them what it looks like and how we've used those things in a positive way and how God brings those trials and those tribulations for us to grow, for us to learn and to depend on him and he will get us through every single situation.