
Making a Millionaire | Emily & Kenji
Loading summary
Commercial Narrator
When did making plans get this complicated? It's time to streamline with WhatsApp, the secure messaging app that brings the whole group together. Use polls to settle dinner plans. Send event invites and pin messages so no one forgets mom 60th and never miss a meme or milestone. All protected with end to end encryption. It's time for WhatsApp message privately with everyone. Learn more@WhatsApp.com hey, business owners, we know you know the importance of maximizing every dollar. With the Delta SkyMiles Reserve business American Express card, you can make your expenses work just as hard as you. From afternoon coffee runs to stocking office supplies and even team dinners, you can earn miles on all your business expenses. Plus, you can earn 125,000 bonus miles for a limited time through October 29th. The Delta SkyMiles Reserve business card. If you travel, you know, minimum spending requirements and terms apply. Offer ends October 29, 2025.
Bo Hanson
You guys have done the hard work. From poverty, from food stamps till now. You've made the hard decisions that put you in the driver's seat, where you do get to pick and choose what your future looks like. You just have to make sure you finish the drill. Well, don't exit too early without making sure that you have a plan that will actually get you to that great big beautiful tomorrow that you want today. We're here with Emily and Kenj. They're 34 and 36 and they have a $2 million net worth. What brings you guys in today?
Emily
Well, we have this crazy idea of reaching financial independence around the age of 40.
Bo Hanson
That's five years from now.
Brian Preston
Four for me.
Bo Hanson
That's four years from now.
Emily
Pretty close. Okay, we need help with planning the next 40 to 50 plus years of our life, which is no small task. We've done our best to get us in a good place and invest a lot, but now we need the experts, we need the help to see if we actually can retire or if we're just kind of out in crazy land.
Brian Preston
I love it. What's the why for Y40?
Emily
We would like the option to be able to work as little or as much as we want at that age. I personally got really burnt out by corporate when I was younger and I don't want to have to go back to a 9 to 5 job. I never want to feel that pressure to go back.
Kenji
For me, it was just like I had this kind of dreamy idea. First. It was when I was in my 20s. I'll retire when I'm 30. I'm going to go.
Brian Preston
And then you hit 30 and then.
Kenji
You'Re like, okay, well maybe I'll do it when I'm 40 or something. But then actually in our 30s, it started to be, well, actually maybe we could kind of do that. And I have zero financial literacy, so she takes the full charge when it comes to that thing. And I trust her fully. And she's like, maybe we can actually do this if we set things up right, if we plan it out. And I'm just like, okay, let's try it.
Bo Hanson
Let's see if this works.
Brian Preston
What are y' all coming from? Like, you mentioned burnout from corporations. What do you do? And what was. You know, give us some background.
Emily
I worked in social media marketing for over 10 years. And I mean, by trade I'm actually an esthetician, but I didn't go into that line of work. The marketing route was definitely more lucrative for me. And I hit a point of burnout where we were trying to have a family. We were having trouble. I was physically and emotionally just. I couldn't keep up with the corporate demand. And so I ended up quitting. And you know, we had planned for that and said, okay, like let's get you to quit. And you know, fortunately after that, maybe it was coincidence, but we were able to start our family. And I was like, you know, I don't really want to have to go back now. Like, I like being around. Yeah, like, I want more time and like more freedom. And I grew up in poverty too, so I very much came from nothing. Food banks and food stamps and I mean, I only have a high school or I have a ged, so, you know, the stats were definitely against me for sure.
Bo Hanson
We're going to second look at your net worth. And that right there is just an amazing thing. I want to, I want to hear vocationally what you do, but I want to hold on to that nugget because what an amazing. This is where I started. This is how my journey started. It is not where it is ending. And I think that's awesome for me.
Kenji
I went to college, I wanted to be Indiana Jones. I studied anthropology.
Bo Hanson
I was gonna say they have degrees.
Kenji
For that's the pipe dream. Of course, after graduating, moved back in with my parents and started looking for random jobs. I actually was a teacher at the YMCA for a little bit. And then my friend, he's like, hey, do you wanna move in with me? I just got my own house. And I'm like, yeah, I want to get out of my parents place. You know, I'm just out of college. I want to do my own thing. He got me a job. He was working at a grocery store. And so I started doing night crew there.
Bo Hanson
Is that like, stocking shelves? Night crew stuff?
Kenji
Yeah, night crew. So it was like 11:00pm to 7:30am Goodness gracious.
Bo Hanson
Yeah.
Kenji
And during this time, though, because I had moved out, I was like, you know what? I kind of want to start doing this thing called streaming. You know, I had watched people online before. You can watch people, like, play video games and do stuff like that. I had seen people do it, and I'm like, I think I can do that a little bit better than they can. Or, you know, I can do it in a different way. So concurrently, while working at the night crew shift, you know, I would get home, sleep for a few hours, then I would turn on my stream. I would stream myself playing games. Eventually, that started making more money than the night crew thing.
Brian Preston
Nice.
Kenji
At a certain point, I'm like, okay, you know what? I'm just gonna stop working in grocery and I'm gonna commit to this thing full time. And so I started a challenge where I streamed every day for a year straight.
Brian Preston
What year are we talking about here? When did this all start?
Kenji
Let's see. I've been doing it full, like, 13 years.
Brian Preston
Wow.
Kenji
Yeah. So must have been what, 20. 2012. 2013, when I did the full.
Brian Preston
What's considered OG in that marketplace?
Kenji
That is basically OG.
Brian Preston
Do you know.
Kenji
Do you know Twitch TV? That's the big streaming service. Twitch had, like, basically just started coming out when I started streaming. So I attribute a lot of it to luck getting in on, like, the ground floor.
Bo Hanson
Very beginning.
Kenji
Yeah. When there weren't many people doing it. So as a result, you know, if people wanted to watch something, well, they had no option. It was like, we don't have a.
Emily
Whole lot of choices.
Kenji
Exactly. When TV first came out, there's only three channels. If I'm one of the channels, then you kind of have to watch me. Yeah. And then I've just been doing that ever since.
Bo Hanson
So that's the vocation that you'd like to step away from at 40?
Kenji
I don't know if I necessarily want to get out of it, but it would be nice to just put it down. I'm getting older. I can't keep up with the kids these days, that type of thing. So I would be able to like to step away if I want to. Maybe it's not doing a video every single day and streaming every single day like I do. Maybe it's like doing a video once a week or something just for fun.
Brian Preston
What's the game that got you in? What's the game that you feel like you had your biggest break and what are you kind of focusing on right now?
Bo Hanson
You're looking right now for like super Techno Bowl.
Kenji
Is that what you're doing?
Brian Preston
You're going through my journey?
Kenji
I've only actually played one game basically the entire time.
Emily
Wow.
Kenji
Yeah, yeah. It's actually a card game, but they have an online client. It's called Magic the Gathering. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Bo Hanson
Social media marketing is what you did. You are currently a streamer and you mentioned, hey, I came from poverty, came from food stamps. Let's look at where you guys are today right now in your mid 30s because it is remarkable. Total net worth of almost $2.2 million. Let's pause there for a moment. You guys are mid 30 year olds that are multimillionaires. Did you ever think that you would be in this position?
Emily
I didn't think I needed to shoot this soon. It's different seeing the number here at this table than when I look at my budget spreadsheet. Just cause it feels more real. Because we live well below our means. You know, we don't live the flashy millionaire lifestyle. And so to see that it's just kind of for me from coming from nothing, it's kind of mind blowing.
Bo Hanson
I love it. You said this is a product of small consistent decisions over a lifetime, Right? Living below our means. Putting I'm noticing on here, like if we walk through this, we've got like $31,000 in cash and cash equivalents. You have an investment portfolio of just under 1.1 million dol. You have primary residence, has a million dollar value. And then you do have this additional account for your son that has about 22,000. I don't see any debt on you.
Brian Preston
Yeah, that's what I'll say. Where's the mortgage?
Bo Hanson
Where's mortgage? Where's auto loan? None of that's on here, right?
Emily
Yeah. We are completely debt free.
Brian Preston
Wow.
Emily
Including our home. And so I'm a personal finance creator now and we talked about the trade offs because our mortgage rate was very low. Like so low. I don't even want to say it.
Bo Hanson
No, no, no. You got to tell us.
Emily
You got to tell us in the comments.
Brian Preston
Oh wow. That's even better than mine. That's a 15 year. Is that a 15 year mortgage?
Emily
It was originally, I think it was 15. Yes. And then we paid it off in under three years.
Kenji
Wow.
Emily
That was at our peak earning years. And our goal really is, has been freedom and flexibility. And I knew that we could invest more and, like, probably earn more if we invested. But with our goal of fire, I was like, I don't want a mortgage payment. I want to have our expenses as low as possible so that we could, if we really need to. And times were tough. Like, we're not going to lose our home. We could go mow lawns if we needed to and survive, like, because our expenses are low. And he's like, yeah, let's pay it off. Let's pay it off. So we did still invest a little bit. Like, we. I think we loaded up the, like, the IRAs, but other than that, we put every dollar to the house.
Brian Preston
Well, that's why I want to clarify this. So were y' all saving and investing at least 25% towards traditional investments, or do you think you were doing a much lower number and then paying off.
Emily
The debt during that window? It was probably a bit lower.
Brian Preston
But I see these numbers, and I want to know, how high has this gotten and where are we at, you know, from a historic standpoint on your income? Because to pay off a house in three years, there's some money coming through.
Emily
Yes. I want to say when we first got together, we were probably at a combined income of 120,000. Like 60. 60,000 each. And then we peaked at about 425,000 for one year. But that was only one year where we were really busting our butts. But I want to say, on average, it has ranged between, like, this 250 to, like, 300 mark. But we've always just kept expenses, like, super, super low, and everything has either gone to investments or the house. So our savings rate has ranged anywhere from 50%. So I think one month it was like 85%. So we just. As soon as it hits the count, out of sight, no matter where the.
Bo Hanson
Income went, you guys stayed at a very modest living below your means lifestyle.
Emily
Absolutely.
Brian Preston
How long has the house been paid off?
Emily
Oh, man, at least, like, three years, four years.
Brian Preston
Any regret on that, or do you have any inkling that maybe I'd have done that a little differently or if.
Emily
It was a Magic 8 ball back then. Right. I mean, who knows what the market's going to do? I think for us, it was really about the freedom that it would bring to be completely debt free. If I redid it or if we had the chance to do it again. And I knew the markets were pretty good. Yeah, I definitely would do probably more balanced approach.
Brian Preston
I think for a lot of people who can't, who don't have discipline, it's okay that you need to go hard on the debt because a lot of people get themselves in trouble. But I do think for financial mutants, that for people who are maximizers and don't struggle with basic discipline so they don't have to go teetotal on debt, I think there's a balanced approach to it. I love people who can extinguish debt quickly. But typically the maximizing way is that you still go through the steps one through seven where you're getting your Roth contributions, you're getting all your 401ks, all the tax advantage ways that the government's saying, hey, we're going to restrict how much you can put in this account, so you might as well get, while the getting's good, load up this stuff, because the government's only gonna let you do this much per year.
Bo Hanson
We recognize that money is nothing more than a tool that allows us to accomplish the goals that we have. And you guys have made it abundantly clear that being debt free, having the mortgage gone was a goal. And so it's something you pursued aggressively. And so what we have to figure out is when we pursue a goal like that so aggressively, there are other goals that that impacts. And that's kind of what we want to unpack today. Because you guys just said going to age 40, you want to be work optional, right? We want to be able to not have to work if we don't want to. And I'm assuming you don't ever want to have to go back to work. The idea was to be financially independent and stay financially independent. Walk us through currently how you guys are thinking about your account set up and your savings and how you plan on actually exiting at 40.
Emily
We actually have a bit of like a dual fire situation going. So the idea was that we have our traditional retirement accounts coasting, and we project that those can grow upwards of 3 to 4 million by the time we hit 60. So we wanted to let those grow and be a pile of cash waiting for us when we turned 60.
Bo Hanson
Coast Fire.
Emily
Coast fire. Yep. So we have traditional retirement coasting, and then we have this, the brokerage account for early retirement, that would be the bridge fund from age 40 to 60 to get us there. So we were expecting maybe a slightly higher drawdown than like the 4% rule since it's only 20 years. And we've been pretty flexible too, because, like, our work has been, I think, pretty easy. For us to pick up. And so we have a pretty aggressive risk tolerance as well. So we would be using this early retirement brokerage fund and drawing down from that. And then at 60, that's kind of where I admit, like it starts to get a little overwhelming for me because then you got Social Security stuff and then we could have a really big pile of cash sitting there and it's like, oh, we got to figure it out.
Brian Preston
Or maybe not.
Emily
Or maybe not.
Brian Preston
Maybe you had a great 20 year run. What happens now?
Emily
Right. So I guess that's kind of the two piles of money that we're looking to use for like early retirement and then traditional retirement.
Bo Hanson
So two different piles of money, two different goals to fund. How are you guys saving currently?
Emily
We're actually boosting up the emergency fund. It's actually at about 40,000 now. Awesome. So ideally we want to get that suit closer to 100,000 to help us offset the sequence of returns risk once we do retire. So we'll have that there. And really everything is piling into the brokerage pretty much. We're going to continually add a little bit to that high yield savings for the emergency fund and then the rest is just going to early retirement, which I'm like, should I probably put some into, like the sep. Ira, I think.
Bo Hanson
I'm going to reiterate what you said. So if we think about these two goals that you have, right? We have this one early retirement goal from age 40 to 60, but then there is this secondary goal that's like 60 to the rest of our life.
Brian Preston
Right.
Bo Hanson
Like it's kind of what we're thinking through and where your mind has been from a savings standpoint is, hey, everything that we're gonna say we wanna save to fund that first goal. We wanna make sure we get through that hurdle first. Correct.
Emily
Our complete focus right now has been this early retirement fund, awesome annual income.
Brian Preston
What's that? Who's making what?
Kenji
Currently that is almost exclusively mine. She has started picking up her side business as well, but mine's been pretty steady. I would say the last, what, four.
Emily
Yeah, at least four or five years. It's been probably between the 200 to 250 mark. And then, yeah, I'm just starting to ramp up my income.
Brian Preston
I'm noticing 0 to 100. 0 to 100, meaning that y' all are all in on one behavior. Do y' all have. I mean, are you open? If we figure out that you're doing a lot of things right, Are you open? If we figure out that maybe on or off is not the y'. All more binary with the decision making, why we're here.
Bo Hanson
Right.
Emily
I'm totally open. For me, the way that I work best has always been focus on one thing, because it gets really overwhelming for me if I don't. And then before it was a lot of like, invest in the hsa, invest in this, invest in that. And then I'm like, I want to retire early. I want to retire early.
Bo Hanson
So I'm just going to do this one thing.
Emily
One thing. Just get it done.
Bo Hanson
Well, let's. Okay, let's test it. Let's test the plan. See. See how that's. See how that's going, right?
Emily
Yes.
Bo Hanson
All right, so you guys have said, all right, we're going to fund all the money that we have, all the savings we're going to do into this after tax account. So if we think about it really, from now at age 35 until 40, we're going to be growing those assets. So here's what we said, all right. If we have initial starting value of $532,000, we're going to be conservative on our rate of return. I think 6% is low, but again, coast fire is a pretty risky endeavor. There's a lot of variables that can affect it. So we'd rather be much more conservative in our assumptions and things turn out better than we planned for, then be aggressive and say, uh, oh, uh, oh, didn't think through that. So 6% rate of return, you guys have let us know that you're saving about $7,000 a month into that after tax account from age 35 to 40. And then what we said, and we've kind of had some back and forth conversations around this on what your burn rate is. Again, you said you have a young child at home, two years old, right?
Emily
Yep.
Bo Hanson
Lot's gonna happen in the next 20 years, just in terms of, like, what that looks like. And so again, we rather be very conservative in our assumptions as opposed to being overly aggressive.
Kenji
Right.
Bo Hanson
This. We're doing our 3D glasses. We kind of want to focus on that bottom D, that doo doo plan. What happens if it's worse than we planned for? Right. So we said, okay, what if we assume that from age 40 to 60, you have an $8,500 a month burn rate? We want that to increase with inflation every year at 3%. Do all those seem reasonable and in line with what you guys have been talking about, conversations you've been having?
Emily
Yeah, I would say so.
Kenji
She's been running through a lot of Simulations of all the Monte Carlo.
Bo Hanson
I love it. That's great.
Emily
But yeah, I would definitely say, transparently I would say that I am definitely a pretty optimistic person. So this is really good though to help. I think reality check me awesome because I do higher rate of returns, but I think I need this, I need this kind of reality check to keep me grounded.
Bo Hanson
Well, so you. I just want to make sure I understand this. So when it comes to modeling, you model high rates of return, but when it comes to things like debt arbitrage and paying off the debt, it wasn't given that there were going to be high rates of return. I just want to make sure. Do you see there's a conflict? There's a conflict.
Emily
I guess I didn't really think about that.
Bo Hanson
Right. Like you model a higher rate, but if you believe that there really was going to be a high rate, then paying off a 2.3% mortgage would not have made mathematical sense.
Emily
I guess it's kind of, it's more, it's like a mindset thing for me. Definitely it wasn't a math thing.
Brian Preston
You know, the thing is Kenji said, I'm giving you a lot of control. So we just want to make sure your blind spots are accounted for too. You guys are doing incredible things. We just have to make sure that we protect you from those blind spots so you don't get yourself in a pickle of a situation. Because if you do all the planning off of the dream man, life is going to. You have a two year old, so you already know life has a sense of humor. It's up to creating the three sides of the plan to make sure that nothing derails through this.
Bo Hanson
If we're starting with $532,000 of after tax assets, we're going to save $7,000 a month. By the time you get to 40, it turns into a really substantial sum of assets. Right. Again, this is assuming 6% rate of return. Fairly conservative. Just your bridge account, just that first account is going to be about $1.2 million. Okay, let's pause there for a moment. That's pretty awesome. Yeah, I think that's exactly the number you're shooting for a million dollars in after tax assets at age 40. Is that the number that you were shooting for?
Emily
A big question mark for us was healthcare subsidies. And so that's kind of in flux right now. So I think if there were more subsidies, I think 1.2 was around that number. But without them, 1.4 or 5 would be a little bit safer for us. So that's not too far from the range.
Bo Hanson
So we're in line. Great. We have these two different goals, these two different bosses. On the Game of Life, we're trying to beat boss number one, and then big boss number two.
Kenji
Oh, now I get it.
Brian Preston
Right.
Bo Hanson
I was trying to get it brought.
Brian Preston
It back to like Super Mario.
Emily
That's what I was thinking.
Bo Hanson
Right. When we get to age 40, we want to think about what do your three buckets look like at that point? Because again, we've let the other retirement assets just kind of coast, at least for the next five years. And so when we get there, your tax deferred, your pre tax bucket will be about $570,000. Your tax free or Roth bucket will be about 235,000, and then your after tax will be 1.2 million. Now, what we did is we assumed the after tax only grows at 6%. Again, we'll be very conservative with that account. But for your retirement accounts, we did say we'll grow them at 7.5%. That's even still a little conservative. But for you guys, you're young, and if you're checking out and you're going to do coast fire, you want to be conservative in the assumptions to make sure that you're not overly rosy.
Brian Preston
Does any part of y' all, like, twitch a little bit that some of the Roth and stuff is not getting maximized? Does that bother you at all?
Emily
Yeah, well, I guess that was a question I had for you is that I was nervous that the pro rata rule applied to us, so I didn't do any conversions. And especially with our, the tax bracket that we're in right now, I also wanted to be double safe. So I think for me, I see that tax free number and I'd like it to be a lot higher. But I was just concerned about getting hit with a huge tax bill if I did something wrong.
Bo Hanson
Right, we'll walk you through that.
Emily
Spoiler alert.
Bo Hanson
Okay, so if this is what we have to work with, $1.2 million, we really need that account to bridge us from age 40 to 60, because we can't technically get access to these other retirement accounts until 59 and a half. So we said, okay, well, how's this play out? If we're going to be withdrawing $8,500 a month and we're going to grow that with inflation, you know, 85 today won't be the same as 8510 years from now. How does that play out? If we just think in linear terms. And again, you already mentioned Monte Carlo. Obviously, the way that you would want to do this is run it through Monte Carlo simulation with a number of variables. But just conceptually, we want to show you sort of a linear illustration of how this looks. What you can see is if you have $1.2 million and you do have that high withdrawal rate that you've already acknowledged, right. If you're pulling out $8,500 a month, it's gonna be like an 8.5% withdrawal rate on that 1.2. What actually ends up happening is that by age 52, the bridge account's empty.
Emily
Okay.
Bo Hanson
All right, let me pause there for a moment. What do you guys think about that? How do you feel about that?
Emily
I thought the number would be closer to like a. Maybe like a 6% drawdown. But even still, that might just push us out a few more years. So I think we need to maybe not be so aggressive. I'm like. Or optimistic. And be a little bit more conservative in our art, because I don't want to be 52 and then be like, oh, Kenji, go back to streaming.
Bo Hanson
You're getting. That's the hard conversation.
Brian Preston
Your instincts are spot on because this assumption we went Like Bo mentioned earlier, put on your 3D glasses. We've gone full doo doo here. And the fact that this is assuming you're spending all of this and not actually putting any money in the background to offset this. Right, we know that, and that's the part. But you're in conflict in the fact that you create this great income from something you love doing. But you are kind of the servant to content creator, by the way. We resent. Oh, yeah, we love it as the greatest job in the world. But you, man, you do you feel under the thumb that you have to keep creating because the machine gets mad if you don't create.
Kenji
Oh, that's for sure the case.
Brian Preston
So you said something earlier is that I would love to do it because I want to, not because I have to. But it is still a big threshold decision if you ever dial down the quantity. Because we know that our overlord algorithms, they don't like it when you dial down the content amount. But we can probably put some assumption that there's going to be something coming in.
Bo Hanson
If this is the strategy that you guys wanted to perpetrate, you wanted to do this thing where we focus on this first boss, this first goal, this first hurdle, first what would be required to make it work. And we said, well, obviously the thing that would be required to make it work would be some sort of supplemental income. And so we just kind of did some reverse engineering to say, okay, how much income would Kinji need to be bringing in in order for this. This plan that you guys currently have in place to work? And the answer is $4,250 a month. And we said, again, to be conservative, let's just not even inflation adjust that. So Even though our $8,500 monthly need is increasing with inflation, we just assume that every month from age 40 until 60, you could generate about 43.42.50 in income. Does that seem reasonable?
Kenji
Yeah, I think so. For sure. Especially since I think her stuff is gonna start taking off a little bit as well. So, you know, it's gonna be like, even if mine goes down, you know, I think she'll also offset some of that.
Bo Hanson
This again, what we're trying to do is we reverse engineering how to make your plan work. And if the plan that you have right now in place is the one you want to stick to, this would be a way to possibly make that work. Now, what it does do is it actually ends up depleting your entire taxable account. So when we get to age 60. So we just conquered first boss.
Kenji
Yeah.
Emily
Right.
Bo Hanson
Now, when we get to the big boss, this is what you have to work with. At that point, again, assuming a 7.5% rate of return, your pre tax, your tax deferred assets will have grown to about $2.5 million and your Roth assets will have grown to a little over a million bucks. So here you sit with like 3.5, $3.6 million. Give me some thoughts on that. How does that feel and sound when I'm 60?
Kenji
That sounds great, right?
Emily
I mean, I'm sure inflation adjusted, it's not going to feel as much as it does now, but still, I mean, that feels and sounds like a comfortable number to me.
Bo Hanson
I want you to bottle up and say that feels nice and comfortable because we're going to come back and visit this. No, no, no. I just want you to.
Emily
Ow, man.
Bo Hanson
Yeah, it seems like it's bottling it up.
Kenji
We're going to shake it and then.
Bo Hanson
This seems like it's gonna be great.
Commercial Narrator
This episode is brought to you by Rumchata, a delicious creamy blend of horchata with rum. It's best enjoyed over ice or in your coffee. Rumchata. Delivering vacation vibes any way or anywhere you drink it. Find out more@rumchata.com Drink responsibly. Caribbean rum with real dairy cream, natural and artificial flavors. Alcohol 13.75% by volume 27.5 proof. Copyright 2025 Agave Loco Brands, Pojoaquee, Wisconsin. All rights reserved. This episode is brought to you by Amazon Business. We could all use more time Amazon Business offers smart business buying solutions so you can spend more time growing your business and less time doing the admin. I can see why they call it smart. Learn more@amazonbusiness.com.
Bo Hanson
I do want to be clear what we've tried to lay out here is okay, what would be required in order for the plan that you guys in place to now we're going to have tons of people in the comments. We're going to have tons of people that are acknowledging no no, no. When you're part of fire. When you're part of fine. There are other strategies available than just the after tax account and so we'd be remiss if we didn't just briefly mention yes, there are some different strategies you could carry out. You could, during this period from 40 to 60, you could do Roth conversion ladders where essentially you convert some of your pre tax assets into Roth assets to create basis that you could access now, now there's going to be a tax cost of that. So it's going to cause the taxable account to like wane even more quickly. So but that is an option. The second option we could potentially look at is 72T distributions, which is a special part of the tax code where you can take substantially equal periodic payments from your retirement accounts if you structure them a certain way. So if you needed to create income from pre tax accounts, technically you could do that and not have to pay the 10% penalty. So that's. And the third option is you do have some Roth assets and we know that when it comes to Roth we can pull basis out penalty free and tax free. So again, if you depleted that after tax account, there are some ways for you to do that. But all of those, everything that I just laid out kind of has you sort of pulling away from your second boss to conquer the first boss.
Kenji
This game's too hard.
Bo Hanson
You know what I mean? Right? Like so that's the. Because when we think about this visually, you have this first goal, you have this first hurdle, you want to make it over getting to age 60 and we can celebrate that and be like yes, we did it, we made it. But in our view, getting from 40 to 60 is not nearly as significant of a hurdle to have crossed over than getting from 60 to all the way through the rest of your life. You live to 90, 100, 100 plus whatever that number may be for you guys. Because it's likely going to be easier to go back to work between 40 and 60. If something goes, oh, between 60 and 100, it might be hard to go back. It may be hard to be.
Emily
Are you saying a 60 year old couldn't be a 2020?
Brian Preston
We could come up with a whole new thing. I'm closer to this 60, and I can tell you, nobody wants to see me playing streaming. That's not where my income is going to come from.
Bo Hanson
So we acknowledge there's this second goal we have to make sure that we appropriately account for. You've already laid out for us. You have this, this personality trait where when I have a goal, I get fixated and I want to solve that. And what we want to be careful of is you don't just solve the first goal of what I'm going to call your sabbatical or pre retirement retirement at the cost of the second goal.
Emily
Of the bigger one.
Bo Hanson
So let's talk a little bit about the second goal, the second boss we have to beat. We've already laid out for you what your retirement assets will do. They're starting with about what, half a million dollars. And if they just grew at that 7.5% by the time you get to age 60, that's going to be worth about $3.6 million. Which sounds, remember I said bottle it up. This sounds great. Sounds amazing. Sounds awesome. If we were to then just assume 4% withdrawal rate, you know, reasonable withdrawal rate on that sum of dollars, and then we were to bring those dollars back into today's terms, we feel comfortable that $3.6 million for you guys at age 60 could generate about $70,000 each year.
Brian Preston
Okay, yeah, you're seeing the problem.
Emily
That's about the lifestyle we have now, or maybe a little less. But I think I would want a little more comfort in traditional retirement.
Bo Hanson
Well, what we laid out, remember, was that this, during your 40 to 60, you were living off of $8,500 a month.
Brian Preston
But y' all had told us internally seven grand a month or close to 85,000.
Emily
Yeah, yeah.
Brian Preston
So we're still even with Yalls optimistic number because we felt like we wanted to be conservative. There's still a spread there of $15,000. As y' all know life. Do you want to go less or do you want to maybe have a little cushion of margin? Because there's no going back. There's no, like. Because once you cross this threshold and you know it's hard to get the water back up the hill.
Emily
I mean, it's a big decision that's totally fair. And I think, like, actually seeing it laid out and, you know, we also want to be. I mean, I won't speak for Kenji, I'll let you speak for. But I want to be really generous with our money too. And so it's not necessarily about like, like just having all these luxurious things. It's like I want to give a lot too. I want more money for that as well, to be able to be more generous. So, I mean, what does that number look like for you, Kenji?
Kenji
I mean, I could live in a shack as long as I have Internet. So I, I guess as long as.
Bo Hanson
I have Internet, I can live in a shack.
Kenji
I mean, I guess I want to, you know, I want to travel a bit more and stuff as well. So I, I would expect the difference between our yearly expenditures now and when we're older. I think it would be.
Brian Preston
Curve balls.
Kenji
Yes.
Brian Preston
Kids, education, things, activities. I would probably lean more towards the conservative that there's going to be things that are going to actually squeeze on that back pocket more than you're probably realizing.
Kenji
Maybe we want our annual cash flow closer. If it's like 85 now, we want it close to 100 plus.
Emily
Yeah, yeah. And I think I probably, I'm sure you will both get to it, but I probably need to check those blind spots, start investing a little bit more in the traditional retirement accounts.
Bo Hanson
Well, so that's what, so that's where we, that's where we went with this. We said, okay, this, in our opinion, this does not get you there. But let's again, reverse engineer. That's the beautiful thing.
Brian Preston
I love your numbers. It's almost like we coordinated this. It's almost like we have a crystal ball ourselves. Because look at what we've done. We built it up to $102,000.
Kenji
That's what I meant to say. Not 100.
Bo Hanson
That's right, 100. If we just reverse engineer and say that's the standard of living you would like to have, $102,000. So that way you're not essentially taking a pay cut. When you go from first retirement to second retirement, you live the same lifestyle. In order to do that, we think the pot of assets you would actually need to grow to by age 60 would be closer to like 5.3 million.
Emily
Okay, right.
Bo Hanson
So 3.6 is kind of what you're on track for. 5.3 is what we're saying you should probably shoot for Let me pause there for a moment. Does that sound daunting or difficult or something like, oh, man, that's like a whole lot more money. How are we gonna do that?
Kenji
I mean, it sounds like a lot, but I realize or I understand that, you know, the compounding interest is stuff. 25 years I tried to teach him.
Brian Preston
I tried.
Kenji
It sounds like a lot, but I guess from 3.6 to 5.3 maybe is not as much as we think.
Brian Preston
It's a course correction.
Kenji
Yeah, yeah.
Brian Preston
Little decisions have big results.
Kenji
I don't know what that course correction looks like, but I know it's probably not as bad as you're mindful.
Emily
I thought it was a trick question, but I was like, it might not be as much as we think.
Bo Hanson
Here's what we said. We said, okay, you know what? Let's not cause them to start eating beanie weenies and not being able to. Let's have the same cash outflow. What if they were gonna save the same amount of money, but we just wanted to save it a little bit differently?
Brian Preston
Optimize.
Bo Hanson
Right now you guys are saving $84,000 a year, $7,000 every month going into the Abtrax account. Well, if instead of doing that, what if we maximized our retirement opportunities available to us? That is where we can talk about things like doing Roth contributions or maybe backdoor ro looking at a solo 401k, because that might be a great solution to have in place for you guys that would remove some of the pro rata rule stuff that you're concerned about. What if we could save $45,000 to the retirement account and still be saving $39,000 into the bridge account? So we're still saving over $3,000 a month into that after tax account. We're still growing it at the same level of cash outflow. How would that change the plan? What concession would we have to make? Well, as we lay that out for you guys, instead of stopping at 40, if you could do that until age 43, what that then allows your retirement assets to do is go from 35 at 5:53 to by 43 when you actually start your coast. Instead of starting your coast at 40, starting at 43, you have about a million and a half dollars in assets in retirement. If you let that million and a half dollars in assets in retirement grow to $5.3 million, you don't have to add anything else to it. You don't have to keep saving. It has you working for three additional years.
Emily
That's only putting, like the 3,000 something.
Brian Preston
In the early retirement account, but also three years.
Bo Hanson
Because remember, if you work for an additional three years, that's three years that you're not having to live off the bridge account. That's three years that you're creating income. So when we actually look at how that plays from sort of like a bar chart standpoint, what you can see is instead of exiting at 40, you actually build your bridge account. It still gets to $1.2 million. Even though you're saving less, you're just doing it for three more years. You're still able to draw that down $8,500 a month, assuming that you still have the supplemental income of 4,250 coming in. And then at the age 60, you still have after tax assets left over.
Emily
Well, I'm going to be honest, this sounds a lot better than the other charts you showed me. I didn't, I didn't realize my initial personality trait was 3000 in the early retirement thing isn't going to be nearly enough. It's going to take so, so much longer. And then when you're like only three years.
Brian Preston
But that's why it's important to actually do the planning is because it's back to that mentality even of debt crusading is that you're thinking, well, let's just do this and it'll all work out. And that's great. But you quickly find out this is the power of compounding interest. Those small little decisions do have huge results. Don't sleep on the little stuff is because we're using the same dollar amount of money. It's just different decision matrix. And that different decision matrix is going to lead you in a completely different direction.
Emily
I love how optimized this is because I'm very frugal by nature, so I'm all about value and optimizing. So I'm very shocked I haven't addressed this yet, but I feel good about that.
Kenji
There's a little bar at 60 as well.
Emily
You can get a new streaming computer.
Kenji
It's not empty.
Emily
This looks amazing.
Bo Hanson
There's a number of different variables that you guys get to change. Like we showed the one where, okay, what if you save the same amount, but you just work a little bit longer? There's another scenario that we didn't model. This is homework for you guys to do. Hey, what if we just save more if we still want to leave at 40, how much more would we need to save to be able to do that? You guys have done the hard work from poverty, from Food stamps. Till now, you've made the hard decisions that put you in the driver's seat where you do get to pick and choose what your future looks like. You just have to make sure you finish the drill. Well, don't exit too early without making sure that you have a plan that will actually get you to that great big beautiful tomorrow that you want.
Emily
Oh, I don't want the tissue again. This feels. This is exactly what I was hoping for, like coming here and talking to you. And I'm so proud of, like, both of us, of being able to build this together. And like, thank you for trusting me to help manage things. Of course. We always talk about and like. But still, it's just the fact that this actually could be a reality and we're pretty close and I love the optimizing. It's just, it's like overwhelming. Wow.
Kenji
I turn in the homework to the teacher and the teacher is getting graded.
Bo Hanson
By her directors or whatever.
Kenji
This is good.
Emily
This feels really good.
Bo Hanson
The planning is not done in our view. The planning for you guys has just started we wanted to lay out because obviously you have an affinity for this. You've been doing your own Monte Carlos, you've been doing your own analysis. What questions can we answer for you guys that'll be helpful as you go back to do your own planning?
Emily
Where I get the most wary is taxes. And I don't want to make a mistake there. So we currently have a SEP IRA for him. These traditional retirement accounts. Like, which one do I choose? Like, what's right for us.
Bo Hanson
So let's look at your net worth statement again. Let's look at how your accounts are currently structured. So when we look at you guys right now and Kenji, I'm going to just use your accounts. You have a traditional IRA that has $56,000 in it. You have a SEP IRA that has $74,000 in it for your entity, for your enterprise, for the work you do. Do you have any employees? No. It's just you, right?
Kenji
Just me.
Bo Hanson
So that's how you're able to do a SEP contribution. And every year you're able to contribute 20% of your net operating profit. Depending on how you're structured and how you pay yourself, you're able to make that contribution. One of the beautiful things is if you were to have a Solo 401K. And these days, Solo 401Ks and SEP IRAs aren't all that different. They still allow you to accomplish some of the same goals. But solo 401ks don't just allow for an employer contribution. It also allows for employee contributions. So you can do salary deferrals up to $23,500 plus a profit sharing component. So you're able to save in a really healthy manner inside of Solo. But where it opens up additional planning is once you have that account open and you can open at any of the major custodians, you can open them at Fidelity or Vanguard or Charles Schwab, wherever you guys like, like to hold your assets, you can then consolidate some of his pre tax accounts. You can move his traditional IRA into the Solo 401K. You can move the SEP IRA into the Solo 401K. Once you've done that, all of your pre tax assets are now held inside a 401k account. There are no more outside IRA assets. So the pro rata rule for backdoor Roths does not apply anymore. So once you move those two accounts into the Solo, then you can start doing backdoor Roths every single year. Put $7,000 into traditional after tax, don't take a deduction, convert it to Roth, do it again next year. Over and over and over and over.
Kenji
We're need this in writing.
Emily
So you guys should do this for a living. You're pretty good at this. That's exactly the kind of direction that I was looking for because I've been so paralyzed by fear of like if I do something wrong. All of a sudden we're going to get this huge tax bill and we're in this higher income tax bracket. Like I don't want to mess it up. So I've just left it. Just to clarify. So you said we can move his traditional IRA to the Solo 401k, but then we could also move his Roth IRA somewhere.
Bo Hanson
Or you wouldn't want to move the Roth.
Brian Preston
You wouldn't want to move that alone.
Bo Hanson
You leave the Roth alone because that's every year. So you're going to move his traditional, that's 56,000 into solo. So traditional has $0 in it. You're going to move the SEP in there too. So that's going to have $0 in it every year. You're going to put 7,000 into that traditional. You're not going to take a tax deduction. It's going to be an after tax contribution and you're going to convert that into the Roth ira. So it's going to move from the traditional account into the Roth ira.
Brian Preston
The pro rata rule exists because there's IRA assets. We're going to this structure that Beau is laying out removes all those traditional IRA assets out of your portfolio.
Emily
So we're cleaning out that traditional IRA and now we have a beautiful place to do conversion.
Bo Hanson
That's right. Exactly right. For your stuff that you are now ramping up, do you have any employees?
Emily
No, just.
Bo Hanson
Are you generating income from it?
Emily
Yes.
Bo Hanson
So right now you could also do the exact same thing with a solo 401k for yourself. So you could have a solo 401k for your business and you could have one for your business. And you can implement both strategies in the same way to open up backdoor Roths for both of you guys.
Brian Preston
The only curve ball you're going to run into, Emily, is your traditional IRA is a much bigger account. And the only catch with solo is realize these things were set up by the government to incentivize small business owners to set up retirement savings vehicles that was very similar to what Fortune 500 employees could have. The limitation is once they get over like $250,000, a lot of the tax filings, the 5,500s and other things they exempt you out of now start showing back up on the scene. It's not a deal breaker. It just means you have to actually now start complying with some of those things. So if you did this, you just want to make sure you're going in with your eyes fully open so that you stay compliant on all the processes.
Bo Hanson
It's not hard. It's a box. You have to check.
Brian Preston
Yeah, it's like most things. Remember what I always talk about on the show is we can tell you everything because building wealth is actually pretty simple. But that doesn't mean that complications don't just start showing up as the success shows up. You realize it is so hard for us to create content and data on a 5 year, 20 year, 40 year, because just so much of life is going to happen. What I get so excited about with you guys is if you were like a client of the firm. Every year we update all these things and we course correct. So every one of those 1% differences that we're changing the direction that are creating huge results. We get to kind of in real time adjust that for you guys on your personal situation. So everything is not maximized on a five year basis. Not on a 10 year, 20 year, but every year we figure out what tweaks we need to do to give you the best version. And so that way we can figure out, do y' all need to save more or do we just need to change the structure of how we're funding this. That's the stuff you hear, the excitement in both of our voices because that's where the magic stuff happens. It really is. We take very successful people. You guys are super successful. And we get to tweak it and get you the best version of it.
Emily
Honestly, I've been asking myself that, are we at a point now of wealth where maybe we should consider working with like a financial fiduciary or somebody to help? Because this is starting to get into like the hard mode of the game, right? Like, like you said, like more money, more problems, or more complexity. And so I have been like talking to Kenji too. I'm like, you know, like, there's a point at which my knowledge extends and like ends. And I think this could be an opportunity for like you're saying, like getting more of that real time help of like course correcting. I don't want to just set it and forget it. And then 10, 20 years from now.
Bo Hanson
I'm like, but man, I wish I would have.
Emily
Right?
Bo Hanson
Yeah.
Emily
Yeah, exactly.
Brian Preston
My favorite video game growing up was Contra. They came out that if you went up, down, left, right, left, right, ba they'd give you 30 lives. You realize it was a cheat code because it now allowed what I couldn't do in three lives, I could do in 30 lives. You realize you've only got one financial life. So if you don't, if you screw it up, you got the three. You don't get the three. You get one.
Emily
No, she can't.
Brian Preston
So if you don't know, we are the cheat code because we are done. We are the up, down, up, down, left, right, left, right, bas. Because we give you, you know, because we've done this hundreds of times. We know where all the pitfalls are and all the struggles are. So that's what I know you've been doing, boss, and all these other. But I kept going, man. The Contra code has to come in here somewhere because that is the way this kind of works financially as well.
Kenji
I want to make the best play is what they say. The play that gives you the most chance to win, you can make. You can make the. And still lose, right?
Brian Preston
Yep.
Kenji
Because that'll happen sometimes in life. But as long as you did what was going to, in theory, give you the best chances, then I'm happy. So as long as we get that plan settled in motion, there's actually a.
Bo Hanson
Third boss, and it's not really a boss. Once you've beaten the game, then you get to do some pretty fun stuff. And we thought A visual representation of this would get you excited. Once you get past the first hurdle and then once you get past the second hurdle, then, then you get to actually do the stuff that you mentioned at the very beginning. Hey, I want to be generous, I want to leave a leg, I want to do other things. I need to make sure that I make decisions with my money so that I can solve the problems that I have. But once I've solved those problems, then I get to do what I want, when I want, how I want, and have the impact that I want to have. And that when you get to that part of the journey, that's when the game gets really, really fun. Here's your homework. You ready, guys?
Emily
Ready?
Bo Hanson
Number one, we're going to give you copies of all this. Everything we've gone over, we're going to send to you. We want you to rework the assumptions, work the assumpt based on what you feel comfortable with, and do it in sort of a 3D fashion. The dream which you've got down the down to earth, which is probably even a little better than we've laid out. And then the do do what we've kind of laid out. Very conservative. We then want you to take this and either do it yourself or consider finding a professional to help. Because once you have the assumptions and then you want to do the Monte Carlo test. We've all done linear straight line assumptions. What we'd really want to do is run a Monte Carlo simulation saying, okay, okay, what's our probability success with this group of factors? Okay, what if we change this? How does our probability change and continue to iterate through the process as you're doing that, we want you to optimize. You guys should do some research around. Hey, should we be doing solo 401ks? If we do solo 401ks, does that mean that we can then consolidate our IRA assets? If we then consolidate our IRA assets, does that mean that now we can start doing backdoor roths and really starting to optimize? You guys are in a great spot. You are in the driver's seat.
Emily
You had me nervous for a while. I was thinking, but wait, there's more.
Bo Hanson
You guys are great. You're in an awesome, awesome spot. And I think there's a lot of people out there gonna look to you guys say, man, I want to be able to recreate and do what they've.
Brian Preston
Been able to do. Bo, if others want to know how to do exactly what Emily and Kenji have done, where do they need to go?
Bo Hanson
Yeah, if you'd like to be a guest on Making a Millionaire, you can go to moneyguy.com apply or or if you'd like to check out any of our free tools and resources, you can go to moneyguide.com resources thank you so much.
Brian Preston
I'm your host, Brian Preston. Mr. Bo Hansen MoneyGuide team out making.
Bo Hanson
A Millionaire is hosted by Bryan Preston and Bo Hanson. Brian and Bo are partners at Abound Wealth Management. Abound Wealth Management is a registered investment advisory firm regulated by the securities and Exchange Commission. In accordance and compliance with the securities laws and regulations, Abound Wealth Management does not render or offer to render personalized investment or tax advice through Making A Millionaire. The information provided is for informational purposes only, may not be suitable for all investors, and does not constitute financial, tax, investment or legal advice. All investments involve a degree of risk, including the risk of loss. The guests featured on Making a Millionaire are not clients of Abound Wealth Management at the time of recording. Their participation should not be considered a testimonial or endorsement of Abound Wealth Management.
Hosts: Brian Preston & Bo Hanson
Guests: Emily & Kenji
Date: October 27, 2025
In this episode, Brian and Bo help guests Emily and Kenji—mid-30s millionaires with a net worth of about $2.2 million—analyze if their dream of early retirement (i.e., "work optional" by age 40) is truly feasible. The discussion dives deep into FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) tactics, sustainable withdrawal strategies, saving and investing allocation, and the importance of course-correcting as they approach retirement. The hosts emphasize real-life planning, the dangers of being overly optimistic, and the power of optimization, all while maintaining a practical and encouraging tone.
"I never want to feel that pressure to go back." —Emily (02:13)
"For us, it was really about the freedom...If times were tough, we're not going to lose our home." —Emily (08:47)
"We have our traditional retirement accounts coasting...and then we have this brokerage account for early retirement." —Emily (12:45)
"If you're pulling out $8,500 a month...it's gonna be like an 8.5% withdrawal rate on that $1.2M...by 52, the bridge account's empty." —Bo (21:33)
"When we think about this visually...you have this first goal, you have this first hurdle...But in our view, getting from 40 to 60 is not nearly as significant of a hurdle as 60 to all the way through the rest of your life." —Bo (27:35)
"What if we just save more if we still want to leave at 40, how much more would we need to save to be able to do that?" —Bo (36:21)
"Don't sleep on the little stuff...It's just different decision matrix. And that different decision matrix is going to lead you in a completely different direction." —Brian (35:36)
"Once you have that account open...you can then consolidate some of his pre-tax accounts...all of your pre-tax assets are now held inside a 401k account—no more outside IRA assets. So the pro-rata rule for backdoor Roths does not apply anymore." —Bo (39:51)
"You've only got one financial life...If you screw it up...You get one." —Brian (44:21)
On the reality of their wealth:
"Did you ever think that you would be in this position?" –Bo (07:25)
"For me, from coming from nothing, it's kind of mind-blowing." –Emily (07:38)
On sequence of returns risk and the bridge fund:
"We're actually boosting up the emergency fund...closer to $100,000...to help us offset the sequence of returns risk once we do retire." –Emily (13:49)
Burnout as a motivator:
"I never want to feel that pressure to go back." –Emily (02:13)
Planning for legacy and giving:
"I want to be really generous with our money too...I want more money for that as well." –Emily (30:18)
| Timestamp | Topic / Quote / Moment | |----------------|--------------------------------------------------------------------------| | 00:59-07:00 | Background stories and "Why retire at 40?" | | 07:00-10:59 | Net worth breakdown, debt freedom, and financial decisions | | 12:25-14:42 | "Coast FIRE" structure and current savings approach | | 15:46-25:07 | Modeling early retirement feasibility and the $1.2M bridge account | | 23:15-28:54 | Sustainable withdrawal rates, "boss battle" analogy, and income options | | 28:54-33:02 | Traditional retirement analysis, lifestyle vs. assets mismatch | | 33:02-35:19 | Optimization: shifting more into tax-advantaged accounts | | 38:08-41:25 | Backdoor Roths, solo 401ks, and technical implementation | | 43:21-47:07 | Professional help, cheat codes, and emotional wrap-up |
"You guys have done the hard work...you do get to pick and choose what your future looks like. You just have to make sure you finish the drill." —Bo (36:21, 46:55)
This episode is a roadmap for anyone aiming for early retirement—practical, deeply honest, and empowering throughout.