Escaping the Gender Ideology Cult: True Detrans Stories | 2.1.25

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Episode: Escaping the Gender Ideology Cult: True Detrans Stories | 2.1.25
Release Date: February 1, 2025
Host/Author: The Daily Wire, John Bickley and Georgia Howe
Guest: Mary Margaret Olihan, White House Correspondent and Author of True Stories of Escaping the Gender Ideology Cult

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Introduction: Presidential Executive Order and Book Re-release [00:03 - 01:09]

The episode opens with John Bickley and co-host Georgia Howe discussing a significant political development: President Trump’s recent executive order aimed at protecting children from gender transition procedures. This order marks a stark reversal from the previous Biden administration's pro-trans policies. Bickley states:

"The sweeping order calls subjecting children to these irreversible procedures a stain on our nation’s history and declares the US will no longer fund, sponsor, promote or support the attempted gender transition of a child." (00:20)

In light of this development, the hosts decide to revisit an interview with Mary Margaret Olihan, now the Daily Wire’s White House correspondent, focusing on her upcoming book about detransitioners.

Guest Introduction and Book Overview [01:09 - 01:30]

John Bickley introduces Mary Margaret Olihan and her new book, True Stories of Escaping the Gender Ideology Cult. Olihan responds enthusiastically:

"Thanks so much for having me. This is so fun to talk about my book on Morning Wire." (01:09)

Profiles of Detransitioners [01:13 - 03:53]

Olihan delves into the core of her book, highlighting the narratives of young individuals who underwent gender transitions during their teenage years. She emphasizes the irreversible physical and mental changes experienced by these detransitioners. For instance, Chloe Cole underwent a double mastectomy at 16, and others like Preesha Mosley and Abel Garcia faced similar life-altering procedures.

"Some of these girls could no longer scream or cry. And they found that really disturbing. Mentally, a lot of these girls were describing extreme rage and very increased sexual urges." (02:18)

Olihan discusses the lack of informed consent, as these teenagers were unaware of the long-term implications of hormone treatments and surgeries, leading many to pursue legal action.

Onset of Transition and Medical Interventions [03:06 - 05:47]

The conversation shifts to the age at which these transitions began, predominantly during the teens. Olihan provides examples:

"By the time she was 16, Chloe Cole had undergone a double mastectomy and removed her breasts forever." (02:55)

She highlights the financial burden of lifelong hormone treatments and raises concerns about the experimental nature of these medical interventions.

"We still don't know all of the experimental effects that these hormones are going to have on them." (03:53)

Underlying Causes: Family Dynamics and Social Isolation [05:29 - 07:07]

Georgia Howe inquires about the motivations behind these transitions. Olihan reveals that many detransitioners come from unstable family environments, lack supportive faith-based communities, and experience social isolation:

"Most of these young people were not in stable family situations. None of these people that I talked to were playing sports. They largely felt lonely and ostracized at school." (05:29)

She notes that feelings of isolation often drive these individuals to seek identity and companionship online, where they encounter gender ideology.

Medical Process and Rapid Transition Pathways [07:07 - 10:11]

Discussing the medical pathways, Olihan criticizes the rapid and prescriptive approach taken by medical professionals:

"Every single detransitioner I spoke with said they were absolutely fast tracked through the medical system." (05:47)

She explains how initial treatments, like puberty blockers, often lead directly to hormone therapies and surgical procedures without adequate evaluation or consent.

"It just compounds and compounds and compounds. It's very costly, it's very invasive." (06:49)

Parental Involvement and Medical Pressures [10:11 - 13:52]

Bickley asks about parental roles during the transition process. Olihan highlights the immense pressure parents face, often being presented with stark choices by medical professionals:

"The doctors are betraying not just the parents, but also the young person." (07:07)

Parents, usually unversed in gender ideology, are manipulated into believing that supporting their child’s transition is the only way to ensure their well-being, leading to feelings of betrayal and helplessness.

WPATH and Medical Standards of Care [14:02 - 15:44]

The discussion turns to the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH), critiqued by Olihan for lacking genuine expertise and hiding the dangers of current treatments:

"The WPATH files showed that these doctors were aware that sometimes hormones are causing tumors in young people." (08:50)

She predicts a forthcoming reckoning for WPATH, given the recently exposed files that reveal the organization's complicity in promoting experimental and unsafe treatments.

Journey of Detransitioning [16:04 - 18:30]

Bickley inquires about the process of detransitioning. Olihan describes it as traumatic, with individuals realizing they were deceived by the medical system and struggling to reverse irreversible procedures:

"They would go to their doctors, some of them, and say, I don't like this anymore. I don't want to be a man. Can you help me detransition? And the doctors don't want to hear that." (10:11)

She shares the harrowing story of Abby Martinez and her daughter Yaley, whose tragic suicide underscores the severe consequences of misguided gender ideology:

"Yaley threw herself in front of a train and ended her own life. Abby told me that she wants people to know what she's been through so that they can avoid having this happen to their own children." (16:04)

Conclusion and Final Thoughts [18:17 - 18:30]

The episode concludes with Bickley acknowledging the emotional weight of Olihan’s work and emphasizing the importance of sharing these cautionary tales to prevent further tragedies.

"Mary Margaret, thank you so much for coming on and great luck with this book." (18:17)

Mary Margaret Olihan expresses gratitude for the opportunity to share her findings, hoping to shed light on the perils of gender ideology.

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Key Takeaways

• Executive Action Against Gender Transition Procedures: President Trump's executive order seeks to halt government support for gender transition procedures in minors, reversing previous administration policies.

• Detransitioners' Experiences: Many young individuals who underwent gender transitions report severe physical and mental health issues, lack of informed consent, and ongoing struggles post-transition.

• Medical System Critique: The rapid, prescriptive approach in the medical treatment of gender dysphoria is heavily criticized for being invasive, experimental, and dismissive of patient autonomy.

• Parental Challenges: Parents are often caught in a dilemma, pressured by medical professionals to support transitions without fully understanding the implications, leading to feelings of betrayal.

• WPATH Controversy: The World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) is under scrutiny for promoting experimental treatments and concealing adverse effects, signaling a potential downfall.

• Tragic Consequences: The story of Yaley Martinez highlights the profound emotional and societal impacts of enforced gender ideology, emphasizing the urgent need for reevaluating current practices.

• Call for Empathy and Accountability: While some detransitioners maintain respectful relationships with their families, others point to the need for accountability among parents and medical professionals who perpetuate harmful practices.

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Notable Quotes:

• "These are kids we're talking about. And so when they consented supposedly to these procedures, they had no idea what they were getting into." – Mary Margaret Olihan (02:20)

• "It’s very cult like. It’s not scientific, it’s not safe, it’s experimental and cult like, and it’s incredibly scary." – Mary Margaret Olihan (07:07)

• "Yaley threw herself in front of a train and ended her own life." – Mary Margaret Olihan (16:04)

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This episode of Morning Wire provides a comprehensive and poignant exploration of the detransition movement, underscoring the complexities and tragedies entwined with current gender ideology practices. Through personal stories and critical analysis, the podcast invites listeners to reflect on the ethical and medical ramifications of gender transition procedures in minors.

Transcript

[A]

On Tuesday, President Trump signed an executive.

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Order designed to protect children from so.

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Called gender transition procedures, a massive reversal from the Biden administration's aggressive pro trans policies.

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The sweeping order calls subjecting children to.

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These irreversible procedures a stain on our.

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Nation'S history and declares the US Will no longer fund, sponsor, promote or support the attempted gender transition of a child. In light of this watershed moment, we decided to re release an interview we conducted this summer with Mary Margaret Olihan, who's now the Daily Wire's White House correspondent, about her book on the transgender medical industry and the growing number of people who now regret their attempted transition. I'm Daily Wire Editor in Chief John Bickley with Georgia Howe. It's Saturday, February 1st, and this is a special edition of Morning Wire. Joining us now to discuss her new book, D True Stories of Escaping the Gender Ideology Cult is Mary Margaret Olihan, who's now the Daily Wire's White House correspondent. Mary Margaret, thanks for coming on.

[A]

Thanks so much for having me. This is so fun to talk about. My book on morningwire.

[B]

So look, your book Detrans comes out later this month. It tells the true stories of people who have detransitioned. This is a very controversial topic, though. It's becoming something that people are paying increasing attention to. First, tell us something about the people you talked to for this book.

[A]

Yeah, these people I talked to were largely young people who transitioned in their teens or attempted to transition. Right. Because we know that a man can't actually become a woman and a woman can't actually become a man. But that's the lie that they were sold by doctors and therapists and medical professionals. So these young people, including Chloe Cole, Preesha Mosley and Abel Garcia, they went on hormones to try and become another gender. So for the girls, when they would take to testosterone, they would notice all these bizarre physical and mental changes. For example, their hair changed, their skin got coarser, their voices got really deep. Some of the girls could no longer scream or cry. And they found that really disturbing. And then mentally, a lot of these girls were describing extreme rage and very increased sexual urges. They said that they sort of felt like they were going through a male puberty, but at the same time kind of felt like they were going through female menopause in their teenage years. So just really confusing, disturbing emotional and physical side effects that they weren't actually able to give informed consent for. These are kids we're talking about. And so when they consented supposedly to these procedures, they had no idea what they were getting into. So now a lot of them are suing. Right.

[B]

And I want to get to those lawsuits soon. But what age did these transitions begin?

[A]

Most of these transitions began when these young people were in their teens. So Chloe Cole, by the time she was 16, had undergone a double mastectomy and removed her breasts forever.

[B]

So sometimes surgeries. And I assume that all of them underwent hormone treatments as well, correct?

[A]

Yes, though some of them did it in different orders. For example, Luca Hein, a young woman who was trying to become a man, got a double mastectomy before she went on hormones. And these hormones, I should add, are a costly investment for young people that they're going to continue taking for the majority of their lives. I remember Matt Walsh did a really great investigation on these. Young people are often gaining hormones and how they're accessing them and the kind of profits that organizations are making from giving hormones to young people, older people, to try and change their bodies. And we still don't know all of the experimental effects that these hormones are going to have on them.

[B]

Right. More studies are coming out on that with some very troubling findings. Did any of these detransitioners discuss with you what really pushed them over the edge in terms of deciding to transition in the first place?

[A]

Yes, I actually talked to them about this at length because I think it's really, really important to understanding where our culture is at and why so many young people are feeling called to do this. Most of the detransitioners I talked to had a little bit of a turbulent family life. Nothing that we might consider crazy, but many of them had parents who were not doing well in their relationship with one another. They were getting divorced. One young woman who I spoke with had a mother who was alcoholic. Another young man that I spoke had a parent whose relationships weren't great and was largely raised by his grandmother. So most of these young people were not in stable family situations. None of them were in families that were practicing faith, which I found really interesting. None of these people that I talked to were playing sports. They largely felt lonely and ostracized at school. They felt like they either were on the spectrum or they suspected that they were on the spectrum. And that's something that is actually very common for those who are identifying as transgender, is that they are on the spectrum. And so all of these factors were playing into them. Feeling lonely and disconnected at school, not sure whether they were fitting in and looking for identity and companionship in other places, which, unfortunately, in our day and age, often ends up being the Internet.

[B]

Right. And so they saw people promoting this or people in groups that they felt like maybe they could connect with that also had similar feelings. And then at some point, they sought medical help. How did the medical process go? How thorough was the assessment? Was it fast tracked or slow walked? What was the process like for them?

[A]

Oh, every single detransitioner I spoke with said they were absolutely fast tracked through the medical system. I think it was Luca who was just saying yesterday that when she went in and told her therapist that she wondered if she was a boy, it was like she had said the magic words. And from there on out, she was right on the way to her transition. And I think it's worth pointing out that a lot of these transition procedures are very much attached to the next step. So, for example, when Chloe starts talking to her doctors about getting puberty blockers to stunt her puberty, while she supposedly figures out what gender she is, that's what the doctors would tell her. So when she's about to go on puberty blockers, the presumption is the next thing she's gonna do is go on testosterone. And then the presumption from there is that, of course she's going to get a double mastectomy. And the presumption from there is that she might get a hysterectomy. And the presumption from there is that she might wanna get fake male genitalia. So it just compounds and compounds and compounds. It's very costly, it's very invasive. And all of the detransitioners I spoke with said that they just felt like they were put on this road, very little questions asked and sent on their way.

[B]

Did you see patterns in terms of how the parents or the family handled this transition process? Were they involved? Were they worried? Was there pushback?

[A]

Yeah, that's one of the most tragic aspects of this crisis that we're seeing all these young people going through. I would say, largely when it comes to teenagers and young adults who are going through this gender dysphoria and identifying as a girl, identifying as a man, their parents love them and they want to help them. And what the parents are told by the medical system is, would you rather have a dead daughter or a living son? And that's a threat to these parents. They're told by doctors, would you rather have a dead daughter or a living son? And these parents, many of whom are not well versed in politics or gender ideology, they're thinking, my daughter or my son is struggling so much, very obviously mentally struggling, and I want to help them. So I'm going to trust that these doctors know what they're doing. And unfortunately, the doctors are betraying not just the parents, but also the young person. And they're lying and promising things that cannot be attained, including that these surgeries and these procedures will make the young person happy. These doctors shouldn't be promising that. They have no ability to provide that happiness. But that's why I call it a gender ideology cult in the title of my book, because this is very cult like. It's not scientific, it's not safe, it's experimental and cult like, and it's incredibly scary.

[B]

Now, one of the entities that's driving this movement, particularly in the medical industry, is wpath. And a lot of these doctors will cite wpath, what they call standards of care, as sort of their cover for the action that they take, their playbook for how they carry out these procedures. Did you look into wpath?

[A]

So, with the recent expose of the WPATH files, we know that many of these so called experts that are involved with WPATH are actually not experts at all. They're conducting experimental treatments and they're aware that the treatments that they are encouraging and they're conducting are experimental and dangerous. For example, the WPATH files showed that these doctors were aware that sometimes hormones are causing tumors in young people. They were aware that sometimes young people are suffering losses of fertility from taking hormones or puberty blockers. And yet they weren't sharing these things publicly. And, and meanwhile, all of these pro transgender sites and all of these medical organizations will tout the WPATH certifications or the WPATH doctors and media outlets will say things like all major medical organizations support gender affirming care, and they'll cite guess who? Wpath. So it's a very circular little game that they're all playing here in condoning these treatments that we know to be experimental. And I've said this before, but I do think there is a reckoning coming for these doctors involved with wpath. I do believe that that expose of those files was the beginning of the end for this organization, and I hope it is.

[B]

Yeah, we've heard rumblings of lawsuits being filed or in the works, and I wouldn't be surprised if we see some directed their way. So we have this process that you described where these kids that are lonely, often feeling isolated, seek out a sense of identity and then they seek medical help. But now you've talked to some that have come through the other side of this and feel a lot of regret and a Desire to detransition. What was that process like for them, trying to turn around, turn back to who they were biologically?

[A]

Well, it began on a very traumatic note, because to decide to detransition means that all these people have to, first of all, recognize that they were lied to. And so multiple of the detransitioners in my book told me that the moment that they realized that everything was wrong, it all kind of came crashing down around them, because it was really a moment of realizing, oh, my gosh, I'm not happy. I'm still struggling. In fact, I feel worse than I felt before my surgery, before my hormones. And from there on out, they would go to their doctors, some of them, and say, I don't like this anymore. I don't want to be a man. Can you help me detransition? And the doctors don't want to hear that, as I believe it was. Abel Garcia told me when he went to his doctors and asked them to help him detransition, they were telling him, oh, this is just part of your gender journey. And first of all, it's an incredibly insulting and hard thing to hear when you have been through so much suffering and you're asking for help. But also, the doctors made it clear that they, a, didn't know how to help, and B, weren't really interested in trying. So that's something that I'm going to be doing more reporting on is the cowardly doctors who are refusing to help detransitioners who've been very hurt by the medical system, and now they have no medical professionals to help them. So they're going through this process of detransitioning alone, and they're finding that they have a lot of complications from the hormones. They're still figuring out if they're infertile. They're still figuring out what kinds of medical complications they have from the hormones, such as changes in bone density, aches and pains in their shoulders, and in their back. Chloe Cole, for example, her double mastectomy wounds have not fully healed, and it's been years. So these are just a few of the things that they're still trying to deal with and with very little medical help.

[B]

Did you see any pattern in terms of timeline? Was there a consistent pattern, or is this as individual as a person is? I mean, is this months, years later that regret usually starts to kick in?

[A]

I do think it was very individualized, depending on the person I talked to. Luca, for example, was on testosterone for four years before she stopped taking it. Helena was on testosterone for a much shorter time. And thank God Helena did not get a double mastectomy, so she detransitioned more quickly than some of the other ones. But I will say that though there are a lot of patterns in all these detransitioners stories, each one is really unique in the really sad suffering that they went through. And I think they would all tell you that they have very individualized experiences, but they've all started speaking up. Specifically the detransitioners who are, in my book, they go and testify before state lawmakers. They speak very frequently and try and help other people with gender dysphoria. And they would tell you that detransition is not the end and that they're living very fruitful and exciting lives. Preesha Mosley, for example, is about to have a baby, which is honestly a miracle, given what she has been through. So that's something that I'm really happy for her and excited to see her start a family.

[B]

Speaking of families, we talked about how much they supported or not the transition process. What about the detransition process? Did you see any patterns there with.

[A]

The families in terms of detransitioning? That is something that's very hard for the detransitioner to tell their parents, because in Luca's case, her parents hadn't wanted her to transition. They were nervous, they were scared, but they thought that it was the best thing to do. They were told by doctors that it was the best thing for their daughter, and she herself had to convince them to go through with it. So she said that when she called her mother to tell her this was all a mistake, it was one of the hardest conversations she had ever had, because, in effect, she was saying, you were right, and my life has been fundamentally changed by all of this. And you knew what you were talking about, but you trusted the doctors instead of yourself. And I think that's a really tragic conversation to have to have with your parent.

[B]

And what about the opposite? Was there any resentment for the parents that were overly supportive of the transition process?

[A]

That I am interested in knowing myself, John, because some of these detransitioners are very respectful of their families, and they don't want to necessarily throw them under the bus on this. So I don't hear a ton about resentment when it comes to the detransitioners relationships with their families. I think that they're aware that this is a topic that they have to be careful about, you know, because I think many are quick to call out parents for allowing their children to go down this path, and rightfully so. But at the same time, the detransitioners want there to be empathy for their parents and what they went through. Although I should add, there absolutely are parents who are pushing their children down this path for selfish and narcissistic reasons. And those parents really should be held accountable for their actions.

[B]

Yeah, we've all seen the social media posts of parents announcing that their two year old is the opposite gender and things like that. It's hard not to conclude that it's more about the parents than the children. So the last chapter of your book is about the tragic story of Abby Martinez and her daughter. What happened there and why did you include that?

[A]

Yeah, this is probably the most emotional chapter in the book to me. I spoke with Abby Martinez, the mother of Yaley Martinez, a young girl who grew up in California. And Yaley stumbled into some bad friendships in high school. The school began socially transitioning her. So speaking to her as though she were a boy, having her meet with a therapist who was similarly treating her. And Yaley slowly but surely began to distance from her mother, from her family. And ultimately the California Department of Child and Family Services took Yaley away from her family and started her on testosterone. And Abby, her mother was understandably distraught, was trying to see her daughter, was struggling with making contact with her daughter in a. In a positive way because the girl was just very upset and confused. And ultimately Yaley threw herself in front of a train and ended her own life. And I included this story in the book. It's very sad and it's emotional. And Abby herself sobbed on the phone to me as she shared it with me. But I included it because all the detransitioners in my book, those are people who've been through very hard and traumatic things, but they are okay. They're on the other side of it and thankfully they're living fruitful lives and they're doing well. But in this case, Yili did not make it. Yili is no longer with us and her mother is still suffering intensely from what her daughter was put through. And Abby told me that she wants people to know what she's been through so that they can avoid having this happen to their own children. She said this pain never ends. And I think it'll be a deeply impactful story for people to read. It was very impactful for me to write. I obtained the police report from the officers who found all the pieces of Yaley's body all over the train tracks. And I included a lot of that, because when I read it, it stayed with me. And I don't think I will ever forget it. And I think it is a really horrific but powerful testimony to what gender ideology can do to any young person.

[B]

A truly powerful story. Like you said, tragic, but important to hear that testimony. Mary Margaret, thank you so much for coming on and great luck with this book.

[A]

John, thank you so much. I. I'm so grateful to be able to share this with your audience.

[B]

That was Mary Margaret Olahand, author of True Stories of Escaping the Gender Ideology Cult. And this has been an extra edition of Morning Wire.