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Her Village
Hosted by Jacqueline Baird · EN
Her Village Podcast
This is the space where real women have real conversations — the ones we don’t always say out loud, but all feel in some way.
Hosted by Jacqueline Baird, this podcast goes beyond surface-level talk and into the stories, struggles, and moments that shape us — in motherhood, relationships, identity, and everything in between.
Through a mix of personal reflections and honest conversations with other women, each episode is designed to leave you feeling seen, understood, and a little less alone… while also giving you new perspective, insight, and the kind of validation you didn’t know you needed.
Because you’re not the only one thinking it.
And you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
Welcome to Her Village.
Connect with Her Village:
Instagram: @motherhood_intended
Join the email list: hervillage.kit.com/naperville
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This Is What My Days Look Like Right Now
Feb 1000:26:44Tap to summarizeA real day in the life of a stay-at-home mom in this season of motherhood.What does a real day actually look like in this season of motherhood?In this solo episode, Jacqueline walks you through a true day in the life — from the moment she wakes up to when the house finally goes quiet at night. Not the highlight reel. Not the optimized routine. Just the honest rhythm of life right now as a stay-at-home mom of three, balancing motherhood, mental load, and creative work.Jacqueline shares what mornings look like getting two kids out the door for school, how her days shift depending on whether her toddler is home with her or at her school program, and how her work as a podcaster happens in small pockets of quiet time. She talks about the invisible labor of motherhood, the constant emotional regulation, and the tension between being present with your kids while still wanting space for your own purpose.This episode is for any mom who feels like her days are full but invisible, meaningful but hard to quantify — and who needs the reminder that showing up counts, even when there’s no checklist to prove it.In this episode, we talk about:A real day in the life of a stay-at-home momManaging the mental load of motherhoodParenting multiple kids in different stagesWorking and creating during naps and school hoursAfter-school chaos, activities, and evening routinesWhy some seasons of motherhood are about maintenance, not growthLetting go of productivity pressure in motherhood✨ Reflection prompt: What does your day actually require of you — emotionally, mentally, and physically?🔗 Connect + Resources MentionedGet on the email listFollow on InstagramJoin the Motherhood Intended Podcast Community on FacebookBecome a member of Your Fertility VillageCheck out Beddy’s and see how much they’ve simplified morning routines and bedtime in this season of life!Support the show__________________________________________________________________________________Her Village is more than a podcast—it’s a space for real connection, honest conversations, and meaningful friendships in the places we live.If you want to go deeper and stay connected beyond the podcast, you can join us here: joinhervillage.co 💛 __________________________________________________________________________________
Transcribe →The Part of Infertility No One Warns You About: Your Marriage
Jan 3000:26:14Tap to summarizeInfertility doesn’t just affect your body—it can quietly strain your marriage in ways no one prepares you for.In this solo episode, Jacqueline talks openly about how infertility, IVF, pregnancy loss, and long fertility journeys can impact a relationship—not just during treatment, but long after you’ve successfully grown your family.She talks about the emotional survival mode couples often slip into, why communication can break down, how grief and coping styles differ between partners, and why those patterns don’t automatically disappear once a baby arrives. If anything, they can be harder to address when you’re busy raising a family and expected to “just be grateful.”Jacqueline also shares why she believes therapy should be part of the fertility process—not because something is wrong, but because infertility is traumatic and relationships deserve support.If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your partner during or after infertility, this episode is for you.In This Episode, We Cover:Why there should be a “warning label” on fertility treatmentsHow infertility quietly rewires a marriageWhen love starts to feel like logistics and survivalDifferent coping styles and emotional labor between partnersWhy therapy can be a powerful support during fertility treatmentHow infertility impacts relationships after pregnancy or completing your familyLingering trauma, grief, and coping mechanisms that don’t just disappearA gentle journaling prompt to help you reflect and reconnect✨ Join my email list Be the first to hear about upcoming events, resources, and community offerings: https://motherhoodintended.kit.com/✨ Connect with me on Instagram Daily reminders, honest posts, and behind-the-scenes moments: https://www.instagram.com/motherhood_intended/✨ Apply to be a guest on the podcast Have a story or perspective you feel called to share? I’d love to hear from you: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSddd2-w53Jag6RVUghaJ85YTLoHjYXj_P7gxKz3sLz2QhYQBw/viewformIf this episode resonated, you might journal and reflect on:What coping habits did we develop during infertility that helped us survive—but may not be serving us anymore?Where do I notice protection or distance showing up in our relationship?What kind of support do I wish we had—during infertility or now?You don’t need answers today. Awareness is enough.Support the show__________________________________________________________________________________If you enjoyed this episode, consider sharing it with a friend or leaving a review. These conversations help more women feel seen, supported, and a little less alone.Her Village is more than a podcast—it’s a space for real connection, honest conversations, and meaningful friendships in the places we live.If you want to go deeper and stay connected beyond the podcast, you can join us here: joinhervillage.co 💛 __________________________________________________________________________________
Transcribe →From Egg Freezing to Motherhood: A Full-Circle IVF Story (Single Mom by Choice)
Jan 1501:15:16Tap to summarizeThis episode marks a powerful full-circle moment on Motherhood Intended.Three years ago, Alison joined the podcast to share her decision to freeze her eggs in an episode titled “Egg Preservation: A Story of 10 Maybe Babies.” At the time, she was preserving her fertility and creating options for her future — without knowing exactly where the journey would lead.Today, Alison is back to share what happened next.In this Season 7 premiere, Jacqueline and Alison reflect on the path from egg freezing to single motherhood by choice, including:deciding to pursue motherhood on her ownchoosing a sperm donorpursuing IVFnavigating pregnancy after infertility decisionsand welcoming her now almost six-month-old sonThis honest conversation explores both the emotional and practical sides of fertility preservation — from the uncertainty of freezing eggs to the realities of IVF, pregnancy, and early motherhood. Alison shares what surprised her most, what she wishes she had known earlier, and how she defines success now, looking back on the journey.This episode is for anyone who:is considering freezing their eggsis navigating fertility timelines or delayed parentingis exploring single motherhood by choiceor is wondering how today’s fertility decisions can shape tomorrow’s possibilitiesIt’s a story about options, agency, patience — and what can unfold when you give yourself time.Stay ConnectedJacqueline will be hosting both in-person and virtual meet-ups in the coming months and sharing updates about Your Fertility Village! To stay in the loop, join her email list here: https://motherhoodintended.kit.com/Support the show__________________________________________________________________________________If you enjoyed this episode, consider sharing it with a friend or leaving a review. These conversations help more women feel seen, supported, and a little less alone.Her Village is more than a podcast—it’s a space for real connection, honest conversations, and meaningful friendships in the places we live.If you want to go deeper and stay connected beyond the podcast, you can join us here: joinhervillage.co 💛 __________________________________________________________________________________
Transcribe →Egg Preservation: A Story of 10 “Maybe Babies” (Re-Air + Season Finale)
Dec 1800:59:36Tap to summarizeThis week on Motherhood Intended, Jacqueline closes out Season 6 with a meaningful re-air of one of the earliest and most impactful episodes from Season 1: “Egg Preservation: A Story of 10 Maybe Babies.”This episode intentionally follows last week’s solo conversation about freezing your eggs and fertility timelines — and serves as a bridge into what’s coming next.In this episode, Jacqueline chats with Alison, who shares her personal experience choosing to freeze her eggs. Alison walks through what the egg freezing process actually looked like, what she felt emotionally along the way, and what it meant to preserve her fertility and create options for her future — not guarantees, but possibilities.This re-air also marks the end of a season that looked different. Jacqueline reflects on balancing motherhood, work, and growth; learning new systems; building Your Fertility Village; and embracing the idea that there is power in the pause.And this story doesn’t end here.When Season 7 begins, Alison will return to share where her egg-freezing journey from three years ago ultimately led her — offering listeners a rare, full-circle update.Whether you’re considering egg freezing, supporting someone who is, or simply trying to understand your fertility options, this episode offers an honest, real-life perspective that continues to resonate.What’s Coming Up• Season 7 premieres on January 8, 2026• Your Fertility Village officially launches in the new year • Founding members can join now for $7/month, locked in for life • An in-person gathering is coming in January — follow along to stay updated!Support the show__________________________________________________________________________________If you enjoyed this episode, consider sharing it with a friend or leaving a review. These conversations help more women feel seen, supported, and a little less alone.Her Village is more than a podcast—it’s a space for real connection, honest conversations, and meaningful friendships in the places we live.If you want to go deeper and stay connected beyond the podcast, you can join us here: joinhervillage.co 💛 __________________________________________________________________________________
Transcribe →Should You Freeze Your Eggs in 2026? What the Latest Data Really Says
Dec 1100:22:53Tap to summarizeAs we head into 2026, more women than ever are asking themselves a deeply personal and surprisingly common question: “Should I freeze my eggs?” In today’s solo episode, Jacqueline breaks down everything you need to know about egg freezing right now — including age-related success rates, how many eggs you actually need, what the process looks like, and what the emotional side of delayed motherhood really feels like.Whether you’re considering freezing your eggs for peace of mind, navigating an uncertain timeline, or simply curious about what egg freezing in 2026 can offer, this episode is your warm, big-sister style guide to understanding your options.Jacqueline also shares why this topic matters now more than ever and sets up an upcoming two-part story you won’t want to miss. Next week, she’s re-airing a powerful conversation with a woman who froze her eggs a few years ago — and in early January, you’ll hear her updated journey through donor sperm, IVF, and the arrival of her miracle baby boy.If fertility, family planning, or delaying motherhood is on your mind, this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and truly helpful information as you head into the new year.IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVER:Why egg freezing is trending as we enter 2026The biggest question: “Should I freeze my eggs?”How age impacts egg quality, quantity, and success ratesWhat egg freezing success looks like in 2026 (by age group)How many eggs you actually need for a future pregnancyWhat the egg freezing process involves — step-by-stepThe real costs women should expect in 2026Common myths about egg freezing (and what’s actually true)The emotional side of delayed motherhoodHow this episode connects to next week’s re-air and the Season 7 premiereJoin Your Fertility Village — A supportive membership community for women navigating infertility, fertility preservation, and motherhood → https://your-fertility-village.mn.co/landing Follow along on Instagram → @motherhood_intendedConnect with other listeners → Motherhood Intended Podcast CommunitySupport the show__________________________________________________________________________________If you enjoyed this episode, consider sharing it with a friend or leaving a review. These conversations help more women feel seen, supported, and a little less alone.Her Village is more than a podcast—it’s a space for real connection, honest conversations, and meaningful friendships in the places we live.If you want to go deeper and stay connected beyond the podcast, you can join us here: joinhervillage.co 💛 __________________________________________________________________________________
Transcribe →Re-Air: Boy Moms Talk Gender “Disappointment” + Why This Season Looked Different
Dec 500:51:04Tap to summarizeThis week on Motherhood Intended, Jacqueline opens the episode with an honest reflection on why this season of the podcast has looked different — and why that difference has actually been a gift.In this heartfelt intro, Jacqueline shares what life has looked like behind the scenes, including: • balancing toddlerhood, therapies, and packed family schedules • navigating a season of growth in marriage and motherhood • learning new systems and outsourcing for the first time • building Your Fertility Village from the ground up • and embracing the idea that there is power in the pauseAs the podcast approaches a short season break, Jacqueline also shares an update on the official launch of Your Fertility Village in the new year — and how listeners can join now as founding members for just $7/month, locked in for life.After the intro, we revisit one of the most downloaded and consistently listened-to episodes in Motherhood Intended history: “Boy Moms Talk Gender ‘Disappointment.’”In this candid conversation, Jacqueline sits down with a fellow mom to discuss the rarely talked about — and often misunderstood — emotions surrounding gender disappointment. Together, they explore the complexity of these feelings, especially in the context of infertility, pregnancy after loss, and the pressure many parents feel to “just be grateful.”This episode continues to resonate because it offers something many women need: permission to feel honestly, without judgment.Whether you’re hearing this episode for the first time or returning to it years later, this conversation remains just as relevant — and just as validating.Resources Mentioned• Join Your Fertility Village as a founding member → https://your-fertility-village.mn.co/landing • Follow Motherhood Intended on Instagram → @motherhood_intendedSupport the show__________________________________________________________________________________If you enjoyed this episode, consider sharing it with a friend or leaving a review. These conversations help more women feel seen, supported, and a little less alone.Her Village is more than a podcast—it’s a space for real connection, honest conversations, and meaningful friendships in the places we live.If you want to go deeper and stay connected beyond the podcast, you can join us here: joinhervillage.co 💛 __________________________________________________________________________________
Transcribe →Navigating the Holidays When You’re TTC: Triggers, Stress & What Really Impacts Your Cycle
Nov 2600:25:52Tap to summarizeThe holidays can be magical — but if you’re trying to conceive, they can also feel incredibly heavy. Between family gatherings, triggering comments, pregnancy announcements, disrupted routines, and the emotional weight of longing for a baby, this season brings unique challenges that often go unspoken.In today’s solo episode, Jacqueline shares a supportive and practical guide for navigating the holiday season while TTC. You’ll learn how to protect your emotional well-being, set healthy boundaries, handle difficult conversations, and understand the real impact stress and travel can have on your cycle. (Spoiler: it’s less than you think!)Whether you’re heading into Thanksgiving, preparing for December festivities, or simply trying to stay grounded, this episode offers comfort, clarity, and actionable tools to help you move through the holidays with more compassion for yourself.In this episode, we cover: ✨ Why the holidays often feel harder when you’re TTC ✨ Emotional triggers and how to prepare for them ✨ Simple scripts for handling intrusive questions ✨ Boundaries that protect your peace during gatherings ✨ What holiday stress actually does to your hormones + cycle ✨ How travel, sleep disruption, and routine changes impact fertility ✨ Small, supportive habits you can use all season long ✨ A grounding message for anyone feeling overwhelmedYou deserve support — especially during the holidays. If you need a community that understands the emotional, physical, and mental weight of TTC, join Your Fertility Village as a Founding Member (for only $7/mo thru 2025) here:https://your-fertility-village.mn.co/landingTake a deep breath… you’re not alone this season. 💛Listen now for a mix of validation, science, and big-sister-energy support to carry you through the holidays.Support the show__________________________________________________________________________________If you enjoyed this episode, consider sharing it with a friend or leaving a review. These conversations help more women feel seen, supported, and a little less alone.Her Village is more than a podcast—it’s a space for real connection, honest conversations, and meaningful friendships in the places we live.If you want to go deeper and stay connected beyond the podcast, you can join us here: joinhervillage.co 💛 __________________________________________________________________________________
Transcribe →Understanding AMH, Egg Quality, and Fertility Testing Basics
Nov 2100:14:14Tap to summarizeIf you’ve ever stared at your lab results and thought, “Wait… is this good or bad?” — this episode is for you.Today, Jacqueline breaks down the most common (and most confusing) parts of fertility testing in simple, empowering language. From AMH and egg quality to antral follicle counts, HSGs, thyroid levels, and partner testing, you’ll walk away feeling informed, prepared, and a whole lot less alone.Inside the episode, we cover: • What AMH really does — and doesn’t — tell you • The truth about egg quality and why age matters • The key tests to ask for when you’re TTC or seeking clarity • What to do with confusing or “scary” numbers • How to advocate for yourself at appointments • Emotional reassurance for the days when testing feels overwhelmingWhether you're just beginning to explore fertility testing or you’re in the thick of treatment, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and the guidance Jacqueline wishes she had early in her own journey.✨ Resources Mentioned: • Join Your Fertility Village — a nurturing community + expert-backed support now accepting Founding Members (with special perks!) • Freebie: Fertility Testing Basics & Questions to Ask Your Doctor🎧 Listen + share with someone who needs this today. You are not behind. You are not broken. You are so supported here.Support the show__________________________________________________________________________________If you enjoyed this episode, consider sharing it with a friend or leaving a review. These conversations help more women feel seen, supported, and a little less alone.Her Village is more than a podcast—it’s a space for real connection, honest conversations, and meaningful friendships in the places we live.If you want to go deeper and stay connected beyond the podcast, you can join us here: joinhervillage.co 💛 __________________________________________________________________________________
Transcribe →Our Honest Experience With ABA Therapy: What’s Helping Our Son & Our Family
Nov 1300:43:46Tap to summarizeIn this heartfelt episode, Jacqueline is joined by her husband, Josh, to talk openly about something that’s become a major part of their family’s life lately: ABA therapy. After their oldest son was diagnosed with level 1 autism and ADHD at age six, they spent months sitting with the news, learning, questioning, and honestly…trying to figure out what actually felt right for their family.Fast forward to today, and he’s been in in-home ABA therapy for four months — about 11 hours a week — and it's been eye-opening in ways they never expected.In this episode, they share:✨ How they first learned about ABA and why they waited nearly a year to start ✨ What modern ABA really is (and what it’s NOT) ✨ What those early sessions looked like and why they felt so uncomfortable ✨ The real-life skills their son is learning — from self-regulation to navigating fear ✨ How ABA has helped them as parents, not just him ✨ Why some parents have negative experiences, and how to spot supportive, child-led ABA ✨ How they’ve grown in advocating for their son at home and at school ✨ What they wish they’d known earlier in this journeyJacqueline and Josh also share real moments: the meltdowns, the breakthroughs, the fear episodes, the “aha” lessons, and even how their son now proudly says, “I used my tools today.” Hearing him learn to advocate for himself — at seven years old — has been one of the biggest gifts.If you’re a parent exploring autism evaluations, therapy options, or if you’re just curious what ABA looks like day-to-day for a high-functioning child, we hope this conversation gives you clarity, comfort, and the reminder that you’re not alone.✨ Resources✨• Learn more about ABA (Autism Speaks): https://www.autismspeaks.org/applied-behavior-analysis• Find a BCBA (Behavior Analyst Certification Board): https://www.bacb.com/services/o.php?page=100155• The Whole-Brain Child (book): https://drdansiegel.com/book/the-whole-brain-child/Have questions or want to share your experience? Email Jacqueline at hello@motherhoodintended.com or send her a message on Instagram. She'd love to hear your story and keep this conversation going.Thanks for listening — and if this episode helped you, please share it with another parent who might be wondering if ABA therapy is right for their family. 💛Support the show__________________________________________________________________________________If you enjoyed this episode, please consider sharing it with a friend or leaving a review. These conversations help more women feel seen and supported in their journeys.I’m also beginning to build something new called Her Village — a community focused on helping women create meaningful friendships and real connection in the places they live.You can learn more and follow along on Instagram @motherhood_intended 💛 __________________________________________________________________________________
Transcribe →Holding the Mother: How One Mom Found Healing After Her Son’s Heart Journey
Nov 601:12:50Tap to summarizeWhen motherhood takes an unexpected turn, where do you find the strength to keep going?In this emotional and powerful episode, host Jacqueline Baird sits down with Kath Hansen—a Brisbane mom of four, founder of the baby brand Bubba Cloud, and host of The Modern Mother Podcast. Kath opens up about her youngest son Odin’s rare congenital heart condition, months spent in the NICU, and the raw reality of parenting through trauma.Together, Jacqueline and Kath explore what it means to mother through uncertainty, navigate grief, balance family life after medical challenges, and rediscover yourself amid the chaos. Their shared experiences of NICU life and loss offer comfort, courage, and community to any mom who’s ever felt alone in her journey.💛 In this episode, you’ll hear:How Kath learned her son had a rare heart condition during pregnancyThe emotional toll of months spent in the hospital and multiple surgeriesThe impact of trauma on motherhood and identityWhy “holding the mother” is as vital as caring for the babyHow Kath channels her experience into purpose through Bubba Cloud and The Modern Mother Podcast✨ Connect with Kath:@bubbacloud@_kathhansen@themodernmother.pod🌻 Join Your Fertility Village: A safe, supportive community for women navigating infertility, pregnancy, and motherhood after loss. Become a Founding Member for just $7/month and lock in that price for life: Join here!🎧 Follow Motherhood Intended: @motherhood_intendedSupport the show__________________________________________________________________________________ 💛 You don’t have to do this alone. Join Your Fertility Village — a safe, supportive community for women on their fertility journey. 🌻__________________________________________________________________________________
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