Murder With My Husband: Episode 256 - "Lulu's Hitman: The Shocking Case of Ramon Sosa"
Release Date: February 17, 2025
Host/Author: OH NO MEDIA
Introduction to the Case
In episode 256 of Murder With My Husband, the Oh No Media team delves into the harrowing true crime story of Ramon Sosa and his wife, Lulu. This episode unravels the dark intricacies of a marriage that spiraled into a deadly confrontation, highlighting themes of betrayal, deception, and survival.
Ramon Sosa's Early Life and Boxing Career
Ramon Sosa’s journey begins in Carolina, Puerto Rico, where he was born to a professional boxer father. Inspired by his upbringing, Ramon immersed himself in the world of boxing from a young age.
- Ramon’s Dedication to Boxing
“At the age of seven, he began training with some of Puerto Rico's top boxers.” [05:59]
By 17, Ramon had turned pro, earning the nickname "The Puerto Rican Express" for his swift knockouts. However, his passion for the sport waned as he grew disillusioned with the commercialization and perceived exploitation within boxing.
Transition to Coaching and Business Ventures
Seeking fulfillment beyond the ring, Ramon transitioned to coaching, establishing gyms in Houston, Texas. His dedication to nurturing young talent earned him respect and success in the local boxing community.
- Ramon’s Success as a Trainer
“If you were in the boxing game in Texas, there's a good chance you wanted Ramon literally in your corner of the rink.” [07:03]
Meeting and Marrying Lulu
In 2007, Ramon’s life took a significant turn when he met Maria Delore Days, known as Lulu, at a nightclub. Lulu, a hardworking mother from Mexico, resonated with Ramon’s desire to support troubled youth through boxing.
- The Turning Point
“In the completely packed club, Ramon spotted her almost immediately across the dance floor.” [09:08]
Their relationship blossomed quickly, leading to marriage in March 2009. Initially, Lulu appeared to be the supportive partner Ramon needed, contributing to his business and family life.
Rising Tensions and Lulu's Dark Side
Despite early harmony, cracks began to appear in Ramon and Lulu’s marriage around 2015. Lulu started harboring resentment, claiming Ramon had been abusive—allegations that were vehemently denied by Ramon and dismissed by those who knew him.
- Lulu’s Accusations
“Lulu even claimed Ramon had forced himself on her without consent.” [14:07]
Simultaneously, financial strains emerged as Lulu began skimming money from their shared business to fund her divorce proceedings, further eroding trust and stability.
Mundo's Discovery of the Threat
The situation escalated when Mundo, a close friend and former gang member turned mentee of Ramon, overheard Lulu discussing plans that implied she intended to have Ramon killed. Mundo's background and deep bond with Ramon positioned him uniquely to recognize the severity of the threat.
- Mundo’s Realization
“I thought he was looking for a way out of our marriage by painting it to be worse than it was.” [20:22]
Planning the Evidence Gathering
Determined to protect his life, Ramon and Mundo devised a strategic plan to gather irrefutable evidence of Lulu’s intentions. They orchestrated a sting operation, convincing Lulu that they had connected with a hitman named Paco, while secretly recording all interactions to build a solid case.
- Executing the Sting
“They kept Mundo Ramon as part of their sting operation.” [28:47]
The Sting Operation and Arrest
On July 20, 2015, the plan culminated in a meticulously staged scenario where Ramon faked his own death. Simultaneously, undercover officers played the role of the hitman, Paco, meeting with Lulu to finalize the arrangement.
- Simulating Death for Evidence
“Ramon Sosa climbed into that hole wearing nothing but his underwear.” [31:38]
This ruse successfully coerced Lulu into revealing her true intentions and attempting to proceed with the hit, leading to her arrest for capital murder charges on July 23, 2015.
- Lulu’s Arrest
“They set Lulu, you're under arrest for capital murder charges.” [36:31]
The Aftermath and Ramon's Rebuilding Life
Post-arrest, Ramon focused on rebuilding his life. He reconnected with his daughter Mia, who moved back from California to support him. Ramon also found love again in 2018 and dedicated himself to advocacy against domestic violence, leveraging his traumatic experience to help others.
- Ramon’s Reflections
“This lady ended up in this country because she wanted a better life... I forgive her.” [38:07]
Ongoing Fears After Lulu's Release
Despite finding peace, Ramon remains vigilant. In October 2023, Lulu was released from prison after serving seven years of her 20-year sentence. Ramon fears she may seek revenge, a concern that continues to shadow his life.
- Ramon’s Lingering Fear
“Maybe she'll come for me looking for revenge... I will always be looking over my shoulder.” [39:38]
Conclusion
The case of Ramon Sosa and Lulu serves as a profound narrative on the lengths one will go to survive and protect loved ones. Through strategic planning and unwavering friendship, Ramon not only saved his life but also emerged stronger, advocating for others facing similar threats.
Notable Quotes
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Garrett Moreland:
“No, I have no hope that he's going to live.” [05:52] -
Mundo:
“Probably the police, right?” [04:53] -
Peyton Moreland:
“And Honestly, that's where ZocDoc comes in.” [01:56]
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Garrett Moreland:
“I'm the husband.” [02:48] -
Mundo:
“So Mundo goes home that night, he processes it all.” [20:08]
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This episode masterfully intertwines personal anecdotes from the hosts with the detailed chronology of Ramon Sosa's ordeal, providing listeners with a comprehensive understanding of the case. The inclusion of direct quotes enhances the authenticity and emotional depth of the story, making it both engaging and informative for those new to the podcast.