Podcast Summary: Murder With My Husband

Episode 286: The International Hunt For a Killer - The Murder of Haley Anderson
Original Release: September 15, 2025
Hosts: Peyton Moreland and Garrett Moreland

Episode Theme & Purpose

This episode explores the 2018 murder of Haley Anderson, a nursing student at Binghamton University. The case involves an international manhunt and a rare example of two countries— the US and Nicaragua—working together for justice. The hosts discuss Haley’s life, her relationship with the killer, the investigation, the escape, and the international legal battle for prosecution.

Key Discussion Points & Timeline

[03:07] Background: Who Was Haley Anderson?

• Haley Anderson: 22-year-old nursing student from Westbury, NY.
• Described by family and friends as “hard working, compassionate, extremely outgoing, and a free spirit.”
• Attended Binghamton University; worked at an on-campus coffee shop.
• Had a close friend group and an on-again, off-again relationship with Kevin Ocampo.
• Began seeing Orlando Tercero, a fellow nursing student, during her senior year.

[09:50] Relationship Dynamics: Haley, Kevin, and Orlando

• Orlando and Haley grew closer as her relationship with Kevin became less serious.
• Orlando and Kevin were fraternity brothers before Orlando was expelled for seeing Haley.
• Friction from the love triangle but no apparent immediate risk to Haley seen by friends.

[11:05] March 9, 2018 – Haley Goes Missing

• The night before, friends played board games and drank; Haley left late at night.
• Friends noticed Haley wasn’t home the next morning; her phone was tracked to Orlando’s apartment.
• Attempts to contact Haley and Orlando failed. Orlando’s sister received a disturbing message from him, prompting a welfare check.
• Police did not enter apartment during initial check.

[12:45] Discovery of Haley’s Body ([16:19])

• Friends, Josie and Michelle, entered Orlando's apartment through a window.
• Found Haley’s lifeless body, partially covered in Orlando’s bed.
• Autopsy: Cause of death was asphyxiation by manual neck compression.

Notable Quote:
"Josie boosts Michella inside, and she climbs in herself." — Peyton [12:45]

[16:22] Clues & Evidence

• Spanish note at the scene from Orlando:

  “I'm really sorry about this. I never felt I could be capable of doing this. Oh my God, Father, I will see you soon.”

• Orlando's sister had received a text from him:

  "He had done something bad and was now a disgrace to the family."

• Security footage showed Haley arriving at Orlando’s willingly at 3:15 am; Orlando later left alone.
• Orlando bought sleep aids (NyQuil, melatonin), attempted suicide in his apartment’s basement.
• Evidence of suicide attempt: hooks, rope, bandaged head.

Notable Quote:
“They track him and learn he went to a local pharmacy and got NyQuil and melatonin, sleep aids…” — Peyton [17:57]

[20:30] The Troubled Relationship

• Orlando exhibited obsessive, jealous, and manipulative behavior.
• Showed up uninvited, refused to leave, monitored Haley.
• Once slashed Haley’s car tires after she recommitted to Kevin.
• Haley didn't press charges to avoid ruining Orlando's career.

Notable Quote:
“He began showing up at her house uninvited...drove past the house slowly to see if Haley was home.” — Peyton [20:30]

[23:32] Orlando Flees to Nicaragua

• Orlando drove to JFK, boarded a flight to Nicaragua, where he had dual citizenship.
• US officials recognized the extradition complications immediately.
• Orlando's mother unwittingly picked him up in Nicaragua.

[25:21] Arrest in Nicaragua ([26:46])

• Orlando made another suicide attempt; admitted to psychiatric hospital in Leon.
• Hospital staff tipped off authorities; Orlando was arrested on March 13, 2018.
• Case drew international attention and fast coordination between US and Nicaraguan authorities.
• New York prosecutors filed charges, hoping for extradition.

[31:25] The Legal Challenge: Extradition Denied

• Nicaragua refused extradition but agreed to prosecute Orlando domestically.
• Orlando was charged with femicide (the murder of a woman with whom the perpetrator had a relationship).

Notable Exchange:
“Why countries? It doesn't make sense. Like, who cares at that point.” — Garrett [31:31]
“They said, 'We'll just charge him here and put him in prison here.'" — Peyton [31:37]

[34:06] The Nicaraguan Trial

• US witnesses testified via video.
• Prosecution: Orlando killed Haley in a fit of obsessive jealousy.
• Defense: Claimed temporary insanity due to alcohol, self-harm attempts, and no memory of the murder.
• Defense’s only witness, a psychiatrist, could not confirm Orlando’s mental state during the crime.

Notable Quotes:
“Temporarily insane, just for like a moment or two when she died. And then, then he's back to normal…” — Garrett [34:06]
"It's selfish is what it is." — Garrett [22:40]

[35:22 / 36:00] Verdict and Sentencing

• Haley's family allowed a final word at trial.

  “Haley was a beautiful, intelligent and friendly girl. She was an aspiring nurse and had her whole life to look forward to. She was and still is my best friend.” — Karen Anderson [35:22]

• Judge denounced violence against women, found Orlando guilty of femicide.
• Haley’s father, Gordon:

  “…my heart breaks for her [Orlando’s mother]. Because you stole from your own mother… every time she hugs you now, she will get a glimpse of that monster within you.” [36:32]

• Orlando received 30 years, the maximum sentence for femicide in Nicaragua.

[37:25] Aftermath and Appeal

• Orlando attempted to appeal, arguing intoxication and that his US sentence would have been lighter.
• Appeal denied; sentence remained.
• If Orlando ever returns to the US, he may face prosecution there as well.

Memorable Moments & Reflections

Critical Analysis of “Blacked Out” Defense

"You knew what you were doing." — Peyton [39:34]

Hosts’ Emotional Response

• “Ugh. Senseless murder. I will never understand murder.” — Garrett [39:00]
• Peyton and Garrett both highlighted the manipulative dangers of using threats of self-harm in relationships [22:10].

Final Reflection

• “It's a win that there was an example of countries working together, but at whose expense? Haley's.” — Peyton [38:54]

Notable Quotes & Timestamps

• On Orlando’s obsessive behavior:
  “He began showing up at her house uninvited...drove past the house slowly to see if Haley was home.” — Peyton [20:30]

• On the emotional impact for Haley’s family:
  “A seat was dedicated to Haley with a framed picture of her in her place. Haley's father, Gordon, walked the stage and accepted Haley's diploma in her honor.” — Peyton [27:05]

• On international cooperation:
  “We saw something we haven’t seen before...two governments working together… That alone is a pretty big win.” — Peyton [37:04]

• Haley’s mother’s words at trial:
  “Haley was a beautiful, intelligent and friendly girl... She was and still is my best friend.” — Karen Anderson (as quoted by Peyton) [35:22]

• Haley’s father to Orlando:
  “You stole from your own mother... every time she hugs you now, she will get a glimpse of that monster within you.” — Gordon Anderson (as quoted by Peyton) [36:32]

Important Segment Timestamps

• [03:07] Introducing Haley Anderson
• [11:05] Haley Goes Missing
• [12:45] Discovery of the Body
• [16:19] Autopsy and Suicide Note
• [17:57] Security Footage and Orlando’s Flight
• [20:30] Obsession and Manipulation
• [23:32] Orlando’s Escape
• [26:46] Hospital Arrest in Nicaragua
• [31:25] Extradition Refused; Trial in Nicaragua
• [35:22] Family Testimony and Guilty Verdict
• [37:25] Appeals and Ongoing Impact

Tone & Host Dynamics

• Peyton: Empathetic, detail-oriented, focused on victim’s legacy.
• Garrett: Outspokenly frustrated by the senselessness of the crime, adds skepticism about defense arguments and justice system quirks.
• Both hosts express deep emotional investment and critique manipulative behavior and loopholes in international justice.

Conclusion

This episode stands out for its detailed retelling of Haley Anderson's life, the international legal complexities, and a rare collaboration between countries to secure justice for a murdered woman. The hosts underscore the tragedy’s senselessness while recognizing the unusual but positive outcome—Orlando’s conviction and meaningful sentence, albeit abroad.

End of Summary