Podcast Summary: “Every Business I Tried Before Making My First Million”
Podcast: My First Million (HubSpot Media)
Date: November 17, 2025
Hosts: Sam Parr & Shaan Puri
Overview
In this episode, Sam Parr opens up about the many businesses he started—and often failed at—before ultimately making his first million at age 31. Alongside Shaan Puri, he takes listeners through each of his hustles, sharing lessons learned, hilarious anecdotes, and the winding (and sometimes humiliating) path most entrepreneurs face on the way to success. The episode is candid, motivational, and funny, emphasizing the virtues of scrappiness, relentless learning, and the importance of choosing the right projects.
Key Discussion Points & Lessons
1. Early Flips and Learning the Basics
[00:59] – [02:07]
- High School Flipping:
- Sam’s first “business” was in high school: collecting old sports equipment (often free) from graduating seniors and selling it on eBay for $2,500 over a summer.
- Continued a version of this in college, storing and reselling textbooks and items left behind by students.
- Lesson:
- The power of finding value where others don’t (“flipping assets that other people...might even not value”)
“Most of the time, I didn’t buy it. They would just give it to me...I made $2,500. That was my first business where I actually started making online money.” – Sam Parr [00:59]
- The power of finding value where others don’t (“flipping assets that other people...might even not value”)
2. The Hot Dog Stand: Grit, Salesmanship, and the Limits of Manual Labor
[02:07] – [04:08]
- Southern Sam’s Hot Dogs
- With $500, Sam started “Southern Sam’s: Wieners as big as a baby’s arm” in college.
- He worked long hours, sometimes making as little as $50/day, other times $1,000 at big events.
- Lessons:
- Sales and copywriting are essential, and selling in person teaches foundational skills.
- Manual labor business isn’t scalable: “It was so hard...I realized, what if I could do this on the Internet, where I could write something one time and have an infinite amount of people come and read it and I didn’t have to sell constantly.” – Sam Parr [03:50]
3. The Gray Hat Phase: Moonshine and Risky Ventures
[05:44] – [07:14]
- Online “White Whiskey” Shop:
- Entered the “moonshine” business, selling what he believed was a legal novelty online.
- Made $10,000 in a month, but legal advice quickly ended the operation.
- Lesson:
- Quick-money, “gray area” schemes teach about legal risk and aligning with personal values.
“...if you’re gonna do something like this, you better really do it right, and you better pick something that aligns with your values.” – Sam Parr [05:44]
- Quick-money, “gray area” schemes teach about legal risk and aligning with personal values.
4. Networking in San Francisco: The Anti-MBA Book Club
[08:41] – [10:41]
- Building a Network:
- Created a book club for non-MBA types, attracting 2,100 sign-ups and forming meaningful friendships (including his future best man).
- Lesson:
- Community building can be more valuable than initial monetization, and sometimes “forcing functions” push personal growth.
5. App Experiments: Roommate Matching and Bunk
[10:42] – [12:13]
- Roommate Matching Platform (“Bunk”):
- Partnered on a roommate finding/project matchmaking idea, hosting events.
- Briefly pivoted to “Tinder for Roommates”—which mainly attracted people looking to date.
- Acquired (“acquihired”) after 9 months.
- Lesson:
- Roommate apps are classic rookie mistakes; monetization is tough. Choose product & target market carefully.
6. Developing the Right Skills
[12:13] – [13:57]
- Top three must-have entrepreneur traits:
- Money-making skill (sales, copywriting, creating value)
- Tenacity and scrappiness (“animal inside” to hustle through hard times)
- Project selection (choosing scalable, non-risky, meaningful projects)
- Sam credits copywriting as his critical skill, and countless hours of “getting after it.”
- Notable Quote:
“Copywriting. And also just like tenacity, but like getting after it. But copywriting was the one. And marketing.” – Sam Parr [12:38]
7. Contrasts: Scrappy vs. Fancy
[13:57] – [16:32]
- Shaan recounts working in a flashy, 30,000 sq. ft. office, while Sam and friends hustled in a barely functional, shared apartment/office.
- Ultimately, scrappiness led to real results—big teams aren’t always better.
- Notable Moment:
“You had a chef there every single day. We had a masseuse. On Fridays we had open bar... And you actually were the one who was building something successful.” – Shaun [14:47 – 15:35]
8. Project Selection and Risk Minimization
[16:32] – [24:16]
- The Process:
- Eliminating “bad businesses” through hard-won experience.
- Sam’s current criteria: “Can I bootstrap it to $100 million in ten years?”
- Looks for “forgotten businesses” in less-competitive spaces, markets where “serious operators don’t take it serious.”
- Risk vs. Uncertainty:
- Entrepreneurs aren’t reckless—they minimize and control risk, aiming for high certainty in “non-obvious” but proven models.
- Notable Quote:
“The name of the game of entrepreneurship is just, can you handle the fear? And can you handle—what’s worse is the uncertainty—over potentially 5 or 10 years.” – Sam Parr [19:45] “You are a good example of what most entrepreneurs really do, which is they’re actual risk minimizers. It’s like, how do I win while taking the least amount of risk necessary?” – Shaun [22:18]
9. Failures and Odd Hustles
[25:22] – [30:00]
- Itch Juice:
- Attempted a short-lived “poison ivy treatment” business, learning again that quick profits can't replace passion.
- Frisco Disco Taxi:
- Novelty “disco taxi” on NYE (before Lyft/Uber); $800 in one night.
- Events and Real Estate:
- Ran successful conferences/newsletter (The Hustle) and tried real estate (not for him—needs “diligence on the buy”).
- Lesson:
- Many hustles fail; only through trying many things (“process of elimination”) do you hone in on what actually works and fits your talents.
10. The Podcast Journey
[31:42] – [34:17]
- “My First Million” itself started awkwardly—shared AirPods, few mics, borrowing chairs—with almost no initial revenue.
- Over time, random, scrappy efforts lead to surprising results.
- Notable Moment:
“Honestly, it got to be pretty cool. When we were in person together, it was pretty amazing. I wish we could be doing that.” – Shaun [33:44]
11. Reflections, Nostalgia, and Advice
[34:21] – [39:44]
- The “Come Up” is Fun in Hindsight:
- Despite wanting anything to “work” at the time, the struggle provided the best memories and learning.
- Advice to Listeners in Their 20s:
- Enjoy the ride; if you keep hustling and learning, it works.
- Success is more about your “rate of learning” than a single idea or moment.
- Notable Quote:
“We have a lot of like young guys listening to this who are in their 20s. Enjoy it, man. It was, it was such a blast. It doesn’t feel that way, but I would say with a high degree of certainty if you do the same thing or you try really hard for 10 years and keep taking risks... It works, you just gotta do it.” – Sam Parr [35:27]
12. Final Lessons on Growth and “Rockets vs. Cars”
[37:37] – [39:44]
- Looking back, even when business was growing well, it never felt like enough—founders always compare to “rockets.”
- Most startups are “cool cars”—not all need rocket fuel (VC money).
- Focus on sustainable, personal businesses rather than chasing unicorn-style growth.
Notable Quotes & Moments
- “I was broke. I had my PhD: poor, hard working and driven. I was.” – Sam Parr [03:38]
- “To win in business, you gotta have... a money-making skill, tenacity, and good project selection.” – Shaun [12:13]
- “Entrepreneurship is sort of like, how much uncertainty and fear can you take and still continue moving forward?” – Sam Parr [19:45]
- “The secret to success is weak competition.” – (Charlie Munger, referenced by Shaun) [19:00]
- “We’re just going to go in that direction and I pray and I hope that we’re going to find something... that’s what the uncertainty feels like.” – Sam Parr [28:00]
- “Rate of learning. How quickly are you figuring things out?...If you do that, success is pretty much inevitable.” – Shaun [36:03]
- “You never made the mistake of building something nobody wanted to, which is maybe the main mistake.” – Shaun [36:54]
- “VC is like rocket fuel. And you know who deserves rocket fuel? Rockets. Not fast cars. Not cool cars. Not cars that you love. Rockets.” – Sam Parr [39:00]
Timestamps for Key Segments
- Sam’s First Business (Flipping Sports Equipment): [00:59]
- Hot Dog Stand Stories and Sales Lessons: [02:07]
- Moonshine Business and Legal Scare: [05:44]
- Building the Anti-MBA Book Club: [08:41]
- Roommate Matching App “Bunk” and Startup Fads: [10:42]
- Three Entrepreneur Must-Haves: [12:13]
- Scrappy vs. Fancy Office Life: [13:57]
- Project Selection and Risk Minimization: [16:32]
- Process of Elimination in Business, and Ikigai: [17:15]
- Risk vs. Uncertainty (Mohnish Pabrai, Branson Story): [20:56]
- Oddball Hustles—Poison Ivy, Disco Taxi, Real Estate: [25:22]
- Newsletter, Podcast Beginnings, Janky Setups: [31:42]
- Nostalgia and Advice for 20-Something Hustlers: [34:21]
- Car vs. Rocket Company Metaphor: [39:00]
- Closing Thoughts & Announcements: [39:44]
Tone & Style
- Conversational, irreverent, and self-deprecating.
- Practical and tactical: heavy on “lessons learned” through mistake and hustle.
- Motivational, speaking directly to listeners who are early-stage entrepreneurs.
Final Takeaway
Sam and Shaan turn the “overnight success” myth on its head, sharing that the path to your first million (and beyond) is paved with failures, experiments, wild pivots, and more than a little self-delusion. The secret? Stay scrappy, learn fast, and don’t worry about taking a decade to “figure it out”—that’s how almost everyone gets there.
(Next episode: Shaan’s own list of failed and forgotten startups.)
