Episode 619: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) and Shaan Puri ( https://x.com/ShaanVP ) do a post-mortem on a fight they had yesterday.

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Show Notes:

(0:00) Fights don't start as fights

(9:08) Gottman's Fourhorseman of the Apocalypse

(11:28) The magic ratio of 5:1

(15:42) The body keeps the score

(19:36) No winners in war

(24:19) Mistaken attribution

(26:40) Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy

(29:17) The cardinal sin is measuring

(32:55) The best relationships are bigger than you

(40:00) Identify the skill issue

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Links:

• Get our business idea database here https://clickhubspot.com/mfm

• The Body Keeps the Score - https://tinyurl.com/sf66b2tj

• How to Win Friends and Influence People - https://tinyurl.com/4wbafxyf

• Fight Right - https://tinyurl.com/pdvub4b4

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Check Out Shaan's Stuff:

Need to hire? You should use the same service Shaan uses to hire developers, designers, & Virtual Assistants → it’s called Shepherd (tell ‘em Shaan sent you): https://bit.ly/SupportShepherd

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Check Out Sam's Stuff:

• Hampton - https://www.joinhampton.com/

• Ideation Bootcamp - https://www.ideationbootcamp.co/

• Copy That - https://copythat.com

• Hampton Wealth Survey - https://joinhampton.com/wealth

• Sam’s List - http://samslist.co/

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