My Friend Daisy: Episode 10 - "Cat Eyes" Summary
Released on May 21, 2025 by iHeartPodcasts
Introduction
In the tenth episode of the investigative series "My Friend Daisy," host Jenn Swan delves deeper into the tragic aftermath of Daisy De La O's murder. This episode, titled "Cat Eyes," explores the unsolved murder of Jeffrey Tinoko, Daisy's key witness, and examines the unsettling gaps within the police investigation. Jenn uncovers how social media played a pivotal role not only in solving Daisy’s case but also in bringing attention to Jeffrey's untimely death.
Revelation of Jeffrey's Murder
Jenn Swan begins the episode with shocking news about Jeffrey Tinoko's murder:
[01:12] Jenn Swan: "I had just started making the show when I learned that Jeffrey had been murdered. It was just after New Year's Day, 2024. It felt completely inconceivable."
Jeffrey was instrumental in Daisy's case, having identified her body and testified against Victor, the eventual murderer. His death raised numerous questions about the investigation's integrity.
Confrontation with Detectives
Determined to understand more, Jenn reached out to Detectives Lugo and Sanchez. During her interviews, she discovered that the detectives were unaware of Jeffrey's murder, despite his crucial role in Daisy's case.
[03:35] Jenn Swan: "Could I really trust any of it?"
[06:16] Detective Sanchez: "You put a damper on my day."
The detectives' lack of awareness highlighted significant lapses in communication within the police department.
Detective Lugo’s Responses
In a follow-up interview, Detective Lugo confirmed knowledge of Jeffrey's death but provided vague details, further fueling Jenn's suspicions of dishonesty.
[08:20] Jenn Swan: "Did you know about that?"
[08:23] Detective Lugo: "Yes. It's very tragic."
Jenn noticed inconsistencies in Detective Lugo's reactions and responses, suggesting he might be withholding information.
Interview with the Bartender
Seeking clarity, Jenn traveled to Mexico to speak with a bartender who had worked with Victor, the man convicted of Daisy's murder. The bartender revealed:
[17:09] Bartender: "He's a nice guy, quiet, relaxed."
[17:59] Jenn Swan: "Billy the Kid, the Wild West outlaw who went on the run after committing a series of murders."
The bartender provided insights into Victor's double life, working as "Billy" in a popular beach bar while hiding his criminal activities.
Victor’s Arrest and Social Media Impact
Jenn explores the circumstances leading to Victor's arrest, emphasizing the role of social media. Multiple avenues—Instagram DMs, voicemails, and TikTok videos—converged to identify Victor.
[15:04] Bartender: "They're calling me."
[14:51] Wendy Tinoko: "Detectives told me, they're just calling me."
Ultimately, a viral TikTok video played a crucial role in exposing Victor's true identity, leading to his swift apprehension.
Investigating Jeffrey’s Murder
Jenn shifts focus to the unresolved homicide of Jeffrey Tinoko. Through public records requests, she uncovers the official police narrative:
[27:29] Jenn Swan: "Jeffrey and a few friends had ordered a pizza when the pizza delivery guy got there. They flashed guns and attempted to steal his jewelry and cash."
Despite the details, no suspects have been charged, leaving Jeffrey’s case open and his family seeking justice.
Wendy’s TikTok Tributes
Jeffrey’s mother, Wendy Tinoko, utilized TikTok to memorialize her son, inadvertently contributing to the viral spread that aided Daisy’s case. Jenn highlights the emotional significance of Wendy’s posts:
[30:40] Jenn Swan: "This little chihuahua that I have."
[31:03] Jenn Swan: "This video was taken at the mall food court. Jeffrey was wearing a white hoodie and sipping on a purple smoothie."
Wendy’s heartfelt videos garnered over a million views, showcasing how personal tributes can resonate widely on social media platforms.
The Power and Pitfalls of Social Media
Jenn reflects on the dual-edged nature of social media in criminal investigations:
[22:16] Wendy Tinoko: "Or schools."
[31:14] Jenn Swan: "Sarah Turney ... said that TikTok, it's kind of like a slot machine, and you never really know what's going to hit, what's going to be rewarded by the algorithm."
While social media was instrumental in solving Daisy’s case, it also complicated Jeffrey’s investigation, leaving his family yearning for answers.
Conclusion
"Cat Eyes" underscores the intricate relationship between modern technology and law enforcement. Jenn Swan poignantly illustrates how platforms like TikTok can galvanize communities to seek justice, yet also highlights the challenges and emotional toll when investigations remain incomplete. The episode serves as a testament to the enduring quest for truth and the profound impact of social media in contemporary crime-solving.
Notable Quotes:
- Jenn Swan ([06:20]): "I know. Me, too. Me, too."
- Detective Lugo ([13:31]): "We know what we did. We know who we talked to."
- Bartender ([17:53]): "And he was always here. He always here."
Dedication
This episode is dedicated to the memories of Daisy de La O and Jeffrey Tinoko. Jen Swan extends heartfelt thanks to everyone who shared their memories, including Juan de La O, Daisy's grandfather.
About the Series
"My Friend Daisy" is a ten-part investigative podcast produced by London Audio and supported by Sony Music Entertainment. Executive producers include Paris Hilton, Bruce Gersh, Bruce Robertson, Joanna Studebaker, and Jonathan Hirsch. The series is reported, written, and hosted by Jenn Swan, an L.A. journalist dedicated to uncovering the truth behind Daisy's murder and the broader implications of community-driven justice.