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Narc Con
Hosted by Paula D'Arcy · EN
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Narc Con is the go-to podcast for understanding narcissistic personality disorder, covert narcissism, and the manipulation tactics narcissists use in relationships — with a particular focus on intimate partnerships, as well as family and workplace dynamics. Narc Con explores the psychology and the deeper spiritual understanding behind narcissistic relationships, gaslighting, manipulation, and recovery, helping you see the patterns clearly from both angles and find your way back to yourself.
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When The Demon Is Dimmed In The Narcissist - (Narcissistic Collapse)
2d ago00:30:13Tap to summarizeNarcissistic Collapse will occur throughout a narcissist’s lifetime on various occasions when their narcissism fails to achieve its agendas on multiple fronts and supply levels are very low. Narcissists can suffer mini collapses and major and final collapses in the majority as a result of their past and present behaviours coming back to haunt them. Too often narcissists act in the moment without looking at the long term consequences of poor decisions. It is important to be aware of how genuine the narcissist will appear during these collapses to prevent yourself being drawn back in to partake in their behaviour cycle once again, negatively impacting your own life. This podcast suggests ways both to recognize narcissistic collapse and how to navigate such occurrences.Coaching - narcscon@gmail.comhttps://youtu.be/nEQkBMg5BUsCOACHING Enquiries - narcscon@gmail.com 🏃🎧 PODCAST On The Go - Channel Membership Spotify:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/narccon/subscribe🎧 AUDIOBOOKWeaponized Love:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ📘 Read the BOOK: Weaponised Love –https://lm.fm/r3aEwvK 💜 Support the Channel: DONATE via PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=...Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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Finding Your ‘Passion and Purpose’ After a Covert NARCISSIST — Interview Narc Con & Donal O’ Brien
4d ago00:46:33Tap to summarizeIn this conversation, Irish author and speaker Donal O’Brien joins us to explore how you can find your passion and purpose after a narcissistic relationship — and why this process matters for anyone rebuilding their sense of self, regardless of what brought them to this point. Losing touch with your own identity is one of the most disorienting parts of being with a narcissist. You second-guess your instincts, your interests, even your sense of who you are. This interview is designed as a healing tool: a guide back to the parts of yourself that got buried, silenced, or dismissed along the way. Donal shares his perspective on purpose, passion, and reconnecting with what makes you feel alive again — drawing on his own work and experience as an author and speaker. Whether you’re recovering from a narcissistic relationship or simply feel disconnected from your own direction in life, this conversation offers practical wisdom and a spiritual perspective on rebuilding from the inside out. If you’re ready to move from surviving to rediscovering who you really are, this episode will help you take that next step. Subscribe for more conversations on narcissism, recovery, and reclaiming your life.#NarcissisticRelationship #FindingYourPurpose #DonalOBrienhttps://youtu.be/gsUnODCEj2ADonal’s Book: (Finding Your True Passion & Purpose)https://www.amazon.ie/dp/B0G4JKLGRY🎧 AUDIOBOOKWeaponized Love:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ📘 Read the BOOK: Weaponised Love –https://lm.fm/r3aEwvK COACHING Enquiries - narcscon@gmail.com 🏃🎧 PODCAST On The Go - Channel Membership Spotify:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/narccon/subscribe💜 Support the Channel: DONATE via PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=...Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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“THE NARCISSIST’S DELUSION: When It Borders On Psychosis”
2w ago00:24:37Tap to summarizeNarcissists don’t see reality the way you do. Their grandiose sense of self can twist into a delusion so deep it starts to resemble psychosis — distorting truth, denying facts, and rewriting events to protect their fragile ego. In this video, you’ll learn how covert narcissism fuels this disconnection from reality, why they truly believe their own lies, and how to recognize when a narcissist’s delusion has crossed a line you need to take seriously. If you’re trying to understand the mind of a narcissist and protect your own sense of reality in the process, this breakdown will give you the clarity you need.#narcissism #narcissisticdelusions #crazyhttps://youtu.be/eBAvqDIzz7c🎧 AUDIOBOOKWeaponized Love:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ📘 Read the BOOK: Weaponised Love –https://lm.fm/r3aEwvK COACHING Enquiries - narcscon@gmail.com 🏃🎧 PODCAST On The Go - Membership Spotify:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/narccon/subscribe💜 Support the Channel: DONATE via PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=...Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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How Narcissists Use Your Empathy As A Weapon Against You
2w ago00:21:16Tap to summarizeIf you are an empath or highly sensitive person, narcissists do not find you by accident — and the covert narcissist in particular is an expert at this. Quietly observing, the covert narcissist zeros in on your compassion and uses it to manipulate, control and keep you stuck. In this video, Narc Con breaks down exactly how they do it. Narc Con is one of Ireland’s only dedicated narcissism awareness channels, covering covert narcissism, narcissistic personality disorder, gaslighting, love bombing, manipulation tactics, emotional manipulation, empaths and narcissists, no contact, and toxic relationship dynamics.#narcissism #empathy #manipulation https://youtu.be/9L_E_yPQzLYSubscribe for straight-talking NPD content that gives you the clarity you deserve.COACHING Enquiries - narcscon@gmail.com 🏃🎧 PODCAST On The Go - Channel Membership Spotify:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/narccon/subscribe🎧 AUDIOBOOKWeaponized Love:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ📘 Read the BOOK: Weaponised Love –https://lm.fm/r3aEwvK 💜 Support the Channel: DONATE via PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=...Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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What Narcissists Do When They Realize You’ve Figured Them Out | Narc Con
3w ago00:18:40Tap to summarizeWhen a narcissist realizes you have finally seen through their mask, their behavior shifts in calculated and often dangerous ways. In this video, we break down exactly what happens when a narcissist knows you have figured them out, including the tactics they use to regain control, silence you, and protect their carefully constructed false image. From sudden love bombing and hoovering attempts to smear campaigns, silent treatment, rage, and triangulation, narcissists follow predictable patterns when they feel exposed. Understanding these manipulation tactics is the first step toward protecting yourself and breaking free from the narcissistic abuse cycle for good.Whether you are dealing with a narcissistic partner, parent, friend, or coworker, recognizing these warning signs can help you set firm boundaries and stop the cycle of emotional manipulation. This video covers covert narcissism, overt narcissism, narcissistic rage, narcissistic collapse, and the psychological tactics used when a narcissist feels their control slipping away. If you have recently gone no contact, implemented gray rock, or started setting boundaries with a narcissist, this video will help you understand why their behavior is escalating and what to expect next.Narc Con is your trusted resource for narcissistic abuse recovery, understanding personality disorders, and rebuilding your life after toxic relationships. Subscribe for weekly content on healing from narcissistic abuse, identifying red flags, and reclaiming your self-worth after covert and overt narcissistic manipulation.#narcissist exposed #narcissisticinjury #narcissismhttps://youtu.be/HJkkMPRmaK8COACHING Enquiries - narcscon@gmail.com 🏃🎧 PODCAST On The Go - Channel Membership Spotify:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/narccon/subscribe🎧 AUDIOBOOKWeaponized Love:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ📘 Read the BOOK: Weaponised Love –https://lm.fm/r3aEwvK 💜 Support the Channel: DONATE via PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=...Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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The Narcissist's Silent Treatment: Why They Do It and How to Respond
4w ago00:29:58Tap to summarizeThe narcissist's silent treatment is more than just ignoring someone—it's a powerful manipulation tactic designed to control, punish, and create emotional confusion. In this video, we explore why narcissists use the silent treatment, what they hope to achieve, and the psychological impact it can have on their targets. We'll also examine this behavior through the lens of the brain's three evolutionary layers—the reptilian brain focused on survival and control, the limbic brain driven by emotions and attachment, and the neocortex responsible for reasoning and conscious decision-making—to better understand how both narcissists and their targets process these interactions and make choices. You'll learn how the silent treatment differs from healthy space-taking, the common triggers behind this behavior, and practical strategies for protecting your emotional well-being. Whether you're dealing with a narcissistic partner, family member, friend, or coworker, understanding this toxic pattern can help you respond with clarity and confidence.#Narcissism #SilentTreatment #nocontact https://youtu.be/nZhGoJrNRi0COACHING Enquiries - narcscon@gmail.com 🏃🎧 PODCAST On The Go - Channel Membership Spotify:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/narccon/subscribe🎧 AUDIOBOOKWeaponized Love:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ📘 Read the BOOK: Weaponised Love –https://lm.fm/r3aEwvK 💜 Support the Channel: DONATE via PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=...Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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How Awakening an Empath Totally Backfires on The Narcissist
4w ago00:27:09Tap to summarizeExplore how awakening as an empath can completely backfire on the narcissist through the lens of Carl Jung’s theories of consciousness, shadow work, and self-awareness. This video uncovers the empath’s journey to awakening through pattern recognition, emotional intelligence, and the breaking of toxic cycles. Learn how recognizing manipulation, trauma patterns, and unconscious behaviors shifts the balance of power, causing the narcissist’s control to collapse as the empath steps into clarity, boundaries, and personal transformation.#spiritualawakening #empowerment #narcissismhttps://youtu.be/vsiOUA5byXM• COACHING Enquiries - narcscon@gmail.com 🏃🎧 PODCAST On The Go - Channel Membership Spotify:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/narccon/subscribe🎧 AUDIOBOOKWeaponized Love:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ📘 Read the BOOK: Weaponised Love –https://lm.fm/r3aEwvK 💜 Support the Channel: DONATE via PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=...Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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8 Reasons Why YOUR No Contact Crushes The Narcissist
Jul 1200:31:30Tap to summarizeDiscover the 8 powerful reasons why no contact completely disrupts a narcissist’s emotional control and attention-seeking behavior. This video breaks down the psychology behind narcissistic supply, manipulation patterns, and why distance is one of the strongest tools for healing after toxic relationships. Learn what really happens when you stop engaging. Discover the powerful psychological impact of the no contact rule and why it disrupts a narcissist’s sense of control, attention, and validation. This article explains how maintaining distance can shift the emotional dynamic, weaken manipulation patterns, and support personal healing after a toxic relationship. Learn the key reasons no contact affects narcissistic behavior and why consistency is essential for recovery and emotional clarity.#narcissist #nocontact #relationshiphttps://youtu.be/8FhwE5cio5M• narcissist #narcissisticabuse #discardedCOACHING Enquiries - narcscon@gmail.com 🏃🎧 PODCAST On The Go - Channel Membership Spotify:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/narccon/subscribe🎧 AUDIOBOOKWeaponized Love:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ📘 Read the BOOK: Weaponised Love –https://lm.fm/r3aEwvK 💜 Support the Channel: DONATE via PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=...Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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The Narcissist Will Target the 10 Commandments with Intent
Jul 600:27:40Tap to summarizeExplore how narcissistic personalities interpret and distort God’s law, especially the Ten Commandments, through a psychological and spiritual lens. This video breaks down the mindset of a narcissist when confronted with moral authority, accountability, and divine standards. Learn how entitlement, lack of empathy, and the need for control influence their view of sin, obedience, and righteousness. Discover the deeper contrast between biblical principles and narcissistic behavior, and gain insight into how these dynamics can affect relationships, faith, and personal growth. This content is ideal for those interested in psychology, spirituality, and understanding toxic personality traits in a religious context.#10commandments #narcissism #narcissisticpersonalityhttps://youtu.be/0OuvPq26MnYMembership on Spotify:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/miracle196/subscribe• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/*Listen to my audiobook:Weaponized Love: Understanding How Narcissists Think Is Key to Protect, Heal and Thriveyou can listen to the full audiobook here:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.
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When The Narcissist Slips Up Disastrously (Darkest Revelations)
Jun 2200:28:37Tap to summarize#narcissist #narcissism #toxicrelationships In this video, we uncover the two moments when a narcissist slips up disastrously and exposes their darkest revelations. Narcissists work hard to maintain a carefully crafted image, but under pressure, their mask can crack, revealing manipulation, lack of empathy, and hidden intentions. By understanding these critical situations, you will be able to recognize the warning signs early and see through the illusion before deeper emotional damage occurs.By refusing to play the role a narcissist expects, you disrupt the entire dynamic they rely on to maintain control and conceal their darker nature. Narcissists thrive on predictable reactions such as emotional engagement, defensiveness, or validation, because these responses feed their sense of power and keep their image intact. When you remain calm, detached, and grounded instead of reacting the way they anticipate, it creates a gap between their expectations and reality. In that gap, their frustration builds, and this often leads to emotional outbursts, contradictions, or manipulative tactics becoming more obvious to others.https://youtu.be/zrghe6LAGAk• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/*Listen to my audiobook:Weaponized Love: Understanding How Narcissists Think Is Key to Protect, Heal and Thriveyou can listen to the full audiobook here:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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