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Did you ever wonder why a relationship didn't work out despite your best efforts, be it intimate, familial, friendship or workplace? Narc Con Podcast covers the possibility that there may have been a narcissist involved in such destructive and unrewarding relationships. Wed delve into exactly why a relationship with a narcissist or NPD personality disordered individual is always going to be highly problematic. We look at all areas of Narcissism and Narcissistic Abuse with particular emphasis on the intimate relationship setting, where behavior patterns are more intensely evident. We believe, that in understanding a Covert Narcissist fully, we can in turn expedite our healing. The Majority of survivors of a Narcissist actually use the healing process to propel themselves forward to follow their true life purpose, in a more spiritually awakened and fulsome manner. The ethos of this educational podcast is to keep things everyday and simple to enhance relatability. It’s becoming an essential tool to enhance our ability to identify malignant narcissistic individuals in this modern world, where there is so much exposure to new people, without a more traditional community based point of reference, to assess trustworthiness via reputation. Identifying a Covert Narcissist’s behavior patterns and relationship cycles in romantic, workplace, familial and friendship settings can save hurt, financial abuse, and loss of time, when a person is educated in narcissistic abuse. In general this channel views the narcissist from two perspectives psychology and spirituality. It’s both a diabolical disorder and a fascinating eye opening study. You are very welcome here.
What triggers a narcissist to come back after they discarded you? Many survivors of narcissistic abuse are shocked when an ex suddenly reappears just as they start healing, moving on, or looking happier without them. This is known as hoovering—a manipulation tactic used to pull you back into the cycle of control. In this video, we break down the exact emotional and psychological triggers that cause narcissists to hoover, including loss of control, jealousy, new relationships, and the fear of losing their narcissistic supply. Understanding these patterns helps you recognize their behavior for what it is and avoid being drawn back into toxic dynamics.You’ll learn:• The biggest triggers that make a narcissist reach out again• Why they often return when you seem happiest or strongest• The difference between genuine remorse and manipulation• How to protect yourself and maintain no contactIf you’ve been discarded by a narcissist and are wondering why they suddenly resurfaced, this video will help you make sense of their behavior and stay focused on your healing journey.#narcissist #hoovering #narcissisticabusehttps://youtu.be/sSgIqbsN2nE• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this YouTube interview, Vance from the Female Covert Narc channel joins Narccon to discuss the traits and behaviors of the female covert narcissist, often referred to as the “Black Widow.” The conversation explores how female covert narcissists use subtle manipulation, emotional control, victim playing, and psychological tactics to dominate relationships while maintaining a hidden public image.Vance’s Channel - @FemaleCovertNarc (Fantastic series of interviews with a diverse range of experts providing education and advice on NPD focusing in particular on the female narcissist).Channel link: https://youtube.com/@FemaleCovertNarc?si=VXAjaoYsMxNpjGx1#LetThemGo is a video series aimed at helping men identify, exit, and recover from relationships with women diagnosed with or suspected of having female covert narcissism.https://youtu.be/_lAqUANFigIMen, does your female partner gaslight, blame shift, constantly move the boundaries in your relationship, roll her eyes at you, lie, interrupt you, talk over you, explode in response to the slightest hint of anything critical or even the simplest mistake, and always play the victim while portraying you as the perpetual villain, regardless if she is at fault? If so, you may be in a relationship with a female covert narcissist. The only thing more difficult than being with a narcissist is trying to coparent with one. Just when you think it's all over after the divorce or ending of the relationship, there is no need for a narcissistic mother to wear the mask, and her behavior can become absolutely awful, often involving manipulation of the children and weaponizing them against you.#femalecovertnarcissist #narcissist #letthemgo• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/*Listen to my audiobook:Weaponized Love: Understanding How Narcissists Think Is Key to Protect, Heal and Thriveyou can listen to the full audiobook here:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
The Antichrist behind the “Godly Narcissist’s Mask” is a form of spiritual deception many people struggle to recognize. In this video, we explore how narcissistic individuals can hide behind religion, faith, and a godly image while manipulating others for control, power, and admiration. These individuals often appear righteous, humble, and spiritually mature on the surface, yet their actions reveal patterns of pride, domination, spiritual abuse, and lack of genuine love.We examine the concept of the antichrist spirit described in Scripture and how it can manifest through religious narcissism. Many people have experienced toxic church leadership, controlling spiritual mentors, or partners who use faith as a weapon. Understanding the difference between true spiritual fruit and narcissistic manipulation is essential for protecting your faith and spiritual well-being. This discussion looks at the psychological traits of narcissism alongside biblical warnings about false teachers, wolves in sheep’s clothing, and those who claim to represent God while actually serving their own ego. Recognizing these patterns can help believers discern authentic faith from spiritual performance.#narcissism #antichrist #holynarcissisthttps://youtu.be/HRhNw3b-gxk• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Discover how aging narcissists intensify their need for control as they face the final chapter of life. This video explores the psychology behind older narcissists, why their behavior can become more manipulative, and the emotional impact on family members and partners. Learn the warning signs, the tactics they use to maintain power, and practical insights for protecting your boundaries and well-being when dealing with a narcissist in later life. Why when the world seems like it is discarding the narcissist in death, the narcissist attempts to discard the world using chaos and destruction as they do when in a one to one relationship discard.#agingnarcissist #narcissism #malignantnarcissism https://youtu.be/xVyKAdRwqUU• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When you confront narcissistic behavior such as gaslighting, manipulation, lying, or emotional abuse, the reaction is rarely calm. In this video, we break down how narcissists respond to exposure, including narcissistic rage, blame shifting, silent treatment, smear campaigns, and DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). We also cover the Narc Con channel version known as DABD: Deny, Attack, Blame, and Deflect/Distract — a common pattern narcissists use to avoid accountability, shift focus, and regain control. If you are dealing with a covert narcissist, toxic partner, narcissistic parent, or narcissist at work, this video will help you understand what to expect and how to protect yourself when confronting narcissistic abuse.#narcissist #narcissisticabuse #gaslightinghttps://youtu.be/atya8ZiazdU• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Narcissist Will Always Slip When They Become Bloated On Control explores what really happens when a narcissist feels untouchable. When control feeds their ego, overconfidence often leads to mistakes. In this video, we break down how narcissistic behavior escalates once they believe they have full power over a situation, a relationship, or the people around them.You will learn why narcissists become careless when they feel secure in their manipulation, how excessive control creates blind spots, and the subtle signs that reveal their mask beginning to fall. As their need for dominance grows, so does their arrogance, and that is often when the truth starts to surface.#narcissist #narcissism #controlhttps://youtu.be/4EMjylKCF3Y• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why do narcissistic relationships feel chemically addictive? The truth is more disturbing than most people realize. Narcissists do not addict you to them. They addict you to yourself. Then they quietly take control of the production and withholding of your own feel-good hormones. In this video, we explore the hidden mechanism narcissists use to create emotional and spiritual addiction. During the idealization phase, they mirror you, amplify you, and reflect back your most desired self-image. The confidence, excitement, chemistry, and euphoria you feel are not coming from them. They are triggering dopamine, oxytocin, adrenaline, and validation circuits that were already inside you. You experience an enhanced version of yourself and mistake that biochemical high for love. Once your nervous system associates them with access to that heightened state, the control begins. Through intermittent reinforcement, emotional withdrawal, devaluation, and unpredictability, they begin regulating the supply. The same person who activated your confidence and joy now withholds attention, approval, affection, or connection. Your brain responds the way it would to any addictive cycle: craving, anxiety, obsession, and a desperate attempt to get the “high” back. Psychologically, this creates trauma bonding through reward conditioning and hormone dysregulation. Spiritually, it feels like a spell because your perception becomes distorted. You believe they are the source of your happiness, when in reality they only learned how to trigger and control your internal chemistry.The power shift happens when you realize the truth. They were never the source. They were manipulating access. Once you see how the cycle works, the illusion weakens. When you reclaim control of your own emotional regulation and self-generated validation, their leverage disappears.https://youtu.be/OVH7YvqWLvE#narcissist #narcissisticabuse #addictionawareness • Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
The Narcissist ALWAYS Knows They’ll LEAVE You – and that’s the part no one talks about.#narcissism #narcissist #endingLong before the relationship ends, the narcissist has already planned their exit. While you’re investing emotionally, trying to fix things, believing the future you were promised, they are quietly preparing their next move. The truth is painful but empowering: the discard is rarely impulsive. It is calculated. In this video, we break down how narcissists think ahead in relationships, why they line up new supply before leaving, and how subtle behavioral shifts reveal their internal decision long before you see it. You’ll learn the early signs that they are emotionally detaching, why they keep you confused instead of communicating honestly, and how future faking keeps you bonded while they prepare to walk away.https://youtu.be/Y7t76VAAGFo• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Narcissist Was Assigned to You (And They Don’t Hunt Alone) explores the disturbing experience many survivors describe after the discard — when it feels like the abuse didn’t end, it multiplied. If you’ve felt targeted, attacked by multiple narcissistic personalities, or as if a wave of strange conflict and misfortune followed you while you were simply trying to survive, this video examines the bigger psychological picture behind that pattern.After a narcissistic discard, it can seem as though others suddenly turn against you, new narcissists enter your life, and coordinated hostility begins to surface. We break down how smear campaigns spread, how toxic personality types are often drawn into existing narratives, and why survivors can feel as if there is a larger dark plan unfolding. Rather than confirming a literal assignment, this discussion explores the psychological, social, and behavioral dynamics that make the experience feel orchestrated and intentional.https://youtu.be/wYKPXhL647g#demonicforces #narcissist #narcissisticabuse• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
#narcissistic behavior cycle #narcissist discard phase #narcissist’s regretThis video breaks down the narcissistic behavior cycle—idealization, devaluation, discard—and the narrative shift that happens after the discard, once the narcissist realizes what they actually lost in you. At first, the discard is framed as control. You’re painted as “the problem,” minimized, or erased to protect their ego. But over time, when replacement supply fails to deliver the same regulation, loyalty, or depth, the internal story changes. The loss of you disrupts the narrative they used to justify leaving. In this video, you’ll learn, how narcissists rewrite reality during the discard phase. Why they must demonize or devalue you to leave without shame. What triggers the internal realization that you were a real loss. How the story shifts from “you were nothing” to silent comparison and regret. Why this realization rarely leads to accountability—but often to hoovering. This is not about them suddenly loving you or gaining insight. It’s about the collapse of a false narrative once your absence exposes what you provided that cannot be easily replaced. If you were discarded and later felt the energy change, the silence break, or the story around you subtly rewrite itself, this video will help you understand why. The cycle didn’t end because you were replaceable. It ended because you were no longer controllable.https://youtu.be/gJVPX62MntI• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy