B (14:20)
Yeah, exactly. And finally I just figured there's two. There's. There's lots of little micro moments. But one of them was like, I was reading all these self help books at that time. So I was reading like, you know, a few books a week because I was like, trying to, like, you know, invest in myself. And I realized after, like my 20th self help book that, like, my life was the same. And some of the books said things that contradicted one another. You know what I mean? Some of them were like, manifest everything. Other ones are like, don't manifest anything. And I was like, and so sorry if I cuss you can. And so finally it was actually like, downside. Yeah, just like downside decision making. Which is like, what, what ended up driving it for me. Just saying like, okay, well, worst case scenario is I lose all the money that I've saved up and my business fails. And then I can go to business school with, like a real world experience and I can write essays about it or whatever. So that was like, it sounds so simple now, but, like, that is being my worst case. Ended up being the thing that I decided to, like, lean a lot on. And so I still knew my dad wasn't gonna be game for it. So I basically left without telling anyone. And I called my dad when I was halfway across the country. Cause I drove to California and I called him up and I was like, hey, you know, just wanna let, you know I wanna start that business. And he was like, all right, we'll come over, we can talk about it. And I'd already had, you know, I'd already knew that he would Just talk me off the ledge again. And so I was like, no, I can't. He was like, why? I was like, I'm in Ohio right now. I'm just like. And then, and then obviously at that point he, you know, was very upset. And I said, why are you so extreme? You always, you know, like you're never balanced. Like you need to be more balanced, blah, blah, blah. And then. And the thing is, a lot of people will hear that story and be like, oh, well, it's cool. Your dad's probably happy with you now. But like, we weren't cool for a while. Like a long while. Not like months, but like years. You know, we stayed in touch. Like, I'm his son, I was alive. You know, I shoot the occasional text, like two, three minute call, like once a month or something. But yeah, so I, I looked at three different businesses. I thought about starting a frozen yogurt stand, a test prep, because I was good at taking standardized tests. And I mean, because I. Because I'd gone From like a 6:30, I think on the GMAT when I took it the first time to 7:30 or 740, which was like 20 points higher than Harvard's mint score at the time to get it, actually. So you just did yours. So, like. Yeah. So you're probably familiar with this. I got a 730, 740 on it. And all I did to prep for it was I bought every GMAT book at Barnes and Noble in like the test prep section. They're all like these phone book thick things. Because I found this research study that said there's this line on a chart that said the more problems you do, the better your score is. Like, it was just straight up, just like problems score. And so I was like, great, I can like input out output equations for like success. Like, I can do that. And So I did four hours a day of problems for 16 weeks. And that's what got my, that's what got my score above Harvard's mid score. And so I was like, okay, I could, I could teach people how to do that. And so anyways, I couldn't afford the yogurt thing. Cause when I called up like franchises and stuff, they were like, it's 250 grand. I was like, I don't have that kind of money. And so then it was just test prep and gyms because I was into fitness already. So I was like, I kind of have a little bit advantage there. And then I was going to do a test prep thing and then I prepped all this stuff, and I gave it to somebody who was going to be my partner, and then they ended up taking it and just doing it on their own. And so I kind of had, like, a bad taste in my mouth from that. So I was like, I guess I'm going to do fitness. And I had this lady at the gym that I was working out at ask me to meet her for lunch. Like a mom. Like a much older lady. And I was like, it wasn't weird. So anyways, I met her for lunch because she wanted to ask me about nutrition. So I was like, sure. And so I talked to her for an hour about, like, what she could do with her food or whatever. And then she handed me a check for a hundred bucks. And I didn't. Like, I didn't. You know, it wasn't. I wasn't in business, but the idea that this lady just gave me a check for $100 for, like, sitting down with her, I was like, whoa. Like, I could make money doing this. And so there was a lot of, like, little things that happened. And then when I finally decided to leave was because I reached out to 40 different gym owners who looked like they were doing okay, and I just said, like, can I just work for you for free? And no one got back to me except for one guy, and he said, yeah, you can work for me for free. And so I drove across the country to his gym, and I, like, showed up at the front door, and he was like. I was like, hey, I'm here. And he was like, I'm doing right now. What's up, man? Yeah, like, she was like. He was like, well, where are you staying? I was like, I don't know yet. He's like, you mean you literally, like, drove directly to my gym? I was like, yeah. Like, I was. I didn't know. You know what I mean? And so he was like. He's like, you can stay at my place tonight, but, like, you need to find someplace. I was like, ah, I'll figure it out. And so the next morning, he, like, went, like, stand up, stood on a box and was like, hey, does anybody have an extra bedroom for this kid? And he's, like, pointing at me, like, in the thick of, like, a gym. And this dude came up to me, and I, like, worked out with that gym owner. He had, like, a crew of three or four guys that he trained with in the morning at, like, 4am and so one of the guys I'd worked out with was like, you can stay one of my spare bedrooms. And so, you know, I paid a few hundred bucks a month in rent for one of these, this guy's bedroom. He wanted to get in shape. He was like, hey, just make sure I don't eat like crap. And I was like, okay, I can do that. And that was how I got my, you know, got my foot into fitness. And as a, as a, as a fun side note for the audience, like, like I was, I was working a white collar job, you know, on pace to be able to make, you know, 100 grand plus, and then, you know, obviously two years after business school, you know, scale up from there and I went all the way back to basically being a trainer, which doesn't even require a college education or the experience I had for, I think it was like, I don't know, 12 bucks an hour or something like that. I don't even know what I was getting paid. And so, like, a lot of times I think you have to take some steps back if you want to, if you want to start something new.