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Andrea Dunlop (0:04)
True Story Media before we begin, a quick warning that in this show we discuss child abuse and this content may be difficult for some listeners. If you or anyone you know is a victim or survivor of medical child abuse, Please go to munchausensupport.com to connect with professionals who can help throughout the first year of my nephew's life, things felt increasingly off with my sister. It was just a million small things about her baby's development and especially his eating issues after being diagnosed failure to thrive. He'd had a nasal gastric tube inserted to help with his feeding, and this tube is in most of the pictures I have of him. And then Megan started talking about him needing a G tube, which would require a surgery. It was around this time that my mother went to the gastroenterologist with Megan and heard him say that he didn't think my nephew needed it yet. And this was all happening against the backdrop of a long history of her deceptions. My sister's own questionable surgeries, her faked twin pregnancy, and the dramatic loss of those babies that never were. I remember going with her to an ultrasound when she was pregnant with my nephew and seeing the image of the baby with my own eyes and still feeling unsure if he was real. This makes me realize how much I already knew about the true hero, how hard I was working to hide it from myself. But pushing him towards a surgery he didn't need crossed a line. My parents met with their family doctor and she gave them the words for the pattern we'd been seeing Munchausen by proxy. I remember them sitting down to tell me that evening, and I thought, our family is over. She'll never forgive us because we knew we had to intervene. There never seemed at least the three of us, to be another option. I only wish that every family saw it this way. People believe their eyes. That's something that is so central to this topic because we do believe the people that we love when they're telling us something. If we didn't, you could never make it through your day. I'm Andrea Dunlop, and this is Nobody Should Believe Me. I want to tell you about a really wonderful organization we're supporting this month. Equality Texas has been working for full equality for LGBTQ Texans since 1978 through political action, education and community organizing. Texas is not my home state, but it is near and dear to my heart. Several of our team members are based in Texas, as are many of the people you've heard from on this show and many of our listeners over the last few years. LGBTQ folks in Texas have faced increasing restrictions on private decisions, private actions and private spaces, and Equality Texas has been on the forefront of fighting back. During the last legislative session, equality Texas stopped 96% of the 160 bills that would have restricted freedoms for LGBTQ Texans. And I believe that the fight for our queer communities is a fight for us all. So join me in supporting Equality Texas as they hold the line for freedom in the Lone Star State. If you are in Texas, you can sign up for their newsletter@equalitytexas.org where you can learn about upcoming events like their Lobby Day at the state Capitol on March 24. And even if you're not one of our Texas listeners, your donation will go a long way towards helping these fine folks keep doing this crucial work. You can find a link to donate in the show notes, and if you do donate, please be sure to send us a screenshot@helloobodyshouldbelieveme.com so we can match your donation. This ad was provided pro bono.
