Podcast Summary: "Nobody Should Believe Me" – Special Episode Featuring Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco

Podcast Information:

• Title: Nobody Should Believe Me
• Host/Author: True Story Media
• Episode: Special Feature with Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco
• Release Date: April 4, 2025

Introduction In this special episode of "Nobody Should Believe Me," hosted by Jay Shetty, the conversation shifts from its usual investigative focus to a heartfelt and intimate dialogue with global pop sensation Selena Gomez and acclaimed music producer Benny Blanco. This episode delves deep into their personal love story, exploring the dynamics of their relationship, handling fame, and collaborating creatively.

Meeting and Initial Relationship The episode begins with Jay Shetty introducing Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, reflecting on their first meeting and the initial impressions they had of each other.

• [02:36] Selena Gomez: "Thank you so much for joining."
• [02:55] Jay Shetty: "When you first were meeting and recording together, there was a sense of you were protecting yourself. What gave you confidence to open up?"
• [03:05] Selena Gomez: "What I felt for Benny, it was. Everything about him was honest. He'll tell me anything that he's feeling. Made me feel like I could do the same."

Benny Blanco recounts his memories of meeting Selena, highlighting her authenticity and depth.

• [03:16] Benny Blanco: "If we would have met each other when we were younger, it would have never worked. We've both grown as individuals and met at the perfect time, and I believe life is like that."

Building Trust and Communication The conversation moves to the challenges of transitioning from friends to romantic partners, emphasizing trust and effective communication as pillars of their relationship.

• [05:11] Selena Gomez: "Really? Is that so?"
• [05:12] Jay Shetty: "Yeah."
• [05:13] Benny Blanco: "Well, it's just like when you're an adult, it's like, I have my people, and it's like, what I have to let a new Person in..."

Selena shares her journey of overcoming self-protection mechanisms to embrace vulnerability with Benny.

• [21:31] Selena Gomez: "I think, first of all, making plans and trying to stick to them is silly because you don't know what's going to happen. And I can't believe that I get to marry my best friend."

Managing Long-Distance and Busy Schedules Both Selena and Benny discuss the complexities of maintaining a relationship amidst demanding careers and geographical distances.

• [25:28] Selena Gomez: "Biggest thing in the world is trust. I can say with all my heart that I trust this person..."
• [26:19] Benny Blanco: "I feel like at the beginning, there were a few almost sabotages. She didn't. Like, she was like, that's fair."

They highlight the importance of regular communication and reassurance to sustain their bond.

Collaboration on Music The episode delves into their creative process, showcasing how their relationship has enhanced their professional collaboration.

• [80:07] Selena Gomez: "I never allowed him in the room."
• [80:10] Benny Blanco: "What's really different is I feel like we got to talk about stuff that she would never talk about as an artist if it wasn't with her partner being next to her."

Selena describes the album they worked on together as a therapeutic and bonding experience.

• [80:14] Jay Shetty: "Well, you were saying to me when we spoke on the phone, I think it was last week, you were saying that there was just. It was like a safe space to be."

Engagement Story A poignant segment where Benny shares the story of proposing to Selena, contrasted with Jay Shetty's personal proposal anecdote.

• [68:30] Selena Gomez: "Like, we have a video of it, but I want to save that for us and just keep that private..."
• [70:06] Jay Shetty: "I would tell it. It's embarrassing, but I'll tell it."

Selena recounts the surprise and emotional impact of Benny's thoughtful proposal involving Whataburger, reflecting their unique and personal approach to love.

Handling Criticism and Public Life The duo discusses navigating public scrutiny and maintaining personal privacy in the face of fame.

• [32:15] Benny Blanco: "I remember there was a time we didn't want this to be, like, a public thing..."
• [43:34] Jay Shetty: "Yeah, I think you have that, too. And it's why you've been so successful in music, Benny, yourself."

They emphasize the importance of mutual support and understanding in shielding their relationship from external pressures.

Plans for the Future Looking ahead, Selena and Benny share their excitement about future projects, including wedding plans and continuing their musical collaboration.

• [87:49] Benny Blanco: "We have not even begun. Because I think for right now, there's just so much going on..."
• [90:32] Selena Gomez: "It'll be fun."

Key Takeaways and Insights

• Authenticity and Honesty: Central to Selena and Benny's relationship is their unwavering honesty and ability to be their true selves.
• Trust and Communication: Building trust through consistent communication has been fundamental to overcoming challenges.
• Balancing Career and Love: Both emphasize the importance of supporting each other's professional endeavors while nurturing their personal bond.
• Creative Synergy: Their collaboration on music has not only enriched their careers but also strengthened their emotional connection.
• Handling Public Life: Mutual respect and understanding help them navigate the complexities of fame without compromising their relationship.

Notable Quotes:

• [21:31] Selena Gomez: "I can't believe that I get to marry my best friend."
• [26:19] Benny Blanco: "I believe in fate. I believe in all that."
• [39:52] Jay Shetty: "We make it cool again to care for people and be cared for."
• [44:07] Jay Shetty: "And when you stand out, that's the only time people point fingers."

Conclusion This episode of "Nobody Should Believe Me" offers a rare glimpse into the personal lives of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, highlighting the delicate balance between love, trust, and professional collaboration. Their story serves as an inspiring testament to maintaining authenticity and mutual support amidst the pressures of fame and busy careers.