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Hey, it's NPR's Book of the Day. I'm Andrew Limbong. A few weeks ago on the Books We've Loved series we've been doing, we covered the Jane Austen classic Pride and Prejudice. You can go back and listen to that episode if you haven't yet. It is a hoot and a half. Anyway, in talking about the book, my co host B.A. parker and I and also NPR's Linda Holmes got into a discussion about Mrs. Bennet, the mom in the story who sometimes gets portrayed as ditzy and controlling as she tries to navigate her own daughter's marital status. But in a lot of ways, she's doing so out of love, out of care. I was thinking about her listening to today's interview with Justinian Wong, author of the new novel Lucky Seed. It's about a gay son pressured by family to have a son. Wong told NPR's Elsa Chang that the book is partly inspired by his own life and his relationship with his own mother and and writing the book helped him fall back in love with her again. That's coming up.
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For the billionaire Taiwanese American family, the Sun Clan, the future of the patriarchy rests on the shoulders of women. Well, one woman in particular, Rose's sun, who who believes the family fortune can only survive by producing a male heir with the clan's last name. The stakes are high because if no heirs remain on earth, Roses believes that the family will be punished by so called hungry ghosts. And so she pressures her favorite nephew, Wayward, who is gay and single, to have a son. What follows is twist after twist in a new novel by Justinian Wong called Lucky Seed. It's a story about family subterfuge, intergenerational resentments, and how love can survive dysfunction. Justinian Wong came on down to NPR west to hang with me and talk about his new novel. It's so great to have you here, Justin.
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It's amazing. What an amazing summary. Do I need to say anything? I can go now, right?
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Well, the first thing you have to explain for us is this whole plot was kind of like an art imitates life thing, right?
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Like, yes.
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You told me the first time that we met weeks ago that you are the character Wayward in this story. You were the one loosely, loosely, loosely. But something like this kind of happened to you. You were the chosen one in your family to have a baby.
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Yes. Well, you know, picture it. Summer 2021. The matriarch of my mom's family, my mom's big auntie, summons me to her lair in west la and she says to me that unless I have a baby boy to carry on the family lineage because our family had no baby boys, that we would all become hungry ghosts in the afterlife.
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Had you ever heard the concept of hungry ghost?
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I did know what hungry ghosts were as, you know, crazy of a concept. That sounds like, you know, hungry ghosts explain for people. Yes, sure, sure. Hungry ghosts are this belief, an ancient belief system that if you don't have descendants to remember you after you pass on, you starve in the afterlife. I just had never heard it applied in such a pragmatic, like, literally, like, inheritance drama way. I was pretty gobsmacked for sure.
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And I guess you were the only male generation, so the funny thing is.
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That we just don't have any boys in my mom's side of the family that have their last name, but I was the only gay boy. And I think aunties, being brilliant are like, we can control the gay boy. Right. There isn't like a. I won't have, like, a wife that they have to go head to head with. Right.
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They're just.
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Exactly, exactly. This can be our plan. And he will execute. I noticed that in the acknowledgments at the end of this book. You mentioned that one of your favorite relationships in this story about the Sun Clan is between Wayward and his mother, Iris. How they find their way back to each other. And you said that your own mom inspired the character of Iris. How so?
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She sure did. When I first started this book, my mom and I actually weren't on the best terms we were because this request that my big auntie had made of me, that her aunt had made of me, you know, the whole family was infighting, and there was a lot of. There's a lot of drama, basically, and there was a lot of factors and a lot of splinters. And as I was writing this book, at first, I always thought that the central relationship would be the romance between the main character, Wayward, and his on and off boyfriend, Jamal. But then I realized, you know, like, you're always looking for a central relationship. I realized, no, it's actually between generations. It's between Wayward understanding where his mother is coming from and why she acts the way she does. And as I wrote this book, I fell back in love with my mom because I was like, she's brilliant, and she does.
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Wow.
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Yeah. So, you know.
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Well, you wrote in those acknowledgments, being the son of a brilliant woman can be complicated.
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Definitely.
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Can you say more about that complicated part?
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Oh, boy. Yes. I mean, I think that when I was a little boy, like, she and I were so inseparable. I think she wanted to protect me because I think she knew deep down that I was G and she wanted to protect me from the world. Right? And then as you get older and you're like, mom, I don't need you to protect me anymore, you start pushing them away, and then, like, it becomes a tug of war. So much of your 20s, I think, between sons and mothers, I think that's a lot of that going on for sure. You know, I think now that I'm coasting into the rest of my life, and she's just been such a big support to me. I say that she's the muse of this book.
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You know, I feel that so much of this story, as much as it exalts family, it also feels like the central message is, even if your family is your blood, it does not mean that they are who you need to be. And that is an idea that's very close to my heart as much as I do love my family. And I was wondering, how long did it take you to get there, to know that you can love your family but also bend towards another path?
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I love that question. I think the moment I realized I was gay, I was like, oh, I need. There needs to be a departure. The umbilical cord needs to be cut. Right. I think that the first time I kissed a boy, right, which was in college, freshman year, I remember stepping back and he wanted to kiss some more, and I was like, I need to process this moment.
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Oh, I thought you were about to say, I need to go ask my mom about it.
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Oh, my God. Oh, my God. That's hilarious. Oh, my gosh. I probably almost did. Gosh, it took a few more years before I came out to her, you know?
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Okay, so spoiler alert for Justinian's personal life. Your beautiful baby has arrived. Congratulations, new dad.
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Oh, my gosh.
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And here's the big kicker.
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She's a girl.
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Yes.
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She's not a boy.
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She's not a boy.
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Your daughter Pip came a few weeks early. She's magnificent. I've been watching these adorable videos on Instagram.
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Thank you.
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How did your aunties react when they found out you were having a girl and not a boy?
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So, you know, ultimately, I said no to the whole boy situation. Like, I. This was. It was in 2021 when my aunt made this request of me, but I ultimately said no because I didn't want the family to be fighting. And then when I always promised my mom, like, we will try for another grandchild for you. Right. But here's the thing, Elsa. I'm a girl, Dad.
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I love it. I can see it in these videos.
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Yeah, absolutely. I'm such a girl, dad. You know, I wouldn't. I mean, like, I don't want to be gendered at all, of course. And, like, I'm really excited for her to be whoever she wants to be. Sure.
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Or whoever they want to be.
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Whoever they want to be, whatever. You know, Like, I'm just excited to shepherd them into this world. Right.
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Yeah. What do you most hope for? For Pip's future.
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Oh, my gosh. I want Pip to be joyous because happiness and joy are different things.
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How so?
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Happiness is what you feel on a day to day. It's very external. Joy means that you love yourself and that you accept yourself.
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You're at peace with who you are.
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Precisely. I just want Pip to be joyous. That's it, you know? That's all I want. That's all I want from her.
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That's all any of us could ever want, truly. Justinian Wong's new book is called Lucky Seed. Thank you so much, Justinian, for visiting with me at NPR West. And congratulations again, Dad.
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A dream come true on multiple. This is wonderful. Thank you so much, Elsa.
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Episode: Justinian Huang’s new novel follows a Taiwanese-American family intent on a male heir
Date: November 24, 2025
Host: Elsa Chang (with intro by Andrew Limbong)
Guest: Justinian Huang, author of Lucky Seed
In this episode, NPR’s Elsa Chang interviews Justinian Huang about his new novel, Lucky Seed, which follows a Taiwanese-American family obsessed with producing a male heir. Huang discusses how the book mirrors his own experiences as a gay man navigating family expectations and how writing the novel helped him reconnect with his mother. The conversation explores themes of intergenerational tension, cultural superstitions, familial pressure, and the profound complexities of maternal relationships.
"For the billionaire Taiwanese American family, the Sun Clan, the future of the patriarchy rests on the shoulders of women...Rose's sun, who...believes the family fortune can only survive by producing a male heir."
"Picture it. Summer 2021. The matriarch of my mom's family, my mom's big auntie, summons me to her lair in west LA and she says to me that unless I have a baby boy to carry on the family lineage...we would all become hungry ghosts in the afterlife."
[03:27]
“Hungry ghosts are this belief, an ancient belief system that if you don't have descendants to remember you after you pass on, you starve in the afterlife. I just had never heard it applied in such a pragmatic, like, literally, like, inheritance drama way."
[03:51]
Evolution through writing: Huang began the book while not on the best terms with his mother due to family infighting prompted by the heir question. However, as he wrote, he discovered the emotional heartbeat of the book was the relationship between Wayward and his mother, Iris (based on Huang’s own mom).
"I always thought that the central relationship would be the romance between the main character...and his on and off boyfriend...But then I realized...it's actually between generations. It's between Wayward understanding where his mother is coming from and why she acts the way she does. And as I wrote this book, I fell back in love with my mom because I was like, she's brilliant..."
[05:05 – 06:01]
Notable quote:
"Being the son of a brilliant woman can be complicated."
— Elsa Chang quoting Huang from the book’s acknowledgments [06:02]
"When I was a little boy, like, she and I were so inseparable. I think she wanted to protect me because I think she knew deep down that I was gay and she wanted to protect me from the world...You start pushing them away, and then, like, it becomes a tug of war."
[06:11]
"Even if your family is your blood, it does not mean that they are who you need to be."
— Elsa Chang [06:51]
"I think the moment I realized I was gay, I was like, oh, I need— there needs to be a departure. The umbilical cord needs to be cut...It took a few more years before I came out to her, you know?"
[07:15 – 07:46]
Welcoming a daughter:
"So, you know, ultimately, I said no to the whole boy situation...But here's the thing, Elsa. I’m a girl dad."
[08:24 – 08:46]
On gender and parenting philosophy:
"I don't want to be gendered at all, of course. And, like, I'm really excited for her to be whoever she wants to be."
[08:49]
"I want Pip to be joyous because happiness and joy are different things.”
[09:09]
"Happiness is what you feel on a day to day. It's very external. Joy means that you love yourself and that you accept yourself."
[09:16]
The episode is both warm and candid, marked by humor and loving honesty as Huang shares the idiosyncrasies and pressures of his family life. It’s a meditation on generational conflict, cultural tradition, individuality, and the redemptive power of understanding—particularly between mothers and sons. Huang’s reflections will resonate with listeners who have ever felt torn between honoring family and being true to themselves.
Lucky Seed is available now, and by Justinian Huang’s account, the path to writing it was as full of self-discovery as it was of family drama.