Episode Overview
Podcast: OCD Recovery
Host: Ali Greymond, OCD Specialist & Author
Episode Title: Full OCD Recovery: Disregard Feeling OF Guilt In OCD
Date: December 10, 2025
This episode focuses on the critical topic of guilt in obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)—how guilt operates as bait for compulsive reactions and how to effectively manage and disregard this feeling to support full OCD recovery. Ali Greymond explains the mechanisms behind guilt in OCD, offers practical response strategies, and emphasizes the importance of persistent response prevention to weaken OCD’s hold.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Guilt as Bait in OCD
- OCD uses guilt as a trigger to elicit compulsive reactions, such as rumination or confessions.
- “Guilt is also bait to get you to ruminate.” (Ali Greymond, 00:14)
- The obsession can appear as thoughts, feelings, images, or sensations, all of which aim to provoke a behavioral response (compulsion).
2. Types of Compulsions Driven by Guilt
- Mental Compulsions: Rumination, repeatedly analyzing the situation, confessing to others.
- Physical Compulsions: Tangible actions, like cleaning or checking.
3. False Guilt in OCD
- The feeling of guilt generated by OCD is false and meaningless—a manufactured trigger to keep the cycle alive.
- “Guilt or any other emotion can also be a part of it...OCD makes you...feel guilty. And that feeling of guilt pushes you into reaction again.” (Ali Greymond, 01:11)
4. The Correct Response: Disregard
- Treat guilt the same as any intrusive OCD thought or feeling:
- Recognize it as OCD, not reality.
- Refuse to respond with compulsions, even if the urge feels urgent.
- “No, I will not give it the reaction. I'm keeping going. That needs to be your mindset.” (Ali Greymond, 01:44)
5. Mindset Shift & Practical Guidance
- Push through the discomfort: Continue with daily life regardless of the guilt, acting as though it doesn’t exist.
- “Yes, I feel guilty, but I’m choosing to go on with the day anyway, as if this doesn’t exist.” (Ali Greymond, 01:44)
- Over time, guilt and its associated thoughts will weaken as you stop feeding them with reactions.
6. Building Confidence Through Repetition
- Looking back, older obsessive-guilt triggers seem trivial once new ones arise.
- “If you look back at some of your earlier thoughts...that you felt like you needed to confess or whatever, somehow fix. Now you look at them and you're like, yeah, I didn’t really need to do that because a new one is at play.” (Ali Greymond, 02:10)
- Every response matters: Repeated correctly, each instance of disregarding guilt weakens the OCD cycle.
- “If you power up OCD, you're setting yourself up for later for more OCD. And if you choose to disregard over and over again every time, it gets a little weaker.” (Ali Greymond, 02:49)
7. Courage Over Comfort
- It’s normal not to feel ready to disregard guilt—the goal is not to feel able, but to make a brave choice.
- “This is false guilt. I’m choosing. I’m not feeling like I can disregard, but I’m making a brave choice to disregard. So it’s all about that brave choice.” (Ali Greymond, 03:07)
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
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On guilt as bait:
“Guilt is also bait to get you to ruminate.”
(Ali Greymond, 00:14) -
On the meaninglessness of OCD guilt:
“This is false guilt. This doesn’t mean anything. This is just coming in to again, get a reaction out of me.”
(Ali Greymond, 01:44) -
On bravery in recovery:
“I’m not feeling like I can disregard, but I’m making a brave choice to disregard.”
(Ali Greymond, 03:07)
Timestamps for Important Segments
- 00:14 – Introduction of guilt as OCD bait and how it triggers compulsions
- 01:07 – Discussion on feelings, thoughts, and emotions being used by OCD (including guilt)
- 01:44 – Guidance to disregard guilt as if it doesn’t exist; treating it like any OCD thought
- 02:10 – Perspective on past thoughts and how new obsessions take their place
- 02:49 – How repeated response patterns build up or weaken OCD
- 03:07 – Final advice on choosing bravery over comfort, and the importance of disregarding guilt
Summary Tone & Language
True to Ali Greymond’s style, the episode is practical, direct, and reassuring—emphasizing actionable tools and the importance of steady perseverance. Ali’s advice is both empathetic and matter-of-fact, designed to instill confidence and normalcy in the recovery journey.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking clear, actionable advice on handling the complex emotion of guilt within OCD, regardless of the obsession theme.
