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A (0:00)
I'm Ali Graymond. I'm an expert in OCD recovery because for the last 19 years, I've been helping people fully recover from OCD. If you would like to do personal coaching with me, all the information is on younhubocd.com you can sign up from there.
B (0:14)
The biggest thing therapists and doctors make when it comes to OCD recovery, and I think this is the mistake that all the other mistakes come from afterwards, is they treat each thought as its own individual problem. So the patient comes and they say, I have harm ocd. And they'll say, okay, let's do hierarchy to get rid of your harm ocd. Let's do scripting to get rid of your thought of ocd. But the problem with that is that the person just starts to go from thought to thought. So from harm to others to harm to self, from theme number one to theme number two. So it's kind of like you're trying to catch a moving target all the time. And it's never going to be effective, because if your brain came up with one OCD thought, it can't come up with two. It can come up with 2 million OCD thoughts. So you will never recover. And this is where you hear a lot. A therapist will say, well, OCD is chronic. You shouldn't expect to ever recover. No, I'm telling you, as somebody who's done recovery work with clients for 20 years, you absolutely can recover, fully recover. Where you're not getting these thoughts anymore. Because now I hear another scam that goes on online where people say full recovery is possible. But let's talk about definition of full recovery. And full recovery actually means managing. No, it does not mean managing. Full recovery is when you stop getting thoughts. But for you to stop getting thoughts, you need to stop being the ruminator across the board. It doesn't matter what you're ruminating about, what kind of content it is. It doesn't matter what type of a compulsion you are doing. It's the general number of compulsions, general minutes. Again, not obsessively, not walking around with a timer or anything crazy, but having an idea of are you reducing being the ruminator from last week, for example? Are you less of a ruminator this week than you were last week? And are you going to be less ruminator next week than you are this week?
B (2:33)
Because if you reduce it globally, where you're saying, I'm not going to do any more compulsions or I'm not going to do any more rumination anymore, I mean, gradual reduction you won't be able to stop it all in one day. But let's say you got to the point where you're doing none OCD it. Whatever it throws at you you will choose to disregard and even if it throws meta at you you will still not ruminate because you're done being the ruminator so it has nothing to grab you with versus this approach of one off.
B (3:08)
This thought, then that thought you're going nowhere. You're just trying to kind of keep your head above water slightly.
