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A common question is how do I actually stop ruminating? So rumination is that active rumination, right? Is that point after you get an ocd, thought, feeling, image sensation. So you get some sort of a trigger, that's automatic. But then what happens after that, right? Are you letting yourself ruminate? Are you letting yourself solve it? Figure out probably you are. That's why you're watching this. So how do we stop this? Start small. For the next five minutes I'm gonna go on with the day and I'm not gonna let myself get into this topic. I'm gonna call some whatever business related stuff. I'm going to do some other things. I'm not going to focus for five minutes. Practice that. Not for an hour day, all day long, right? This one hour a day exposure work, I don't know where it came from, but it. This is literally the reason why people get stuck. Because they think that just like a diet is not enough, an hour a day, just like anything you do in life is not enough, an hour a day, this is not enough either. So all day long, okay? For the next five minutes I'm not reacting. You master the five minutes, go to 10 minutes. For the next 10 minutes I'm not reacting. Develop that muscle. It's an over time thing. You're learning a new skill that you've never had before, that you never had to learn before. So it's going to take a little bit of time. That's okay. But this is how you do it if you have to. If you're in a really bad situation, then for the next minute I'm not ruminating. That's how you start. Very small, gradual step, but consistently all day long. Emergency session is available. The link is in the description.
