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It's okay and helpful to set OCD recovery target. But the recovery target cannot be well, I want to feel better by a certain time. It needs to be I'm going to reduce my rumination to this amount by a certain time. Or I'm going to reduce my compulsions to this amount by a certain time. Because again, the basic model of OCD as the Grayman method, tells you, your rumination plus your compulsions plus your avoidances equals your level of OCD and your level of anxiety. You want to half your level of anxiety. You want to be half less. Make your rumination compulsions half less. So those need to be your targets, not the goal of recovery, but the goal of reduction. Emergency session is available. The link is in the description.
Release Date: January 2, 2026
Host: Ali Greymond
This episode centers on the importance of setting effective, realistic targets during OCD recovery. Ali Greymond, drawing from her extensive experience and The Greymond Method, explains why goal-setting focused on symptom reduction (rather than feeling better by a certain time) is the foundation of long-term recovery for various OCD subtypes.
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On Setting Measurable Targets:
“But the recovery target cannot be, ‘well, I want to feel better by a certain time.’ It needs to be, ‘I’m going to reduce my rumination to this amount by a certain time.’ Or, ‘I’m going to reduce my compulsions to this amount by a certain time.’”
(Ali Greymond, 00:06)
On the OCD Formula:
“Your rumination plus your compulsions plus your avoidances equals your level of OCD and your level of anxiety.”
(Ali Greymond, 00:30)
On Focusing Recovery:
“You want to half your level of anxiety. You want to be half less. Make your rumination, compulsions half less. So those need to be your targets, not the goal of recovery, but the goal of reduction.”
(Ali Greymond, 00:42)
Ali Greymond emphasizes that OCD recovery is a structured, measurable process. Rather than fixating on “feeling better,” listeners should set specific goals—like reducing compulsions and rumination—to truly weaken OCD’s grip. By focusing on reductions (rather than all-or-nothing recovery), sufferers can track meaningful progress and empower themselves throughout their journey.
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