Episode Overview

Podcast: OCD Recovery
Host: Ali Greymond
Episode: OCD Training - Sanitizing OCD Thoughts And Feelings
Date: September 12, 2025

In this episode, host and OCD recovery coach Ali Greymond challenges the traditional understanding of "sanitization" in the context of OCD. Rather than focusing solely on physical cleanliness, she explores the pervasive drive among those with OCD to "sanitize" thoughts, feelings, and a wide array of life experiences—seeking unattainable perfection across all areas. Ali shares her expert insights, drawn from both professional experience and her own journey through OCD, to guide listeners toward letting go of this need for mental and emotional "cleanliness."

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Redefining Sanitization in OCD (00:10–01:00)

• Sanitization Beyond Cleaning:
  Ali opens with a discussion about how the concept of sanitization is often misunderstood. While media representations focus on cleaning compulsions, most OCD sufferers, she says, are actually driven by a desire to "sanitize" much more than just physical space.

  • Quote:

    "Sanitization, not when it comes to bacteria and cleaning, but sanitization of the thoughts, sanitization of the feelings, sanitization of the actions where you want everything to be perfectly squeaky clean." (Ali Greymond, 00:20)

• Perfectionism Across Life Domains:
  She expands the notion of sanitization to relationships, work, parenting, and one's own past, highlighting the common underlying theme: the relentless pursuit of perfection.

2. Media Misconceptions and True Prevalence (01:00–01:40)

• Cleaning OCD as a Minority Theme:
  Ali clarifies that classic "cleaning" OCD is actually rare among the people she has coached, despite media emphasis.

  • Quote:

    "I wouldn't even call it classic OCD, because to be honest with you, the minority of my clients have cleaning type of OCD theme." (00:39)

• Universal Relevance of Sanitization:
  The drive to sanitize thoughts or feelings, she asserts, underlies most OCD themes—not just those related to physical cleanliness.

3. Self-Reflection and the Costs of Perfection (01:40–02:30)

• Recognizing Personal “Sanitizing” Habits:
  Ali urges listeners to examine their own lives for areas where they push for unnecessary perfection or mental cleanliness.

  • She asks questions like, "What in your life has to be perfect?" and "What will happen if it’s not perfect?"

• Negative Impact:
  The more tightly one clings to perfection, she says, the less happy and more OCD-fueled their life becomes.

  • Quote:

    "The more you hold this tight grip that everything has to be just so and in no other way, the less happier you will be in life and the more intense OCD will become, because this is the fuel that it needs." (02:18)

4. Practical Advice: Embracing Imperfection (02:30–03:45)

• Exposing Yourself to Imperfection:
  Ali encourages deliberate acceptance of imperfection—whether it’s a “bad” thought, a messy environment, or an emotionally uncomfortable feeling.

  • Quote:

    "Start nudging yourself into that imperfection, that it's okay if out of 70,000 thoughts a day, some thoughts are imperfect. It's okay that out of your very vast past experiences, some of them are not perfect." (01:52)

• Letting Things Be:
  She advises listeners to resist their urge to “fix” everything, be it an untidy space or an unpleasant thought.

  • Quote:

    "Something is laying out of place. Let it. Something is dirty, let it—emotionally dirty, physically dirty, whatever. Let it be like that. Don't fix it. Don't switch a bad thought for a good thought. Allow it to be how it is." (03:04)

• Ultimate Recovery Outlook:
  The goal, Ali says, is to become so unconcerned by these imperfections that you barely notice them—just as someone unaffected by OCD would.

5. Motivational Closing: Progress in Small Steps (03:45–End)

• Gradual Change Encouraged:
  Ali reassures listeners that recovery is a gradual process and every small step counts.
  • Quote:

    "Little by little, you will get there." (03:35)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Ali Greymond’s Core Analogy:

  "Sanitization of the thoughts...your thoughts need to be squeaky clean, your actions need to be squeaky clean, your past needs to be squeaky clean..." (00:22)

• On Media Perception:

  "The minority of my clients have cleaning type of OCD theme. So this is not even a very common theme. I don't know why they blow it up so much in the media..." (00:39)

• Challenge to Listeners:

  "What are you trying to sanitize? Are you sanitizing your thoughts? Are you sanitizing your feelings?" (01:44)

• Encouragement to Practice Acceptance:

  "Don't switch a bad thought for a good thought. Allow it to be how it is." (03:17)

• Hopeful Outlook:

  "And little by little, you will get there." (03:35)

Key Timestamps

• 00:10–01:00:
  Reframing "sanitization" as a drive for mental, emotional, and life perfectionism.

• 01:00–01:40:
  Addressing media bias about OCD themes and emphasizing universal perfectionism.

• 01:40–02:30:
  Prompting listeners to reflect on their own areas of “sanitizing.”

• 02:30–03:45:
  Guidance for allowing imperfection and resisting the urge to “fix” or “sanitize” experiences and thoughts.

Summary for Non-Listeners

Ali Greymond’s episode offers a fresh perspective on OCD by explaining that the urge to "sanitize" doesn't just mean cleaning up messes—it’s about striving for mental and emotional perfection in all aspects of life. She debunks the myth that OCD is primarily about physical cleaning, and delivers actionable advice to help listeners intentionally tolerate imperfection. Through self-reflection, acceptance, and small steps towards letting go, listeners can gradually free themselves from the suffocating grip of “sanitization OCD.” Ali reminds everyone that real, lasting recovery is built on consistent practice and embracing the discomfort of not being perfect.