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Ali Graymond (0:00)
Ali.
Ali Graymond (0:00)
I'm Ali Graymond. I'm an expert in OCD recovery because for the last 19 years, I've been helping people fully recover from OCD. If you would like to do personal coaching with me, all the information is on younhubocd.com you can sign up from there.
Ali Graymond (0:14)
Today I wanted to address all or nothing, which is very common approach in OCD that people take. Just people with OCD tend to be very prone to it and it's not very good for recovery. Okay, all or nothing. When it comes to, for example, rumination reduction, I couldn't stop ruminating today. That means I will never recover or I couldn't stop doing compulsions. That means I will never get better from never stop doing compulsions. It's not like that.
Ali Graymond (0:46)
If you approach it in all or nothing, it seems huge. But if you just say, I'm going to do just a minute less rumination.
Ali Graymond (0:53)
I'm just gonna do one less compulsion. If you're doing a ton of compulsions.
Ali Graymond (0:57)
Or let's say if you're doing just a few, maybe I will downgrade the.
Ali Graymond (1:01)
Intensity of my compulsions.
Ali Graymond (1:05)
So you're just making a tiny reduction.
Ali Graymond (1:07)
And then tomorrow what you're going to.
Ali Graymond (1:08)
Do is you're going to make another.
Ali Graymond (1:09)
Reduction based on this one.
Ali Graymond (1:12)
And if you didn't make it, let's say if you didn't move forward, take next few days to achieve this little.
Ali Graymond (1:17)
Level and then the next little level.
Ali Graymond (1:19)
And like this little, little by little stepping stones, you're going to get there.
Ali Graymond (1:24)
It's not all or nothing because you're.
Ali Graymond (1:26)
Going to give up where you could have succeeded. You know what I mean?
