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Order of Man
Hosted by Ryan Michler · EN
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Men and the Myth of Martyrdom | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
3d ago00:37:41Tap to summarizeWhat if the sacrifices you make aren't actually about service... but identity? In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down the dangerous trap many men fall into: building their entire identity around suffering, responsibility, and sacrifice. Drawing from philosophy, psychology, and personal experience, Ryan explores how men unconsciously become martyrs - believing their worth is tied to how much pain they can endure. From Carl Jung's concept of the persona and shadow, to Stoic philosophy and Sartre's idea of "bad faith," this episode challenges men to ask a difficult question: Are you sacrificing for something... or sacrificing as something? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Question That Changed Everything 01:05 - Becoming "The Responsible One" 03:35 - The Persona Men Build 05:35 - When Suffering Becomes Identity 06:45 - The Trap of Proving Your Worth 07:20 - Sartre and "Bad Faith" 09:20 - The Mindset of the Martyr 10:40 - Stoicism and Virtuous Suffering 12:15 - Why Men Perform Sacrifice 13:20 - Carl Jung and the Shadow 15:15 - The Hidden Patterns of Martyrdom 16:00 - Keeping Score in Relationships 17:10 - Why Martyrs Refuse Help 18:50 - Resentment Disguised as Dedication 21:05 - "I Had No Choice" 22:15 - Why Nobody Loves a Martyr 24:05 - Martyrdom vs Purpose 25:05 - The Story Your Kids Learn From You 26:15 - Losing Yourself in Responsibility 27:30 - How to Break the Pattern 28:00 - Name the Performance 28:50 - Reclaim Your Sovereignty 29:55 - The Boy Still Carrying the Weight 31:20 - Conscious vs Compulsive Sacrifice 32:10 - Building Identity Beyond Suffering 33:20 - A Man Who Knows Who He Is 34:35 - The Epictetus Quote 35:20 - Learning to Put the Weight Down 36:10 - Suffering With Purpose 37:00 - Final Thoughts on Martyrdom 37:45 - Share This With Another Man Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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Stop Being Selfish, Build Better Patterns, and Lead Women Well | ASK ME ANYTHING
5d ago01:06:39Tap to summarizeRyan Michler and Kipp Sorenson tackle hard truths about masculinity, leadership, discipline, and faith in this AMA episode. They discuss why many men struggle to lead confidently at home, how toxic behavioral patterns become comfortable, and what real brotherhood and accountability look like. The conversation dives deep into self-awareness, responsibility, relationships, and the danger of using faith as an excuse for passivity. Along the way, they share practical advice for helping struggling friends, becoming a man worth following, and building stronger purpose-driven lives. Packed with candid stories, sharp insights, and actionable takeaways, this episode challenges men to stop avoiding reality and get to work. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Episode kickoff 00:46 Ryan's rant on biohacking culture 04:32 Why men focus on what they obsess over 06:00 Lacrosse fundraiser and leadership lesson 10:19 Ego, purpose, and mission-first thinking 17:16 Leading a wife who doesn't want to be led 27:24 Masculinity resources and recommended books 29:23 Why men repeat destructive patterns 36:07 The power of brotherhood and accountability 48:32 Helping a friend who refuses help 58:26 Faith, responsibility, and ownership 01:03:35 Why men are called to work Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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DALE PARTRIDGE | Why Society Has Become Effeminate (and, What to Do About It…)
6d ago01:21:42Tap to summarizeIf you're being honest, you know something has shifted in this culture. Most of us feel it even if we can't name it. The language has changed, the standards have changed, emotional performance has replaced principled conviction, and the men willing to hold a hard line are being told to sit down and apologize. Today's guest, Dale Partridge, doesn't apologize. And. He makes the case for why you shouldn't either. We cover the philosophical and cultural forces driving the effeminization of men and society, why a man without a defined worldview is a man who can be pushed around, the political and moral landscape men are being asked to navigate right now, and what it practically looks like to reclaim the kind of masculinity this culture is working overtime to erase. We don't pull punches on this one. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 01:22 - Reuniting After 8 Years 02:08 - Why Culture Has Become More Polarized 04:22 - The Failure of Multiculturalism 07:01 - "Young Men Are Tired of Being Told Not to Notice Reality" 08:56 - Speaking Honestly in a Politically Correct Culture 09:58 - Feminization of Society & Institutions 12:03 - Masculinity vs Effeminacy 14:26 - "We're in an Era of Masculine Recovery" 16:24 - Reclaiming Masculinity Instead of Redefining It 17:46 - Men, Conflict & Power 20:33 - Weak Leadership in Modern Churches 21:55 - Why Young Men Are Returning to Church 24:20 - The Manliness of Christ 25:33 - Morality, Politics & Trump 26:40 - Creedal vs Confessional Christianity 30:38 - Christian Unity & "Unite the Clans" 33:11 - Protestantism & America's Origins 38:19 - Separation of Church and State Explained 45:58 - Why Morality Requires Authority 48:05 - Politics as Religion 50:10 - Why Men Need a Worldview 52:54 - The Modern Church as a "Social Club" 53:52 - Ryan's Spiritual Experience in Iraq 55:35 - The Biggest Threats to Western Civilization 57:20 - "The Three Dragons" Facing Society 59:33 - Feminism & Repealing the 19th Amendment 01:01:49 - Immigration, Nationalism & Assimilation 01:05:12 - Christian Nationalism Explained 01:06:12 - America's Relationship with Israel 01:08:31 - Why Difficult Conversations Matter 01:10:16 - Launching "American Grit" 01:11:48 - Ryan Praises Dale's Courage 01:13:21 - Social Media Growth & Cultural Shift 01:14:42 - Final Thoughts & Wrap-Up Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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Why Every Man Needs a Mission (And, How to Build One) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
1w ago00:29:08Tap to summarizeWhat happens when a man loses his mission? In this powerful Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler breaks down why purpose is not optional for men - it's essential. Drawing from military experience, personal stories, and alarming statistics around depression, suicide, addiction, and isolation, Ryan explains why so many men feel lost today and how to reclaim direction. Using the acronym MISSION, Ryan walks through a practical framework to help men identify meaning, build identity, serve others, develop skills, pursue interests, overcome obstacles, and take the next step toward a purpose-driven life. If you've felt stuck, numb, disconnected, or unsure of your next move, this episode is a direct challenge to stop drifting and start building a mission worthy of your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:33 - The Soldier Returning Home 02:58 - The Crisis Facing Men Today 04:32 - Why Men Need Mission 05:05 - M = Meaning 06:55 - I = Identity 08:40 - S = Service 13:05 - The Power of Generational Impact 14:30 - S = Skills 16:20 - I = Interests 18:45 - O = Obstacles 21:23 - N = Next Step 22:55 - Mission, Depression & Isolation 24:20 - Young Men Without Purpose 26:05 - Why Great Men Had Missions 27:20 - Final Challenge to Men 28:25 - Iron Council Invitation & Outro Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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The Power of Meritocracy, Conspiracies Debunked, and Elevating Our Standards | ASK ME ANYTHING
2w ago01:00:02Tap to summarizeRyan and Kipp switch gears for a lighter Ask Me Anything episode where listeners intentionally submit "dumb questions" - and somehow the conversation turns surprisingly insightful. They cover teenage boys acting feral in public, conspiracy theories, men-only spaces, the psychology behind carrying all the groceries in one trip, and why guys constantly compete with each other. Along the way, they also dive into critical thinking, modern education, AI dependency, and the importance of having friends who can laugh with you through life's chaos. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:35 - PLL lacrosse and weekend recap 04:27 - The "dumb questions" AMA begins 05:32 - Killing your ego and thinking well of yourself 13:24 - Why teenage boys go feral in public 17:20 - Moon landing, pyramids, and conspiracy theories 22:53 - Why figuring things out matters more than knowing 28:42 - Why women aren't in the Iron Council 33:49 - Why carrying all groceries in one trip feels amazing 39:45 - Guilty pleasure movies and songs 44:04 - "Hold my beer and watch this" explained 49:00 - The proper way to shake hands 55:10 - When hugs are appropriate 58:46 - Wrapping up and future AMA ideas 59:18 - Iron Council preview call 01:01:20 - Post-show wrap Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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CHAD ROBICHAUX | The Battle for Our Boys and America's Soul
2w ago00:56:14Tap to summarizeAs Memorial Day approaches, there's no better time to have a brutally honest conversation about what it means to be a man in America today and why that question has never mattered more. From the assault on boyhood to the spiritual warfare playing out in our homes, our military, and our culture, someone has to name what's really happening. Today, we do exactly that. I'm joined by former Marine Recon, Chad Robichaux and, today we cover everything from the manufactured collapse of masculinity to what our military is facing in a post-COVID world, what real leadership looks like, and why faith (not politics) is the only thing that holds when everything else falls apart. Whether you're a veteran, a father, or a man trying to figure out where you stand, this one's for you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & Shared Mission to Help Men 02:02 - Why Boys Need Roughhousing & Masculine Development 04:45 - Male vs. Man — The Difference Matters 05:06 - Is There a Deliberate War on Boys? 11:31 - America's "Check Engine Light" Problem 12:58 - Trump, Hegseth & Rebuilding Military Strength 16:47 - Lowering Standards in the Military 20:05 - Iran, Venezuela & America's Global Power 24:27 - Why China Is the Bigger Threat 31:35 - Trump's Leadership Style & Strategic Ambiguity 33:56 - Faith Inside the White House 36:33 - Military Morale Is Shifting Fast 39:16 - How COVID Damaged the Military Spirit 42:53 - The Biggest Struggle Veterans Face After Service 46:41 - Chad's Personal Battle After Leaving the Military 48:22 - Chad's New Military Thriller — Riptide 50:15 - Mighty Oaks Foundation & Helping Veterans 51:20 - Final Thoughts & Closing Remarks Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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What Is Inner Authority (And How to Build It) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
2w ago00:38:33Tap to summarizeMost men think they struggle with discipline, confidence, or motivation - but beneath all of it is a deeper issue: the inability to trust themselves. In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler breaks down the concept of inner authority - what it is, why so many men lose it, and how to reclaim it in a world constantly demanding your attention, validation, and compliance. Ryan explores: Why modern men outsource their decisions How social media destroys self-trust The hidden resentment created by seeking approval The difference between wisdom and permission How to stop overexplaining yourself Practical ways to rebuild confidence and sovereignty If you've ever second-guessed yourself, needed external validation before making a move, or felt disconnected from your own instincts, this episode will challenge you to reclaim ownership of your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:19 - The Problem Most Men Never Name 02:41 - A Question About Decision-Making 04:13 - Why Men Seek External Validation 06:38 - What Inner Authority Really Means 08:10 - Ownership, Accountability & Agency 10:10 - Criticism, Praise & Self-Trust 12:11 - How Men Lose Their Inner Authority 14:06 - Conditioning, Compliance & Institutions 15:57 - Relationships and Losing Your Voice 17:52 - Social Media and Validation Addiction 19:18 - Indecision and Overthinking 21:23 - Resentment From Outsourcing Your Life 22:02 - Success Without Fulfillment 24:17 - Ryan's Personal Crossroads Story 26:12 - How to Build Inner Authority 26:38 - Make Small Decisions 27:55 - Stop Asking Permission 28:45 - Stop Explaining Yourself 29:52 - Get Alone and Hear Yourself Think 30:43 - Do Difficult Things in Private 31:55 - Disagree Out Loud 33:05 - Track Your Wins 34:02 - You've Already Survived Hard Things 35:40 - Why Inner Authority Matters 36:35 - Iron Council Invitation 37:10 - Preview Call Details & Closing Remarks Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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Trust Yourself, Maximize Your Value, and Never Dim Your Light | ASK ME ANYTHING
3w ago01:00:38Tap to summarizeRyan and Kipp dive into another AMA episode, tackling real questions from men navigating discipline, purpose, and relationships. They break down how to build self-trust, stay grounded when others resist your growth, and rebuild trust in marriage after years of disconnect. The conversation explores masculinity, emotional regulation, and the importance of personal responsibility - especially as a father. They also unpack how to find purpose without a crisis and why experimenting is key. This episode is packed with practical insights and direct advice for men looking to level up in every area of life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 07:07 - Episode begins 11:58 - Building trust in yourself 19:57 - Breathwork & adding value 27:56 - Discipline struggles 33:31 - Outgrowing your circle 42:04 - Raising boys the right way 48:02 - Rebuilding trust in marriage 56:41 - Finding your mission 01:00:56 - Choosing your problems Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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Safe Doesn't Mean "Soft"
3w ago00:32:18Tap to summarizeRyan Michler breaks down what it truly means for a man to be "safe" in a relationship - and why most men get it wrong. Drawing from his own failed marriage, he explains how emotional volatility, inconsistency, and lack of self-mastery can erode trust at home. Ryan challenges the idea that safety equals weakness, arguing instead that it's rooted in strength, discipline, and control. He outlines practical ways men can become more grounded, reliable, and առաջնորդ-driven - through emotional regulation, clear personal standards, accountability, and presence. This episode is a direct, no-excuses call for men to lead themselves first so they can better lead and protect their families. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: Rethinking "Safe Masculinity" 02:21 - Personal Story: Marriage Breakdown & Accountability 04:49 - The Cost of Being Unsafe as a Man 07:11 - Why Women Need Safety in Relationships 09:38 - What "Safe" Actually Means (Not Weakness) 10:59 - The Problem with the "Nice Guy" 13:22 - Personal Responsibility in Relationships 15:35 - Sovereignty & Emotional Regulation 19:52 - Practical Traits That Create Safety 22:03 - The Importance of Having a Code 24:04 - Protection & Masculine Provision 26:04 - Accountability Without Excuses 28:07 - Presence vs Absence 29:27 - Lion vs House Cat: True Masculinity Defined 31:23 - Final Call to Action Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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Why Free Markets Are Masculine | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
3w ago00:31:38Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles a controversial but critical idea: what if free markets aren't the problem—but the proving ground for masculinity? Ryan breaks down how systems built on risk, accountability, competition, and earned success shape men into capable, resilient leaders. He contrasts this with the growing appeal of dependency-driven systems and explains why outsourcing responsibility may come at a deeper cost—your purpose, identity, and sovereignty. This is a direct, unfiltered look at what men lose when struggle disappears—and why the free market might be the arena men actually need. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Question No One Is Asking 00:34 - Free Markets & Masculinity Explained 02:12 - Struggle Is the Point 04:02 - Masculinity Under Fire 05:20 - The Rise of Dependency Thinking 06:09 - Sovereignty vs Security 07:54 - Personal Responsibility 09:50 - Risk & Reward 11:46 - Purpose, Work, and Male Disengagement 13:40 - Independence & Self-Reliance 15:26 - Earned Respect vs Entitlement 18:20 - The Power of Competition 21:46 - Justice vs Mercy 23:33 - The Lie About Capitalism (Cronyism) 25:40 - Consumerism & Empty Men 27:43 - Comfort Is the Real Threat 29:25 - Final Thoughts & Challenge Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
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