Podcast Summary: Papi Killed Mommy Episode: Letter from a Friend: Laurie Swift Release Date: June 15, 2025
Introduction
In this poignant bonus episode of Papi Killed Mommy, host Nikki delves into a heartfelt tribute from one of her late mother's closest friends, Laurie Swift. Titled "Letter from a Friend: Laurie Swift," the episode offers listeners an intimate glimpse into Stacy, Nikki's mother, through Laurie’s evocative letter. This episode not only honors Stacy’s memory but also sheds light on the enduring quest for truth and justice surrounding her tragic death.
Laurie Swift’s Tribute to Stacy
A Glimpse into Stacy’s Personality and Early Life
Laurie Swift begins her letter by painting a vivid picture of Stacy’s vibrant personality and the enduring bond they shared. She describes Stacy as a woman of "great strength and determination," highlighting her deep love for her daughters and her infectious laughter. Laurie emphasizes Stacy’s authenticity, noting her "brutally honest" nature and larger-than-life presence.
Laurie Swift [00:00]:
"My friend Stacy was a beautiful woman with great strength and determination. She loved her daughters more than anything in this world. Stacy had the best laugh, great smile, big personality, and was brutally honest with her words."
Childhood Memories and Adventures
Laurie reminisces about their childhood in the mid-1970s, a time devoid of modern distractions like cell phones and the internet. She shares nostalgic anecdotes of mischievous activities such as "Ding Dong Ditch" and carefree summer days spent sunbathing and enjoying music together. These memories underscore the strong foundation of their friendship, built on shared experiences and adventures.
Laurie Swift [00:00]:
"Growing up in the mid-70s was great. There were no cell phones, no caller ID, no Internet. We could buy cigarettes from a machine for 45 cents at the neighborhood bar and drinking age was only 19."
Stacy’s Work Ethic and Independence
Stacy’s determination is further illustrated through her early employment at a daycare and her efforts to save for her first car—a turquoise Gremlin she purchased without knowing how to drive. Laurie recounts the challenges they faced, including hiding the car from Stacy’s family due to her father's role as a Phoenix police officer. This story highlights Stacy’s resourcefulness and the lengths she went to maintain her independence.
Laurie Swift [00:00]:
"Stacy worked hard to save enough money to buy her first car. It was a used 1976 or 1977 turquoise Gremlin. She bought it from our friend Darlene."
Stacy’s Relationships and Personal Life
Laurie shares insights into Stacy’s personal life, touching on her relationships and the complexities within her family dynamics. She speaks of Stacy’s marriages, particularly highlighting Miles, whom they both appreciated for his kindness and big heart. The letter also delves into the challenges posed by Stacy’s mother's struggles with alcohol, painting a picture of the resilient environment in which Stacy navigated her personal relationships.
Laurie Swift [00:00]:
"Miles had a big heart and was so very kind to Stacy. Her mom had a nickname, the Wicked Witch of Windrows."
Reflections on Stacy’s Character and Legacy
Throughout the letter, Laurie underscores Stacy’s unwavering support and generosity. She describes Stacy as the "Mother Goose to all of her friends," always ready to help and create joyful memories. Laurie’s reflections reveal a woman of immense character, whose legacy continues to inspire those who knew her.
Laurie Swift [00:00]:
"Stacy would never grab a gun to make a point. Stacy was so strong and could hit so hard like a man. I'd seen her hit a dude and bring tears to his eye."
Insights on Stacy’s Cold Case
Laurie Swift doesn't shy away from addressing the unresolved aspects of Stacy’s murder. She expresses frustration over the mishandling of Stacy’s case by authorities and underscores the ongoing struggles within the Sedona Police Department, including leadership issues that have impeded progress.
Laurie Swift [00:00]:
"I believe Stacey's case was grossly mishandled by many people. In 2024, the Sedona Police Department had issues with the chief. Our local news reported Sedona officers were being bullied by the Chief of Police."
Laurie brings hope by mentioning that a dedicated officer is currently handling Stacy’s cold case, indicating a renewed effort to seek justice.
Laurie Swift [00:00]:
"One of the officers is handling Stacy's cold case."
Conclusion and Call to Action
Laurie concludes her heartfelt letter by expressing her deep sorrow over Stacy’s untimely death and her belief in Stacy’s enduring presence in heaven. She imparts a message of love and peace while reaffirming the importance of Nikki continuing to uncover and share Stacy's story.
Laurie Swift [00:00]:
"I know my friend Stacy is saving me a seat in the smoking section in heaven. RIP my blood sister. Thank you for sharing Stacy's story."
Nikki encourages listeners to stay engaged with the ongoing investigation and invites them to subscribe for the full story, promising weekly episodes that delve deeper into the truth, trauma, and fight for justice surrounding Stacy’s murder.
Laurie Swift [00:00]:
"If this letter touched you and you want to know more about who my mother was and what happened to her, please join me for the full story. Papi Killed Mommy premieres July 9, with new episodes every week. Diving into the truth, the trauma, and the fight for justice. Subscribe now so you don't miss it."
Final Thoughts
This episode serves as a moving tribute to Stacy, offering listeners a personal perspective that enriches the overarching narrative of Papi Killed Mommy. Through Laurie Swift’s heartfelt letter, Nikki not only honors her mother’s memory but also emphasizes the critical need for continued pursuit of truth and justice. Whether you’re a long-time follower or new to the podcast, this episode provides a deeply emotional and insightful understanding of Stacy’s life and the lingering quest for answers in her untimely death.
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