Podcast Summary: Papi Killed Mommy – Episode: The Beginning
Release Date: July 9, 2025
Introduction
In the debut episode of Papi Killed Mommy, host Nikki Wasolishen courageously shares the harrowing story of her mother's unsolved murder. This true crime podcast delves deep into the complexities of domestic violence, the quest for justice, and the personal toll it takes on those left behind. Nikki sets the stage by warning listeners about the sensitive and distressing content, underscoring the gravity of the topics discussed.
“Poppy killed Mommy. Those were the first words my little sister said to me after the Sedona Police Department put me in the backseat of a squad car with her minutes after our mother's death.”
— Nikki Wasolishen [00:03]
The Tragic Night
Nikki recounts the events of July 8th, 1993, the night her mother, Stephanie Marie Wasolishen (known as Stacy), was murdered. She provides a vivid account of the last moments she saw her mother alive, painting a poignant picture of a seemingly ordinary evening that turned tragic.
“I came up behind my mom, gave her a hug around her neck, kissed her on the cheek, and said good night. She asked if I'd done my chores and I lied like kids do. I walked away without looking back. That was the last time I ever saw my mother alive.”
— Nikki Wasolishen [09:36]
Later that night, Nikki describes waking up to disturbing scenes and her sister's accusatory words as the police arrived, introducing immediate confusion and trauma.
“...I saw Russell Peterson rocking back and forth, talking fast. His hands were red. An officer tried to block my view, but I saw it. What I can only assume now as an adult was my mom's blood all over his hands.”
— Nikki Wasolishen [10:58]
Family Background and Early Life
To understand the context of the tragedy, Nikki delves into her mother's background. Born as a twin in Chicago on June 1, 1961, Stacy's early life was marked by loss and upheaval. The death of her twin brother Steven due to delayed medical attention by the police created a long-lasting fear and distrust towards law enforcement within the family.
“...from what Wendy told me, it was devastating for the youngest girls. Grandma B, who had never worked outside the home, was suddenly alone and she quickly remarried a man named Bruce, whom I only knew as the balloon guy.”
— Nikki Wasolishen [05:06]
Stacy's adolescence in Phoenix, Arizona, was further complicated by familial tensions and rumors of abuse at the hands of her stepfather, Bruce, which may have included forced pregnancy and adoption threats. These early experiences with instability and control set a precedent for the domestic violence that would later permeate her adult life.
“Bruce, he was a creeper. He was a creeper. He was a little too touchy feely, in my opinion...”
— Wendy [04:37]
Relationships and Isolation
Stacy's romantic life was turbulent, marked by her relationship with Craig, Nikki's father, and subsequent involvement with Russell Peterson. This segment explores how Stacy's relationships evolved, highlighting Craig's jealousy and the eventual transition to her marriage with Russell.
“Russell was a chef, and he swept my mom off her feet. He was everything my dad wasn't. And my mom fell hard.”
— Nikki Wasolishen [06:32]
The move to Sedona in the early '90s appeared to be a fresh start for the family but quickly devolved into isolation for Stacy. The demanding nature of Russell's job as an executive chef led to prolonged periods of loneliness for Stacy, exacerbating underlying tensions and setting the stage for the tragic events of 1993.
The Aftermath and Quest for Justice
With the case officially ruled a homicide, Nikki grapples with unanswered questions and a lack of justice. She shares alarming statistics about domestic violence to contextualize her mother's case within a broader societal issue, emphasizing the systemic failures that often leave victims without support or closure.
“...behind my mother's death, the weight I carried into adulthood, and the reason I'm telling you this story now.”
— Nikki Wasolishen [05:06]
Nikki expresses her determination to reopen her mother's cold case 28 years later, highlighting her personal journey from despair to proactive investigation. She pledges to guide listeners through every facet of the investigation, presenting evidence and soliciting input to seek justice for Stacy.
Notable Quotes and Reflections
Throughout the episode, several poignant quotes underscore the emotional and psychological impact of the events on Nikki and her family:
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Nikki: “This podcast has honestly been the biggest challenge I've ever taken on. It's been completely overwhelming.” [00:03]
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Craig (Nikki's Father): “I beat him up one time and scared the hell out of him another couple times because I was jealous...” [07:11]
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Wendy: “Stacy always had more than one [boyfriend].” [05:06]
Conclusion and Call to Action
Nikki closes the episode by emphasizing the ongoing nature of her quest for justice and urging listeners to support victims of domestic violence. She provides resources for those in need and encourages the community to contribute information that could aid in solving her mother's case.
“If you or someone you know is in a domestic violence situation, please reach out for help.”
— Nikki Wasolishen [11:24]
She also invites listeners to subscribe, share, and follow her journey, promising a thorough and unrelenting pursuit of the truth until justice is served.
Papi Killed Mommy sets a compelling foundation in "The Beginning" episode, blending personal narrative with critical commentary on domestic violence. Nikki Wasolishen's unwavering dedication to uncovering the truth offers a poignant and engaging entry into a story that seeks both justice and healing.