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Episode: Raising The Amazing Generation: Helping Kids Become Wiser Tech Users
Host: Delaney Ruston, MD
Guest: Catherine Price, journalist & author
Release Date: January 12, 2026

Episode Overview

In this episode, Delaney Ruston, MD, talks with journalist and author Catherine Price about empowering today's children to become mindful, savvy tech users. The conversation explores practical strategies, the science behind kids’ tech behaviors, and insights from Price’s latest book (co-written with Jonathan Haidt), The Amazing Generation, a guide for children to navigate technology intentionally. The episode also covers tangible tools for parents, shifting family tech culture, and why off-screen time is essential for healthy development.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Catherine Price’s Personal Journey to Tech Wisdom

• Origin of Writing About Tech: Catherine explains how becoming a mother inspired her to reflect on her own phone use. She’d catch herself looking at her phone while her baby looked up at her:

  “I wasn't looking at social media...but I was definitely scrolling on my phone and I realized that that was not how I wanted to be living and it was definitely not how I wanted her to feel or interact with ... her own mother.” (01:37)

• Her first tech book, How to Break Up with Your Phone, was born from this realization—a personal struggle made into a practical guide.

  “I decided, hmm, I'm not only one to be struggling with this, we're just not talking about it very much. So why don't I actually write a book that would help me solve my problem?” (02:18)

Reframing Tech: Not ‘No Tech’, But ‘Healthy Tech’

• Catherine’s philosophy isn’t anti-tech, but pro-boundary and intentional use:

  “By breaking up with your phone, I don't mean you have to throw it under a bus or totally get rid of it... it's about creating a healthier relationship with better boundaries.” (03:40)

The Amazing Generation: A Book for Kids

• The book, co-authored with Jonathan Haidt, is a dual-level resource:
  • A graphic novel (drawn by Cynthia Yuan Cheng) tells the story of two kid groups, contrasting experiences of smartphone and non-smartphone users.
  • Interactive ‘try this’ activities and real-life anecdotes offer engagement for ages 9–14.
• Designed as an analog-feel scrapbook with stickers, post-its, and fun activities:

  “One of my favorites...suggests kids ask their parents...to imitate the sound that a dial up modem made.” (06:21)

• Rich in crowd-sourced advice from teens and young adults, e.g.:

  “Ben, he's 21 and he says, ‘I really wish I had gotten to know my grandfather better before he died instead of always playing video games when he visited.’” (07:22)

Teen Tech Regret and the Hidden Desire for Change

• Older Gen Zs report tech platform regret:

  “Almost half of people ages 18 to 27 wish that some of these main platforms like Snapchat and TikTok and X had never been invented.” (07:56)

• Young people feel “trapped”—they wish they'd spent more time on real-world relationships.

The Rebels Code: A Manifesto for Youth

• A practical framework introduced in the book:
  1. Use technology as a tool—don’t let technology use you.
  2. Fill your life with real friendship, freedom, and fun (as opposed to virtual versions).
• Real-world fun, friendships, and independence are more fulfilling than online ones.

  “The forms of friendship and freedom and fun that exist on screens...is in no way comparable to those things in real life.” (09:14)

Teaching Kids About Tech ‘Wizardry’ and Industry Manipulation

• The “Secrets of the Tech Wizards”: Education for kids about dopamine-driven design, the attention economy, and intentional brain hacking by app creators.
• Comparing Big Tech to Big Tobacco—a need for parental caution, as many insiders don’t let their own kids use these products.

Real-Life Incidents: Why Early Conversation Matters

• Story of a 10-year-old receiving a predatory email, underscoring real online risks:

  “This is a fifth grader...who just got an email from a creepy...like this is happening to your kids. It's not other people's kids. It's happening to your kids.” (12:28)

• The need for offline and online safety conversations, not only about social media but all internet-capable devices (including tablets and iPads).

Practical Tools and Solutions for Families

• Landline Alternatives:

  • Products like “Tin Can,” Internet-connected phones that call preset numbers—screenless communication that lets kids connect with parents and friends without entering the digital distraction world.

    “If you get a landline telephone and you have your kid call their grandparents on it, that's a great life skill.” (15:12)

  • Strong push for “community adoption”—when one parent gets such a phone, others quickly follow, leading to more sustained peer connections.

• Delayed and Guided Device Access:

  • Delay giving smartphones or advanced devices as long as possible.
  • When communication is needed, use “loaner phones” or “dumb” phones—flip phones, text-only phones, or basic smart alternatives with no unfettered internet/social media.
  • Encourage texting as a learning tool for relationship dynamics: Who’s included/excluded, etiquette, and emotional resilience.
  • Extensive warning about seemingly innocuous devices like smartwatches, which can be as distracting as phones.

Insights from Kids and Their Communities

• In-school presentations reveal that even at 9–10 years old, kids grapple with tech overuse and negative online encounters.
• Importance of open, age-appropriate dialogue:
  • For young kids: focus on safety, boundary setting, and real-life connection.
  • For older kids: incorporate stories from relatable peers, encourage agency, and emphasize collective action.

Modeling Healthy Tech Habits: Price’s Family Tech Strategies

• Transparency: Price and her husband charge phones outside the bedroom, have no TV in central spaces, maintain device-free dinners, and consciously narrate their tech use for their daughter.

  “If you're having a problem with a news app or with Instagram...you can take that off your phone. So if I were to show you my phone screen, it's totally black. I took all the apps off of it actually.” (24:11)

• Apps removed, notifications off save for the essentials. Kindle and audiobooks are allowed, but iPads and car screens are out.
• Encouragement for parents: Let kids help set parent screen goals, openly discuss struggles.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On "Breaking Up" with Your Phone:

  “If you dump a person, you're not saying, I never want to have a human relationship again. You're just saying that relationship wasn't right for me. I want something healthier for me.” (03:41)

• On Youth Tech Regret:

  “Almost half of people ages 18 to 27 wish that...Snapchat and TikTok and X had never been invented.” (07:56)

• A Young Adult’s Regret:

  "I really wish I had gotten to know my grandfather better before he died instead of always playing video games when he visited." — Ben, 21 (07:22)

• Kids' Candid Tech Reflections:

  “I noticed that when I spend time online, it’s not as fun as spending time in real life.” (10:39)

• Virality and Disconnection:

  “That was the loneliest time I’ve ever had in my life. I was more lonely during that time.” — School staff member Zaire, on going viral (17:48)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• 01:35 – Catherine’s journey to tech mindfulness & first book
• 04:17 – Conception and structure of The Amazing Generation
• 07:20 – Gen Z advice and anecdotes from the book
• 07:56 – Research: Gen Z’s tech regrets
• 08:24 – The Rebels Code explained
• 10:12 – Tech industry’s brain hacks and “tech wizard” secrets
• 12:00 – Real life: Kids encountering predators online
• 14:35 – Screenless, internet-based “landline” solutions for kids
• 17:10 – Using community-based approaches for tech solutions
• 18:48 – Price’s practical parent roadmap for device introduction
• 22:14 – Family tech rules in the Price household
• 24:11 – Simple phone customizations for intentional use

Actionable Takeaways for Parents

• Delay device introduction and use “dumb phones” or landline alternatives.
• Model healthy device habits openly and invite kids to help set family tech boundaries.
• Prioritize real-life fun and social experiences—help kids find joy outside screens.
• Educate kids about tech industry manipulation and how to use technology, not be used by it.
• Maintain open, ongoing dialogue—most kids want guidance and honest discussion.
• Encourage community solutions—work with other parents to set collective norms.

If you’re looking for a thoughtful, evidence-based, and practical conversation about raising wise tech users, this episode is a treasure trove of insights, strategies, and real stories from both experts and kids themselves.