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Panic, Coronavirus and Devastated Economies
Mar 16, 202000:06:33Tap to summarizePanic and fear are two of the most powerful emotions driving human behaviour. We are seeing a wave of overreaction to what is so far, an epidemic with a low mortality rate. A virus that makes few people ill – 80% of those infected show no or very mild symptoms. Image by Vektor Kunst from Pixabay I am writing a post about the next stage of my Camino journey, I will publish it next week. But my mind keeps wandering to the panic about the coronavirus epidemic and the effects of the overreaction to it. This morning, I recorded an interview with Kathleen Beauvais for her Karytechsolutions business. While we had our equipment set up – and I was reasonably presentable – we decided to record our chat about the wave of panic that is spreading across much of the world. We are planning to make this a weekly show. A 5-minute chat about a major event or issue that’s making the news, we will also talk about marketing, business, and life stuff. Here’s our first episode. We have also recorded an audio version which you can listen to on the media player at the end of the post or download to listen at your leisure from the link below. Kathleen and Peter talk about coronavirus panic I am not ignoring the potential risk from the virus. I do understand that it could infect millions of people. However, we should keep the risks in perspective and not allow panicked reactions to close down our economies. Such is the nature of virus epidemics that no matter how many events and activities we cancel or how many times we wash our hands, the situation will get worse before it gets better. It will take a combination of natural factors and sensible interventions to end the epidemic. Coronavirus Panic And The Economy The potential damage to the economies of the world from the reaction to the virus is the real threat. What good is it to prevent people getting the virus but wipe out their jobs in the tourist, entertainment, hospitality and many other industries. The plunging share prices and lower dividends of listed corporations will seriously affect pensions. This article in the Independent warns that the coronavirus will bankrupt more people than it kills. It suggests that the reaction by governments and panicked consumers could unravel the global economy. It seems that the media are feeding this frenzy, people are reacting by unnecessary stockpiling and governments are using it as an excuse to further restrict personal freedoms of choice, travel and association. It’s time to put the risks in perspective. We would love some feedback on our video, leave a comment here or on YouTube. p.s. My story about my dog Mike was picked up by a news service app in the USA which sent over 800 visitors to the post in 3 days. That shows the power of stories – especially ones about animals. Clicking on some links on this site will let you buy products and services which may result in us receiving a commission, however, it will not affect the price you pay. The post Panic, Coronavirus and Devastated Economies appeared first on Peter Wright.
Transcribe →Community, Adult Playgrounds – What Next?
Apr 23, 201900:11:06Tap to summarizeCommunity, adult playgrounds and what next all came into my mind this week for different reasons. Why? because although they are all different topics they are interconnected. Let’s start with adult playgrounds, move onto community, ponder what’s next and then see how all three might be connected. Ball Pit courtesy 3dMan-eu / pixabay On the way to an event in Thorndale, Ontario on Wednesday a week ago, I listened to a discussion on adult playgrounds in Canada. I expected to hear about golf courses, climbing walls, paint ball parks or perhaps something more sinister. To my surprise the participants were talking about the same types of playgrounds children have loved for generations. I heard one of the women – I would guess she was 40 ish – laughingly describing her enjoyment of playing in a ball pit like the one in the photo above. The interviewer then spoke to a couple in their late 60s who were having the time of their lives. They were regulars at the adult ball pit. They enjoyed the freedom of playing like children without having to worry about burying a young child under thousands of plastic balls. My first reaction was ” Really? It sounded as if I am hearing someone entering her second childhood.” Then I thought about it and realised that playing in a ball pit is all about having fun, it might not help your fitness level as much as running, cycling or walking. But, it is probably better for you than watching TV. So who cares whether it’s considered a kid’s or an adult’s form of fun? Is there really any difference? Adult Playgrounds or Outdoor Gyms? It’s hard to know where adult playgrounds stop and outdoor gyms start. It seems many of the more successful combine both. With outdoor gym equipment for the fitness enthusiasts, swings, slides and more fun stuff for the others . Here’s a selection of 13 different adult playgrounds around the world. Although I am not sure the first one, Chamber of Horrors is rightly called a playground. Britain is home to many outdoor gyms and adult playgrounds. One example is an innovative park in Hull that lets users generate electricity for the grid as they pedal, push and pant their way to fitness. Fitness experts are seeing many advantages of taking gyms outdoors. Because many users are put off conventional indoor gyms by the price of membership, crowded facilities, noise and rigid scheduling. In contrast, outdoor gyms are generally built by municipalities, are free and can be used at any convenient time. Read about the British experience in this BBC report. Community The event I attended was the Teeny Tiny Summit held at the Purple Hill Music Hall. The theme was “Big Ideas For Small Places” Purple Hill Country Music Hall, Thorndale, Ontario Small towns and villages in Ontario are slowly dying. This is not a new thing, it has been happening for decades and is affecting small communities in most of the world. The urban drift is hard to reverse. More new jobs are created in large cities, the attraction of city life is hard to resist for under or un-employed young people. As rural populations decline, businesses and service providers in small towns close their doors. The ability to use the Internet for many transactions that only 10 years ago required a trip to the bank, post office or to pay bills has led to many of these closures. Business closures mean people move away, houses stand empty, less money in the local economy. The cycle repeats until the town becomes a retirement community or a ghost town. The Teeny Tiny Summit Keynote speaker, Australian Peter Kenyon from the Bank of IDEAS, enthralled the audience of over 100 with so many success stories from Australia and New Zealand that it was difficult to remember them all. I wrote about one of these in this post on Tiny Home Geniuses. Other speakers presented heartwarming Canadian success stories about small towns being revitalised. The Mayor of Lucan, Cathy Burghardt spoke about the successful campaign to win the 2018 Kraft Hockeyville award for Lucan. Shelagh Morrison shared the success of the Ailsa Craig Quilt & Fibre Arts Festival. Arden McClean and Becky Clark took us through the development and launch of the I Love Thorndale promotion which has now inspired other small communities in Ontario and beyond. Terrilee Kelford of Cornerstone Landing youth services spoke about the problem of homeless young people in smaller communities where there were fewer facilities than in larger centres. Encouragingly, she mentioned positive moves by provincial and local levels of government to make it easier to build or park tiny homes on residential plots. In addition she told us about her organisation’s plan to build a tiny home community with five tiny homes as a pilot project for affordable housing for low income earners. The Takeaway for Community Survival The most important message I got from the summit was the fact hammered home by Peter Kenyon and endorsed by all the other speakers was that the survival of small communities starts within those communities. It does not start with a government grant, a fact finding commission, an outside project, a team of experts or a government development programme. In all the successful communities which had avoided extinction and a few which had surpassed their former glory someone or a small group did something. That someone decided that their town was not going to die. They looked at their resources, had a vision and worked with what they had. Quotation used by Peter Kenyon A leader or leaders soon emerged, others caught their excitement and things started happening. That’s when some communities decided to get advice from consultants, get grants or talk to sponsors. Some teamed up with neighbouring communities. AI, Remote workers and Community Technology in various forms is taking away “traditional” jobs by automating many and exporting others to developing countries. In some ways, for example by making online s...
Transcribe →Why We Should Revitalize Our Lives.
May 18, 201800:05:33Tap to summarizeRevitalize has been on my mind lately. It started with a conference I attended at the end of April. That was a conference to look at revitalizing declining church congregations, but it had some valuable lessons for our personal and business lives. Early morning sun behind greenhouse tunnel Warmer mornings and earlier sunrises make it easier to get up earlier. Last week I took a step to revitalize my life by getting up at 5:30 instead of 6:15 and getting out for my daily walk before 6:00 am. The scene in the photo on the left greeted me as I turned back into our drive. The rising early morning sun shining through the tunnel was magical. At the end of a good walk, It inspired me, made me feel good to be alive and ready to grab the day by the throat and get things done. I have been up and out walking before 6:00 am each day except Sunday, for the last 2 weeks. It means I get an earlier start to my work day, feel revitalized, invigorated and happier. That great start to the day helps keep my thoughts positive and makes it easier to ignore the minor frustrations and irritations that plague all of our days at times. Another habit I follow is reading something positive every morning. Since the beginning of the year, I have been reading The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman. Each day of the year has a page with a quotation from one of the Stoic philosophers and an explanation by the authors. Today’s is titled “How you do anything is how you do everything“. The quotation is from Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations, 8:22 “Pay attention to what’s in front of you–the principle, the task, or what’s being portrayed” The authors expand on this by reminding us that what we are doing now is the important thing, we can speculate on what tomorrow might bring, but at this moment, we have no way of knowing with certainty that we will even be alive tomorrow. So let’s get today done properly. Revitalize to Thrive in a Changing World There is no question that the world is changing. I wrote about adaptability being essential for survival in a changing world in this post in April 2018 and earlier posts in March of the same year. If we continually look for ways to revitalize our lives, we will change our perspective and be more adaptable to ride the waves of change that are coming at us in many areas of our lives. Work, business, recreation, health services, entertainment, personal transport, purchasing options, changes are happening everywhere. We can resist change – and some changes should be resisted. However, most changes are going to happen whether we oppose them or not. It’s our choice whether we ignore, get around or adopt them. We might resist some as a matter of principle, because of our beliefs, personal or cultural biases. We might refuse to accept others because they seriously affect our liberty, mobility or ability to go about our daily lives without the constant scrutiny of a big brother government. Accepting or resisting change will have consequences, some good for us, some not so good. Revitalizing our outlook on life will give us options and prepare us for these changes – and their consequences. How do we revitalize our lives? Reflecting on the conference mentioned above, one of the presenters spoke about looking at life from a different perspective. He used the example of a new priest arriving at a small, rural, long-established parish and trying to get the congregation to agree on his “Mission Imperative”. What he thought was his purpose for being there. After a frustrating period with a serious lack of cooperation from the congregation, he realized that he should be following a “Mission Interrogative”. Finding out how he could serve the congregation, not get them to change their traditional approach to fit his schedule. We can have an interrogative approach to a changing world. Ask questions, look for ways that the changes can make our lives, easier, happier, less stressful. Decide whether to embrace, accept, ignore or resist those changes. Reflect on the consequences of our decisions. Then act, do what we think is right for us, not merely follow the herd. Taking up a new activity is a wonderful way to revitalize our lives. After a lifetime of believing I was useless at music, I bought a guitar am taking lessons and can play some simple tunes. I have started a study course on the history of Christianity, become active in a church after an absence of over 40 years. This week, I started exploring two new business opportunities. The simplest way of all is to get up early and go for a walk or a run. How are you going to revitalize your life? Leave a comment. change graphic by geralt / pixabay The post Why We Should Revitalize Our Lives. appeared first on Peter Wright.
Transcribe →Risk in a Changing World
Mar 16, 201800:05:15Tap to summarizeRisk. Something to avoid at all costs? Or a vital ingredient for overcoming adversity and survival in a changing world? Risk in a Changing World For the last 30 years or so, a good half of my adult life, I have watched as the Political Correctness campaign has almost succeeded in removing risk from life in the Western world. From preventing children playing with balls in playgrounds or climbing trees to protecting the perpetrators of crime from the self-defence actions of the victims. A misguided social welfare system in many countries that rewards people for not making efforts to look after themselves. Systems that encourage people to stay on welfare and not take low-paid, probably unsatisfying jobs. An environment that breeds an entitlement attitude. A life without risks is a stagnant life. A sparkling stream needs movement and replenishment with a constant source of new, fresh water. So do our lives if we don’t want them to resemble a scum covered, fetid, dark pond. Most developments and discoveries in the world have happened because someone took a risk. This holds true in science, engineering, mining, agriculture, medicine, the arts and practically every field of human endeavour. We cannot grow in our personal, professional, business or creative lives unless we take risks to stretch ourselves. We can’t form new relationships unless we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, to be hurt, disappointed or let down at times. We can’t enjoy new sports or activities without risking stiff joints, skinned knees or worse. Why the campaign to eliminate risk? Certain elements in society spend huge amounts of time, money and effort in attempting to eliminate all forms of risk from modern life Conformity? Control? The attempt to remove risks and other efforts of “progressive” social engineering may have been started with the best intentions. But the more socialist elements of society have hijacked it. Aided and abetted by lawyers who find creative ways to win lucrative and often frivolous, negligence or malpractice cases. It’s often easier – and cheaper – for the defendant to strike a deal than winning a case in court. Elimination of risk can easily be promoted as a worthy cause. Sometimes it is. For example, enforcing the wearing of seatbelts in cars is proven to save lives and reduce injuries. It is a practice that makes sense. Whether it should be a law or encouraged by education is an argument for a different post. Suffice it to say that making the wearing of seatbelts a law, takes an element of risk for the consequences of personal decisions away from drivers and passengers. Another erosion of personal independence and insidious reduction of risk. Sometimes, as I wrote in this post, despite the precautions and safeguards, risk does have tragic consequences. Consequences of living in a risk-free environment. There are signs that we are waking up and realising that we are doing our children a huge disservice by keeping all risk out of their lives. This article in the New York Times reports how educators in Britain are re-introducing elements of risk to children’s playgrounds and classroom activities. They have suddenly realised what anyone with a grain of common sense has known for generations: Risk builds resilience. Children climb obstacles, use scissors, run around on hard surfaces. They scrape their knees, cut themselves (generally only once) get the odd bruise. But they survive, learn and emerge stronger for the experience. We need exposure to risk to survive in a changing world. I wrote here about risk being the missing ingredient for a rewarding life, and how the sudden absence of risk from one’s life might be a contributory reason why military veterans cannot adjust to a peaceful, quiet life. Robotics In a rapidly changing world, the old model of lifetime employment with one or very few employers a “safe” pension and assured housing at the end is part of history. Add the implications of Artificial Intelligence, Automation, Robotics and more disruptive technology and it is obvious that the risks to a “normal” journey through life are increasing. Children need to be ready to cope with those and more as yet unknown risks that will affect their lives. They and all of us need to develop resilience and curious minds by taking risks. Risk is essential for Growth and Success. What do you think? Leave a comment Jump Photo by Sammie Vasquez on Unsplash Robot Photo by Sorry imKirk on Unsplash The post Risk in a Changing World appeared first on Peter Wright.
Transcribe →Achievements, Goals, Gratitude and Happiness
Mar 9, 201800:05:18Tap to summarizeAchievements and success are necessary to find happiness according to most gurus. Success But are they? I had another topic in mind for today’s post until I reviewed this blog’s statistics and I noticed a trend. There is a rising level of interest in goals. On 11 June 2012, I published a post titled “6 key values for achieving goals” It is one of my most popular posts. 1912 visitors have landed on it since it was published. The trend I noticed shows that from an average number of annual visits of around 230 in the early years after it was published, there were 571 visits in 2017 and 151 in the first 10 weeks of 2018. I don’t promote old posts at all, I email new posts to subscribers and mention them on social media. I send out a link to this blog itself a couple of times a week. Visitors to older posts are generally getting there through a search engine. We usually want to read about achievements, goals, goal setting after the Christmas holidays and in early January, when we think about our plans for the New Year. When the media is full of tips and ideas for New Year’s Resolutions. So why does there seem to be more interest in goals? Is it because more of us are searching for happiness? Are many of us falling into the trap of believing that we need to be successful, to reach our goals so that our achievements allow us to buy things that we believe will make us happy? If we are, we will find that happiness will be fleeting. A temporary illusion. On 2 February 2018, I wrote a little about the Prosperity Paradox here. The full story behind that post is in Chapter 13 of my book 5 Steps To Thriving On Adversity. Achievements and Gratitude I subscribe to a short daily motivational video message called DarrenDaily by Darren Hardy It’s a three to six-minute video that is emailed every weekday morning. In today’s video, Darren spoke about goals and how for many the conventional approach to setting and attaining goals works against us. His point is that until we start from a place of being grateful for what we do have – no matter how little that may seem to be – we will always focus on what we lack. Focusing on lack is a sure way to failing to meet our goals. He is right, I know from personal experience that being resentful of the situation I was in when I came to Canada to start a new life kept me from making any achievements. Only when I became grateful for being in a safe country with no one trying to attack me and with no shortages of basic commodities did I start to make progress. Perhaps I should go back to that old post and add gratitude as a seventh ingredient for achieving goals. Achievements and The Journey During my life, I have had more ups and downs than most. At various times, I have enjoyed a good income, been bankrupt, financially comfortable again, separated from my home, my country and all my assets. Started again doing hard physical farm jobs. On the road to financial recovery, another setback from a heart attack. During all those periods, I have sometimes been happy and sometimes unhappy. In my experience, there has been no clear correlation between wealth and happiness nor financial difficulty and unhappiness. When things were falling to pieces in Zimbabwe Sue and I did not know from one day to the next whether we would still have a home the next day or even if we would still be alive. It was a deeply worrying time, but our evening rides on our horses around the farm, looking at our cattle, seeing a huge range of wildlife, inhaling the scents of the African bush, gave us intensely happy experiences. Sunset on our farm in Zimbabwe What has determined my level of happiness has been the thoughts I allowed to dominate my mind. I don’t dispute that goals and achievement are important, financial success does make life easier. Freedom from worrying about paying the bills does make life less stressful. But neither of those automatically make us happier. Happiness and contentment come from enjoying the journey and finding balance. Gratitude for the simple things, like being alive, having reasonably good health, enough to eat and a roof over my head lets me enjoy each day’s journey. It lets me work towards some important goals and live a good life. Share your thoughts in a comment. Success key image from Pixabay The post Achievements, Goals, Gratitude and Happiness appeared first on Peter Wright.
Transcribe →Declining Performance – Why we ignore slow changes
Feb 23, 201800:05:10Tap to summarizeDeclining Performance was beautifully demonstrated to me this week. Twice. Declining Performance The first was the sad realisation that the Toastmasters club of which I have been a member for seven years had reached the end of its life. Especially sad because I had been on the executive of the club in various capacities for six of those years. Woodstock Toastmasters was never a big club compared to many Toastmasters clubs in larger cities. For many years, our membership hovered between 10 and 20 members. Even at the lower end of that range, most meetings would have at least eight members and often a few guests. Meetings were vibrant and enjoyable. Members drifted away for many reasons; ill-health, moving to distant cities for new jobs, returning to university. Some achieved in a year or two what they wanted and moved on to other interests. As the club executive, we used a range of tactics to attract new members. Presentations to businesses, educational and community institutions, personal invitation, social media and more. All our efforts met with limited success. We would gain a new member or two, then lose another the next time membership dues had to be paid. We kept hoping things would change, we didn’t recognise that at some point, declining performance breaches a threshold from which it is very difficult, perhaps impossible to recover. For our club, that threshold was probably reached a year before we realised it. In December we were forced to accept that with only four active members we no longer qualified to continue as a Toastmasters Club. We will have our last meeting on 26 February. Declining Performance of the senses Some 30 years ago, I noticed that my hearing was not as sharp as it had been. Higher pitched noises were difficult to hear. At the time in South Africa where I was living, the most common land-line telephone was called the “Cricket” phone because its ringing sound was almost identical to the chirp of the cricket insect. I Often did not hear the phone ringing. I also had more difficulty hearing women’s voices than men’s. That’s dangerous for a married man and a manager of a large mainly female corporate department. I eventually went to a doctor who looked at my reasonably athletic build, considered my age and said he knew what the problem was. He didn’t bother to suggest hearing tests. His very accurate diagnosis was that as I was in my 30s, seemed fit and had lived in Rhodesia or South Africa for most of my life, I would have spent many years in the military as part of my National Service. He asked if I had been in the army and said that the many hours on the rifle range spent firing hundreds of rounds through a variety of weapons, using hand grenades, mortars and being close to explosions had damaged my ears. At that time, no one used any form of ear protection. He said he saw hundreds of men my age with the same problem. There was no medical or surgical solution to the declining performance of my hearing. I could either live with defective hearing or go to a hearing specialist and consider hearing aids. At the tender young age of 35 or so, there was no way I was going to get hearing aids. They were for old people. Hearing Aid The eyes were the next to suffer from declining performance. I had no problem driving or looking at distant objects. In my early 40s, I noticed that I was having difficulty reading the menu in dimly lit restaurants. I also noticed that my eyes did not refocus quickly when looking from the road ahead to the rear view mirrors in my car. I needed reading glasses. Using glasses just for reading made my life easier and did not compare to the awful idea of hearing aids. Various upgrades of reading glasses got me through to my late 50s when eventually I had to get bifocals for reading and middle distance. At 67 I still do not need to wear glasses for driving and can comfortably work outdoors without them. Hearing Aids I failed to do anything about my hearing. Over the last few years, it has got worse. Unless I faced the person speaking, I missed more words than I heard. Sue complained that I had the TV or radio volume turned too high. Most of the time, I could not hear what my son Bryan, who speaks quietly, was saying. At meetings, I had to strain to hear the speaker. Any background noise and I was lost. I went for a hearing test. The results confirmed that I had a serious loss of hearing and worse, my word recognition was even poorer than my ability to hear sounds. Yesterday I got my hearing aids. They are not the top of the range, those cost as much as a reasonable used car and I don’t have medical insurance that would cover the cost. I got a mid-range model. They are pure magic. I cannot believe what a difference they have made. As I type this, I can hear the click of the keyboard. If you had asked me yesterday, I would have said that my keyboard was completely silent. When Bryan speaks in his normal voice I think he is shouting. Why then do we ignore declining performance in our personal lives, our businesses, organisations we belong to? Why do we wait until it’s too late to fix the problem? Why do we waste valuable time making do instead of taking advantage of something that can make a huge difference to our lives? Inertia, failure to accept the obvious, unrealistic hope, misguided faith and determination are all reasons. Sometimes we do have to accept the inevitability of life. The hearing aids taught me an important lesson this week. I wish I had accepted the need for them five or even ten years ago. What do you think about declining performance? Leave a comment. Photos from pixabay The post Declining Performance – Why we ignore slow changes appeared first on Peter Wright.
Transcribe →Detours, Destinations, Journeys and Goals
Dec 1, 201700:03:38Tap to summarizeDetours have been a major influence in my life. By detours, I mean a departure from my intended path. Sometimes the detour has become the new path, a new journey. At other times it has been a temporary trip along a side road before re-joining the planned path, finding a new one or reaching a new destination. I took some of those detours voluntarily. Others were the result of circumstances beyond my control, others still the consequences of choices I made, some good, some not so good, a few catastrophic. Why this reflection on Detours, Destinations, Journeys and Goals? Three reasons: Firstly from my habit for many years of looking back over the past year in preparation for the annual “archiving” exercise I do in the quiet week between Christmas and New Year. I wrote about it here and here . Looking back, I notice how many detours my 67 year journey through life has taken. Secondly, the more I read about or hear of, other people’s life stories, the more I realise that detours are not the exception we assume, often they are more travelled than the planned route. Unplanned Journeys Thirdly, the accelerating rush to introduce technology into all areas of life. This means that for young people just starting out on their journeys, there will be more detours than clearly signposted highways. The impact of Artificial Intelligence, automation, robots. This is dramatically changing the way those entering the income earning stage of life sustain themselves. For many it means detouring from college back to the family home. In other cases, a succession of jobs in different categories, many unrelated to their field of study. For many a reliance on the “gig” economy, finding a balance between too few and too many part-time assignments. Journeys and Goals For as long as I have studied personal development, goal setting has been the most frequently mentioned habit of successful people. Goals are important. However the more I look at what makes us happy, the more I believe that enjoying the journey is as important as arriving at the right destination. Or achieving the goal. Probably more so. If we decide to travel to a distant destination by train with the goal of arriving at an exact time on a certain day, any delay in the journey will stop us achieving our goal. However, if we choose to enjoy the scenery, share ideas with our fellow travellers, or use some quiet time to relax, we will find that we can more easily accept delays or unplanned deviations from our schedule. Perhaps a delayed arrival at our destination. Even having to end our train journey prematurely and continue by another mode of transport. Life is much like that. And becoming increasingly so. We can enjoy the journey with all its detours, frustrations, deviations and changing destinations and be happy. Or we can live to regret not achieving our goals and be miserable. I have had my share of detours and deviations, I choose to enjoy the journey. I sincerely hope you do too. Roadwork Photo by Jamie Street on Unsplash Sand Photo by Katerina Radvanska on Unsplash The post Detours, Destinations, Journeys and Goals appeared first on Peter Wright.
Transcribe →Success Adversity and momondays
Sep 26, 201600:06:33Tap to summarizeSuccess Adversity and momondays, a strange title for a blog post – or is it? I am an enthusiastic supporter of momondays. Since discovering momondays, I have spoken at 3 different venues, plan to speak at more. I regularly get to the Kitchener event at the Edelweiss on the third Monday each month. The one in London less often. momondays is a platform where anybody from experienced professional speaker to knee-shakingly nervous novice getting on stage for the first time can tell their story. A momondays event follows the format of three 10 to 12 minute speeches, a short entertainment act, a plug for a charity, a break to meet other people, then three more speeches. Most shows are held at a venue where a meal and beverages can be bought. It’s a great occasion for entertaining business contacts at tables of 8 which can be reserved in advance. In the 100 plus speeches I have listened to, I have noticed a common thread of success and adversity running through almost all the stories. The details are all different, some presented with humour, others with raw courage, all with honesty and none with excuses or expectations of sympathy. All relate a journey from periods of struggle to a better life. Many describe painful transitions along the journey, setbacks, new challenges, hurdles, failure and eventual arrival at a better place. A better life. One recent story of a woman who refused to give up on her husband after a severe medical condition left him paralysed and unable to talk. She refused to follow advice to have him placed in a “home”. Despite two sons at school, an uncertain income and no house of their own, she nursed him back to health. That night at momondays, over 20 years later, he stood up in the audience to acknowledge her sacrifice and love. There is hardly a dry eye in the house after many speakers finish their stories. Success Adversity, the stories are full of both. How different to what we see and read in the media today. Most stories in the media and those heard from society at large, are full of inconveniences made out to be adversity. Entitlement and demands. Excuses not effort. Existence not success. In recent conversations with a wide selection of people about why this should be so, I have been struck by the number of comments that “life is too easy”, “too bland”, “too safe”, “too controlled”. I am not minimising the difficulties experienced by students with huge college loans or those working in sunset industries. For example, taxi drivers facing the same fate as that of elevator attendants in the late 20th century. Or fax machine manufacturers in the early 21st. The world is changing, it always has changed and it always will. In the 1970s, newly married, I had no idea how I would ever be able to buy a home. A few years later, we bought our first house. Paying the mortgage was a struggle, just like it is now for first time home owners without wealthy parents. But we managed. I have just finished reading James Holland’s well researched and detailed book Dam Busters about the extraordinary campaign to destroy three major dams in Germany during WWII. Despite difficult conditions, stronger than expected defences and losing 8 out of 19 aircraft, two of the dams were destroyed, the third damaged, the duration of the war almost certainly shortened. 56 air crew were shot down in those 8 planes, only 3 of them survived. This is not a post about WWII. It’s about success adversity and conflict, I wrote about it here too. The point is that few of the 133 men who took off on that flight were over 30 some only 19 years old. Most had already flown 20 or more sorties, some had already crashed or parachuted out of damaged aircraft.That pattern of young men risking their lives and dying for their countries, was repeated throughout the air forces, navies and armies on both sides of the conflict. In 70 years we have gone from 19 and 20 year olds taking huge risks, flying difficult to handle Lancaster bombers and living in constant fear, to a society that feels aggrieved by certain words, non-events called “micro aggressions” and toilets identified by gender. The search for the latest “app” has become more important than making an effort. Lancaster Bomber courtesy Bernie Condon / freedigitalphotos.net Are the younger generations incapable of the same patriotic and altruistic attitudes and actions as in earlier times? I don’t believe so, I believe each generation rises to the challenges it needs to. There are enough good examples of people with the right attitude – many of them appearing on momondays and similar stages. The problem is that life has become too controlled, too safe, too politically correct. Any one expressing an original thought is attacked as racist, homophobic, insensitive or, horror of horrors, right-wing or conservative. Values that held families, communities and nations together in earlier times are being discarded. Christianity is under attack. It’s time to nourish those values that have gone out of fashion, time to let children explore, fall out of trees, skin their knees and have their feelings hurt. Time to recognise that success comes after adversity. It takes effort, determination and resilience, not excuses and an attitude of entitlement. Do you think modern life is too safe, too controlled? Leave a comment. The post Success Adversity and momondays appeared first on Peter Wright.
Transcribe →Imagination, Perception, Reality
Apr 22, 201600:03:58Tap to summarizeIt took a stretch of my imagination back in 2014 when I started writing my book to understand what it would feel like when I had boxes of the printed books in my office, the first sales recorded and the first payments in my bank account. I was committed to getting the book finished, knew with all my heart that I would. I tried to imagine what it would feel like to hold the finished book in my hand. The imagination was good, but the reality is better. Much better. The project took some unexpected turns. There were delays. The finished book is not the book I first wrote. It is an adaptation of parts of the first book presented in a different genre. The first book is a new project, still to be edited, perhaps split into two books. It will take most of the rest of this year to finish. I will finish it. It is easier to imagine the second book completed now that the first is a reality. In the last week, I have given two speeches to two different audiences. I have sold copies of the book at both. Sales have also come from my on-line store and locally. Feedback from the speeches and book buyers has been interesting. Most people who hear or read about my experiences in Africa have no perception of what my life there was like. Their imagination does not stretch to my reality. It’s only those North Americans and Europeans who have lived in third world countries or served with the military in conflict zones who have some understanding. Visiting exotic places for short periods as a tourist shielded from the uglier side of local life does not prepare you for the reality. The most frequent question I get asked is: “How did you survive those terrible experiences?” Followed by “I would not have been able to survive that”. The Book My answers are explained at length in the book. The short answer is ” We just did and most people would too if they had to.” The bottom line for us and for everyone facing adversity is that we have two choices; surrender, remain a victim and wallow in misery, perhaps give up totally and die. Or survive, accept the reality of the situation and do the absolute best we can to overcome the challenges and move on. It might be in a different direction, a different career or business, with a different partner or even in a different country. We might lose everything we though important in the process. That teaches us that things are not important, life and hope are. As long as we are breathing, we can choose to make the most of it, survive and thrive. We can choose to use our imagination to see a better future not a frightening one. I have been fortunate to have lived on farms or large properties in low density suburbs for most of my life. The prospect of living in an apartment or small property in a large city makes me nervous. The thought of having to use subways, trains and buses on a daily basis is frightening. That’s my perception but it’s the reality for millions who would find living in a rural area as I do, beyond their imagination. We all have our own perceptions and realities, we need to use our imagination wisely to know the difference. What do you think, leave a comment. p.s you can buy the book here from my on-line store or Amazon. or on the home page of this website. Imagine graphic courtesy Stuart Miles / freedigitalphotos.net The post Imagination, Perception, Reality appeared first on Peter Wright.
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Mar 1, 201600:05:08Tap to summarizeNew technology is something I often blame for most of the sins of the modern world. That is unfair. My life and that of most citizens of developed economies is better in many ways because of some new technology. That might not be the same for people fleeing the bombing and chaos in Iraq and Syria. Advances in explosives, weapons and communication devices might be working against them. My concern is not that new technology is bad. My concern is that it is eroding values and causing users to abandon activities that have been responsible for the advances in society over thousands of years. Values like integrity, respect for privacy, restraint, common sense, discernment. Activities like thinking, reading, communicating face-to-face with real people, real conversation about important issues, debating, analysing what is read, writing in grammatically correct sentences and paragraphs longer than 140 characters. New technology is not to blame for the loss of all these, we are. The technology just provides the tools, distractions and excuses. Thanks to living in Africa during the dawn of the Internet, I had a late introduction to the digital era. When I arrived in Canada in 2004, I could send an email but had no idea what URL or domain meant and had only once visited a web page. Despite the late start, a curious mind helped me become familiar with the new technology. After a heart attack in 2010 prevented me from earning an income from my usual sources, I was forced to use the on-line world to help me earn enough to survive. Like many before me, I fell into the trap of believing that knowledge was everything. The more I learned, the more likely I would succeed in the new worlds of Internet commerce and social media. I soon learned that knowledge without application, strategy and action does not create business. Since that realisation, I have resisted learning about new programmes, social media platforms and the latest “must have” solutions to every business problem merely for the sake of adding to my store of knowledge In the last year or two, I have abandoned or unsubscribed from many more social media accounts, newsletters and productivity tools than I have started using. I have become more discerning, critically asking myself whether this new thing will be really useful or just nice to have. Life is easier, more productive and less busy. However, in the last few weeks I have been introduced to two that I do find useful and enjoy using. The first is Blab.im a video streaming platform that allows a combination of a host, co-hosts and guests to appear in 4 live windows on the screen and an audience of viewers to watch, ask questions and make comments in a message board. Guests can be brought in and taken out of windows by the host. It’s the next best thing to sitting around a table for a discussion that I have come across. I have been invited to co-host a blab by The Circadians and am now in training. Here is a recording of yesterdays session. I did a trial run for my blab last week. I will be hosting my Contrarian Crumbs blab on Wednesday 3 March at 8 pm Eastern here. Contrarian Crumbs Blab. In this blab, I will be interviewing Eric Model, a writer, broadcaster, multi-media publisher and authenticity expert. New Technology and Productivity. There are some tools that I do find useful and which help me become more productive. One of those is Evernote. I have been using it for over a year, it is great for clipping and storing articles and pages from the Internet. It’s also good for keeping lists. I keep my list of books to read in an Evernote folder. It is the digital equivalent of a pair of scissors and one of those old concertina files for newspaper clippings. The other new one I think could be useful is Trello. a project management and coordination tool that I was introduced to at a workshop last weekend. It worked well for that particular workshop, allowing many delegates to add content to a number of topics on one platform. I will use it for some projects I will be working on and let you know my thoughts in a future post. What are your thoughts on new technology? Are you the master of it or a slave to it? Leave a comment graphic courtesy renjith krishnan / freedigitalphotos.net The post New Technology and Old Users appeared first on Peter Wright.
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