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Unfuckwithable
Hosted by Danya Douglas Hunt · EN
(formerly Play Bigger with Danya)
Unfuckwithable is the podcast for high-achieving, soul-led women ready to drop the subconscious brakes, expand their consciousness, and lead from unshakable inner power.
Your foot is already on the gas... let’s remove the invisible brakes.
Hosted by subconscious reprogramming expert and performance coach Danya Douglas Hunt — trusted by Olympic athletes, first responders, 7+ figure entrepreneurs, and thought leaders. Each episode is a potent fusion of neuroscience, subconscious reprogramming, nervous system mastery, high performance, universal laws, quantum energetics, and unapologetic soul work.
This is where high performers come to burn the program, master their frequency, and become rich AF — inside and out.
If you're done with the hustle-for-worthiness trap and ready to build a life that lights up your soul and scales your impact... this is your portal.
Unfuckwithable isn’t a vibe.
It’s your natural state... once you drop the programming.
Unfuckwithable is the podcast for high-achieving, soul-led women ready to drop the subconscious brakes, expand their consciousness, and lead from unshakable inner power.
Your foot is already on the gas... let’s remove the invisible brakes.
Hosted by subconscious reprogramming expert and performance coach Danya Douglas Hunt — trusted by Olympic athletes, first responders, 7+ figure entrepreneurs, and thought leaders. Each episode is a potent fusion of neuroscience, subconscious reprogramming, nervous system mastery, high performance, universal laws, quantum energetics, and unapologetic soul work.
This is where high performers come to burn the program, master their frequency, and become rich AF — inside and out.
If you're done with the hustle-for-worthiness trap and ready to build a life that lights up your soul and scales your impact... this is your portal.
Unfuckwithable isn’t a vibe.
It’s your natural state... once you drop the programming.
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146 Successful but living backwards?
6d ago00:23:33Tap to summarizeMost high performers are living backwards. And the most confronting part? It looks incredible on paper.In this episode, Danya goes deep on the philosophy at the heart of her work, the difference between becoming and unbecoming, why the personal development hamster wheel keeps so many successful people stuck, and what it actually means to operate from unfuckwithable frequency. This isn't motivation. This is a mirror.If you've done the work, read the books, built the business, hit the milestones, and there's still a low hum underneath it all that won't go away, this episode is your signal.What You'll Walk Away WithWhy the most successful people in the room are often operating from the deepest scarcity, and how to tell if that's youThe difference between performing confidence and transmitting power, and why only you know which one you're actually doingWhy "limiting beliefs" is a framework that might be keeping you in quicksand rather than moving you forwardWhat living backwards actually looks like at the level you're operating at, and the quiet internal signal that tells you the truthWhy money is the most honest mirror available to entrepreneurs at your level, and what yours is currently reflecting backThe three frequencies, scarcity, neutrality, and unfuckwithable, and how to locate yourself without lying to yourselfWhat changes when you stop outsourcing your certainty, your safety, your worth, and your freedom to anything externalQuestions This Episode Will Ask YouIs there a difference in who you are depending on whether you have something or you don't? The title, the money, the relationship, the launch result. Take it away. Who are you then?Are you operating from overflow, or are you pushing and forcing from a place that looks productive but feels relentless?You've done the inner work. You're self-aware, resourced, successful. So why does the static keep coming back?Where in your life right now are you saying yes when you mean no, and what is that actually costing you at the frequency level?Can you sit with the idea that you don't need to become anything, that the work is simply unbecoming everything you're not?If this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
Transcribe →145 You're Not Free. You're Just Rich.
2w ago00:41:30Tap to summarizeIronically...Why Financially Free People can Feel the Least Free ;) In this episode, Danya gets into one of the most confronting conversations she's had recently... sparked by a podcast interview on the topic of freedom and she does not hold back.This one is for you whether you've already built success on paper and still feel a quiet (or loud) sense of constriction inside, or you're in a season of pivot and using your circumstances as the reason you're not free yet. Both are the same trap. Both keep you locked.Danya shares what the last two years of her life have actually looked like - the letting go, the releasing of contracts, the taxes, the soul path decisions that made zero logical sense - and how that became the deepest embodiment of the Unfuckwithable frequency she teaches. Not from a book. Not from a concept. From walking through it. And it's truly been the embodied theme of her life. This episode is a pulse check, a mirror, and an invitation to stop postponing your freedom until the next milestone.In This Episode:Why the most financially successful people often feel the least free - and why that mattersThe difference between understanding freedom conceptually and actually embodying itWhat conditional freedom, conditional worth, and conditional power actually look like in real life (and how to spot yours)The house demolition metaphor - which phase of the rebuild are you in right now?Why your circumstances are old chewing gum, and how to stop using them as evidenceThe skilled sailor, the foundation dig, the AC in the background - Danya's go-to metaphors that hit differentWhy achievement becomes a strategy for safety, worth, and control for high achieversWhat the unfuckable frequency actually requires of you when life is reflecting the opposite of what you wantThe pulse check questions to ask yourself right nowPulse Check Questions From This Episode:What am I actually using success to feel?Who am I when life stops confirming me?What remains when the proof is gone?Can I still trust myself in uncertainty? (and the ironic thing is, the only thing that's certain is uncertainty ;) )Where am I still postponing freedom until the next level?If everything were taken away tomorrow, what's your first honest reaction?Where am I still living in conditional freedom, conditional worthiness, conditional peace?Mentioned In This Episode:The unfuckable frequency and what it actually means to embody itThe house demo and foundation metaphor for soul-led pivotsDanya's own two-year initiation - the real version, not the highlight reelReady to Go Deeper?If this episode stirred something in you, here's where to go next:🔥 Unfuckwithable Wealth - Danya's intimate year-long container for 8 to 10 self-led, successful women ready for a deeper layer of embodiment and mirror coaching. Application only. Soul-aligned fits only. Apply in the link below or send a DM on Instagram. Group's not your thing? Danya has a couple one-to-one spaces open, ranging from a one-off session to one spot in her year-long coaching left If this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
Transcribe →144 Frequency doesn't lie. And this episode is your lie detector.
3w ago00:18:54Tap to summarizeWhat does your day-to-day actually feel like? Not what it looks like on paper... the revenue, the clients, the lifestyle; but the felt experience of being inside it?That's the question at the heart of this episode, and it's the one most high-performing entrepreneurs are quietly avoiding.Danya opens with a conversation she's been having with founders who have built genuinely extraordinary companies- and who are still, beneath all of it, running on scarcity frequency. Still feeling the pressure. Still not fully present. Still filtering.Frequency doesn't lie. And this episode is your lie detector.What you'll explore in this episode:The 3 Frequency PhasesPhase 1: Scarcity: The dominant operating system for most of the world. Stress, pressure, force, lack — even when the external results say otherwise. The felt experience is tight, reactive, never quite enough.Phase 2: Neutrality: This is the sneaky one. You've done the work. You understand quantum physics, you know you create your reality, you're unattached to outcomes. But notice the felt experience — it's kind of meh. Autopilot. Not scarcity, but not alive either. The universe mirrors it back: neutral. This is the trap Danya catches herself in on a walk the morning of this recording.Phase 3: Sovereign Unfuckwithable: This is the frequency that makes vacuuming feel expansive. Where you feel pulled forward by life itself. Where your natural broadcast channel isn't scarcity or autopilot — it's certain, knowing, alive, magnetic. And crucially, when the chair falls out from underneath you, it doesn't rattle you. You just check the chair and sit back down.The Chair MetaphorWhen you sit in a chair, you don't think about whether it's going to hold you. You just sit. That knowing, that certainty - that's Phase 3 embodied. The goal is to make sovereign frequency your natural operating system, not something you have to keep tuning back to. Once it's integrated, you don't do the work again. You've expanded, and you can't contract back.The Pulse CheckDanya walks you through the key areas to audit your frequency right now - not the circumstances, but your felt experience of them:Money coming in and going out - does it feel expansive or constricting?Visibility and showing up - full expression, or still subconsciously calculating?Rest and downtime - actually present, or mentally already somewhere else?Time with your kids - five minutes of real presence beats ten hours of physical proximity with a distracted mindThe thing about neutrality no one talks about:Neutrality feels safe. It feels evolved. But if you stay there, the universe keeps sending you neutral. You're not in lack - but you're also not fully alive. Danya breaks down why this middle ground can quietly become its own ceiling, and how to recognise when you've been parked there longer than you think.Memorable moments from this episode:"You can't read the label from inside the jar- which is why we have coaches.""Pressure is a privilege, but it's also a perception. Change the perception, the circumstance stays the same, the experience of it changes completely.""Money was never going to give you security and safety. It would have already felt that way by now. It's ass backwards — you feel that way despite circumstances.""Once you see it, you can't unsee it. Once you remember, you can't unremember."Who this episode is for:The high-achieving entrepreneur who has done the work, built the thing, and still feels like something's slightly off. Like you're showing up but not fully in it. Like you've expanded the jar but you're still inside it. If that's landing - this episode is the mirror you've been circling.If you already feel the pull, you know what to do. or don't...and keep enjoying the static in your favourite music. That's okay, I get it ;)If this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
Transcribe →143 Stop Figuring Out The How. You're Using It As A Control Blanket.
4w ago00:34:16Tap to summarizeIf you're still trying to figure out the how, this episode is a direct mirror.In this conversation, Danya takes you on a journey from the conditioning that most high achievers never question, straight through to what inner coherence actually feels like and why it's the only thing that creates true unfuckwithable wealth.This episode covers:Why releasing the how is one of the hardest things a high achiever will ever do, and why that makes complete senseHow well-intentioned conditioning from childhood becomes the invisible engine running your business decisions right nowThe difference between achieving from lack versus operating from your true coherent frequency — and why the action can look identical but the results and experience are completely differentWhy you can be a millionaire and still be in scarcity, still be gripping, still feel empty after every milestoneThe radio station metaphor: how to know when you're tuned to your own frequency versus playing someone else's musicWhat it actually means to be unfuckwithable, not as a concept, but as a lived embodied state that holds during the storms, not just the winsDanya shares how she walked away from an Olympic career, a zone of excellence, a life that looked perfect on paper, because her soul said this isn't it, and what happened when she listenedThe question that runs through everything: Who are you when you have everything? And who are you when you have nothing?Because if either answer unsettles you, that's your work.Mentioned in this episode: The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks Unfuckwithable Wealth: the year-long intimate container for high-achieving women ready to return to full inner coherence. Maximum 10-12 women. DM UFW to apply. 1:1 opportunities also available: laser, intensive, and full year proximity.If this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
Transcribe →142 It's not Unfuckwithable If You Only Hold It When Things Are Good
4w ago00:31:02Tap to summarizeThere's a version of the unfuckwithable path that's easy to walk...when the clients are coming in, the money's moving, the momentum feels undeniable. But what about when it's the opposite? When everything is restructuring, clearing out, going sideways? When the visa's in limbo, the answer isn't coming, and your human self is mid-tantrum on a run overlooking the ocean?That's what this episode is actually about.Danya gets honest about a two-year initiation that's had her watching soul contracts end, finances swing, people, places, and things leave... all while staying grounded in the deep knowing that this is still the path. Not bypassing it. Not pretending it's easy. But choosing to see divine orchestration in the contrast, not just in the rainbows.This episode will meet you if you're in a season where everything is going out rather than in, and you're wondering how someone who teaches this is actually living it in real time.In this episode, Danya explores:Why the unfuckwithable frequency only gets proven in the contrast, not in the easeThe moment on a cliff overlooking the ocean that cracked her out of the spiral and back into trustWhat an osprey eating a fish on a branch has to do with divine timing (stay with her on this one)Why your self-awareness might be your greatest asset and your biggest linchpin — simultaneouslyThe difference between knowing you can't fuck up what's meant for you and embodying that when nothing looks like it's workingHow gripping control — of the visa, the outcome, the conversation ...is the one thing guaranteed to block what's already moving toward youThe capacity building framework she uses with elite athletes and why it applies directly to how you handle money, visibility, and scalingWhy the contrast you're experiencing right now might be showing you a part of yourself you had no idea was still closed offThe question she leaves you with:Can you hold the same frequency in the contrast that you hold when everything's going well? And if there's a gap between the two ...that, my friend, is where the work lives.Mentioned in this episode: Unfuckwithable Wealth: the container for 8 women walking this path together. If something is pulling at you, send Danya a DM. Private 1:1 applications also open."You have no idea why events have unfolded how they've unfolded. You've always trusted. Can you keep trusting right now?"If this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
Transcribe →EP 141 You Don't Have Wounds to Heal (You Have a Comfort Blanket)
4w ago00:41:15Tap to summarizeWhat if the limiting beliefs you've been trying to heal aren't actually the problem? What if the real trap is the healing itself?In this episode, Danya comes in hot with a perspective that will either deeply resonate or poke the bear — probably both. She's calling out the sneakiest comfort blanket in the personal development world: the identity of being someone with things to fix.If you're a self-aware, high-achieving entrepreneur who has done the courses, the coaches, the healing work, and you're still feeling like you're one breakthrough away from actually arriving — this episode is going to rearrange something in you.In this episode, Danya covers:Why "I have limiting beliefs to heal" might just be your most sophisticated avoidance strategyThe difference between fixing energy and capacity energy — and why the frequency you approach your growth from changes everythingThe cork metaphor: why you were never broken, and what it actually looks like to just let yourself riseWhy self-awareness, used a certain way, becomes its own trap for high performersThe basketball player analogy that reframes every "block" you think you have into an edge worth expandingWhy Olympians have 7 coaches — and it has nothing to do with being broken in 7 different waysThe real blind spot underneath all of it: how performed achievement becomes your control mechanism, and what it costs youThe three layers of knowing: intellectualising, knowing, and actually embodying... and why most people stop at layer twoWhy you don't heal your way past a ceiling. You expand past it.Quotable Moments:"You're not becoming anything. You're unbecoming everything that you're not.""It's a very beautifully decorated cage. And you've been busy optimising inside it.""You only see your edge when you're playing at your edge.""No amount of healing, reprogramming, or belief work touched it — because I wasn't broken. And neither are you."Resources Mentioned:Unfuckable Wealth Container — year-long intimate group experience for 8-12 women1:1 coaching with Danya — month, 3-month, and year-long options availableDM or comment "UNFUCKABLE" to start the conversationIf this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
Transcribe →EP 140 She had the audience, the speaking gigs, and the visibility… but behind the scenes she was drowning in debt.
Apr 2300:22:47Tap to summarizeYou can look successful on the outside and still feel broke on the inside.Big audience. Visibility. Speaking gigs. Clients. Momentum.And behind the scenes?Debt. Pressure. Scarcity. Shame. The constant feeling of, “Why is this still happening if I’m doing so much right?”In this episode, Daniel answers a question so many people are secretly living inside:Is this a strategy problem, or a money mindset problem?And the truth?It’s both.Because more strategy won’t save you if your identity is still wired for scarcity. And mindset work without real change in behavior, standards, and leadership won’t create wealth either.Money isn’t the problem. Money is the mirror.It shows you where you still don’t feel safe. Where you still don’t feel worthy. Where you’re over-giving, under-receiving, overworking, undercharging, or making money mean something about who you are.This conversation is about the deeper thing underneath the numbers.The patterns. The nervous system. The shame. The coping. The hidden ways high performers stay stuck while looking “successful” on paper.Because yes...you can have external success and still be operating from internal poverty. You can be visible and still feel unsafe. You can make more money and still not know how to hold it.More strategy won’t save you if your identity is still wired for scarcity.This episode is an invitation to stop treating money like a math problem and start seeing it for what it is: a relationship, a reflector, a revealer.And when you change the relationship, you change everything.In this episode, Danya explores:why money is never just about moneythe difference between a strategy issue and an identity issuehow shame, fear, and conditioning shape financial decisionswhy people can look wildly successful and still feel deeply scarcethe patterns behind debt, undercharging, over-giving, and financial self-sabotagehow your relationship with money mirrors your relationship with yourselfwhat it actually means to build unfuckable wealthBecause:You can look successful on the outside and still feel broke on the inside.And also:Debt, undercharging, and overgiving are often worthiness patterns—not just money problems.This is the shift.From proving to power. From pressure to capacity. From fragile success to grounded wealth. From “how do I make more money?” to “who am I being with money?”Because real wealth is not just income. It’s capacity. It’s safety. It’s self-trust. It’s being resourced enough that your circumstances don’t own your nervous system.Unfuckable wealth is when nothing external dictates how you move.That’s the work. That’s the standard. That’s the conversation.Key TakeawaysMoney isn’t the problem. Money is the mirror.You can look successful on the outside and still feel broke on the inside.More strategy won’t save you if your identity is still wired for scarcity.Debt, undercharging, and overgiving are often worthiness patterns—not just money problems.Unfuckable wealth is when nothing external dictates how you move.If this episode hits, it’s probably because it’s not just about money.It’s about who you are when money comes in. Who you are when money leaves. Who you become when you stop outsourcing your power to circumstances.If this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
Transcribe →EP 139 What They Fear Most: A Resourced Woman...because she can't be controlled
Mar 2600:31:05Tap to summarizeA woman who is deeply resourced inside and out in her unfuckwithable frequency is exactly what they fear most.Because she cannot be controlled, manipulated, or sold the same old bullshit.Why They Need Women IsolatedWhat if the “lone wolf,” hyper-independent, do-it-all-yourself woman was never the goal?What if that whole narrative was conditioning?In this episode, Danya goes all the way in on the deeper truth behind women staying isolated, over-functioning, under-supported, and disconnected from each other, and why that doesn’t just impact your healing, your business, your relationships, or your money.It impacts the world.Because women who are deeply resourced inside and out are a threat to every system built on their disconnection.This conversation is about the bigger picture.The collective awakening happening right now.The return of the divine feminine.The dismantling of old paradigms.And why what you’re witnessing on the world stage is not random.Inside this episode, Danya unpacks:why the “boss babe, do it all alone” narrative is one of the biggest scams sold to womenhow fear, shame, limitation, and old conditioning thrive in isolationwhy hyper-independence is often praised as power when it’s actually a trauma response or survival patternwho actually benefits when women stay disconnected from their truth, their bodies, their intuition, and each otherhow empowered women coming together literally shifts families, industries, systems, and the collective consciousnesswhy your soul did not come here to fit into broken systems, but to question them, challenge them, and help shake themthe deeper meaning of becoming rich AF inside and out, fully resourced, self-led, and unfuckwithablewhy you cannot change the game, break generational patterns, or live your soul path in isolationThis episode is for the woman who has already done a fuck ton of work on herself.You’re self-aware.Self-led.Already powerful.But you can feel the pull toward a deeper level.A truer embodiment.A bigger fire.A more liberated way of living, leading, creating, receiving, and being supported.Because let’s be honest…You’ve always known you came here to break the shackles.You’re just finally ready to do it on a level you haven’t touched before.A few lines that hit in this episode:“Who benefits from you staying in isolation?”“Fear thrives in isolation.”“Women who are deeply resourced inside and out are a threat to every system built on their disconnection.”“You do not change the world in isolation.”A woman who is deeply resourced inside and out in her unfuckwithable frequency is exactly what they fear most.Because she cannot be controlled, manipulated, or sold the same old bullshit.buckle up babe. we got systems and old paradigms to change.If this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
Transcribe →EP 138 You’re Not Confused...You’re Negotiating
Mar 1800:52:36Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Danya unpacks one of the biggest misconceptions about alignment: it is not about feeling “high vibe” all the time. Real alignment is what remains when you stop interfering with your own signal.She talks about why so many high performers and entrepreneurs stay stuck in force, pressure, and overthinking even when things look successful on paper, and how to recognize when you are not actually confused, you are negotiating with what you already know is true.Through the story of her sister trusting what she knew was right for her children despite fear, noise, and outside pushback, and the story of a client who walked away from a successful business that no longer felt aligned, Danya brings this conversation into real life. These stories reveal what alignment actually looks like when it is inconvenient, unclear, and anything but easy.This conversation covers the difference between pressure and alignment, why success can still feel heavy, how conditioning creates inner static, and what it means to let life pull you instead of constantly pushing your way through it.In This Episode• Why alignment is not a mood or performance state• How misalignment often shows up when things are technically working but still feel off• The difference between pressure, force, and true inner knowing• The story of Danya’s sister trusting her truth despite outside noise and resistance• The story of a client who left a successful business that looked right on paper but felt wrong inside• How fear, old patterns, and conditioning create inner static• What changes when you stop overriding yourself and start trusting your own signalEpisode Takeaways• Alignment is not a mood or performance state• Misalignment often shows up when things are “working” but still feel off• Pressure usually signals force, proving, or attachment to outcomes• You do not need more strategy when the real issue is inner interference• Your body and intuition often know before your mind catches up• The goal is not to bypass fear, but to stop letting fear lead• Life changes when you move from pushing to being pulledWhy This Episode MattersThis episode is a reminder that alignment is often not the easiest path, definitely not the logical one, but it is often the truest one. Oftentimes it asks you to trust yourself before you have proof. It asks you to leave what looks good on paper for something you might not even know of yet but is more aligned for you. It asks you to stay rooted in your own knowing even when other people do not understand it and the outside world says your crazy. The one through line is...it's YOUR inner compass. and no one else is supposed to get it except you.If this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
Transcribe →EP 137 "The more I heal the less ambitious I become"...
Mar 1200:30:19Tap to summarizeWhy Healing Makes You Less Ambitious Before It Makes You AlignedHave you ever felt like the more healing work you do, the less ambitious you become?In this episode, we unpack a powerful truth: losing your old drive does not mean you are broken, lazy, or falling behind. It may mean you are no longer available for ambition rooted in proving, pressure, burnout, and lack.This conversation explores the 3 phases of healing and what really happens when your old identity starts to fall away. There is a phase where everything feels empty, confusing, and directionless — the void. It can feel like depression, numbness, or a total loss of motivation. But this is not the end. It is the deconstruction that happens before a deeper, more aligned way of living can emerge.This episode is an invitation to stop judging the void, stop resisting what is being stripped away, and start trusting the deeper orchestration of your life. On the other side of hustle, force, and self-proving is a different frequency entirely: overflow, truth, sovereignty, and embodied alignment.If you are in the middle of questioning everything, this episode will help you understand why.In this episode, we talk about:Why ambition often begins as a self-worth woundThe 3 phases of healing and personal transformationWhat the “void” really is and why it feels so unsettlingWhy resisting this phase creates more sufferingHow burnout, pressure, and over-achievement disconnect you from yourselfThe shift from proving and forcing into overflow and alignmentWhy support matters when you are moving through deep identity changeWhat it means to remember who you truly areKey reminder: The "loss" of old ambition IS NOT failure. Its the collapse of everything that was never truly you. ;) Welcome home loveIf you’re a leader, artist, visionary, athlete or founder who’s outgrown success built on pressure, proving, and self-abandonment, and you’re ready to lead from alignment instead of survival, reach out. This is the work I’m here for.Send this to your friend who needs this reminder as wellwe are all walking each other home. Remembering. You are never alone, even when it feels like itIf this episode hit home, send it to your biz bestie who might need to hear it too.And if you enjoy these conversations, leave a review and let us know. It genuinely helps the podcast grow and helps us know what resonates so we can create more episodes like this.You can also connect with Danya Instagram → HERETik Tok → HEREMoney Frequency Mirror Quiz → HEREBook a Laser Session → HEREApply for 1:1 Mentorship → HEREAnd if there’s something you’d love to hear explored on the podcast, send a message and leave it in a review, we’re listening.Quick note: this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and isn’t a substitute for therapy, medical care, financial advice, or other professional support. Please use your own discernment and seek qualified professionals when needed.© Danya 2026Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.
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