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Conflict does not request consent. It happens anytime things are going differently than you wish. If you don't identify it, you make yourself a victim rather than a player. It always begins with you, whether you invite it or not. Engaging skillfully under the umbrella of believing that you can be okay under a variety of circumstances gives you the most important control. The control over yourself. You can own and choose rather than hide and react

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Website: samardery.com

Email: sardery@lawbr.com

Podcast Production Partner: Steve Heatherington of Good Podcasting Works

Music: A Safe Place by Marco Zannone via Pond5 (marcozannone's Artist Page)

Chapter Nine - Engaging With Conflict