Squabble Up FT. Supa Cent

Summary

Pour Minds Podcast - Episode: "Squabble Up FT. Supa Cent"

Release Date: January 4, 2025
Host/Authors: Drea and Lex (85 South Media)

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Introduction and Guest Welcome (00:00 - 02:00)

In this lively episode of the Pour Minds Podcast, hosts Lex P. and Dre Nicole kick off with their signature blend of humor and candid conversation. They express excitement about their guest, Supa Cent, a pioneering social media influencer turned entrepreneur. Lex remarks, “I feel like she was one of the OGs of influencing and makeup” (00:43), highlighting Supa Cent's longstanding presence in the influencer space.

Journey of Supa Cent: From Influencer to Mogul (02:00 - 05:00)

Supa Cent shares her evolution from a casual online presence to a multifaceted business mogul. She recounts how she wasn’t initially aiming to be an influencer but found herself connecting deeply with her audience through storytelling. “I just kind of got addicted to telling my story,” Supa Cent explains (02:38), which led to the creation of her popular segment, Storytime with Super.

Navigating Relationships in the Spotlight (05:00 - 09:00)

The conversation shifts to the complexities of maintaining relationships as public figures. Supa Cent discusses the pressures of being in the limelight, especially in her current engagement. “This one is my forever,” she states passionately (06:08), emphasizing the significance of her current relationship compared to her past experiences. Lex and Dre delve into the scrutiny that comes with sharing personal lives online, questioning how much pressure influencers feel to present a certain image.

Influencer Marketing: Building and Leveraging Communities (09:00 - 15:00)

Lex and Supa Cent offer invaluable insights into effective influencer marketing. Supa Cent advises, “Build your community. Send them free products,” (100:08) stressing the importance of fostering relationships with micro-influencers. They discuss how partnering with passionate, smaller-scale influencers can yield better engagement and loyalty compared to investing heavily in high-profile endorsements. Supa Cent shares her strategy of continuous community growth, ensuring a steady influx of authentic content and brand ambassadors.

Fashion Trends and Cultural Appropriation (15:00 - 25:00)

A significant portion of the episode tackles the controversial topic of cultural appropriation in fashion. The hosts critique the backlash Black women face when adopting trends initiated by non-Black designers. Lex points out, “Every time black women do something, they use black models,” (28:43), highlighting the double standard in fashion critiques. Supa Cent adds, “We ignite everything. We the trendsetters,” (33:37), asserting the originality and influence of Black culture in shaping global fashion trends.

Defining “Ghetto”: Fashion and Perception (25:00 - 35:00)

The hosts engage in a spirited debate about what constitutes “ghetto” fashion. They share personal opinions on various styles, from bonnets and pajamas in public settings to the appropriateness of athletic wear in upscale venues. Dre firmly states, “Booty shorts in public... I don't want to see your ass” (37:28), while Supa Cent defends her choices, arguing that comfort and personal expression should prevail over societal judgments. This segment underscores the intersection of fashion, identity, and societal perceptions.

Games and Interactive Segments (35:00 - 50:00)

Injecting fun into the episode, Drea and Lex introduce interactive games like “Situationship” and “Quote and Act Out a Line from Your Favorite Movie.” These segments reveal the hosts' playful personalities and deepen their connection with listeners. Notably, during the “Situationship” game, Supa Cent shares a heartfelt story about dating someone with a complicated past, illustrating the challenges of blending personal lives in the public eye.

Personal Stories: Being “Dumb in Love” (50:00 - 75:00)

The discussion evolves into personal anecdotes about love and relationships. Lex describes a past relationship where she went above and beyond to impress her partner, saying, “I scrounged up my little 700, and I paid for the room” (60:53). Supa Cent reflects on staying true to herself while navigating serious relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when to move on. The hosts candidly explore the concept of being “dumb in love,” advocating for balancing passion with self-respect.

Listener Interaction: Pour Your Heart Out (75:00 - 85:00)

In the “Pour Your Heart Out” segment, a listener shares a dilemma about dating someone with a child whose mother disapproves of the relationship. Supa Cent advises setting firm boundaries and not letting external pressures dictate personal happiness. Dre echoes the sentiment, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing one's well-being without getting entangled in unnecessary drama. Their guidance provides clarity and support for listeners facing similar challenges.

Business and Marketing Advice for Entrepreneurs (85:00 - 100:00)

Focusing on entrepreneurship, Supa Cent and Dre offer strategic advice for brands looking to succeed in the competitive beauty industry. Supa Cent highlights the effectiveness of collaborating with micro-influencers and building a dedicated community. “Task time isn’t the issue,” she notes, stressing that sustained engagement and authentic partnerships drive brand growth. They also discuss the pitfalls of scaling too rapidly without adequate investment, underscoring the necessity of financial planning and community support.

Promotions and Announcements (100:00 - End)

Towards the end of the episode, the hosts promote their latest ventures:

• Rocket Money: A personal finance app that helps cancel unwanted subscriptions and budget effectively. “Go to RocketMoney.com/PoorMinds,” Lex encourages (11:27).
• BetterHelp: Offering therapy services with a discount for listeners. “Visit BetterHelp.com/PoorMinds” for a 10% discount (27:01).
• Ebook and E-Course Bundle: An exclusive resource for aspiring podcasters. “Head to PourMinds.com” to purchase (59:54).

Additionally, they announce their new show, Poor Chronicles, launching on Patreon on September 2nd, promising more intimate and exclusive content for their dedicated audience.

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Notable Quotes

• Lex P. (00:43): “I feel like she was one of the OGs of influencing and makeup.”
• Supa Cent (02:38): “I just kind of got addicted to telling my story.”
• Supa Cent (06:08): “This one is my forever.”
• Supa Cent (100:08): “Build your community. Send them free products.”
• Lex P. (28:43): “Every time black women do something, they use black models.”
• Dre Nicole (37:28): “Booty shorts in public... I don't want to see your ass.”

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Conclusion

In "Squabble Up FT. Supa Cent," Pour Minds Podcast delivers an engaging blend of personal storytelling, insightful discussions on culture and relationships, and practical business advice. Supa Cent's journey from influencer to entrepreneur provides valuable lessons for listeners aspiring to build their own brands. The hosts' unapologetic honesty and vibrant personalities create a relatable and entertaining listening experience, making this episode a standout addition to the Pour Minds series.

Transcript

[A]

Foreign. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Lex P. And it's.

[B]

Your girl, Dre Nicole.

[A]

And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds, where a drunk.

[B]

Mind speaks sober thought.

[A]

We got a guest today. We got a guest today. Now, y'all know I gotta do my introduction.

[B]

Oh, no, you be killing the intro.

[A]

I know I say this every week, but I'm really excited because this is somebody that I have been following on social media for years. Like, I feel like she was one of the, like, OGs of influencing and makeup and that, like, before, it was cool to be like, get ready with me. Been getting ready.

[C]

Yes.

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I want to introduce one of the first OG influencers. Business mogul, Everything under the Sun.

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Super. I'm honored. I'm honored.

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Oh, my gosh, she's so glad.

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I didn't know you was an old follower. I ain't know that, girl.

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I have been around.

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I'm sitting here and found out about you and you.

[A]

No, listen. Okay.

[B]

No, girl, we definitely know who you are.

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Okay, babe. Okay. Let me tell you.

[A]

Listen. I, like, look up, like, old pictures of me, and I used to have, like, the highlighter, yellow, blue. You did that?

[C]

Yeah, me too. You did that?

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I was like. And then back. But back then, I was real, real broke, so I couldn't afford me a little crayon case. But I was doing what I could with the little stuff from Walmart.

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Right.

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You know what I'm saying?

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That's how you saw it.

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So thanks so much for joining us.

[B]

Thank you.

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We have a lot to get into today.

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I'm doing.

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So I do want you to, like, for the people who don't know you, introduce supersense.

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Okay. So Super Sent is a. Started as a social media influencer and then ended up being a entrepreneur, philanthropist, everything under the sun, like you said. But it literally started out with me just being a social media influencer and on a cool. I wasn't even trying to be an influencer. I was just trying to, like, get online, talk my. Get off and let you know.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

And then, like, everybody was started. Started to relate to it. So I'm like, okay, so. Oh, you be doing that too. Okay, let me tell you a little more. You know, so I just kind of got addicted to telling my story. That's how Storytime with Super started.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

So that's why. That's why I kind of popped that the story time was super.

[A]

Do you regret any of, like, the.

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Stories that you mother one.

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I'm not going.

[C]

No. Ma'am, this wasn't recent, but when you.

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Went off, it's a classic. Why you gonna go newest.

[C]

Don't regret it. What a coffee gonna go regret it. Cause everything I said, he went. Got it. So I actually motivated that mother. He needed it. Yeah.

[B]

So you know, how did you.

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Yeah, go ahead.

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How did you come up with your name? Like, how did you come up with Super Sink?

[C]

Oh, so, girl. Oh, my God. First of all, I hate Super Sink.

[A]

You do? Really?

[C]

Oh, my God. I cringe every time I hear.

[A]

Okay, well, let me not say that no more. No, no.

[C]

I school Big Soup. So my original. My original stage name is was Am Supa.

[A]

All right.

[C]

Okay, okay, Sam. And New Orleans mean was up. So was up. Super. So super sin came because my page kept getting deleted. And every page, every page I made, it was like Super Valley. Like something with like, you know, some. Some somebody died and came back to life type. So then I got stuck with super S. I'm thinking I'm had a page probably like two weeks, it's going to get deleted. Cool. Then I come back with another one page. But I've been with this page for nine years, so now I'm stuck with Super Sick.

[A]

That part I didn't know. But I do know your page do be getting deleted a lot.

[C]

Exactly.

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I be like, where is super got?

[B]

But why, though?

[C]

Because I. I.

[B]

Could you be. Okay, it be the cursing. She too real so strict these days.

[C]

You can't imagine anything. It wasn't that strict then, but I was. I was too vulgar then. So imagine now I gotta, like, tone it all the way down. Now I'm like, I can't say nothing.

[A]

Nothing. Can't say nothing.

[C]

Guess I just gotta stay on Twitter or something, girl.

[A]

And that's how even with us, like, we have like, started bleeping out the curse words for the first five.

[C]

Cause y'all be. Y'all sound like me.

[B]

Yeah, girl, you know I know this sound.

[A]

Like I said, yes, I'm New Orleans accent. I sound like a sailor.

[C]

A who?

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A sailor.

[C]

A sailor.

[B]

A sailor.

[C]

You got. You got to decide to set the L a little longer.

[B]

What's in, baby?

[A]

What's out, baby?

[B]

Y'all y'all got.

[C]

You think so?

[A]

I think out of the whole United.

[B]

States, I think so.

[A]

I think so. Like, I like to start it off with the T. I want to get into, like, your relationships. Cuz one thing that I do love about you, because you are like me. First of all. What's your sign?

[C]

Aquarius.

[A]

Okay. You're Aquarius. You are a lover girl.

[C]

I am.

[A]

And I love the way you just love. Unapologetically. You don't care if you've been in a relationship for 20 years. Next day you gonna pop out, yeah, I got another one.

[C]

And you gonna accept this? N. Yes.

[A]

Yes. So do you feel like. How do you feel like on social media, like. Cause I know people judge you a lot and they feel, oh, super moving too fast. She doing this too fast. Oh, super slow down. So how do you feel like living your relationships out online? Because people do follow you because they wan know what's going on with you. They want to know your life. That's how we started out as a fan talking.

[C]

Yeah.

[A]

So do you feel pressure to be, like, a certain way in these relationships? Like, how do you navigate that?

[C]

I. I have never felt pressure in a relationship until I got in this one. I think this one is different because I'm a little older. I'm 36, about to be 37. Okay, so this one is a little different then by me being engaged. But before that, I never felt pressured. I'm like, y'all gonna love who I love, right? I drop that nigga. You all got to drop them too, Right? Unfollow them, fuck them, move on right here. So it's like, I'm more pressured in this one because this one, I'm not gonna say this one is more serious than the other ones, but this one is. This one is my forever. Like, I'm. This one is done.

[A]

How. But do you feel like that because your age? Cause we decided.

[C]

I'm not gonna say cause of the age. I'm gonna say because of all the time and effort I put into this one. And not just not saying I didn't put in time and effort into my last relationship, because I did. But this one, like, this one is more. This is more my speed.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

This is finally on my fucking level.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You know, like, you met your match.

[C]

I feel like I met my match. I met some who could deal with me. I met somebody who made me wanna change my stuff. Like, I'm in counseling. I never wanted to go to counseling and tag out with this nigga.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

You know, so it's like, I done got so many positive things happen to me from this relationship to where like, bitch, I ain't about to drop you on your head. I'm about to just thug it out with you. But if I do decide to drop.

[A]

Him, we gotta drop him too.

[C]

You gotta fucking drop him.

[A]

Okay?

[C]

So you gotta understand, all Right.

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I'm listening. Shanapad, unfollow him.

[C]

That's all the reason I'm asking.

[A]

Like I said, I am like you. I'm just like you. And I be like, every week, I be like, oh, I'm in love. This my man.

[C]

This is my man.

[A]

I promise y'all. And then.

[C]

But a lot of women like that.

[A]

Yeah, a lot.

[C]

Listen, I don't know why these hoes be acting like they don't be hopping from niggas to niggas. You just not popular, Faith. Oh, you not popular. So we don't know about the niggas you hopping for. Like, we don't know about you. You're not that girl yet. Yeah, so you know about us because of course we gonna post. Of course. When we lovey duvet, you see the smile on our face, you see us all happy. So of course you're gonna see it. And I don't see it with you. Cause, bitch, I don't follow.

[A]

I don't know.

[C]

But, you know, like, y'all know girls be hopping from Nick. Come on. We hop from niggas and niggas. One don't do right. Okay, let me find somebody else. Like, that's.

[A]

That's.

[C]

That's life.

[A]

I think what I'm struggling with now, like, I'm 35. I think what I'm struggling with now is because I stay in situations too long. Like, I'm not too long. Like, if a man is, like, not treating me how I want to be treated. And I'm not talking about cheating, because a lot of times, cheating don't be the problem. It just be like we're not aligning properly, right? So I be, like, trying to stick it out and work it out, and it's just like, all the signs will be telling me to move on. I'll be like, no, I gotta hold it down. Pop. Hold it down. But it's like, girl, you need to move on.

[C]

I think by you saying you're 35, you should be at an age where you feel like you ain't gotta prove nothing to no more niggas. Yeah, like, I ain't gotta hold nothing down. Bitch, you should have came in straight. Cause I walked in the street.

[A]

I don't got. And that's the thing. I don't got no baggage. I think that's my biggest thing.

[C]

You have kids? No, but, bitch, you should be frizz. Frizz a bird.

[A]

I'm like a bird.

[C]

Because the main thing. The main thing women like me worry about is, oh, this met my kids. Yeah. Like, my kids love him. Now I gotta keep them, like. But you got nothing to worry about. You should be on 10 trips with 10 different big moves.

[B]

Exactly. Feel like you had. You and a person have to see everything the same in order for y'all to be together. Do y'all feel like when people be like, oh, opposites attract. That's, like, really a thing. Or do you feel like if you and a person are so opposite, y'all can't make it work?

[A]

I think it depends on what it is.

[C]

Agreed. Like, just because I like Seinfeld and you like Seinfeld don't mean we connect.

[A]

Okay?

[C]

Right. That don't mean that. Just like money bag, yo. No, man.

[A]

Right.

[C]

I don't mean that.

[A]

It depends on what it.

[C]

Cause, like, it really depends on.

[A]

But if you like a Trump supporter and I'm a Democrat.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Religious being a household, that's different.

[A]

Right?

[C]

That's gonna affect our. But you can be arguing.

[A]

Right?

[C]

It's gonna affect our views. It's gonna affect how we shop. It's gonna affect everything.

[B]

How we raise our kids, our kids, everything.

[A]

So that's different religion, but, like, little stuff like, oh, you don't like to watch Game of Thrones or Harry Potter.

[C]

Right. I ain't tripping about that.

[A]

But, like, morally, I do think that people need to align morals and what they believe in.

[C]

Agreed. Agreed.

[A]

Now, most definitely. Look, before I get chatty. Cause I'm finna get into it. Cause I like it. You finna get. I am. Cause I'm. Y'all, I had an anxiety attack this morning. I finished, girl, I been going through it today.

[C]

I had my first one almost.

[B]

It's been a long day already.

[A]

Ty, what we drinking today?

[B]

Leave it to me to take those cares away. Okay, this one is called the Wazam Super. Okay. All right, so we have spirit of.

[A]

Choice in this one.

[B]

We have some grapefruit, some pomegranate. We have some lime, a little bit of that UBE that we talked about before. That mentor. Yeah, I knew I tasted that, too.

[A]

I was like, you like it?

[C]

I mean, being an old bartender, I taste everything you fucking see?

[A]

Yes, girl.

[B]

We used to be bartenders, too.

[C]

We?

[B]

Me and you.

[A]

Brian used to make Hennessy and Coke and be a bad bitch.

[C]

Oh, that's it, bitch.

[B]

I was bartender.

[C]

No, bitch, that's not bartender, bitch. You was hosting.

[B]

I knew how to make. You know, I knew how to make a little sidecar.

[C]

No, no, I'm fucking with you.

[A]

I knew how to make A little margarita, little mojito.

[B]

You know, now you getting a little slow, man. To me, you know, I'm not muddling no mint.

[C]

I'm not muddling no, man.

[A]

I'm sorry.

[B]

It's okay. It's okay. So all of that topped with a little ginger beer, and then we roasted.

[A]

A grapefruit on top just to give.

[B]

It a little bit of, like, by the fireside.

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We know y'all like to be by the fireside.

[C]

Ologist. And that is the ologist.

[B]

Cheers, y'all. Thank you, Ty. This is delicious. Per usual, you did your big one. Okay, so we didn't even get into the game. We'll play the game for the icebreaker.

[A]

Yeah, let's do the game. Yes.

[B]

Let's play the game.

[A]

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[B]

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[A]

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[B]

Play this game, y'all, called the Situationship. So, okay, I'm gonna go first. The first question is, why did your last relationship end?

[C]

Oh, girl. Y'all saw it. It was all over.

[A]

Okay, so I'm not putting Your business. I'm not putting nothing out there that you didn't put out there.

[C]

Okay, do it. Do that.

[A]

Cause that was a little in between.

[C]

I ain't mad at you.

[A]

It was a man. I was talking to my hairstylist about this girl.

[C]

You talking about this nigga? Go ahead.

[A]

In between.

[C]

Oh, my God.

[A]

My stylist yesterday, I was like, oh, my God, we got super coming on tomorrow. Stay off Google, bitch. I follow you, follow you. Like, I know little like, oh, let me peek in and out. I be knowing what you up to. So I want to talk about. Not the one that everybody knew about.

[C]

I want to talk about Lewis, the.

[A]

Man in the background. The one that everybody thought was like. They kept saying it was like Channing Tatum. He looked white. He saw what? He looked white.

[C]

Oh, bitch, I was not expecting you to say that. Yeah, now how the fuck you know about that?

[A]

Because I told you, I follow you.

[C]

Oh, bitch.

[A]

And they was like, oh, that's a white man. I said, that's not a white man. He looked like a deep Southern Louisiana. I don't know what he called girl.

[B]

Big White.

[C]

No, he was white. Big White.

[A]

Yes. No, no, Big was big White.

[C]

My very first white experience.

[A]

Okay, so I want to talk about him. We know why you went, Lois. And then we want to talk about the white.

[C]

Loved it. Oh, ain't going to lie. This my first time. You hold you all something. How the y'all know about that?

[B]

I've been doing our research.

[C]

I've never talked about this ever.

[A]

I know you haven't, cuz. You just. You just act like that didn't happen.

[C]

I did. I moved on. I know. Got the fuck away.

[B]

We had to unfollow him, too.

[C]

No, we never followed him, but I.

[A]

Never popped out with him. I said nothing about him. He was like. I seen him in the background with that shiny little head.

[B]

He was bald.

[C]

He was.

[A]

Ooh. That's how y'all know I'm not making this up. Like, I follow her for real. Damn, bitch, I be stalking.

[C]

It was. And it was. It's crazy. Oh, girl, look. I'm stuttering. It's crazy you know that. Because it literally was like. Only it hit social media one time. Okay, that was that video. Yeah. They caught him in the background. But, yeah, we dated for, like, three months.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

And that was my first, you know, white chocolate. Okay.

[A]

And was he, like, hood.

[C]

No. And that's what I liked.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

I liked that he was a real genuine white boy.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

I really like that.

[A]

He used to listen Like Paramore?

[C]

No. Oh no, wait. What do you say?

[A]

Paramore. Like Coldplay. And it was all yellow.

[C]

Yes.

[B]

Green Day.

[A]

Yes.

[C]

He was an authentic white man.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

And I like that. Like he had. He had a little urban side, so when it comes to clothing, but in interior he was. He was big. White.

[A]

Okay. A big one.

[B]

So what did you like about it? Do you feel like it was very different from dating a black.

[C]

I like the. So because I don't want to put my black men down. Because I love. First of all, let's. Let's talk about it.

[B]

But I had a bad. I dated a white man one time.

[A]

Okay, you did.

[C]

Okay, so. So let's.

[B]

It's terrible experience. 0 out of 10 do not recommend.

[C]

Really? No. Okay, so which part? Which part? Girl?

[B]

He got mad at me because I didn't want to have sex with him and he left me in Miami. He tried to leave me stranded.

[C]

Girl got mad at me because I ain't want roll.

[B]

That's what.

[A]

Oh my God.

[C]

I don't want no. No pork right now. Bitch. Put a sheet over that pork.

[B]

I don't want no pig skin.

[C]

Girl was really mad. I'm not gonna feel it. Well, bitch, you're not gonna feel it then.

[B]

Exactly. So what did he do though? Like, okay, so he was like. Okay, got the fuck over it and.

[C]

Put that cover on.

[B]

Okay, you mean.

[A]

I know that.

[B]

So how was the sex? Was it good?

[C]

Girl, my gonna kill me.

[B]

Okay, you right.

[C]

It was though. It was. I mean he got in the stage.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

Before the party started. But my experience might be my first experience. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I'm not gonna lie. I enjoyed the dating era. I enjoyed the. The out of town trip. I enjoyed the courting. Yeah. I enjoyed. I enjoyed. I enjoyed the surprise gifts. I enjoyed everything. It was. It was a different experience. That's all he date. Oh, that's all he date.

[B]

That's a. But, yeah. Do you feel like that's like a fetish? I always think it's weird.

[C]

Probably. Probably.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Like when I see the girls he's dated and the baby mama. Yeah, it's a bitch. Gotta be. Gotta be. But he's still white though. Yeah, he's still the interior. Like his interior. I like how even though you gotta even you got a fetish for whatever. Like you're not trying to be me. Don't try to be me.

[A]

Yeah, yeah.

[C]

Like he was a thoroughly turn on.

[A]

Money bag and be like.

[C]

Yeah, exactly he like, exactly like he.

[B]

I'm in the club up.

[A]

I got My people with.

[C]

He ain't doing none of that.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

He a real. Like, the first time he flew to New Orleans and he stayed there for a week and we went on a date. Every day. Yeah, every day.

[A]

Like, I love.

[C]

Don't be dating for real. They don't like my date. Like, my. My fiance, he. He was after. After the white boy I got my fiance.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

And he was a dater.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

But before that, I've never met a. I'm not. But I never met a man that dated that much time with that white boy. Oh, I'm not gonna.

[A]

So it taught you, like, okay, oh, this is you.

[C]

You gonna date me?

[A]

Yeah, y'all.

[C]

He said the tone. After I dealt with him, I said, I'm not dating no more. Men that's not gonna wanna actually date me.

[A]

And sometimes you need that. What I've learned, too, is getting older. Cause I used to get so attached to men, and I used to be like, oh, my God, it didn't work out. What am I gonna do? But sometimes men come in your life to teach you a lesson. Right. Like the guy I dated last. Well, not last year. At this point. Was it last year? Yeah, it was last year before I got with my. Well, old situation, whatever. But the one I went to Costa Rica with.

[C]

Yeah.

[A]

It was not meant to be a forever. But he taught me, like, this is what a man is supposed to do.

[C]

Exactly. And you carried that with you.

[A]

I did. Because I'm like, oh, this is. A man is supposed to. Like, the dates were so creative.

[C]

Yes.

[A]

They were so different. Like, we went on a rooftop and saw an orchestra play. Like, it was just so. Like, we went and saw this live band and all they played all night was Lil Wayne music. It was, like, fun. So I think this is what women do as well. When a man knows how to court a woman and he treats us nice, we get that confused with like, oh, my God, I thought you were my forever. You were supposed to wine and dine me. No, he's.

[C]

No, he's teaching.

[A]

He's dating.

[C]

Yeah, he's dating.

[A]

And he.

[C]

That's how you date a proper man. He's enjoying his dates.

[A]

So when we broke up, I was so devastated. I'm like, but we did this in xyz. He was like, yes, that's what I do. That's what you do. Whenever you date someone, you're interested in them.

[C]

And when you're no longer interested in.

[A]

Yeah. And it didn't work out between us. You know, things happen at X, Y, Z But I was like, oh, this is what dating is supposed to look like. You don't have to wait until y'all are in a committed relationship to go.

[C]

On a trip or go on a date or go on somewhere.

[A]

And I was like. He said, so.

[C]

That's what I thought. I'm like, people say, oh, why would you go out of town somebody you don't know? Because, bitch, that's a date.

[A]

It's a date, bitch.

[B]

Cause he invited me to fuck and.

[C]

He paid for it.

[A]

And I'm not even saying that you gotta go to Greece or Costa Rica. Like, y'all can go. Y'all can drive an hour out of Atlanta and go to a winery for a night.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Well, Dwight boy took me to Belize in Tulum.

[A]

Oh, I know.

[C]

I ain't mad. I know I had a great time.

[A]

I know you did.

[C]

I did.

[A]

You be having a ball.

[C]

I had a great time. I can't lie. I was posting like everybody. I was by myself. What was with the white boy?

[A]

I knew I was. I'm so glad I clocked your tea.

[C]

And he was taking all my pictures like a fan.

[A]

I loved it.

[C]

I loved it. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I'm not going to lie.

[A]

Have you ever spin the block?

[C]

Did I ever what?

[A]

Do you ever spin the block?

[C]

Listen, I'mma spin a block, okay?

[B]

You are?

[A]

Yeah, she's confirming me right now.

[C]

Only because I like to deal with what I'm used to. I know what I'm gonna get from you.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

I already know what the to expect from you. If you.

[A]

If you.

[C]

If you could only give me good dick and you could cook and you could. You gonna be at home at 9. I know that already. I gotta figure that out from a. I don't know. I don't know if he's straight. I don't know if he. I don't got time to get to know. So I almost spin a block.

[B]

You don't know if he's straight.

[C]

These gonna be straight for real. You know they'd be lying. They know they do not be straight. You got to find out, like on the 8 date if they got a job. Like, nobody got time. Like, so that's why I be spinning the block.

[B]

Don't be happy.

[A]

I'm spinning the block. I'm going to spin the block.

[C]

I'm going spin the block.

[B]

I'm not really a spin the blocker. I did it once.

[C]

Okay. How was it?

[B]

Terrible decision.

[C]

Yeah, you got a lot of terrible decisions.

[B]

I have a. I have a lot of terrible Decisions. It was terrible. I don't know why I did the shit.

[A]

Really.

[B]

It ended up. I mean, it was cool because it was beneficial. You know what I mean? Like, he was doing a lot of stuff for me, but ultimately, I think that when somebody do me wrong, he did me wrong the first time we dated each other. So I feel like I wasn't fully over it the second time.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Yeah. Like, I wasn't fully over it. And I don't know why I had convinced myself, oh, I could. I could deal with him again. Because it's beneficial. Because he was always pretty beneficial.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

So it was like, okay, I could deal with him again.

[C]

I'm not spinning the block with niggas that up over me. Like, I'm not going back to my.

[B]

Baby block with a.

[C]

That I'm not going back to my baby daddies. I'm not going back to. Like, that broke my heart. Yeah. Who I didn't have closure with. Who I. We broke up, then we ain't talk about it no more. Okay. Bet. Yeah. I spend a block.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

So. And now if you spend a block with that. That you. You up, then that's stupid.

[B]

And he didn't me over the second time. I just think I wasn't. I didn't feel the same way about him.

[A]

That's what be. That's. That's the hard part about sitting the block. Because it'd be like, oh, man.

[B]

Yeah. It's like. It's fun.

[C]

Exact old feelings going to be there and it don't. But you didn't grown past that. You over now you got better morals.

[B]

Y.

[C]

Like, you know what? You're not my type no more. Bye.

[B]

You'll be knowing it's some. Like, I remember one time I was just like, oh, my God, why am I here?

[C]

Cuz? You trying to pass time.

[B]

Why am I here?

[C]

Do something, cuz. It was nothing to do.

[A]

Y'all, please don't encourage me right now. Of encouragement.

[C]

That's really what it is. Like you. You spin a block with somebody when you don't got time to meet new.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

Like, let me go with something that I already. I already know that they good. I already know the head good. I already know you going to spend some money on me. I already know. So why I go with a. I don't know if he going to give me all this. I got to wait and see. I don't got time for that now.

[A]

I do feel like you approach the situation and you know. You know what's going on. That's yeah, you already know.

[C]

That's. That's the person the block with. That's it.

[B]

I feel like with Ashanti, though, that's one of the very few scenarios where spinning the block work. I feel like spinning the block don't be working a lot of the time because it's a reason why.

[C]

You said it worked because she pregnant.

[B]

Huh?

[C]

You saying it worked because you're pregnant?

[B]

No, no. I'm saying this is one of the very rare scenarios where two people decided to spend a block with each other and it looks like they're gonna have their happily ever after.

[C]

Okay.

[B]

I feel like most of the time it don't.

[C]

You said about JLo and Ben Affleck, too, and they divorced.

[B]

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. It didn't work.

[C]

Okay.

[B]

Because I feel like it. Because the thing with JLo and Ben Affleck, it was a reason why y'all broke up the first time.

[C]

Y'all should have left that shit.

[B]

Y'all should have left it where it was. And I feel like normally that's how it be with spinning the block. It's a reason why me and this didn't work out the first time.

[C]

But sometimes you don't get the closure. So that's what you said. You spinning the block because you didn't have the closure. So you don't know yet.

[A]

That's true. And sometimes people change. Like, things change.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

So if you. If this person has been doing the work to heal and things like that, you may spend the block and you may get a whole another person.

[C]

You do.

[A]

But I gotta. So I gotta see. Let me see.

[C]

What time you ever lost somebody and you, like, you. You lost them or they kind of left you and you saw that mean you lost them and then you spent the block because you deserve this new me.

[A]

Yeah, I'm like.

[C]

I'm a new person. I'm not like that anymore. I changed. I did that. And then when you give them a new you, I don't like you no more. Yeah, I'm better. Yeah, that's how that happened to me too.

[A]

So. Yeah, I think sometimes it's okay to spend the box, but it depends what your goals are.

[C]

It does.

[A]

Sometimes you just need to spin the ball because you just need a little rebound and that's it. Something to make you feel better.

[C]

And that's okay. Yeah, a distraction, and that's okay. Some time pass. Something to do when there's nothing to do.

[A]

All right, we gonna go look. We supposed to be playing a game.

[C]

Okay. I'M sorry.

[B]

We done made it a whole topic.

[C]

We did.

[A]

All right, I got a fun one. It's gonna be a fun one.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

Quote and act out a line from your favorite movie.

[C]

Mm. Quote and act out a line from your favorite movie.

[B]

I am a boy, Damon.

[C]

I gotta put me first, Lucious. I gotta put me first, Lucious.

[A]

I gotta put me first, girl.

[C]

I love how she left that n. Oh, bitch, stand up. That's what the fuck she did. I gotta put me first, Lucious.

[A]

Mine is from. I talk about this movie a lot. Mine is from. And you actually quoted this the other day. Cause this is so crazy.

[C]

Me?

[A]

Yes. Cause this scenario is so crazy.

[B]

That's right.

[A]

Hit the road, Jack. And don't come back no more. And don't come back no more.

[B]

No, bitch. Because at the end of the day. Cause I had tweeted this on Twitter and it ended up going viral because somebody had posted that clip from the Ray movie. And I just. You know, you watch stuff as an adult, and it don't watch it as a you.

[C]

They say more when you older. I girl Claudine did me. That girl Claudine be crying. I'm like, oh, I got all these kids, and I got to find a man that's going to make it hit different when you watch movies, your childhood from your adult. Different.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

So I seen on Twitter, and I was like, you know how motherfucking mad I would be if I'm spazzing on a nigga and I tell him I'm pregnant and he needs to be with me and he don't want to leave his wife, and I'm going off on this nigga, and he start writing a song mid break. Bitch, I'll knock all this shit off.

[A]

Yeah, that's right. You kinda.

[B]

This is the part of writing a song about what she was saying.

[A]

He said, you say, did somebody knock.

[C]

You the fuck out? You blind motherfucker.

[A]

You blind motherfucker.

[B]

Oh, the audacity. I could do anything to you right now, and you can't stop it. You can't see it.

[C]

You're not gonna see it coming.

[A]

She was the first crash. She was crashing out behind him. She was.

[B]

She crashed out real big.

[C]

The dick must have been good. You think it was good? Yeah.

[A]

Hell, I always say dick.

[B]

I feel like.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

All them other senses is they heightened like a vampire.

[A]

Yeah, I know Ray has some good. That's why he had on them kids.

[B]

Kids.

[C]

He definitely had a lot of kids.

[A]

He had a lot of kids.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

We finna get into the topic.

[B]

Okay, let's.

[A]

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[C]

Oh, they was wearing scams clothes with. With big boots.

[A]

Yeah, with, like, the boots.

[B]

It was a girl who went viral on Tick Tock a few days ago, and she had the new drop from Kim Kardashian adultery drop she had on the Two piece set. And then she had on the big Balenciaga boots that look like the Uggs.

[C]

Okay.

[B]

And this guy went viral because he was going in and he was like, y'all not even dressing it up. Y'all not even putting that.

[A]

And it was more than him. It was like.

[B]

It was a lot.

[A]

5 of creators, like, going in on that look, and they kept calling it tacky ghetto. And I just think it's crazy that every time black women do something, they use black models.

[B]

No, it was a black girl that had a ugly.

[A]

It was a black girl that had a. So a lot of, like, the Tiktoker girls that are popular, they had the outfit on basically just the top, the bottom, and, like, some Uggs. So they were like, oh, this is tacky. Kim did not mean for y'all to style this like this. But my argument was, Kim Kardashian, she dresses, like, in basics. You know, Kanye put her on real simple. Yeah, she's very simple with her style, and that became popular. I'm pretty sure when she puts it on, she's just gonna put the top, the bottom, maybe a leopard coat and some heels, and that's it. So I feel like every time black women do something in the ma. Like, we can't enjoy nothing.

[C]

They take away our creativity a lot.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

Like, we. If that's my style, that's my style.

[A]

Right?

[B]

Everybody not a fashion girl.

[C]

Everybody is not a heel. Like, I don't wear heels.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

I'm gonna put on some Uggs. I got some fresh. I'm happy about these Uggs, bitch.

[A]

We twinning low key. Cause you really got my. We are.

[C]

We got our creams, our browns.

[A]

Y'all do. Can I tell you something, too? I do look at Super Paige. I'm like, what I'm finna put on today. No, it's outfit inspiring.

[C]

Cause you're tall.

[B]

Yeah, I am.

[C]

I'm six feet.

[A]

Yeah, you're tall. And then, like, you just. You have a very chill style.

[C]

Cause I'm a tomboy.

[A]

Yes, me too. Yeah.

[C]

I'm a dyke at heart, too.

[A]

Yes. And we d. I know how dark.

[B]

At heart is wild as hell.

[C]

That's where my fashion.

[B]

Over the head. I'm a diaper.

[C]

That's what my fashion sense come from. Like, my tomboy ways. It come from my masculine side. Yeah.

[A]

So, yeah. Like, you be cute with it. So I remember even, like, you don't remember this.

[C]

Probably don't. I got epilepsy.

[A]

We did the Essence. We had Essence festival weekend, and we went To Larry Morrow's dinner.

[B]

Oh, at the.

[A]

He was sitting right across from me. Girl, really?

[C]

Shout out to Larry. Oh, yeah.

[A]

I was talking about. God, stupid hill.

[C]

You seen me.

[A]

I know, but I was nervy.

[B]

Y.

[C]

So fake.

[A]

I know.

[C]

I would have loved to see y'all.

[A]

No, girl, and. And you was being cute over there. I don't think you like the food.

[C]

What?

[A]

I don't know. Well, you know, it was, like, cater. But I, like, you wasn't, like, really eating.

[C]

Wait, what?

[A]

We was then at. Okay, so Larry Morrow had a dinner in New Orleans, Essence Festival weekend.

[B]

It was Amazon Prom.

[A]

It was the Amazon Prime.

[C]

Yeah, yeah. You bitches was there and speak to me the way I was looking for people to.

[A]

Like. I was like, oh, my God. Superhero.

[C]

Oh, my God. Because first of all, I found out about that event late, so I came there already full.

[A]

Yeah. Okay.

[C]

So I was just drinking and trying to get hookah, but they weren't serving.

[B]

Hookah because it was.

[C]

It was a little bougie. They sell hookah?

[A]

It was.

[C]

But they weren't selling it that day because they was trying to show off for y'all.

[B]

But.

[C]

But yeah.

[A]

Yes, I saw you.

[C]

Y'all dirty.

[A]

But no, but I remember seeing, you know, oh, my gosh, she looks so cute. Cause I'm the same way. Like, I wear. He always keep a heel on. But, like, I was just saying, like, I just, like, be looking at you for your fashion sense, because I think there's more than. Fashion is about being creative and doing what makes you feel.

[C]

Exactly. And what makes you comfortable, too. Yeah. So I feel like ghetto.

[A]

A real true fashionista understands that. And they don't sit on the Internet calling people tacky. But it's only when black women do something, it's. It's. Get off.

[C]

Cause A won't hold you to his standards. I'm not your. Yeah, yeah. I'm not your. I'm not for you. I'm not gonna never be for you.

[A]

Right.

[C]

You can't even pull me right. So don't send me what I can't wear.

[A]

Hello.

[C]

Do that a lot.

[B]

And I just feel like if something looked fun, if something looked good, why we wouldn't want to do it, too.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Like, we've seen all the white people.

[C]

Going to Tulum, and we started going.

[B]

And we started busting.

[C]

Now, don't. Don't act like black folks ain't bust Tulum white or, you know, you started having all the hookahs. Bitch, they had that many hookahs there. I went Listen, I went in 20, 21, and all I know is I ain't seen that many hookahs I got there, period.

[B]

We had my little razzle dazzle.

[A]

But what we do.

[C]

And black folks be hustling.

[A]

They used to hustle like, oh, you want some wig this? And, oh, you want that Watermelon men. Exactly.

[C]

Like, they would put us in this category and not. And I feel like they try to take away from our. Like, we. We ignite everything. We the faith maker. We the fucking trendsetters. Like, we stop playing on our top.

[A]

So I do feel like sometimes, like, I don't like the trend of, like, looking at somebody, like, and doing and emulating. Like, when I said, like, I'll look at your outfit and I'll be like, oh, I can do something like that, but I'll put my own little twist on it.

[C]

Okay, and now it's yours. And now it's yours.

[A]

Right? So it's like, I do think the girls need to don't. Don't copy and paste somebody's outfit. You know, put your own little twist on.

[C]

But even if you do, what's the problem?

[B]

What's the issue info?

[A]

I do it. I'm telling you.

[C]

I get on picture.

[A]

I got an outfit right now I copied off. I always copy off a Dre outfit too.

[C]

Oh, yeah.

[A]

I got a good little winner outfit. I can't wait. I mean, head to toe. Yes.

[C]

I got one on pictures. Heavy. So I can't wait.

[B]

Which one? Oh, my God, which one?

[A]

It's the one that you wore last year when we were in Houston and we did the Kiati interview, and you had on that cardigan with the Clash. Oh, I said, oh, I'm finna eat that.

[B]

I said, I'm gonna eat that up.

[C]

Yeah, it's simple. It's anything.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

It's trend setting.

[A]

I feel like it's cute.

[C]

Everything we wear. Cause we seen somebody else do it. I don't know why they act like, oh, this is my own style. No, bitch, you seen somebody else do it and you added a chain nausea. Okay, I get it. But it's okay to say I, I, I'm inspired by somebody else.

[B]

Right. Look, at this point, you can't be. I'm not gonna say you can't be an originator, but it's like everybody have, like, it's already somebody that's done it before.

[C]

Right?

[A]

Right.

[C]

Definitely.

[B]

It's okay. But you can make it your own.

[C]

Right?

[B]

You could do it, and you gonna do it different. Different. It's fine. But like, I don't know people, I.

[A]

Don'T like when they just put things as, oh, it's ghetto now. Cuz you know they're doing the same thing with Lululemon now.

[C]

So what? So question. What ghetto mean to you? Like, like name something you see and you be like, that's. Since I agree a two piece for Uggs is not ghetto. But tell me something that you see and you be like, that's ghetto.

[B]

I got one.

[C]

What?

[A]

You go first.

[B]

A Bonnie. It really.

[A]

Bonnet in public is ghetto.

[B]

I think that's a little get up.

[C]

You think so? Even on planes?

[A]

It depends. But it depends on the plane.

[B]

If you wearing that hole through the airport, that's a little ghetto. But if you got like an overnight flight, if you got like a 10 hour flight, none of that matter in the airport.

[C]

You're not gonna see me for 10 hours. You're gonna see me for the third 30 seconds walking past you.

[B]

If I would be like, that will ghetto.

[A]

Okay, I'm not gonna lie. When I see a bonnet in public, I'm like, oh, she probably has something to do. That's what I take it as.

[B]

Or nothing.

[A]

I mean, but there's been times.

[B]

Cause what the fuck?

[A]

No, I'm saying there's been times where I had to take a flight and bitch, when I landed, I throw the bonnet on. I had to hit the ground running.

[C]

But see you saying like once you land, you put it on. No, bitch, I'm leaving my house, I'm getting in the car.

[B]

You be going to the store with a bonnet.

[C]

Not the store. Not the store. But what I do. But only because like I don't usually I'm in my car a lot. So I leave my house, I go in the garage, I get in my car and I'm not getting out until I get back to my house. I gotta take my kids pickup line. So I have my bonnet on.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

And I'd be on, you know, live or something so it looked like I got a binding on everywhere I go. But I'm really just in my car.

[B]

But that's okay. So I think that's okay.

[C]

You would see me at McDonald's in the driveway and say that whole got.

[B]

Her body.

[A]

She sat in the airport.

[B]

No, because you in the car, like if you leaving your house and you going pick your kids up, whatever.

[C]

I'm not right back home in the airport. I'm not gonna lie, I'm not gonna wear nowhere else. But I going to wear it in the airport. I'm not going to lie to you only because hair is a lot and I don't want it on me in my face. Yeah, but, but I, I'm not defending. Put a hat on it is ghetto. I'm not, I'm not defending it. It is what it is. I'm just, I'm just that ghetto, that's all.

[A]

When I see somebody wearing a bonnet in the airport, I assume, I don't think it's ghetto, but I assume like she has to land and hit the ground running.

[C]

Pajamas in the airport, like, okay, same.

[A]

I'll say pajamas in the airport are a little ghetto. Cause if you gonna have your own.

[B]

Pajama and, and pajamas and bonnets, it's the same thing to me.

[A]

Agreed. So for me, my thing that I see is sometimes I'll be like, this is ghetto. Like when you wear like booty shorts in public.

[C]

Oh, I hate it. Oh, that is so ghetto to me. That's like, I don't want to see your ass. Yeah. She got kids in here.

[A]

Yeah, yeah.

[C]

So that's, that's your cheeks up. I don't think color hair is ghetto. I don't think big earrings is ghetto. I don't think big purses is ghetto. I think if I could see parts of your body that own your naked seat around children, it's them.

[B]

Like, why are we normalizing these days? Wearing a bodysuit outside with no stockings on with nothing. Your whole ass. Where are you going?

[C]

The strip club.

[B]

Where are you going?

[C]

Probably? I don't know now. Okay, so how do you feel about if they wearing that to an adult only club? You know, cuz they got. Now if, if I see you with that in Target, you get them. But if you going to a club to attract niggas, I mean, that's what it's for.

[A]

That's what it's for.

[B]

It depend on the environment. It depend on the environment. Like, like, yeah, if you go into a club, if you go into an adult club, whatever, that's fine.

[C]

I got problems being in Walmart with it all, bitch. With children, then with children, like, are.

[B]

You a mom or going to do a school pickup? And you got on booty shorts.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Why do you got on booty shorts and a child.

[A]

Booty shorts and bonnet combo is nasty. Work together.

[C]

It's fascination. It's an abomination.

[B]

It is an abomination.

[A]

If you put that duo together now. You really tripping now. Yeah, I wanted to, I came to this.

[C]

I agree, I can't, especially with the flip flops.

[A]

But you know what's? Crazy. But when I say ghetto though, it doesn't. It's not a color to me because.

[C]

Cause white hoes do it too. Hey, white hoes. We have any boys?

[A]

Like I said, I grew up in a very small town. All white town. Them hoes is ghetto. Yeah. I told you the first time I seen a girl, they call them trailer posts. That's ghetto to me. But it was a white girl that did it. Like when I first seen like a crash out, it was a white girl I seen crash out.

[C]

Because we all women at the end.

[A]

Of the day, you know what I'm saying?

[C]

We all women, right?

[A]

So like the first time we have this thing called Kroger feet where I'm from.

[C]

Kroger feet?

[A]

Kroger feet. That's when like you see somebody with dirty feet and it looks like they've.

[C]

Been walking around Kroger with them, the old Navy sandals. I'm telling you, slippers on. Oh, that's.

[A]

I'm telling you. I used to love me. The first time I seen people back.

[B]

In the day, I think they was like two from $10.

[C]

They were.

[B]

It was a nice.

[C]

Thin ass slippers.

[B]

With a little Abercrombie.

[A]

But I'm saying the tank top, the first time I seen somebody walk around the store with no shoes on, that's ghetto. That's ghetto. But it was, it was a.

[B]

They wasn't homeless.

[A]

It was a white. It was a white.

[B]

Not wearing no shoes. When you have shoes.

[C]

I'm not wearing no shoes anywhere. Did you bring the trash out with no shoes on? Like, come on, sis.

[B]

Now that's ghetto. You want to talk about what's ghetto? Walking outside with no shoes on.

[A]

I think if you step in apartment, even if like, okay, we live in high rises, right? Right. If you step out and even, you know, like the trash chute is at the end of the hallway, okay? If you step out of your house, even if the trash shoot is right there without no shoes on. That's a little ghetto, cuz.

[B]

Walking in the trash room with no shoes on.

[C]

Walking in the bathroom. But what about if you in a hotel, okay, and you going down to get an extra key and you got your socks on. You in the hotel, you gotta put.

[A]

Some, you gotta put some shoes on.

[C]

Okay, I'm sorry.

[A]

Now you can walk down in a bonnet, a little bonnet real quick.

[C]

That's normal.

[A]

But you gotta put some shoes on.

[B]

You got a sock a pass.

[C]

A sock.

[B]

I give a sock a pass. Cause it's something between your foot and the Ground.

[C]

I left my keys.

[A]

It's not about the sanitation. Just put some shoes on.

[C]

Okay? Okay.

[A]

Put some shoes on.

[B]

I'm starting to go downstairs in the lobby.

[C]

I was gonna get my key. Next step was she.

[B]

I ain't gonna lie.

[A]

Okay?

[C]

Every time I'm in a relationship, Drea.

[A]

Will literally have to walk down and get a key. She's like, I gotta lay my edges, not the edges. Drea don't go nowhere without anything.

[C]

You can definitely tell she's a. She gets pretty. You can tell she a bad bitch. You can tell. You can tell.

[A]

She had Thanksgiving.

[C]

We was sitting down right here. She was over there getting her makeup ready. Getting pretty.

[A]

Well, but listen, we had Thanksgiving the other day, so we all decided to do a friendsgiving, like, with all of us.

[C]

Cause.

[A]

Cause we didn't go home.

[C]

Okay?

[A]

Everybody, like, okay. It's just us. It's just the girls. I walk in with some Uggs leggings, looking all regular. My homegirl got on a T shirt, some tennis shoes. My other homegirl, she already drunk as fuck, right? Hair all over her head. We doing whatever. Dra walks in.

[B]

Hey, y'all.

[A]

She got on some hanifa boots.

[C]

You could tell a skirt.

[A]

She's like, hey, y'all.

[B]

With her dish. In my defense, I said, that was my first stop. I had somewhere else to go after that. I ended up not going because you.

[C]

Have to be all the way through.

[B]

Yes. I had somewhere to go afterwards that was like my first little stop. But I ended up not going because my friend was like, oh, it's okay. You don't gotta pull up. Cause I feel sick.

[C]

Okay.

[B]

But I was supposed to go somewhere else.

[C]

That's why I was cute.

[B]

Put on the whole outfit.

[C]

She was already gonna.

[B]

I mean, she go and see them. I would have wore some Uggs too.

[C]

Okay, babe. Okay.

[A]

But it's not a bad thing. But she won't be going nowhere. Like, you ain't gonna walk down to no front desk with socks on.

[B]

But I don't see nothing. I didn't say I would do it. I'm saying.

[C]

All right?

[B]

I'm saying nothing wrong with it. Like, to me, it's just dirty. If you don't have nothing between your.

[C]

Holes in the ground, there's holes out in the hotel.

[A]

I agree.

[B]

If you got socks on, it's a berry weird.

[A]

Yeah, I agree.

[B]

And especially if you just going downstairs real quick, get a key, going back.

[C]

I don't like walking in my house without socks on. If I do, it's cuz Oh, I, I, I hate walking.

[A]

I'm a slipper girl. I do wear slippers.

[C]

And I'm a sock girl. If I don't have my slippers, I'm gonna do a sock.

[A]

But I, I, now I will say it's ghetto. When people wear sneakers and socks to the beach. That's ghetto, too.

[C]

What's ghetto about that, Lex?

[A]

Cuz, why you. It's hot. It's 95.

[C]

I just had on sneakers at the beach.

[A]

Why would you wear sneakers to.

[C]

Because it was on the acv. Okay, that's.

[A]

That's different.

[B]

That's different, though.

[A]

You have to wear a tennis shoe. If you wear flip flops on an atv, that's ghetto. Cause why are you not prepared?

[C]

You about to kill yourself.

[A]

You look crazy.

[B]

You trying to get a toe pop.

[A]

You know what I'm saying? But if you're like, it's like a beach day. If you go to, like, a beach club, like Nikki beach in Miami, and you got sneakers on, that's crazy.

[C]

People don't like the sand between their toes. No, no, no. I'm fine with it. But some people don't that be hot. I ain't talking about no Miami. Sounds about some out the country saying that should be hot. Miami fan. That stand.

[A]

All right, but no, I feel like. Just dress for the occasion. Put some flip flops on.

[C]

Okay. I don't like flip flops. My feet's too big for the flops. I wasn't.

[A]

I'm not gonna lie. When I. I got a bigger foot than you. I wear a 10.

[C]

Okay, well, I was saying some, but I still be. It's a nine.

[B]

I feel like a nine. Not that big.

[A]

No, not that big.

[C]

Not for my height. I'm 6ft, so that's different. But, bitch, flip flops on me. That be looking like La Senaga.

[A]

I do, I do. I have one picture I took. Oh, it was for your birthday.

[B]

Those feet was big as fuck. Them feet was so fucking big.

[A]

Me and Dre took a picture for her birthday last year. Remember we went to Knife?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And everybody, like, we took a picture, and I had on these cute shoes I had just bought that day. They were so cute. It was them pink, red bottoms I got smiling. I thought I was sitting that up. They was like, God damn, Lex. Six feet, big size. She wear European. A 50, not a 50.

[C]

They call you out, you already gotta let in security. Somebody gotta point it out for you. Like, damn, put my feet up.

[A]

But okay. Let me ask you that, though. Were you ever, like, insecure about your height? Cause I used to be.

[C]

I didn't accept my height. So I was like 19.

[A]

Okay. Yeah, I'm the same.

[C]

And I think I only accepted it because I already had a tall friend since like 6. But when I met other tall girls, that's when I accepted my height. Like, okay, I'm about to walk in the room. That's when I noticed that the height was sexy. Like, looking like, oh, who them tall girls is? I climb that tree. Like, I'm like, okay, these, it's sexy now. Like, that's when I saw these something when I was 19. Yeah.

[A]

I feel like I accepted my height at an older age. I'm like, I can't do nothing about it.

[C]

Right.

[A]

But then once men, like, I realized, oh, they like that.

[C]

They love it.

[A]

They love a little.

[C]

Even though they hate it. When we was in middle school. Yeah, the same middle school. All on our trail. Get out my dm. They like it now.

[A]

They do.

[C]

I like tall girls, but she ain't like a name in middle school.

[B]

But I think it's always the classic case of like wanting what you don't have. Yeah, because when I. Yeah, because when I was younger, I feel like I always wanted to be taller.

[C]

Really? I ain't never hear no short ho say they wanted. You ever heard. You ever heard of shaws before?

[B]

No.

[A]

Well, I've. All I've heard of them, like wanting to have a little height.

[C]

A little height. Like my. A short girl may say like, I wish I was like 5 7, 5 8. But to us, that's not tall. You gotta be like 5 10. That's tall. I don't even count five, seven girls tall.

[B]

But see, so it is more so that like I was like, damn, I wish I was like 5, 8.

[A]

But.

[B]

But when you think so, but when you have heels on though, you're gonna be six feet.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You know what I mean? You still gonna be taller than a lot of these niggas. Right, Right. So I really used to wish I was taller. Like I used to be like, damn, like, I'm really not gonna grow no more. I really used to be. Oh, I really used to be upset about it. I was like, damn, I'm really. Yeah, I used to wish I was taller.

[A]

So little.

[C]

Me too. I want to be petite.

[A]

I want to be a petite.

[C]

I want to be Pete. I want to look up. I want to look up to my.

[A]

Yeah, but I just got over. I got over that real quick. Like as like, cuz these do not be tall. But I'm not. I'm not tall. In the grand scheme of.

[B]

I don't even think I'm not.

[A]

But for a woman.

[C]

I was going to wait till you was finished. Finish. You're not.

[B]

So she's like five, eight.

[A]

I'm like five, eight.

[C]

Yeah, but listen, though, she got a little heel on. Like, girl, bye.

[A]

But when it comes to dating, I'm tall.

[C]

Agreed.

[A]

Because I wear heels a lot. So when I put on heels, and I wear platform heels a lot, too. Like, I get six inch heels. So by the time I put a heel on, I'm 6, 1, 6 2. These don't be 61 6, because all the sh.

[C]

Hoes got them. Sis, don't you hate that small couple the other day?

[A]

I'm like, that's supposed to.

[C]

I love y'all. That must be me.

[A]

That's supposed to be me and my man, right? Y'all ate them up.

[C]

You shut holes and took all the toes.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Y'all man's haul. Are y'all like the same height?

[C]

But when I. When I put a little heel on.

[B]

You taller than him?

[C]

You gotta prank myself.

[A]

That's all right.

[C]

I wanna. I want my tower.

[A]

Me.

[C]

Yeah, yeah.

[B]

Y'all gotta date. Y'all mean.

[C]

Yeah.

[A]

I had a.

[C]

Stop taking them.

[A]

When you have a tall man, though, you do feel a little different. Like, it feels sexy.

[C]

Like a baby, though.

[A]

Oh, my God. I'm like, this is how it feels to be little. Hug me.

[C]

Kiss me in my face.

[A]

You know what I'm saying? Because other than that, I'd be like, hey, where we going to eat at?

[C]

What you think? Open this door. Yeah, my. Still gotta, like, kind of like kiss my. Kiss my.

[A]

Okay, okay.

[B]

My voice. Oh, my God. So speaking of y'all, I was on Twitter yesterday. No, I was on TikTok Live the other day, and somebody was like, draya be sounding like future. And I was like, do. I was like, bitch, excuse me.

[A]

I think that's a Southern thing, though. It is. Yeah.

[B]

They was like. They was like, yeah, your voice. Deep as fuck. I was like, do I really sound like Future?

[C]

Yes, friend. You do.

[A]

I do.

[C]

You do. You do. But it's okay.

[B]

It's real raspy.

[C]

I always had a deep voice.

[A]

You always. It's a Southern thing. I think Southern women just have deep voice.

[B]

Sound like, is it for my daddy?

[A]

Probably.

[C]

It gotta be. I heard that. Listen, I literally went viral because that was. That whole sound like a.

[B]

Somebody said that to you, too?

[C]

I went viral on vine because they said I sounded like a. Yeah. I was like the tombow girl with a deep voice. And I was tall, so I gave nigga vibes.

[A]

Like, girl, I feel like.

[B]

I don't know, I feel like a little resistant voice.

[C]

Sexy.

[B]

Sexy.

[C]

Love that.

[B]

I think it's sexy.

[C]

Especially when you go off. Stop playing with me.

[B]

Exactly. I said future reach. I'm almost reach. She's giving deep voice supremacy.

[C]

Exactly.

[B]

Y'all really hate. And they.

[C]

And the hoes love his love before.

[B]

He got all them kids.

[A]

But I think that be the main thing. Like when people describe me like they always be like, oh, that girl on the, on the blue couch, she's so masculine, cuz. Like I said, I'm a little bit taller. I'm thick.

[B]

I got a deep boy.

[C]

And that's. And that's what they get from it. Like you not. But you don't know me or not to say I'm masculine. You, you coming from my voice, my height and how I'm talking. That's it.

[A]

Right. But I think on social media too, like, of course, like we give a little extra cuz we're entertaining.

[C]

Right. I'm. I'm supposed to ignite it. Yeah.

[A]

Like, I'm not like this on an everyday daily basis. Like people really be online thinking. I wake up like, good morning. Hey, listen, I some bacon. Listen.

[C]

I didn't think, I didn't think.

[A]

Don't act like that every day.

[C]

I did not think somebody thought of me like that until I got My fiance said. He said the first date, he said he thought I was going to be loud and ghetto. I'm like, why the would you think that? Yeah, cuz I'm loud online. I'm a lady.

[A]

That's what I be saying. I think men do expect that out of me. So when they date, they get a totally different. They do. And I think.

[B]

Think I'mma be a certain way. And I'm ghetto.

[A]

Yeah. You more ghetto than me, first of all.

[B]

Absolutely. This lady grew up around.

[A]

All right.

[B]

Our lighter friend.

[C]

Yes, me too, friend. Okay.

[A]

Leave us alone.

[B]

Yes. No, I grew up around hood. The hood, hood people, the churches, all that.

[C]

Okay.

[B]

I'm definitely a little more ghetto. She be like, can't relate.

[C]

I'm dying.

[B]

But the crazy thing about me though is I grew up in the hood, but I went to private school until eighth grade.

[C]

So you had the best of both worlds.

[B]

I had the best of both worlds.

[C]

I had the best of both worlds. I. I grew up in a. A diverse neighborhood. It was black and white, like, but I went to a school that it could have been a private school, but it was. It was public, but it gave private. And then I got kicked out and I went to a public school that was big. I'm like, damn, y'all, you dumb. I'm like, okay. So my school was a good school I did go to. I did come from a private looking school, and I met it. So I got the best of both worlds. And I'm so happy because I could.

[B]

Like, be well rounded.

[C]

Yeah, you could be in a room and you could adapt to any situation you in.

[B]

Where are you from in New Orleans?

[C]

17. The may not know that, though, because he was only that nine years.

[B]

But see, I used to date him.

[A]

Up because he love to say that New Orleans. All right.

[B]

What Boy, he do love. I used to. Girl, I forgot now how you forgot.

[C]

You can't have the New Orleans because.

[B]

Like you said, he ain't really from there.

[C]

Exactly.

[B]

But I used to date when I was in high school, though. This is like my first boyfriend that I was like, super in love with. He was from the west bank. And he was like. People always say the west bank ain't really Newark, New Orleans.

[C]

It depends on which part. Is he from Algiers or like, he from Algiers? No. So Elgies is New Orleans.

[B]

Okay, so.

[C]

But the New Orleans people feel like that's not New Orleans.

[B]

That's what he was saying.

[C]

It is. It's still. If you could. His address said New Orleans, Louisiana. You don't say lgs, Louisiana.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Once you pass lgs, that's the west bank. And the West. The thing is, the west bank, we do that because the west bank stay on their side. They don't with the city. So we call New Orleans is city, the West Bank. Everything that you need is on the west bank. They have no reason to come to New Orleans. So they feel like, n. I'm from the West Bank. We feel like, well, y'all from New Orleans. But end of the day, once they go out of town, they gonna stay from New Orleans.

[B]

Okay?

[C]

That west bank, if he go to Houston, he gonna say, I'm from New Orleans.

[B]

That's what happened. Now he. He moved to Houston. That's how we started dating in high school. Cuz he moved when Katrina happened.

[C]

Okay, babe, Katrina, girl.

[B]

Cuz, you know, everybody moved out.

[A]

Oh, my God. It was so.

[B]

Everybody was Houston.

[A]

Oh, my God. I know. I was in Houston. You was?

[C]

Yeah. Bitch, what I said to you, girl, What? Yes.

[B]

Didn't that mean you was in high school too? Right? Cuz I was in ninth grade.

[A]

I was 17.

[B]

So what school? You went to school in Houston?

[C]

No, I didn't. So what happened was when. When a storm hit, I ended up evacuating to Baton rouge. And then January 1, 2006, which is. We moved to Texas. I didn't move to Houston. I moved to Clinton Lake. To where?

[A]

Okay, Clear Lake.

[C]

And then I moved to. We moved on Nasser, Row one.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

My sister went to Clay High. She graduated from. So once we moved to Texas, I'm like, I ain't going back to school, y'all.

[B]

He was like, this.

[C]

It. Like, I. I went to school with Mar. I'm not going to my house. I didn't finish school in.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

In Texas, but I was in Texas. I worked in Texas. And I saw how everybody went to. Went to Houston, New Orleans. Turn Houston out. I'm just saying.

[B]

Remember? Didn't he graduate from U of H?

[A]

Yeah, he did.

[B]

Or was it tsu?

[A]

No, it was U of H. Cause that was before I flunked out of U of H. And he was there, and he was, like, taking, like. It was some, like, college.

[C]

Yeah, okay, bet.

[A]

But he was taking some, like, creative class. Like, I wanna say it was like a poetry class or something. But they said that, like, that's where he came from. So I was in Orange. I told you where Orange is. It's the first stop, like, when you leave Louisiana and you're on i10. Orange is the first stop. So we got a big wave of people from. Man, it was so crazy.

[C]

How was it? I mean, I want to hear from a Texas girl.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

But you have to know, it was fun. The niggas had they javals on.

[C]

Yes.

[B]

You knew it was a New Orleans nigga.

[C]

Exactly. Especially when they fought.

[A]

Yeah, you knew how to fight. Of course. I got. Look at it now. I was a child and I was young. I was. Cause you said you were in eighth grade.

[B]

No, I was in ninth grade.

[A]

You was in ninth grade. So I must have been a junior. Yeah, that makes sense. I was like a junior or a senior at that time.

[C]

Whatever.

[A]

So when it came, it was just like, we're a small school. We're a 4A school. So when they came, it was like a whole bunch of. So it was. Everything was out of order. We had, you know, a class that usually had 20 people in it. Now it's like 40, 45 people. So I'm walking in my classroom, and I don't have nowhere to sit. And I think. I'm already thinking I'm queen bee. I'm like, oh, my God. Like, one of y'all need to get out of my seat. Do you know, like, you need to get out of my seat, girl.

[B]

Because she used to be. So I. Can you please. Can you show her this? That picture of you when you with your emo face.

[C]

Oh, you had an emo.

[A]

Oh, I had an emo face. I had piercings. Really?

[C]

Oh, yeah.

[A]

I used to think I was like. So I'm like, walking in class. I'm like, somebody needs to get out of my seat. I have nowhere to sit. And then I like this hole.

[C]

Sit on my lap, bitch.

[A]

She coming at that booty in hell.

[C]

What happened?

[A]

No, I was like, oh, my God, I love it. I was like, who helped me?

[C]

We definitely claimed the territory.

[A]

So, yeah, it was a different.

[B]

It was fun. It was fun, but it was.

[A]

Yeah. So, you know, it is.

[C]

I'm not. Listen, one thing. New Orleans girls was hating how you Texas hoes were stealing our niggas. Like, now, see, that was like, why is y'all.

[B]

Cause I definitely had me a little.

[A]

New Orleans nigga about to tell a story. It's probably gonna get me.

[C]

Why is y'all speaking on.

[A]

Our nigga Orange gonna know. So I'm not gonna say names. Cause y'all obviously gonna know who I'm talking about if you find. Oh, Lord. I hope they do not clip this and send this to this man.

[C]

Oh, Lord.

[A]

So there was a guy from Orange. From Orange, yes. He was really popular. He was very, very good at sports.

[C]

They already know who he is, the.

[A]

Way his story went on. Yeah, they already know where I'm about to go with this. So I don't know.

[B]

Cause how many niggas is really from Orange?

[C]

Exactly.

[A]

So anyways, his story went. Where his story led up. He ended up going to the league, being, like, the number one safety in the league. Like, he had a story. But I remember when they came down from New Orleans, this girl came from New Orleans and she was cleaning up.

[C]

Bitch. Really?

[A]

So that's what. It wasn't like, the Texas girls was. The New Orleans girls came and they was cleaning up.

[B]

Yeah, they was getting the Texas niggas.

[A]

They was getting them.

[B]

They was getting the Houston N for sure.

[A]

Yes, that's what I'm saying. So from my experience, I was like, oh, my God. Cause at that point, like, I used to swear me and him was in love. Like, my mom knew his mom. I was like, oh, my God, this.

[B]

Is gonna be my husband.

[C]

Right, Right.

[A]

I mean, that's not how, like, all happen. Happen for Real.

[C]

It happened in your head, though.

[A]

It happened in my head, though. But anyways, it was like. I remember when she came, like, she was dating a lot of, like, the top notch niggas. I was like, oh, she came and cleaned up. I can't be mad at it. Why is that?

[B]

Girl business.

[A]

I feel like, honestly, they probably meant to be out there talking it to the TMZ article. Oh, wait, she was.

[B]

She from New Orleans.

[C]

Oh, she one of them girls.

[A]

She is from New Orleans.

[B]

No, cuz I know exactly what she talking about.

[A]

You know who I'm talking. She from New Orleans.

[C]

Wait, wait, wait. You got to tell me.

[A]

I'mma tell you out here. I mean, people, they already. If. They. If. When I said number one safety in the league, they probably already know if. If you say number one safety in the league at one point. He's from Orange. There. There's literally one person. I always say this. There's two popular people in Orange. Him and me.

[B]

I heard that, friend.

[C]

I heard that.

[B]

Okay, babe town, population 300.

[C]

Literally.

[B]

Literally.

[A]

You ever heard of Orange, Texas before?

[C]

No.

[B]

It's not that far from Louisiana.

[A]

Yeah, it's literally.

[B]

It's not close to New Orleans.

[C]

I never heard of it.

[A]

So where I grew up, my house, like, I could literally walk to Louisiana. That's how close it was.

[C]

Really?

[A]

How? Like, that border where you cross Texas is right there. It's on i10. It's very, very close. So I had a lot of people. That's why I was telling you in video.

[C]

Y'all gonna tell me who the girl is? Cause I might know.

[B]

Oh, we gonna tell.

[A]

I'll tell you who I'm. I don't wanna say her.

[C]

No, no, no.

[A]

Not on here.

[C]

I'm talking about.

[A]

Yeah, just because, you know, they have kids. We gotta protect the children.

[C]

Oh, they got kids together.

[B]

Oh. But, yeah, they was married.

[C]

So. Hold on. She got the nigga.

[A]

Oh, baby got him. It's some hot tea.

[C]

Really?

[A]

Baby, it was like a whole thing on tmz. She walked up in the house with guns blazing back.

[C]

I know what you talking about. Okay, okay.

[A]

I'm.

[C]

I need something. Okay, okay, okay.

[B]

At this point, she might as well say the goddamn thing. Okay, okay.

[C]

I'm thinking it was somebody I didn't know.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

Yeah, I heard.

[A]

Oh, yeah. When she. When they left New Orleans, they came to Orange. She was in Orange.

[C]

Okay, babe. Okay.

[A]

The tea been hot for years, but.

[C]

I've been out the loop with that tea. How they been there? They okay.

[A]

I mean, I'm consider Okay, I'mma feel. Cause then I wear some new tea and I'mma fill you in.

[C]

Fill me in, please, please.

[A]

I got you, girl.

[C]

Update me. Update me, friends.

[A]

Update you. Cuz this real messy now. It's real messy.

[B]

Speaking of, I feel like this is a good segue into the st.

[A]

Okay, so let me do the part cuz this matches. I thought we was done with the game. It's a question to enter the segue. So I'm going to let you. Y'all, it's your girl xp and it's.

[B]

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[A]

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So make sure y'all head to ponds.com to purchase your ebook or the ecourse. And we also have it available in a bundle for you so you can get both poor minds.com pour into your pod. What's the corniest thing you've ever done while in love?

[C]

Corniest thing.

[A]

The corniest thing you've ever done when you've been in love. I'll say mine.

[C]

Okay, Say mine's match.

[A]

The corniest thing I've ever done. I was dating this guy, I was maybe like 2021 and at the time I didn't have a lot of money, but I used to waitress and bartend, so I was like doing better than him and I just thought he was just like the most grand man in the world. And I remember Hotel Derrick around Valentine's Day. They used to do like a package hotel. Derrick used to be a really popular hotel in Houston. They had this package that you could buy for like $700, and they would decorate your hotel room with champagne. It included a dinner, like, everything. So I literally, like, I remember I worked like three shifts, scrounged up my little 700, and I paid for the room and I did all this. But to me, the reason I say it's corny because it's corny, because he should have done that for me.

[C]

It was a lot.

[A]

Like, I did a lot.

[C]

Well, first of all, have you ever done anything for you before that?

[A]

No.

[C]

Oh, yeah. That's corny. Yeah. Yeah.

[A]

That's why I said he ain't never.

[C]

If he set the tone already, then.

[A]

I did not set no tone. He had. I had $3. He had two. Oh, so that's the kind of. That's.

[C]

But that's not bad. Three and two. Now, bitch, you would have seen.

[A]

We made five. And I spent $5 on him. If he never got you, to this day, he still be like, yeah, I used to fuck with her. I know that's.

[C]

Oh, no, bitch don't claim me, bitch.

[A]

I know he does.

[C]

Bitch don't do that.

[A]

Oh, I know he does.

[B]

How many niggas y'all think be telling people? Oh, I used to fuck with Supa bitch a lot. Oh, I used to fuck with Lee.

[A]

I know it's a hardcore six.

[C]

It's a hardcore a lot. Yeah, I know, I know because like I said, I'm. I'm gonna drop a and pick up another one.

[B]

Yeah, this is what it.

[C]

I'm not gonna lie.

[A]

I love to fall in love quickly.

[C]

Ah, I'm a lover girl. I don't want. I don't want to with book of at one time. I won't with one at a time. Yeah. So if this not acting right, I'mma with another one. And until he expired, I'mma with another one. So it's probably a lot of say. Oh, yeah, let's with super.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I hate that.

[C]

But to me, we ain't got no baby.

[A]

Prove it.

[C]

Prove it. You can't prove it.

[A]

Prove it. Is Lewis.

[C]

Lewis and Philip. That's it.

[A]

What's the corniest thing?

[C]

Girl, mine is so. Okay. My very. I'm not gonna say it's my first relationship, but to me, this is my first real relationship. This is the first that we moved in a house together. Like, imagine, you know, women like, we got our own set up.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

And then we'll move a in but it's the first relationship I had where he had his own house. I had my own house, but not when we started dating. I, I moved into his house and then we got a house together. So to me, that's my relationship. Yeah, a. That like really, like, oh no, we gotta do something together. So he broke up with me in like August of 2011, I think I was like 22, 23. He broke up with me and then. But I at least went up to like November, so we had to stay together to November, right. So like I noticed the shift of him like being under me all day to him, like not coming home. And he never done it before. So I'm like, okay, well he must be with somebody. Let me find out who he with. So I used to drop him off at work every morning because I, he, he rolled bikes. But I, I had a call, so I'm like, okay, he don't got his bike right now, so let me see who dropping him off at work. I go to the job, I park my car underneath the bridge, I'm sitting in the bushes, mood see who dropping them off. And I'm in the bushes, I'm sticky, I'm itching. Cause my dumb ass ain't wearing no long sl. I got on the short sleeve and I'm, I'm, I'm every, every second I'm itching like, okay, he gonna be at 6:30, 6:45. Okay, he like, this is the late for work. I'm like, this, he must be with somebody. He late. So he really running now. You don't run late for nobody, but you run late for somebody new.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

So I'm like, all this in my mind. So then I see you get dropped off by a hole in a raggedy call. Who calls so regular? I heard it for a point.

[A]

You heard him? You heard him?

[C]

Then he got out, I saw the little kiss, heard my heart broke.

[A]

Oh my.

[C]

I'm in the bushes dying.

[B]

Did you pop out?

[C]

No, because technically, technically he said we were not together, so I had to respect that. But for my own sanity, I needed to see it.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

So Bishop meeping in the bushes at 6:45 in the morning and he get dropped off by a little putt putt. And then I call the phone like, like, oh, so you getting dropped off and he hung up in my face, girl, super.

[B]

I would have popped out them bushes.

[A]

I'm not gonna lie. Cause you already there.

[C]

You already there. Come on.

[A]

With a bang.

[C]

What if you would have shit on me like I told you. I ain't with you. Then I'm gonna have to pop him at her facts. I can't do that.

[B]

It just would have been that type of day.

[C]

I got morals, friend.

[B]

You right, friend. I used to crash. But see, I don't know.

[C]

I can't be left there like that. Cause she really could have lasted me. She was with me all night.

[A]

And then she would have probably 10 years later, 20 years later, be telling a story on TikTok about it, right? Like, let me tell y'all about the time Stupa popped up on me.

[B]

And that's your plane today.

[A]

Okay, that's right. You did right. You did right. Okay. What's the corniest thing you've done, bitch?

[B]

Where do I start?

[A]

Okay.

[C]

Oh, my God. I started my very first one. I ain't even consider the years in.

[B]

Okay, look, I kept real like, no, literally, probably coming to somebody as a.

[C]

Woman, really calling the.

[B]

Yeah, I knew, like, my. I knew he was like, with this girl. I knew he was with this girl. This was high school. I knew he was with this girl and I called her.

[C]

That don't count. It's high school.

[B]

It don't.

[C]

High school, baby.

[A]

High school. Yeah, that's the.

[C]

That's.

[B]

Oh, well, in adulthood. In adulthood. I called. I talked about a. On our show.

[C]

Duh. You supposed to Views money.

[B]

No, no. Cause you gotta know me, though. Super. I'm, like, extremely private. Like, I don't like people. I don't like people in my business. So I'm never gonna really talk about, like, I'll say little stuff here and there about my relationship or like my. My nigga and stuff, but I really don't talk about my business like that. This nigga made me so fucking mad. And Lex is fucking terrible because she. She fucking egged me on.

[A]

I turned her head. I said, now what he do, girl?

[B]

No, I'm talking about. You egged me on to talk about it on the show.

[C]

I know.

[B]

That's what I said.

[A]

I was saying. I was like, now what he do, girl? Knowing I know everything.

[B]

She was like, yeah, girl, I feel like if you mad, you should just say something. Express yourself. I said this nigga name.

[C]

Oh, no, you didn't. Yeah, she did.

[B]

Yes. And this was like, somebody that people know.

[C]

They left it in.

[B]

No, we deleted. No, we deleted that old episode from, like, 2018, Girl. We had, like, three viewers. Okay, but I was still mad.

[A]

People that caught that tea then, they still don't.

[B]

They still be talking about it today.

[C]

Yes.

[A]

Just like me talking about white man, you catch some?

[C]

No, you talking about white man. Ain't nobody else about white man, but you ain't no body talking about white man. My own followers don't even know about that. I ain't never let it go, bitch. My fathers don't know about that. But you, bitch, don't put in front.

[A]

Of Lex P. I'm be like, remember that time?

[C]

Do you remember that time you clocked out? Was not expecting that, girl. Hey, no, no, no.

[A]

We ain't talking about that, Toby.

[C]

What that. How you know that Tony asked for the little.

[A]

Cause she kept saying, like, oh, y'all. Y'all been following me. I'm like, no, let me tell you how much I've been following y'all.

[C]

Oh, yeah, but you showed out with that one, cuz. Something told me, say assistant, get them them questions from these hoes. I would have dodged that.

[A]

Okay, introduce the topic.

[B]

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[C]

Really love a. Yeah, well, it is.

[B]

Do you feel like you could be there for sure?

[C]

Like all the signs be there and we just be ignoring them because we stupid. Yeah, because we wanted to work. And we start. Once you start living our potential, you're gonna let everything fly. Like, you know what? I know you could. I know you could become a multi millionaire. So I'm gonna stick with you. That's you living Our potential. I know you gonna stop cheating because you can do you in counseling. That's you living off potential.

[B]

Like.

[C]

Like we didn't seen all the signs and we just still thugging it. We gotta stop feeling like we gotta. Like we don't owe no no thug life. So I'm gonna thug it with you. I didn't start doing too many. I don't owe you that. Yeah. I'm not your mom. Yeah. We don't gotta go through the struggle for me to. I don't gotta prove myself to you. When you marry me, then I. I'll show you. But other than that, like we. We boyfriend, girlfriend. I don't gotta thug it out with you.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Like I think that's when we. That's when we just dumbing in love. Like we still trying to prove to a in our 30s that we. I've been here for you since the beginning with our bad. Cause we don't gotta do that. We don't gotta waste our time like that.

[A]

I think one thing about being dumb in love too is like if you're a person like you love love. Love releases a dopamine. It releases something.

[C]

Oh my gosh. I love it.

[A]

It feels so good. So as much as it's. I think it's okay to be dumb in love. That's what you're supposed to do. Enjoy it. But you also need to know how to move on and fall out of love.

[C]

That be the problem.

[A]

Right?

[C]

Bitch. You be in captivity for eight months because you was dumb in love.

[B]

Like captivity.

[A]

You really do. So one thing it's like you fall in love is a drug. But you need that antidote.

[C]

Exactly. And you gotta give it to your self.

[A]

Hey.

[C]

And don't expect no to give it to you.

[A]

That's what I'm saying. So I think it's okay to be dumb in love sometimes because it feels good in the moment. I'm very much a. This is what I feel right now.

[C]

And I'm gonna go all night. I don't wanna hear a tell me nothing.

[A]

But when it's time to heal, I.

[C]

Got my own energy.

[B]

Hey.

[C]

Exactly.

[A]

It's time to heal.

[C]

That's me for sure.

[A]

So you have to. You have to recognize when it's time to leave a situation. But I think you love should be fun and love should feel good. And sometimes you meet somebody and you may be in love, quote, unquote, for a short time. And sometimes it lasts years. And some people are lucky enough where it lasts forever.

[C]

Forever. Right.

[A]

So I think one Thing about love is, like, you have to be okay with taking risks.

[C]

Yeah.

[A]

Falling in love is risk because on both sides, you're literally falling for someone and hoping that when gets bad that they'll catch you.

[C]

Right. And if they don't, then what Right?

[A]

You got to be able to catch yourself.

[C]

Sign you ignore.

[A]

Exactly.

[C]

Because they got all these excuses why they couldn't catch a right. And you believe them.

[A]

Right. So I think being dominant, love is just like now you can't lose yourself now.

[C]

You can't like, do so much changing things.

[A]

And you look in the mirror and you don't recognize yourself no more. And you're doing things like. I'm not saying be dumb behind somebody, but if it's fun and you're having.

[C]

A good time and you loving it and you enjoying it, be dumb.

[A]

Be dumb in love.

[C]

Agreed.

[A]

Be dumb in love.

[C]

Especially if you can self an adult yourself. Yeah, cuz I know I can. I'm gonna roll over so fast. New nigga me, please.

[A]

New me.

[C]

New nigga me, please.

[B]

New nigga me, please.

[A]

I've recently got into when I'm over it.

[C]

But I been.

[A]

Yeah, see, I'm not 16. I be. Well, I don't like new nigga me, but I just be doing it not mean.

[B]

I promise you 16 at war.

[C]

Girl, listen, I've been. I've been a social butterfly all my life. Yeah, before the Internet, before Yahoo Chat, I was on a party.

[B]

Y'all remember BBM, BlackBerry?

[A]

The BlackBerry, BlackBerry messenger I never had.

[B]

It was an elite society.

[A]

It was. It was like I was on Yahoo.

[B]

I wasn't gang.

[C]

I was doing Yahoo Chat.

[B]

You said you was what?

[C]

Yahoo Chat.

[A]

I think I had aim.

[C]

I had aimed to.

[A]

Yeah, I think I had the aol.

[C]

But I was on a party line. Bitch, y'all know you hosting. Been on the party line.

[B]

Are you talking about. Are you talking about a hotline where you could call and date people?

[A]

It needs to be like a boyfriend.

[C]

Yes. Yes. I used to.

[A]

You got a message from.

[B]

And I was 14.

[C]

Me too. I was on the party line.

[B]

That's sad. I been looking for love being on there. We could have got abducted.

[A]

Literally.

[C]

I damn, I did.

[A]

That was a whole time where Lifetime was making movies about girls, little girls getting abducted from online relationships.

[C]

God broke my agenda with a nigga I met a photo.

[A]

Work on it.

[B]

You said what?

[C]

Broke my virginity with a. I melted borderline. And he was older than me. How old was he? I was. Girl, girl, I feel like a horse in this. I was 16 he was 21.

[A]

See.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

No, that's. See, I know you ain't right.

[B]

Oh, that's not that bad.

[C]

Now that I'm.

[B]

What I mean is. What I mean is we're not going to act like it's not 20 year old that used to be picking girls up from high school.

[C]

Cuz how do you at that time.

[B]

And granny, now that we're grown, we know that was wrong. We know that was back then. It was still going on.

[A]

Who used to go to like Taco Bell and McDonald's and sit in the parking lot because he knew we would come get the food.

[C]

Now see, that's not. That's different. That's like. That's you.

[B]

Wait, that's you scouting.

[C]

That's you scouting. That's different. Like that's pedophile.

[A]

Like that's like, oh girl, he got some food.

[C]

Like nah, that's. Nah, that's different.

[A]

He would be like. We would just be outside.

[C]

It's like, oh, I got some candy. Come to the van, bitch.

[A]

Come to the van saying no. Like some dumb asses.

[C]

No. The party line. The party line was different because on the party line I was on a party line saying, I'm 19. So that's different.

[A]

We was lying.

[C]

We lying.

[B]

Cuz you had to be older than 18 to be on the high.

[A]

Yeah, we definitely like he you risking your life. He said, I got a Big Mac.

[B]

You was really risking your life. Cuz one thing about we was just on the phone.

[C]

It's conversation and that's it. We used to want get my cherry.

[B]

Until for you it wasn't conversation.

[C]

I felt I was on that for years.

[A]

Oh my God, girl.

[C]

To like I was like 21. I. I remember my baby daddy on the party line.

[B]

You did?

[C]

I met my best friend on the. Listen a social butterfly. You got to understand.

[A]

Yeah, that makes sense.

[C]

This ain't start with Instagram. This been me since the party lineage.

[A]

Always been popular.

[C]

Always.

[B]

The party line was lit though.

[C]

I remember them days, especially on Katrine. It was a time.

[A]

Yeah, we. I never did the party line thing.

[C]

You didn't it. You missed the error.

[A]

Damn.

[C]

You remember when. You remember when Facebook had the Houston versus New Orleans?

[A]

I don't remember that group because I wasn't. I wasn't in either city. I was in a smaller city, so don't matter, bitch.

[C]

Everybody was in that group on Facebook. You went on a group.

[A]

When I got invited to Facebook, it was during a time where like you.

[C]

Had to have college email 2008 then.

[A]

Yeah, so I wasn't. Because when I graduated from. I graduated high school in 2007, I didn't go straight to college, so I took, like, a year or two. Also, I didn't have a college email.

[C]

Well, they opened in 2009.

[A]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. So that's probably when I got off 2010.

[C]

Houston and New Orleans had a group thing where everybody was fussing. They was beefing about. Bitch, I. I came to y'all saying it took y'all niggas. Oh, bitch, I came to yesterday and y'all.

[A]

I know that's right.

[C]

It was crazy.

[A]

It sounds like fun to me.

[B]

Y'all remember I was a pipe.

[A]

Who Chris Spied?

[B]

No, it was another little website before Facebook that everybody used to be on. It was like one of the. Yeah, I used to be on Black Planet in middle school.

[C]

Girl, listen, I had a.

[A]

Middle school is nuts.

[C]

Listen, I had a time.

[B]

Why?

[C]

I had a time on social media where I was a.

[B]

How was you a, though?

[C]

What was you doing, girl, before? Only fans.

[B]

Super. You used to be popping that online.

[C]

On Black Planet, Mood, YouTube in my. In my th. Underwear. I know.

[A]

That's right.

[C]

I still got my picture. Pictures. Girl, they used to steal my pictures and put them on porn sites. No, because listen. I always listen.

[B]

Oh, they used to post my pictures.

[C]

I was always a fine.

[A]

Yeah, you always had that.

[C]

I was a fine.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

So in 2000, before I had my son, I ended up taking it down because my baby dad, who I met on the borderline, so you got to go this down. So I took it down. But my YouTube used to get, like 50,000 views in 2008.

[A]

That's a lot.

[C]

Now I'm getting 50,000 views because I'm. I'm dancing about bounce music, you know, bounce Me just got popping because of Katrina. Yeah, I'm on. I'm in my little apartment in 2008. I got my thong on. I'm dancing to Pretty Ricky Genuine. I still got some videos, which I'm telling you. And I was going viral on YouTube for being in the phone.

[A]

Oh, my. See, now, that was. Must have been before I discovered. You see, I don't remember you popping it.

[C]

2008.

[B]

I don't remember you popping it either.

[C]

I'm telling you, my baby daddy made me take all of it down. Tongue.

[A]

But I remember my tongue ring.

[C]

I'm in the camera.

[A]

Why?

[B]

You said my tongue pierced, too.

[A]

I did, too.

[B]

In high school. I've been crashing out wing out for a long time.

[A]

I evolved, and I used to Be in the parking lot, cuz.

[B]

Who got their tongue pierced in high school? Now that I'm thinking about it, I.

[C]

Got my period in 19, so I'm not going, say, high school. 19?

[A]

Yeah. I was like, 19, 20, 16 with a tongue period.

[C]

What your mama said, girl, she tried.

[B]

To kick me out of the house. She locked me out the house. She did not want to let me in. It was only because of my daddy that I ended up getting in the.

[C]

House that night at that time, too. Paris was like, I suck dick.

[A]

Yeah. It meant you suck dick at that time.

[B]

And I used to be in class.

[C]

Oh, yeah. See?

[A]

Breath funky. No tongues. Tongue rings make your breath funky.

[B]

Why does your breath have been funky?

[A]

It wasn't because that puff, bitch.

[B]

What?

[A]

Y'all know tongue rings will make your breath funky if you don't brush still. I don't care how the first.

[B]

Like, I do know you had one.

[C]

Yes.

[A]

I just said I had my tongue peeled.

[C]

How long?

[A]

Bitch, I kept it in for like a year or two.

[B]

And then she got rid of it.

[A]

Well, no. Cause you know that pus. The pus would come from your tongue.

[B]

In the beginning, bitch, your tongue ring was infected. Why was puss. That's why your shit was funky.

[C]

I said, I ain't never.

[A]

I used to like, hey, y'all, I.

[C]

Ain'T never had a pussy tongue before.

[B]

Me neither.

[C]

It had pussy in it. I was like, the pussy tongue. You wasn't brushing your tongue.

[B]

You was having halitosis.

[A]

But, yeah, but I'm not trying to be funny. Like. Like a lot of, you know, fat.

[C]

Those people, everybody before.

[A]

Well, a lot of people I knew that had the tongue. Like, the tongue ring, y'all.

[C]

The poop circle was funky. Break, baby.

[A]

We was.

[C]

He was a mouth.

[B]

They breath stink. Fmc.

[A]

FMC Coming. Funky mouth click.

[C]

Not funky mouth.

[A]

Funky mouth click on them.

[C]

I never had an issue, honestly.

[A]

Like, I remember, I didn't keep it in that long. I'm not going to lie. But cuz it hurt so bad.

[C]

And it was like, oh, my God. Why hurt so long?

[A]

I don't know. My tongue used to be swollen.

[C]

It was fat. And I'm all but my tongue fat.

[B]

Hey, boo, you got a lip that breath lingering.

[A]

And then I used. So I had my tongue ring in the parking lot eating my Big Macs with the.

[C]

That with the old ass.

[A]

Maybe it was the Big Mac sauce.

[C]

He like a nigga Big Mac, bitch. That would happen.

[A]

He said, bring the li. Bring the leader of the funk. Mouth click.

[C]

I want the leader that nigga put something in your Big Mac, bitch. He trying to get you.

[B]

Oh, my God.

[C]

Yes.

[A]

I just remember, like, I didn't like my tongue ring. I didn't. Cause I felt maybe it wasn't. But you know what? It was infected.

[C]

It hadn't been infected.

[A]

I think it was, but I have a short tongue, so maybe he hit something under there.

[C]

You know that.

[A]

What's that little thing that little Dane the lane something. He hit something?

[C]

No, but she a nothing.

[A]

He hit something.

[C]

Your tongue is just.

[B]

No, no infected, cuz.

[C]

It wasn't mine.

[B]

That was a moment where she thought we was all about to bond.

[A]

No, I didn't. I remember my tongue, like, pussing about.

[C]

But you got to say that my tongue wasn't.

[A]

And it was pussy and my breath was stinking.

[C]

Don't say you holds breath was thing. Cause y'all had a. Don't say that.

[A]

I had a bad experience with piercings, too, because I still have these scars. I used to have, like, a snake bite. Cause I went through my emo era, so I had everything pierced. I had, like, a thing in my chest. I had bars in my. Oh, I went through it. But I remember, like, getting my lip pierced and, like, my piercing, like, sunk in and my skin was, like, growing over my piercing. Oh, I've had a bad experience, but I got my belly button ring. In high school, I was. My body rejected it because I was playing volleyball. I used to play volleyball, and literally, I slid across the floor and it ripped out.

[C]

Ooh. Ooh, girl.

[B]

Oh, leg.

[A]

I had funky breath. A messed up belly button skin growing over my piercing. And then I had the nerve to be like, turn around and die. So night is turn around inside.

[B]

Nigga.

[A]

I was going through. And y'all over here trying to laugh at me. Yeah, we supposed to find. Bitch, I'm struggling. Sorry.

[C]

It was just you.

[A]

You whole.

[B]

It was just you.

[A]

God damn it.

[B]

I thought this was a safe space. No, bitch, no, it was not safe as you thought by yourself.

[C]

Bitch, what happened to you by yourself?

[B]

I don't know what you thought I was going through.

[C]

Oh, yeah, that was as to. No, bitch, you by your fucking self.

[B]

Your fucking tongue rings. Bitch, not ours. Word.

[A]

Had a little crust on it.

[B]

Little yeast around me.

[A]

Oh, my God.

[C]

Y. Funny. Okay, okay, okay.

[A]

What's up, y'all? It's your girl Lex P. And it's.

[B]

Your girl Dre Nicole.

[A]

And we have a very exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. Yes.

[B]

So we have a brand new show dropping. Y'all on Patreon. It's going to air on September 2nd, and it's called. Called Poor Chronicles. We gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bella, no shade. Where the hell could you go?

[A]

If you can't go to Bella Noche.

[B]

What the hell we gonna be doing? Talk to me. Chit chat with me. We gonna be spilling a little tea.

[A]

Oh, my God. No, you didn't. Oh, my God.

[B]

Everything y'all been wanting to see, we going to be doing it right here on Patreon.

[C]

Yes.

[A]

Y'all ask us for so much. Well, we f. To give it to y'all every single Monday. And it's gonna be a time y'all know Poor M has grown into its own little entity where we gonna have a lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September 2nd. It's going down. Now it's time to get into the bed.

[B]

How did we first, real quick, though. How did we start talking about stanking tongue rings? We supposed to be talking about being dumb in love. How do. How did we get there?

[C]

How did we jump from that today? Me being a social butterfly?

[A]

Yeah, we was talking about what you.

[B]

Said you had that tongue cream.

[A]

You said you got that tongue r. I was talking about how I eat big.

[B]

And then I said I did, too. And then Lex was like, I don't know, Mixologist.

[C]

Can I have another one, please?

[A]

Okay, so the topic. Go ahead, Dre. All right.

[B]

For the six topic, we want to talk about using lube. And does using lube mean your coochie Trash.

[C]

I'm gonna let Lex talk.

[A]

Y'all wanna embarrass me again?

[C]

Okay, I'm gonna stop. I'm so. I'm so stop. I'm gonna stop. Stop. So. Only because, listen. And I did not think this was a thing, and I'm being very transparent, okay? Even if you hold slap, I promise you I'm not gonna be mad.

[B]

We probably gonna laugh, though.

[A]

We laughing.

[C]

At least warm me up first. Fuck. I'm sorry. Warm me up, bitch. God.

[B]

I'm not gonna laugh.

[A]

We're not gonna live a series.

[C]

Okay.

[A]

Space.

[C]

So when I had my daughter in 2019, I. You fake me up. I got. In 2019, I got some health issues. I got diagnosed with epilepsy, adrenaline, a whole lot of. So I gotta take a whole lot of medication, right? So I don't have a normal period, right? So I was told by my doctor, by me, not Having a normal period. I. It may affect my wetness below. Right.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

Because they said the period, you know, cleanse your body.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

Right. Now, I don't know how true this is. All I know is I asked what's. What's going on? Like, I know I'm attracted to my. Right. I know I'm attracted to this. That, like, even when I masturbate, like, what's going on? And she was like, well, you haven't had a period in over a year. I'm like, okay, what the does that mean?

[A]

Right?

[C]

You know, So I had like a year where I had to use Louis because of.

[A]

I didn't start on the fire.

[C]

I didn't have a menstrual. And I was like a little, you know, And. And I had to. I had to.

[A]

Don't laugh.

[B]

Because. Why would you say that?

[A]

Because what was going on with her?

[C]

It was the truth.

[A]

Yes. I wasn't trying to be funny, but. So people will understand what she's saying.

[C]

Because I. Listen. I started joining groups to see what was going on. Is something wrong with my body? Do I. Am I just not attracted? Or is it.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Cause I'm. I used to be Ms. Wet. Like, thought you had that. What happened? So I went a year with like, some. Some dryness because of. A year. And listen, this year Lex won't last so bad. Listen. No, because I'm being honest.

[B]

Listen, remember that song by Bly, Miss Pretty Pussy?

[C]

I'm about to stop.

[A]

No, see, that's why I'm trying to make it relatable because she's really speaking to people, right?

[C]

You bitches ain't gotta relate. Somebody gonna relate to me. Cause I'm in a Facebook group that a lot of hoes relate.

[A]

Drop y'all drop Facebook.

[C]

We gotta drop pussy Facebook. Listen, it's not me no more, but I still stay in. In case I drop back into the arrow. But. Oh, wait.

[A]

But. Okay, let me tell you what was going on.

[C]

The Dr. State is because I don't have a minute. Menstrual.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

And that. That was the issue. And once I got my menstrual back, I felt like, well, maybe she was right, because now I'm back with.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

You know, and. But thing is, I was so happy that it happened in my relationship because what if I was out being free would be right. Like. Like, I'm. Like, I was commending my. Like, oh, thank you for thugging it with me doing this song.

[B]

Goodbye.

[A]

He had to.

[C]

To. We had to do so much to jump Start it like, oh my gosh. But that's.

[A]

But that's real though.

[C]

It was like 10, 10 months. It was a long. It was a long time ago.

[A]

Camping.

[C]

No, no, let's see.

[A]

I thought they was making s'mores.

[B]

Goodbye.

[C]

Listen, I'm glad I. I'm glad I had a.

[B]

That you said this was a space.

[C]

I'm. I'm glad. I'm glad I got a nigga that understood because.

[A]

Let's talk about it.

[B]

And I'm.

[C]

He made sure he got it. Well, he made sure he stayed wet. That's all that matter. That's all that matters. Super.

[A]

Keep a nigga. She don't got no problems with that coochie now, right?

[C]

It's just she. I'm just glad I had a problem. You glad I had a rough patch while I was in a relationship.

[A]

And that's what I'm saying. But honestly, I think we need to talk about that. Cause everybody wanna talk about, oh, I'm so wet. I got that gripper and I can't.

[C]

And I can't.

[A]

Not everybody has that.

[C]

Not everybody has that.

[A]

And it's okay. I think it's okay to use lube. I think it's okay to use lube. It depends what's going on, right?

[C]

Especially if it's a quickie. Right? Fast. Right quick.

[A]

You know, real quick. Or maybe he's a guy that wants to go two or three rounds and don't love me.

[B]

But she went through something though. Do y'all think dry coochie is hereditary? Like naturally? Cause some people dry when they young.

[C]

Listen me, listen, I'm asking, what do y'all think? Listen, me dealing with both sides of the fence.

[B]

Uh huh.

[C]

Some hoes be having dry cats.

[A]

What you mean both sides of the fence?

[C]

Both sides.

[B]

She been on both sides. Both sides.

[A]

You be eating coochie. Super.

[B]

No, she mean her coochie was wet.

[A]

Oh, I thought you meant you've dealt with ladies.

[C]

No, Lex was right, so that's right. So me dealing with women. Women be having dry cats at a very young age.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

So I think. I don't know if it's hereditary, but. But it made me think now in my 30s, maybe she has something going on. Like maybe she, you know, maybe she didn't have a menstrual or maybe something.

[B]

Right?

[C]

Or maybe she just wasn't really in it and she thought she was and she was testing it. I don't know, cuz I. Your cat get wet if you turned on? Correct?

[A]

Yeah. Right.

[C]

So maybe she Wasn't turned. I was looking at.

[A]

But honestly, with the vagina, the way the vagina works, if anything is inserting the vagina, it's a natural thing for your it to produce something and.

[B]

Well.

[C]

Yeah, well, in the inside. About wet pussy, is it be all outside?

[A]

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. If it's turned on, it's a little more, but it's a body's natural reaction to what he was over there laughing.

[B]

Kavi, what's funny?

[C]

How be freaky. Don't get you messing some dry pussy hoes. Exactly. I met a lot of dry pussy hoes.

[A]

No, but I had to get away.

[B]

Did you spit on it?

[C]

You gotta spit on it.

[A]

How am I spitting on that puss?

[C]

You gotta spit on it. How else is gonna get wet?

[B]

You gotta spit on it. Especially if you ain't got no lube.

[A]

But honestly, I feel like if a woman has a dry vagina, it probably is something medical. Medical, because like I said, it's the body's natural lubricating. And I'm not saying, like, when you're turned on, it's a different type of wet. It's a different type of wet. But when something inserts into the vagina, it's a natural. The body's natural reaction that Mac and.

[C]

Cheese is because something is insert. It's something that's penetrating it.

[A]

Right.

[C]

So even if they dry, they still may have a Mac and cheese. Because whole thing they got Mac and cheese that they pussy with. No, you just got a natural being wet on the outside.

[A]

Right?

[C]

Right.

[A]

So, bitch, do you still make Mac and cheese with spaghetti noodles?

[C]

It's a New Orleans thing. We got to. Oh, what you mean?

[A]

Cause I remember her cooking on yes, Bitch. Okay.

[C]

It's a New Orleans thing.

[A]

I don't like that.

[C]

Cause you from fucking South.

[B]

I'm used to. I'm used to Mac and cheese with spaghetti, but my family is from Louisiana too.

[A]

So is mine. I grew up. My auntie used to make. She made elbows with spaghetti, and I didn't.

[B]

She didn't even know where your family was from. From who?

[C]

From super. From Vaness.

[A]

It's f. Super. God damn it.

[C]

That's a Louisiana people make it with. We make it with spaghetti noodles. Some make it with elo, but a lot of us make it with spaghetti noodles.

[A]

I don't like that.

[C]

Why? It just like what it give you. What it give you?

[B]

It be you living like in Tetrazini.

[C]

Yes.

[A]

Chicken spaghetti with. No chicken is chicken spaghetti. You never had chicken Tetrazzini.

[C]

That sound like a jump park. Cetrazini. What the fuck is that?

[B]

It's basically. It's basically like. It's basically like a cheese, a cheesy Alfredo. And it has like peppers, chicken and chicken in it.

[C]

So it might. Jambalaya pasta, bitch.

[B]

Kinda. Yeah. But jambalaya don't got cheese in it though.

[A]

Jambalaya don't have cheese in it.

[C]

I said my jambalaya pie pasta.

[A]

What's your. What's in your Jumbalaya pasta?

[C]

You said you was following sausage. It's sausage chicken.

[A]

I named it. I already know I won sausage chicken.

[B]

You said one ingredient.

[A]

Salt. And that's enough.

[C]

Alfredo. And we mix it with red sauce, like diced tomatoes, marinara.

[A]

Okay. Okay.

[C]

Like with Alfredo. Basically.

[A]

Okay. Okay.

[B]

You gonna cook for us one day?

[C]

I am.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

I am.

[A]

I'm coming to your house.

[B]

Me coming?

[C]

Please.

[A]

I'm not kidding. So. So my friends, we are planning a trip in January to go to New Orleans.

[C]

Oh, really?

[A]

Well, my friend, it's my friends from high school.

[C]

Okay. What's in January?

[A]

We're just going to go. It's actually one of her daughter's birthday. So we're just all doing like a high school okay. Reunion. But I'm gonna sneak off and I'm going to y'all.

[C]

You should come at me.

[A]

I am. And you think I'm playing. I'm but like super.

[C]

No, but you really should. You really should. I'm y'all some jambalaya boss.

[B]

I'm coming, period.

[A]

We gonna.

[C]

I'm serious. Bitch don't play.

[B]

But real quick, though, don't come.

[C]

I'm not playing. I have the hookahs ready.

[B]

I'm ready for the hookah.

[C]

Gotcha.

[A]

You don't even smoke hookah.

[C]

Oh, you chilling my. You ain't about to waste no hookah in my house.

[A]

She don't smoke hookah. Neither one of us do.

[C]

Really.

[A]

We gave up hookah. I haven't smoked hookah in two years.

[B]

I haven't.

[A]

Bitch, you're on.

[C]

God.

[B]

I was. Two years is a strange.

[A]

I'll pull up the tweet right now. The last time I.

[B]

The tweet don't mean that you didn't smoke it after.

[A]

I never smoked. I didn't smoke hookah in Turkey. Works on my mother in two years.

[C]

Not a hookah pen either.

[A]

Nothing. I don't like it. It literally makes me sick.

[B]

Well, I haven't smoked it in almost a year. Way before.

[C]

What about nine? Nicotine hookah.

[A]

But you Know what it is?

[C]

If it's making you sick, you gotta try the black smoke.

[A]

Then I think for me, yeah, people.

[B]

Be talking good about that.

[C]

What if it's making you sick?

[A]

Oh, that's the one that Tamar was singing on.

[C]

Yeah. A black smoke one make you sick.

[A]

I don't do hookah. I haven't smok. H. It's been two years. I haven't smok.

[B]

I haven't smoked hookah in like almost a year. But no, I was that. It is a long time. But I didn't used to like the way it would make me feel the next morning. I didn't like the way my.

[C]

That's why you hoes need black smoke.

[A]

And it.

[B]

You be smoking black smoke. Yeah, you could put that in your hookah.

[C]

Yes, he sell. He sell the hookah pins and the shisha too. I don't. I don't smoke. I don't smoke with nicotine.

[B]

I ain't need to try that.

[C]

I need not nicot.

[A]

I don't want to walk in tub smelling like watermelon mint. I got my perfume on. I get you. I get you. You know what I'm saying? I need to smell good.

[C]

Well, this one is all fruit, so you can smell like fruit, bitch. Your perfume got fruit in the hole. Don't act like that, bitch. You gonna try this black smoke? No, you come by me put.

[B]

You gonna fucking smoke Orleans too.

[C]

You come by me, you gonna try some black smoke. You're not gonna have a headache. You're not gonna be feel thick.

[A]

But you know what? It's not even. I fried. Super smoke is not supposed to be in your lungs. Lungs.

[C]

Well, say that. Well, start with that. Okay, start with that. Don't start with the, the, the. The. The fruit and all that stuff with that, okay? I would have been shut up then.

[B]

You should have said that first.

[C]

Okay, But I get that you don't.

[A]

Want somebody around the time I had stopped smoking hookah, though, I was really sick and I didn't know what it was.

[C]

Got you.

[A]

I had low iron, okay? So literally I would like walk to the shower. And I couldn't breathe. So I was like, is it the hookah? I didn't know what it was. Cause I had gotten really, really fucking sick. So that's what really made me stop smoking it. But it was just like, okay, I'm not smoking it no more. Gotcha now. Me being sick had nothing to do with the hookah.

[C]

I'm gonna support your. You know, I don't do it.

[A]

You know What?

[C]

I don't wanna push nothing, but at.

[A]

This point, it's nothing to support. It's just like how some people are just vegans or they don't eat something. It's not like.

[C]

Yeah, but imagine you saying you vegan. I said, bitch, try to support y'all.

[A]

I'm gonna try it.

[C]

Being vegan at home.

[B]

A little pork chop ain't never hurting.

[A]

A little pork chop ain't never hurt nobody.

[B]

Little black smoke ain't never hurt nobody.

[C]

Exactly, bitch. Smoke ain't hurt nobody.

[B]

No. So, y'all, this is the question that I had because me and Lex had a conversation about these years ago on the show. We was like, if. Yo, if we was talking about squirting. And we was like, if you squirt, it's your granny fold. It's your who fault your granny.

[A]

Squirting is hereditary.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Is it?

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

Yeah. Honestly, that's why we said that's why.

[A]

They used to have the plastic on the sofa.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Oh, you're not.

[B]

Think about it.

[C]

No, no, hold up now. Granny had that.

[B]

You think about all them.

[C]

Granny had.

[A]

Granny.

[C]

Don't put it. My grandma. My grandma had it on there because she didn't want y'all nasty ass hopping on her with y'all.

[A]

Granny super has got super Soaker.

[C]

Or your grandma had all them kids cuz she wasn't sucking dick. That's why your grandma had all them children Think about.

[A]

What's up, y'all? It's your girl xp, and it's your.

[B]

Girl Dre and Nicole.

[A]

And y'all do not forget to call our shotline. I know you've heard of a hotline, but this is the poor mind's shotline.

[B]

Yeah, we love to hear from y'all. Y'all need to call in y'all, and this is not necessarily for questions. You know, we just want to hear from y'all. Like we want to know y'all feedback, y'all thoughts on the show, or just what's going on in your life. So you. You can always call 678-827182C.

[A]

Yes. And y'all know, keep it short and cute. Don't be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy, sister, brother, cousin, boyfriend.

[B]

Okay, well, I wanna hear about that, actually.

[A]

Well, you know, they can let a little something. But you know, we wanna keep it cute and short like she said. This is not questions. This is not pour your heart out. So just call, give us a little feedback. What you wanna see on the show? Any suggestions? What you Think about the show. If you just wanna simply give us our flowers, you know, or any. It could be anything. What's bothering you this week? What got on your nerves this week? If you just want to vent and get some things off your chest, call the shot line again. The number is 678-827-1826. Okay, so real quick. I wanna shout out. I just got my hair done yesterday. I wanna shout out Crowns of Love on the bundles. I went to Richlook Hair. She installed it. So y'all know we love a good little one, too. So make sure y'all check out Crowns of Love stuff. Get your bundles and get your hair done.

[B]

Yes, and I need to shout out Muse, too, because I meant to. Girl, I had a long night last night, but I meant to bring.

[C]

She was doing.

[A]

Wobbling up. You come out.

[C]

No, you come out.

[B]

I had a long. I had a long night last night. I had every intention on bringing you some of my cosmetics line because I have a lip gloss line now.

[C]

Why the would you not bring me?

[B]

But I'ma send it to you, the queen. I need to get your mail. Yeah, send it to me. I'm gonna send you mine. I'm gonna get your mailing.

[A]

No, actually, I'll drop it off. I'll hand deliver it. Cause I'm going to her house and.

[B]

Well, I'm gonna probably send it before.

[C]

Taking some black smoke.

[B]

I'ma come smoke that black smoke.

[C]

Exactly.

[B]

I am. It ain't got no nicotine.

[A]

Not no nicotine.

[C]

No tobacco.

[B]

Really?

[C]

No tobacco.

[B]

It just tastes like fruit.

[C]

Fruit. It tastes like real fruit.

[B]

I'mma try that.

[A]

Okay, so what?

[B]

No. Yeah, I'mma send you some. Some muse, though. I'mma send you.

[A]

Okay, so real quick, because I. I feel like when you. I just want to ask this before we move on, because there's a lot of makeup people who are doing makeup right now. They have cosmetics lines. Dre has a cosmetic line, and there's so many right now. So what advice could you give to, like, Dre or anybody else out there that has a cosmetic line? Like, what advice you have for, like, marketing? How to stick out and be successful, especially in 2024.

[C]

Right. So marketing. You definitely got to build you a community. Community with the marketing. I think that's the best thing we could have done with the crown case when we built the community. Like, I don't know how many followers you're. But you already have poor minds, so that's. That's big.

[B]

Yeah, right? Yeah.

[C]

So when you build a community you gotta, you gotta work with them under them underdogs be so ready like they be. So they just be ready to work.

[B]

That's a smaller influence.

[C]

Smaller influence. Like they ain't got no more than 10000 followers. You got more followers than them already. So what you could give them is, is marketing exposure and products. Free products. That's what you can get them off the bank. And that's all, that's all they want. They want to be seen, they want to be heard. And they want, they. They conscious to be appreciated. So when they give you content like you, you don't got time to do your makeup every day. You don't have the time. But if you build your community, I know. What's your brand called?

[B]

Muse. Muse. Beauty.

[A]

Music.

[C]

Beauty. Okay. So you got to come up with something for your community.

[A]

Why you like you.

[C]

You gotta come up with a name for them. I don't know. Music, I don't know something. Come up with a name for them.

[A]

The Squabblers.

[C]

The squad. Let's say you, let's say you call them the Squabblers, right?

[B]

No, let's not say that.

[C]

Okay. The Muse problem. Let's say, just speaking off, off the top, you call them that and then you send them free products and they got like 5, 000 followers. And then all they want to do is do a video using your products and then you post them. So you have the most. You have more followers than ever, ever last one of them. But then when you market them, you give them free products and you are giving them exposures to other brands because other makeup brands follow you. Don't think they don't. They do. They watching you. They're keeping up with you. You're gonna notice when you start a community and then these bigger brands start stealing your community. That's when you're gonna notice it. Right? And that's the best way to market without you really coming out your pocket. The most you put out your pocket with is your product, products.

[A]

Right.

[C]

And that works so well. I already had the big following. I came out with the crown communities. I worked with micro influencers. They was hungry. Like they was tired of being overlooked by big brands because they didn't have the following. I had the following, they didn't. So I market them to other brands because I knew a lot of makeup brands was following me. Same with you. You got a big podcast, you got a lot going on and you're marketing some people who have never seen them, never hurting them. And that's all they want. They just want to be seen and recognized. So build your community. Send them products. They're gonna give you all the content in the world. They're gonna be loyal to. They're gonna send you all the content. And now you got nothing but kinds of posts for weeks, months. It's not enough content you could do. Yeah, you don't got enough time to be in the studio, add no doing no photos. You don't got enough time to do that. You got your podcast. You got too much going on. You go trying to be an essence. You got too much going on for you to be at a damn studio trying to do product photos. They got girls that's gonna do product photos for you. You. Because they want to get reposted every day.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

So you find people like that and you build that community. You give them a name just so. Because they love feeling a part of something. They love being a part of the community and market and don't, don't care about the, the bigger brands. The bigger brand they're going to steal. But the thing is they're going to be more micro influences every day a new micro influence is born. So once that, once you create that influence and they become bigger and they move on to a bigger brand, okay, boom, you got another one that got 5,000 followers. It never, the cycle never ends.

[B]

Keep your focus on the micro influencers.

[C]

Cater to the micro influencers. They'll, they're, they're, they're going to be the ones that's going to cater to you. They're going to love you because you are, you see them, you see them like you know what they're doing, like you know what they're trying to do. They're trying to get big, they're trying to, trying to work a brand is big in your brand and don't feel played by that. That's okay. Yeah, they'll have another small influence is going to work on me too. So build your community.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

That's, that's the main thing. That's really good advice.

[B]

I never thought about that because I think even when I think about getting brand ambassadors and stuff, because I was just talking to my social media manager about that earlier this week and I was just like, I think, you know, 2025, I really want to focus on trying to get brand ambassadors, but we're thinking about all of these like big people that I should start sending products in PR boxes too. Yeah.

[C]

Unless they gonna take the PR box and, and shout out for free. But they're gonna charge you $50,000?

[A]

Because that's what they be charging.

[C]

Yeah, I worked. I worked with a few of them. I. I don't see how they do it.

[A]

Like.

[B]

But did you feel like when you did work with them, you got a big influx of orders? No. That's crazy.

[C]

And that's. And that's my. I'm not saying that's gonna be yours. No, Right. It's my experience. My experience, I think, because I already created the crown case because of who I am. I. I was the first influencer. I was the first big influence on the CR case. So if I wouldn't work with an influencer that was bigger than me, it didn't matter. I'm already that girl.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Like, I. I've worked with a lot of influen influences with the crown case, but the bigger they were, the less I profited from them.

[B]

I feel you on that, though, because I was just. Because, you know, Black Friday Cyber Monday just passed not that long ago, and I made a lot of money from Black Friday and Cyber Monday, but it was. I didn't even do, like, no real promotion.

[A]

Right.

[B]

Like, it literally was from the ad that we inserted in the show. Me get the. The podcast. Me getting on live every day. Day for the whole four days.

[C]

You stole it yourself.

[B]

Yeah, basically. Right. That's what I'm saying.

[C]

Which means you. You are your first influencer. Yeah, that's. That's what I'm saying. Like, so imagine if you go work with somebody that's that you. You feel like in your mind is bigger than you because they have more followers. They're on the blogs more. They got a lot more going on. And then when you post them. But your followers. I want to see dra. I. I want to see that drill. I want to see this drill.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

You know, so, like, that's how they look at it. Like, you could. You could work with whatever. Like, it. It. It's more of a flex than I'm making money from it.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

So if you want the look, cool. Do it for the look. But if you're doing it for the money. No.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

Work with them. Micro influencers. They bringing the most money. They're bringing the most.

[B]

So what's next for you with Crayon Case? Like, what do you want to do next?

[C]

So we dropping more products.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

I. I stopped launching new products after I launched my last product line. It was the. The News of the World collection. That was, like, two years ago, I think. So now I'm about to really, like, stay. I Used to come out with products every month.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Like it was non stop coming our products and I stopped it because I'm like, well maybe I'm. Maybe I'm dropping too soon. Maybe I'm dropping too much. I thought that was the bad thing, but really that was the good thing cuz I was on top of new.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

So I stopped that for like these past three years. I probably only dropped a, a new product like twice.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

Years like I dropped a whole collection and then before that I dropped two products. So I only dropped like eight products in three years. And that's, that's wild for me. I used to drop yeah. 10 products in, in a few months. So next I'm going back to the basic what I was doing before that worked for me. Instead of me trying to drift off into something new, I'm gonna go back to what I was doing. I'm gonna go back to my crown cuties. I'm gonna go back to my me dropping non stop products and still and see if that's going to continue to work for me. Like we have dry foundations, we have to drop new. So I'm gonna just see the work.

[B]

To me, I think foundations would be dope. People always be asking me that. They be like, will you eventually want to come out with foundation and stuff? And I always be like, yeah, I do.

[C]

But it's hard. It is foundation hard because they don't understand it.

[B]

Yeah, it is. Because I feel like you really got to come up with like a good formula. You don't want to, you don't want people putting on their face. It's gonna break them out and you.

[C]

Gotta get ridiculed if you don't come out with enough shades.

[B]

Yeah. Then you gotta make. It's just hard. Do you, do you eventually want to get into like stores like Sephora, Ulta?

[C]

I was in Walmart. I'm on Amazon.

[A]

Okay.

[C]

So Walmart was cool. Probably probably one of my biggest downfalls in business. Wow. Girl. I think once you hop in stores, you got to be ready for stores. And if you're not ready, it's gonna, it's gonna.

[B]

You like as far as what? Like keeping it stocked, keeping it in stock.

[C]

Like why might they order when they want. They order.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Walmart said I want, want 10,000 pallets. They want 10,000 pallets. If you don't give them 10,000 pallets, they're gonna penalize you. So you got to pay them for not giving them 10,000 pallets. So now and be my. By me being a Self funded business. I don't have no investors. I'm not. I'm the soul. This is my money inside my business.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

So now I gotta fund Walmart. I gotta fund me. So I gotta keep Walmart in stock and me and stop. But I ain't got enough money.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

I mean, not having investors. I think, I think the black community made investors look so bad for black businesses. And that's not what it is. Like we should be seeking investors. We should be looking for. We should not be spending our own money on our businesses.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

White folks don't do it.

[B]

No. They use other people money.

[C]

Yeah. White folks ain't. They're not about to drop a dime with their money on their business. They walking in like, I need your money. I need your money and your money. And once I get your money. Cool. Then I'm gonna start the business. Like, they're not spending their own money. And I feel like the black community, like, soon as a black business get an investor, soon the black. As soon as the black business sell a company, they looked at like, oh, you gotta sell out. No big. I'm scaling, I'm trying to do more. I was, I'm trying to get bigger.

[B]

Yes.

[C]

I'm trying to get in rooms I'm not in.

[B]

I'm telling you, literally, our social media manager, she in here right now. Me and her was just having this conversation the other day. I was like 20, 25. My goal is to like gain more capital outside of my money so that I can really scale the business for real and really have more money to invest, have more money to pay brand ambassadors.

[C]

Not how far can you go can.

[B]

Buy way more inventory. Because it's like how far can you go when you really just funded it by yourself the whole time.

[C]

Exactly.

[B]

But then like you said, people will look at you like you'll sell out. If you sell to Sephora or you sell to Ulta. Are you sell to any of these, like bigger brands? They be looking at you like you would sell out. But it's like people really don't understand how much it takes to really run a business.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Scale it.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

And to fund it.

[C]

Yes.

[B]

If you don't have no help, you.

[C]

Basically every, every dime you make, if you don't put it back into your brand, you're not making no money.

[B]

Yep.

[C]

Because now if I made, if, if you made a hundred thousand dollars for Black Friday, you got to put all that back into your brand.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

But you can't pay people.

[B]

Oh, you made a hundred thousand dollars.

[C]

Oh, That's.

[B]

Oh, that's.

[C]

No, I gotta put it back into my brain. How the I'm gonna make money?

[B]

Exactly.

[C]

I gotta put all this back into my brain because if I bought a thousand of these products, now I gotta buy 3,000. So I got to put this back into my business to buy 3000.

[B]

Cuz now it's way more people watching. It's way more people buying. I have more inventory. Y.

[C]

So you. No, I didn't make $1,000. The business did.

[B]

Y.

[C]

And now I got to put that back into the business. And I feel like entrepreneur would never. A person that's not entrepreneur would never understand that. So they're the ones that's judging entrepreneurs, saying, oh, you, you this and you that. You sold out or you dislike. I'm doing this by myself. I ain't got no investors. I don't got no. I don't got nobody. It's just me. Even you got employees. The. The money's part is just you. The capital is just you.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

If you only putting your own money into it. Like I didn't. Once you get an investor, the Crown case made 50 million. 50 million. $50 million.

[B]

That's amazing.

[C]

Yes. But I. I did. I did all I could do.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

I put all I put on my whole foot.

[B]

If you're trying to scale it to a billion dollars, you need investment, I need investors. Yeah.

[C]

I cannot. I. I have nothing else to give you.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

I didn't give my business my whole ass. Now I need something more.

[B]

But you won't give that man. Never mind.

[C]

What? What?

[A]

You won't get that man. That swabble up. She said it. Okay, okay, okay. That was if I could ride like.

[C]

You, I would, but I can't. So, you know, eventually.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

It wasn't like that it the first time.

[A]

I think you act like a warrior heart out stupid. Do you give a good advice? Obviously you give good advice, cuz you.

[C]

Just gave some great advice.

[A]

What's up, y'all? It's your girl xp.

[B]

And it's your girl Dre Nicole.

[A]

Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called item of the week, but do you have a product or something that you want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds, your opportunity is here, period.

[B]

If you have a item or you have a business and you want to get it promoted, we are now having slots available on the Poor Mine episode. So if you would like to get your product featured for item of the week, all you need to do is send an email to Item of the week. PM dot com. That's it. W E E K. PM dot com. Send us an email and we'll work it out. We going to figure it out. Get your product, get your business sponsored and yeah, make you some money.

[A]

We love to support a small business.

[B]

Now in a black business at that. But I mean, we don't discriminate. Any business is welcome.

[A]

Go into the Pour your heart out segment.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Okay, so we're gonna read a letter. Dre, you can read yours. We got enough time for one.

[C]

I love poor my heart, so we're gonna read it.

[A]

If you want your question answered on the show, send us an email at. If you're a Patreon member, put that in the title.

[C]

Out. I like that. Pour your heart out. P R. P O U R. As I say, P R. I love that.

[A]

All right, go ahead, Dre.

[B]

This one message.

[C]

That's a long message. We not reading that.

[A]

We only going to do one. We only going to do one.

[B]

This is a essay. Oh, Shay said this one.

[A]

Okay, so read that one. Read that.

[B]

Okay, I'm going read this.

[C]

Yeah, yeah. These fools.

[A]

Why? Why?

[C]

Why they so long?

[B]

I don't know.

[A]

We be telling them and they don't listen.

[B]

They don't listen. Okay, minimum. Okay. They said hi. Ladies first. I want to thank y'all for creating such an honest and open platform speaking on real life relatable things. I will forever give y'all y'all flowers for that. Okay, I'm going to try to make this as short as possible.

[C]

Please go, my ass.

[B]

Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six months now, and things are starting to get super serious. He is literally the guy I've always dreamed of and wanted. Now here's the kicker. He has a son, and the mother of his son and I went to middle school together. We were cool and hung out in school sometimes. I've known both of them for about the same amount of time, but I was always closer to him. However, we never dated or anything like that back then. Fast forward six years after graduating, he and I started hanging out, keeping in touch, and eventually really hit it off. Off. We've been together ever since. Nobody really knows about us because we're super private. But I told him I think his baby's mother should know since I'm around their son alike. His son is six years old, going on seven, so they had him pretty young. When he explained to her that we're in a serious relationship, she was very upset. She feels like I owe her loyalty because we were once friends in school. She also mentioned how we're acting like we've been friends this whole time, which isn't true. School. I haven't really spoken to her since before graduating, and it wasn't like we were besties. Now that she's trying to stop him from seeing his son because she doesn't want me around their child. I know how much he cherishes being a dad, and I don't want to come between that. I've been thinking about walking away from the relationship for the sake of him and his son. He doesn't want to end things with me and is willing to take her to court if she doesn't let go soon. But I don't want to be the cause of all this drama to stop him from being an active father. Honestly, in this case, what would y'all do? Sorry. Sorry. I tried to keep it short. I just wanted to give details.

[C]

He gonna deal with that again. That's somebody else.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

So exactly. Stand outside that because he's going to deal with that with someone. She gonna find another issue. Something. Oh, I. I don't like the way I saw you on live. You was driving all crazy. I don't want to run my children. No. So he need to set that boundary asap. If y'all. Y'all was. How many hoes you was cool when in school, spoke to, probably took pictures with that was it people right now.

[B]

That be like, I was cool with Dre in school. I be like, were we?

[C]

Girl? I don't know you like that. I never been in your house. You never been to mines. I don't know your mama name. I don't know your birthday. You don't know mine.

[B]

I don't know your last name.

[C]

How are we friends? How we not friends? Like, they love to claim that friend call when. When the nigga involved.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

I'm not your friend. He gonna deal with that again down the line. You need to set that straight now. And you need to stand on side him. Why? He said that? Street, don't, don't, don't give your back.

[B]

But you know what's crazy, though? She said that in a message. She said she feel like I owe her loyalty because we were friends in school. But then she was like. She also mentioned how we're acting like we've always been friends this whole time.

[C]

She did flip it. I noticed that.

[B]

But so which one is it? Were we not friends, or are we friends? If you feel like.

[C]

Oh, flipping it because the girls put it in her mind though, she could be flipping because the girl put in her mind or she could feel like there was friends. But if they haven't talked since graduation. Yeah, I mean how old are they? Cuz if they 20, I don't see.

[B]

Yeah, she didn't say. But she said that they had they.

[C]

Son young so that means.

[B]

She said that the son is six going on seven. But they had him really young, so.

[C]

That mean what he had missed. I mean like 20, 25, 26.

[A]

I feel like the bigger lesson is for him to set them boundaries. He doesn't realize that even if he's.

[C]

Not with you, once you came, the.

[A]

Woman he gonna deal with afterwards, she gonna find a problem with her.

[C]

Yes.

[A]

She needs to heal and move on until he's gonna have a healthy relationship.

[C]

Agreed.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Like she can't run his love life.

[A]

And there's nothing that the girlfriend can do. Like you're the girlfriend. Don't stress yourself out. He's gonna have to do what he needs to do. So don't just stress yourself out because if you feel like you're over exerting yourself and.

[C]

Yeah.

[A]

Don't do that. It.

[C]

I agree. Like take yourself out of it and let him. Let him. I wouldn't remove myself on purpose.

[A]

Right, right.

[C]

He has to tell me, well I'm just gonna do this and then. Okay, cool, I get it. I'm telling you a but cool, I get it. But I'm not, I'm not gonna remove myself. Yeah, but he gonna deal with that again.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Once you bow down to your baby mama the first time, you gotta keep bombing down.

[B]

Like I definitely think baby mamas be pulling that car.

[C]

Oh do they? Baby mama's a superior real for sure.

[B]

You used to do that.

[C]

No. What the girl? First of all, my baby dad wouldn't let me. That's first cuz I had babies with.

[B]

Even your first one? Cuz you ain't your first kid.

[C]

Even my first. No 21 was young. But yeah, but I, but he, he set the tone fat. I, I, I didn't have to be that way with him cuz it's, it's no once we broke up, we broke up. It was done. Like I, like I said new me please. I move on. I get the on like I, I, I never double back on baby dad. It was done. So I respect my children father as the same, the same amount of superiority I have. You have too. I'm not gonna feel like oh well I carried them and I did this and I. 9, 29 hours no like, no like whatever you say. If you say this is not right for my child, I have to respect you because you're a parent. All women are not like that. Some women feel like they have more. They're more superior because they're the mom they carry. Yeah, they carry the baby. So I feel like. And, and men, when once a man bowed down on the first time. It don't end. It don't end. Girl, if men don't take these to court, it's. It don't end.

[B]

You think court is always like a.

[C]

Woman would take a man to court? In a heartbeat. Yeah, a man should too. If you really care about your child, show me. Spend your money, spend your bag by get your lawyer and take the whole to court. If not, then we're just gonna bow down to what she say.

[B]

No, like you got to do if it's not. No.

[C]

A woman should not run her baby daddy love life solely based off of because. Oh, you don't like something you seen. Like, no like especially if it's something petty.

[B]

It also be just cuz they don't want to move on.

[C]

I mean and that's a little, that's a little more in depth like the girl. It sound like it was really friends, so.

[B]

Well, no, she said that they would.

[C]

She said two things. She said we was friends and then she said, she said I owe her loyalty because we was friends. Then she said we weren't friends like that.

[B]

She said when they was in high school, they knew each other, they would hang out like a few times. She was like they wasn't friends like that.

[C]

And you ain't been in my mama house.

[B]

I agree.

[C]

If I don't know your birthday, I don't. I barely know your middle name. Like we not friends. Social media lets you throw that friend. Call it out so fast like, oh, like hey, just because I call you friend right now. We're not friends. Come on.

[B]

No, we just, we just met.

[C]

If I find you for one of my ex men, I'm not about to fight you.

[B]

Yeah, we not friends.

[C]

Like I feel like social media let that friend word go so loose. Like I, I've never been in your house. You've never been to mine. You invite me to none of your birthday parties. So how the I'm your friend? I ain't been none of your birthdays since high school. How the I'm your friend. Why the you invite me to your crab ball? Cuz I'm not your friend. Act like that was your baby dad. Your baby dad is the same thing. I'm not your friend.

[A]

Yeah, I agree.

[C]

I agree.

[B]

Once it'd be a different.

[C]

Always different a rule when it comes to them. That's my. I'm not coming up off them.

[A]

So super. Let the girls know where they can find you. Follow you. All that good stuff that you got.

[C]

Coming up, you can find me on, girl. They. They deleted my main picture.

[A]

I know. That's why I said you got a new one, everyone.

[B]

You gonna get it back, though.

[C]

I know I am. So right now, I'm on. You can still type in super S. You can still type in super S. And it's gonna pop up, period.

[A]

It's a brand.

[C]

It's still gonna pop up. Type of super send gonna pop up. I'm on Tik Tok. Everything else. Everywhere else is Wazam super, though, okay? People saying it's literally only on Instagram.

[A]

Only on Instagram.

[C]

Everywhere else is Wazam Super. W Z Z a m Super. Even on YouTube, it's with Zam.

[A]

This was h. Look, we had a ball today.

[C]

This was. Everything happened with y'all. I like y'all. Y.

[A]

So fun when you hoes come to New Orleans. No, I'm serious. I'm so. Don't act funny, please.

[B]

And I'm about to.

[C]

I'm not. I was getting it out. You smoking black smoke. And bring your makeup.

[A]

Bring the makeup.

[C]

No, you're not going to send.

[B]

I want you to spaghetti macaroni. Shay. Shay gonna make sure I send it.

[C]

Shay make sure she send. Okay? And I'mma make sure Alice send my. My girl.

[A]

And we'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all. Make sure y'all share the content. Like subscribe, follow all that good stuff. And let me say this before we close out y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to Poor Minds. It's P o u r underscore M I n d s. Y'all are tagging the wrong Poor Minds page. If you see at Poor Minds with no underscore, that is a fake page. Do not follow that page. Okay? They blocked me, Andrea and the Poor M page on both. So we only have 1 Instagram 1. 1 Twitter 1 tick tock. It is P o u r underscore M I n d S. All right?

[B]

And we got hella fake Facebook pages.

[A]

Oh, the Facebook pages.

[B]

Our face. The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of followers.

[A]

So if you on Facebook, the one that's ours got the least amount of followers.

[B]

The one that's not us. Got like 250,000 followers.

[A]

Fake. If you actually look at the content because the caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English. Because their captions are like, bamba Cl. Should men. Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes. No check answer below.

[B]

Blah blah. Like, that's literally what the captions are.

[A]

I like what that DDG Bumba Claude.

[B]

Bumba Claude.

[A]

Okay. We Our name is the. The Squabblers.

[C]

The Squabbler.

[A]

Super. And the Squabbler. Welcome. And the Squabblers. Oh, we finna talk. You ready?

[C]

I'm ready. I've been thinking about you for quite a while you're on my mind every day and every night my ex every thought is you the things you do is so satisfying to me I must confess it girl oo when I like it you send chills up my spine Every time I take one look at you and how like it yeah girl you blowing my mind with the things you say to me I like the way you call me here I like.

[A]

Those stylish clothes your way it's just.

[C]

The little things you do that show how much I really care like when I'm all alone with you you know exactly what to do you put that fire inside of me and make it more than just a dream ooh who in high like yeah you see every time I look at you she got them socks on and she lies.

[B]

I'm.

[A]

Super, I'm super going to get my hotel keys.

[C]

Shout out to so by.

[B]

Out I'll see y'all next week she.

[A]

I'm crying I can't stand with them socks on hey a great but that's my jam bitch you jugging in them.

[C]

Socks exactly how I be going to get my sliding all across the hotel floor she see let me hit it.

[A]

One more time I be sliding out.

[C]

Across the hotel floor my signature my problem.