
When we talk online, things can go south fast. But they don’t have to. Today, we meet a group of social engineers who are convinced that tiny changes in wording can make the online world a kinder, gentler place. So long as we agree to be their lab rats. Ok, yeah, we’re talking about Facebook. Because Facebook, or something like it, is more and more the way we share and like, and gossip and gripe. And because it's so big, Facebook has a created a laboratory of human behavior the likes of which we’ve never seen. We peek into the work of Arturo Bejar and a team of researchers who are tweaking our online experience, bit by bit, to try to make the world a better place. And along the way we can’t help but wonder whether that’s possible, or even a good idea.
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Kate Crawford
Okay.
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Arturo Bejar
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Robert Krulwich
I'm Robert Krulwich.
Jad Abumrad
This is Radiolab, the podcast. So here's a story we've been following for a while.
Robert Krulwich
Yes.
Jad Abumrad
Comes from a friend of mine, Andrew Zolli, who is a great thinker and writer. He wrote a book called why Things Bounce Back, and he's a guy who thinks a lot about technology.
Andrew Zolli
I have been interested for a long time in the relationship between technology, technology and emotion because, well, I've thrown more than one cell phone to the ground.
Jad Abumrad
Andrew and I were having breakfast one day, and he pitched me on this idea of doing a story about Facebook. I'm not a huge believer in doing stories about Facebook, but this story was wickedly interesting and profound in its way. So he and I have been following it for a couple years, up and down through this roller coaster of events. It really begins in 2011.
Andrew Zolli
Well, let me back up for a minute. One of the challenges talking about Facebook is just the scale of the thing. So, you know, there's 1.3 billion people on Earth as of March 2014. Those are active monthly users. There's a billion people who access the site through mobile devices. Just to put that in perspective, there's more Facebook users than there are Catholics.
Jad Abumrad
That can't be true. Yeah, no, yeah, it turns out it is true, but they're neck and neck anyhow. The overall point is that when you have one out of every seven people on the planet in the same space trying to connect across time and geography.
Andrew Zolli
You are bound to create problems sometimes.
Jad Abumrad
Facebook making headlines again tonight. The issue this time, privacy. Before we go there, we should introduce you to the guy in our story who is the problem solver.
Arturo Bejar
My name is Arturo Bejar, and I'm a director of engineering at Facebook.
Jad Abumrad
Story begins Christmas 2011.
Andrew Zolli
People are doing what they do every holiday season. They're getting back together with their families, and they're going to family parties, and they're taking lots and lots of pictures, and they're all uploading them to Facebook.
Arturo Bejar
And at the time, the number of photos that were getting uploaded was going pretty crazy.
Jad Abumrad
In fact, in just those few days between Christmas and New Year's, there are.
Andrew Zolli
More images uploaded to Facebook than there.
Arturo Bejar
Were the entirety of Flickr.
Jad Abumrad
Wait, you're saying more images were uploaded in a week to Facebook than all of Flickr? All time, yeah.
Arturo Bejar
Whoa.
Jad Abumrad
Which created a situation.
Arturo Bejar
The number of photos was going up, and along with the number of photos going up, the number of reports was going up.
Andrew Zolli
What he means by reports is this.
Jad Abumrad
Back in 2011, if you saw something.
Andrew Zolli
On Facebook that really upset you, you could click a button to report it.
Jad Abumrad
You could tell Facebook to take it down, which, from their perspective, is a really important mechanism, because if you're Facebook, you don't want certain kinds of content on your site.
Arturo Bejar
You don't want nudity. You don't want, like, drug use, hate speech, things like that.
Andrew Zolli
So a day or so after Christmas, thereabout, engineers come back to work, and they find waiting for them, literally millions of photo reports.
Arturo Bejar
Yes. The number of people that would be necessary to review everything that was coming in. It kind of boggled the mind.
Jad Abumrad
How many people would you have needed?
Arturo Bejar
I think at the time we were looking at it, which is two years ago. And again, all this has grown much since then. We're looking at, like, thousands.
Jad Abumrad
Thousands. Like some giant facility in Nevada filled with nothing but humans looking at Christmas porn. We were actually joking about this, but we found out later there actually are thousands of people across the world who do this for Internet companies all day long, which clearly warrants its own show. But for Our purposes just know that when a photo is reported, a human being has to look at it exactly right.
Arturo Bejar
Because there needs to be a judgment on the image. And humans are the best at that.
Andrew Zolli
So Arturo decided, before we do do anything, let's just figure out what we're dealing with.
Arturo Bejar
And so we sat down with a team of people and we started going through the photos that people were reporting.
Jad Abumrad
And what they found was that about 97% of these million or so photo reports were drastically miscategorized. They were seeing moms holding little babies.
Arturo Bejar
Reported for harassment, Pictures of families in matching Christmas sweaters reported for nudity, pictures of puppies reported for hate speech.
Jad Abumrad
Puppies reported as hate speech.
Arturo Bejar
Yes. And we're like, what's going on? Right.
Andrew Zolli
Hmm.
Jad Abumrad
So they decide, let's investigate.
Andrew Zolli
Okay, so step one for Facebook. Just ask a few of these people.
Arturo Bejar
Why don't you like this photo?
Andrew Zolli
Why did you report this?
Jad Abumrad
Responses come back and the first thing they realize is that almost always the person complaining about the image was in.
Andrew Zolli
The image they were complaining about, and.
Jad Abumrad
They just hate the picture. Like, maybe they were doing a goofy dance. Someone snapped a photo and they're like, why did you post that?
Andrew Zolli
Take it down.
Jad Abumrad
Maybe they were at a party, they.
Andrew Zolli
Got a little too drunk, they hooked up with their ex, Somebody took a picture and that person says, oh, you know, that's a one time thing that's never happening again. Take it down.
Jad Abumrad
Arturo said, there were definitely a lot of reports from people who used to.
Arturo Bejar
Be couples, and then they broke up and then they're asking to take the photos down.
Jad Abumrad
And the puppy, what would be the reason for that?
Arturo Bejar
Oh, because it was maybe a shared puppy.
Jad Abumrad
You know, maybe it's your ex wife's puppy. You see, it makes you sad.
Andrew Zolli
Take it down.
Arturo Bejar
So once we've begun investigating, you find that there's all of this relationship things that happen that are, like, really complicated.
Andrew Zolli
You're talking about stuff that's the kind of natural detritus of human dramas.
Jad Abumrad
And the only reason that the person reporting it flagged it as like, hate speech is because that was one of the only options.
Andrew Zolli
They were just picking because they needed to get to the next screen to submit the report.
Arturo Bejar
So we added a step.
Andrew Zolli
Artur and his team set it up so that when people were choosing that.
Arturo Bejar
Option, I want this photo to be removed from Facebook, some of them would.
Andrew Zolli
See a little box on the screen.
Arturo Bejar
That said, how does a photo make you feel?
Andrew Zolli
And the box gave several choices.
Arturo Bejar
The options were embarrassing, embarrassing, saddening, upsetting. Bad photo. And then we always put in an.
Andrew Zolli
Other where you could write in whatever you wanted about the image.
Arturo Bejar
And it worked incredibly well. I mean, like, 50% of people would.
Jad Abumrad
Select an emotion, like, for instance, embarrassing.
Arturo Bejar
And then 34% of people would select other. And we read those. We sit down, and we're reading the other. And what was the most frequent thing that people were typing into other? It was, it's embarrassing.
Jad Abumrad
It's embar. But you had embarrassing on the list.
Arturo Bejar
I know.
Jad Abumrad
That's weird.
Arturo Bejar
I know.
Jad Abumrad
Arturo was like, okay, maybe we should just put its in front of the choices.
Andrew Zolli
As in, please describe this piece of content. It's embarrassing.
Arturo Bejar
It's a bad photo of me, it makes me sad, et cetera.
Andrew Zolli
And when they wrote out the choices.
Jad Abumrad
That way, with that extra word, we.
Arturo Bejar
Went from 50% of people selecting an emotion to 78% people selecting an emotion.
Jad Abumrad
In other words, the word emotion, it's.
Andrew Zolli
All by itself, boosted the response by.
Arturo Bejar
28% from 50 to 78.
Jad Abumrad
And in Facebook land, that means thousands and thousands of people.
Robert Krulwich
Let me just slow down for a second. I'm trying to think of. What could that be? It's. Do people like full sentences?
Jad Abumrad
Here's thinking. It's always good to mirror the way people talk. Arturo's idea, though, which I find kind of interesting, is that when you just say embarrassing and there's no subject, it's silently implied that you are embarrassing. But if you say it's embarrassing, well, then that shifts the sort of emotional energy to this photograph thing, and so then it's less hot and it's easier to deal with.
Robert Krulwich
Oh, how interesting. That thing is embarrassing. I'm fine. It's embarrassing.
Jad Abumrad
It is responsible, not me.
Robert Krulwich
Good for Arturo. That's like, a subtle thought.
Jad Abumrad
It's very subtle, but it still doesn't solve their basic problem. Because even if Facebook now knows why the person flagged the photo that it was embarrassing and not actually hate speech, they still can't take it down.
Andrew Zolli
I mean, there's nothing in the policy, the terms of service, that says you can't put up embarrassing photos.
Jad Abumrad
And in fact, if they took it down, they'd be violating the rights of the person who posted it.
Arturo Bejar
Like, there's nothing we can do. I'm sorry.
Robert Krulwich
Oh, so they'd actually fence themselves in a little bit.
Jad Abumrad
Yeah.
Robert Krulwich
Huh. For me, I'd always put in another.
Jad Abumrad
I would just be like, go deal with it yourself, is what I would say. Talk to the person. No, honestly, that's the solution. He wouldn't put it that way. But what he needed to have happen was for the person who posted the picture and the person who was pissed.
Arturo Bejar
About it to talk to each other.
Andrew Zolli
To work it out themselves.
Jad Abumrad
So Arturo and his team made a tweak where if you said this photo was embarrassing or whatever, a new screen would pop up and it would ask.
Arturo Bejar
Do you want your friend to take the photo down?
Jad Abumrad
And if you said, yes, I would like my stupid friend to take the photo down.
Arturo Bejar
We put up an empty message box.
Andrew Zolli
Just an empty box that said, we think it's a good idea for you to tell the person who upset you that they upset you.
Arturo Bejar
And only 20% of people would type something in and send that message.
Andrew Zolli
They just didn't do it. They just said, I'd rather you deal with this.
Jad Abumrad
So Artur and his team were like, okay, let's take it one step further. When that message box popped up, we.
Arturo Bejar
Gave people a default message that we.
Andrew Zolli
Crafted to start that conversation.
Arturo Bejar
Just get the conversation going. And it's kind of funny. The first version of the message that.
Andrew Zolli
We did was like, hey, I didn't like this photo. Take it down.
Robert Krulwich
Hey, I don't like that photo. That's a little aggressive.
Jad Abumrad
It is. But when they started presenting people with a message box with that sentence pre written in, almost immediately we went from.
Arturo Bejar
20% of people sending a message to 50% of people sending a message.
Jad Abumrad
Really?
Arturo Bejar
It's been surprising to all of us. Like, we weren't expecting to see that big of a shift.
Robert Krulwich
So this means that people just don't want to write, they'll sign up for pretty much anything?
Jad Abumrad
No, not necessarily.
Robert Krulwich
No.
Jad Abumrad
Maybe it's just that it's so easy to shirk the responsibility of confronting another person that you need every little stupid nudge you can get. I see.
Arturo Bejar
Okay.
Jad Abumrad
That's how I see it. Okay. So they put out this pre written message. It seems to really have an effect. So they're like, okay, if that worked so well, why don't we try some.
Andrew Zolli
Different wordings instead of, hey, I didn't like this photo. Take it down.
Jad Abumrad
Why don't we try, hey, Robert, I.
Andrew Zolli
Didn'T like this photo. Take it down.
Jad Abumrad
Just putting in your name works about.
Andrew Zolli
7% better than leaving it out.
Robert Krulwich
Meaning what?
Andrew Zolli
It means that you're 7% more likely either to get the person to do what you ask them to do, take.
Jad Abumrad
Down the photo, or to start a.
Andrew Zolli
Conversation about how to resolve your feelings about it.
Jad Abumrad
Oh.
Robert Krulwich
We're now measuring the effectiveness of the message. So if I'm objecting Will the other party pull it off?
Jad Abumrad
The computer, pull it off, or just talk to you about it?
Robert Krulwich
Okay.
Jad Abumrad
They also tried variations like, hey, Robert, would you please take it down? Throwing in the word please or would you mind taking it down?
Arturo Bejar
And it turns out that would you please? Performs 4% better than would you mind?
Jad Abumrad
They're not totally sure why, but they tried dozens of phrases like, would you please mind? Would you mind? I'm sorry to bring this up, but would you please take it down? I'm sorry to bring this up, but would you mind taking it down? And at a certain point, Andrew and I got.
Andrew Zolli
We're here to see Arturo.
Jad Abumrad
We just wanted to see this whole process they're going through up close. So we took a trip out to Facebook headquarters. Menlo Park, California. This was about a year ago.
Arturo Bejar
Had you been here before?
Jad Abumrad
No, I have not. So it was before the hubbub. We met up with Arturo, who sort of walked us through the campus.
Arturo Bejar
Yeah, like the hammock. This is kind of a little like chair hanging out.
Jad Abumrad
It's one of these sort of like socialist, utopic Silicon Valley campuses where people are like in hammocks and there's volleyball happening.
Arturo Bejar
We actually had baby foxes here.
Jad Abumrad
Really? They had foxes running around at one point. So we were there on a Friday, because every Friday afternoon, Arturo assembles this really big group. Welcome to the meeting to review all the data. You got about 15 people crammed into a conference room like technical folks.
Arturo Bejar
Mojtaba Software engineering. Trust engineering at Facebook.
Jad Abumrad
Dan Farrell.
Arturo Bejar
I'm a data scientist.
Jad Abumrad
Paul.
Arturo Bejar
I'm also an engineer.
Jad Abumrad
A lot of these guys call themselves trust engineers. And every Friday, the trust engineers are joined by a bunch of outside scientists.
Arturo Bejar
Dacher Keltner, professor of psychology, UC Berkeley.
Jad Abumrad
Matt Gillingsworth. I study the causes and nature of human happiness. Miliana Simon Thomas.
Kate Crawford
And my background is neuroscience.
Jad Abumrad
This is the meeting where the team was reviewing all the data about these phrases. And so everybody was looking at a giant graph projected on the wall. It's kind of supporting your slightly U shaped curve there in that, especially in the deletion numbers. The hey, I don't like this photo. Take it down. And the hey, I don't like this photo. Would you please take it down? Are kind of the winners here.
Kate Crawford
It's kind of interesting that you see the person that's receiving a more direct Message is higher. 11% versus 4%.
Jad Abumrad
One of the things they notice is that anytime they use the word sorry in a phrase like, hey, Robert, sorry to bring this up, but would you please take it down.
Arturo Bejar
Turns out the I'm sorry doesn't actually help. It makes the numbers go down, really.
Jad Abumrad
Seven and nine are the low. Some of the low points, and those.
Kate Crawford
Are the ones that say sorry.
Jad Abumrad
So, like, just don't apologize. Just don't apologize because, like, it shifts the responsibility back to you, I guess.
Robert Krulwich
No, it doesn't. It's just. It's just.
Jad Abumrad
No, man. It's like. It's a linguistic psychology, subtle thing.
Robert Krulwich
You're making that up.
Jad Abumrad
I am, kind of. But one of the things that really struck me at this meeting on a different subject is that the scientists in the room, as they were looking at the graph, taking in the numbers, a lot of them had this look on their face of like, holy. I'm just stunned and humbled at the numbers that we generally get in these studies. That's Amelia Simon Thomas from Berkeley. My background is in neuroscience, and I'm used to studies where we look at 20 people, and that's sufficient to say something general about how brains work. Like, in general, at Facebook, people would scoff at sample sizes that small. That's Rob Boyle, who's a project manager at Facebook. The magnitudes that we're used to working with are in the hundreds of thousands to millions. It's kind of an interesting moment because there's been a lot of criticism recently, especially in social science, about the sample sizes, how they're too small and how they're too often filled with white undergraduate college kids. And how can you generalize from that? So you could tell that some of the scientists in the room, like, for example, Dacher Keltner, who's a psychologist at UC Berkeley, they were like, oh, my God, look at what we can do now. We can get to all these different people of different class backgrounds, different countries. To him, this kind of work with Facebook, this could be the future of social science right here. There has never been a human community like this in human history. Somewhere in the middle of all the excitement about the data and the speed at which they can now test things, the bottleneck is no longer how fast we can test how things work. It's coming up with the right things to test. Andrew threw out a question.
Andrew Zolli
What is the statistical likelihood that I have been a guinea pig in one of your experiments?
Jad Abumrad
I believe 100%.
Arturo Bejar
But if you look at the data.
Jad Abumrad
Any given person, that's Stan Farrell, data scientist. And when we look at the data, any given person is probably currently involved.
Arturo Bejar
In, what, 10 different experiments, and they've.
Jad Abumrad
Been exposed to 10 different experimental things. Yep.
Andrew Zolli
That kind of blew me back a little bit. I was like, I've been a research subject and I had no idea.
Jad Abumrad
Coming up, everybody gets the idea, and the lab rats revolt. Stay with us. Hi there. This is Pedro Suarez calling from London, England. Radiolab is supported in part by the National Science foundation and by the Alfred P. Sloan foundation, enhancing public understanding of science and technology in the modern world. More information about Sloan@www.sloan.org. oh, that's great. Bit of a tongue twister. This is Radiolab, and we'll pick up the story with Andrew Zolli and I sitting in a meeting at Facebook headquarters. This was about a year and a half ago. We had just learned that at any given moment, any given Facebook user is part of 10 experiments at once without really their knowledge. And sitting there in that meeting, you know, this was a while ago, we both were like, did we just hear that correctly?
Andrew Zolli
That kind of blew me back a little bit. I was like, I've been a research subject and I had no idea. And I had that moment of discovery on a Friday, and literally the next day, Saturday. This is scary. The world had that experience. Facebook using you and me as lab rats for a Facebook experiment on emotions.
Jad Abumrad
Barely a day after we'd gotten off the plane from Facebook headquarters, the kerfuffle occurred. Facebook exposed for using us as lab rats. As lab rats. Lab rats, shall we say? Facebook messing with your emotions. You might remember this story because for a hot second, it was everywhere Facebook altered.
Andrew Zolli
The amount of.
Jad Abumrad
It was all over Facebook story was. An academic paper had come out that showed that with some scientists, the company had intentionally manipulated user news feeds to study a person's emotional response. Seriously. They wanted to see how emotions spread on social media. They basically tinkered with the news feeds of about 700,000 people, 700,000 users, to test how they'd react if they saw more positive versus negative posts and vice versa. And they found an effect that when people saw more positive stuff in their news feeds, they would post more positive things themselves and vice versa. It was a tiny effect. Tiny effect, but the results weren't real. The real story was that Facebook was messing with us. Gives you pause and scares me when you think that they were just doing an experiment to manipulate how people were feeling and how they then reacted on Facebook.
Andrew Zolli
People went apoplectic.
Jad Abumrad
It has this big Brother element to.
Kate Crawford
It that I think people are gonna.
Jad Abumrad
Be very uncomfortable with.
Andrew Zolli
And some people went so far as to argue.
Jad Abumrad
I wonder if Facebook killed anyone with their emotional manipulation.
Andrew Zolli
So stunt if A person had a psychological or psychiatric disorder, manipulating their social world could cause them real harm.
Kate Crawford
Make sure you read those terms and conditions, my friends.
Jad Abumrad
Always. That's the big takeaway.
Kate Crawford
What you hear is a sense of betrayal that I really wasn't aware that this space of mine was being treated in these ways and that I was part of your psychological experimentation.
Jad Abumrad
That's Kate Crawford.
Kate Crawford
I'm a principal researcher at Microsoft Research.
Jad Abumrad
Visiting professor at mit, strong critic of Facebook throughout the kerfuffle.
Kate Crawford
There is a power imbalance at work. I think when we look at the way that that experiment was done, it's an example of highly centralized power and highly opaque power at work. And I don't want to see us in a situation where we just have to blindly trust that platforms are looking out for us here. I'm thinking of an earlier Facebook study, actually, back in 2010, where they did a study looking at whether they could increase voter turnout. They had this quite simple design. They came up with a little box that would pop up and show you where your nearest voting booth was. And then they said, oh, well, in addition to that, when you voted, here's a button you can press that says, I voted. And then you'll also see the pictures of six of your friends who'd also voted that day. Would this change the number of people who went out to vote that day?
Jad Abumrad
And Facebook found that it did that if you saw a bunch of pictures of your friends who had voted and you saw those pictures on election day, you were then 2% more likely to click the I voted button yourself, presumably because you, too had gone out and voted. Now, 2% might not sound like a.
Kate Crawford
Lot, but it was not insignificant. Again, I think, by the order of 340,000 votes, the votes that they estimate, they actually shifted by getting people to go.
Jad Abumrad
These are people who wouldn't have voted.
Kate Crawford
Who wouldn't have voted, and who. They have said in their own paper and published paper that they increased the number of votes that day by 340,000.
Jad Abumrad
Simply by saying that your neighbors did it, too.
Kate Crawford
Yeah. By your friends.
Jad Abumrad
Now, my first reaction to this, I must admit, was okay. I mean, we're at historic lows when it comes to voter turnout. This sounds like a good thing.
Kate Crawford
Yes. But what happens if someone's running a platform that a lot of people are on and they say, hey, you know, I'm. I'm really interested in this candidate. This candidate is going to look out not just for my interests, but the interests of the technology sector. And I think they're you know, they're a great candidate. Why don't we just show that get out to vote message and that. That little system design that we have to the people who clearly. Because we already have their political preferences, the ones who kind of agree with us and the people who disagree with that candidate, they won't get those little nudges. Now, that is a profound democratic power that you have.
Jad Abumrad
Kate's basic position is that when it comes to social engineering, which is what this is, companies and the people that use them need to be really, really careful. In fact, when Andrew mentioned to her that Arturo had this group and the group had a name, he actually runs.
Andrew Zolli
A group called the Trust Engineering Group. His job is to engineer trust.
Jad Abumrad
When Andrew told her that Facebook users.
Arturo Bejar
That's his job, you're smacking your forehead.
Kate Crawford
I think we call that a facepalm.
Jad Abumrad
She facepalmed really hard.
Kate Crawford
These ideas that we could somehow engineer, compassion, I think, to some degree, have a kind of hubris in them. Who are we to decide whether we can make somebody more compassionate or not?
Arturo Bejar
So I do want to set this up.
Jad Abumrad
Let's see. How do we do this? A couple months after our first interview, we spoke to Arturo Behar again. At this point, the kerfuffle was dying down, and we asked him about all the uproar. I know this is not your work. This. The emotional contagion stuff. But literally, like, hours after we got back from that meeting, that thing erupted. Do you understand the backlash?
Arturo Bejar
No. I mean, I think that. I mean, we really care about the people who use Facebook. I don't think that there's such a thing as. I mean, if anything I've learned in this work is that you really have to respect people's response and emotions, no matter what they are.
Jad Abumrad
He says the whole thing definitely made them take stock.
Arturo Bejar
There was a moment of concern of what it would mean to the work. There was like, is this going to mean that we can't do this? Part of me, like, being honest, coming here is I actually want to reclaim back the word emotion and reclaim back the ability to do very thoughtful and careful experiments. I want to reclaim back the word experiment.
Jad Abumrad
You want to reclaim it from what?
Arturo Bejar
Well, suddenly, like, the word emotion and the word experiment, all these things became really charged.
Jad Abumrad
Well, yeah, because people thought that Facebook was manipulating emotion, and they were like.
Arturo Bejar
Yes, but in our case. Right. And in the work that we're talking about right now, all of the work that we do begins with a person asking us for help.
Jad Abumrad
This was Arturo's most emphatic point. He said it over and over that, you know, Facebook isn't just doing this for fun. People are asking for help. They need help. Which points to one of the biggest challenges of living online, which is that, you know, offline, you know, when we try and engineer trust offline, or at least just read one another, we do it in these super subtle ways, using eye contact and facial expressions and posture and tone of voice, all this nonverbal stuff. And of course, when we go online, we don't have access to any of that.
Arturo Bejar
In the absence of that feedback, how do we communicate? What does communication turn into.
Jad Abumrad
Just because.
Andrew Zolli
The other stupid kids.
Jad Abumrad
The best riff on this, I gotta say, is Louis CK On Conan.
Arturo Bejar
It's just this thing.
Jad Abumrad
It's bad. He did this great bit about technology and kids.
Andrew Zolli
You know, kids are mean, and it's because they're trying it out.
Jad Abumrad
They look at a kid and they go, you're fat.
Andrew Zolli
And then they see the kid's face scrunch up and they go, ooh, that doesn't feel good to make a person do that. But they got to start with doing the mean thing. But when they write you're fat, then they just go, mmm, that was fun. I like that.
Jad Abumrad
Anyhow, back to Arturo.
Arturo Bejar
I mean, I think about, like, what it means to be in the presence of a friend or a loved one, and how can you build experiences that facilitate that when you cannot be physically together?
Jad Abumrad
Arturo says that's really all he's up to. He's just trying to nudge people a tiny bit so that their online selves are a little bit closer to how they are offline. And I gotta say, if he can do that by engineering a couple of phrases like, hey, Robert, would you mind, et cetera, et cetera, well, then I'm all for it.
Robert Krulwich
Why not take the position that to create a company that stands between two people who are interacting and then giving them boxes and statuses and little advertising and so forth, this is not doing a service. This is just. This is a way to wedge yourself into the ordinary business of social intercourse and make money on it.
Jad Abumrad
No.
Robert Krulwich
And you're acting like this group of people now is going to try to create the moral equivalent of an actual conversation. First of all, it's probably not engineerable. And second of all, I don't believe that for a moment. All I'm thinking is they're gonna just go and figure out other ways in which to make a revenue enhancer.
Jad Abumrad
No, I don't think it's one or the other. I think they're in it for the money. In fact, if they can figure this out and make the Internet universe more inducive, to trust, less annoying, it could mean trillions of dollars. So, yeah, it's the money, but still, that doesn't negate the fact that we have to build these systems, right? That we have to make the Internet a little bit better.
Robert Krulwich
That's fine. This idea, however, that you're going to have to coach people into the subtleties of the relationship. Tell him you're sorry. Tell him this. Here's the formula for this. He doesn't want. He did something. You need to repair that. Here are the seven ways you might repair that. To do all that, it's as if the Hallmark card company, instead of living only on Mother's Day, Father's Day and birthdays, just spread its evil wings out into the whole rest of your life. And I don't think that's a wonderful thing.
Jad Abumrad
I think, you know, I have a slightly different opinion of it. I mean, you gotta keep in mind how this thing came about. I mean, they tried to get people to talk to each other. They gave them the blank text box, but nobody used it, right? So they're like, okay, let's come up with some stock phrases that, yes, are generic. But think about the next step. After you send the message saying, you know, jad, I don't like the photo. Please take it down. Presumably, then you and I get into a conversation. Maybe I explain myself. I say, oh, my God, I'm so sorry. I didn't realize that you didn't like that photo. I just thought that that was an amazing night. I just thought that was a great night. I didn't realize you thought. You looked. So sorry. I'll take it down. It's cool. See, now, presumably, we're having that conversation as a next step.
Robert Krulwich
Why do you presume that? How many of the birthday cards that you've sent to first cousins have resulted in a conversation?
Jad Abumrad
Maybe not.
Robert Krulwich
But that's the thing. Sometimes these things are actually not. They're really the opposite of what you're saying. They're conversation substitutes.
Jad Abumrad
Maybe. Maybe they're conversation starters.
Robert Krulwich
Maybe that's the deep experiment.
Jad Abumrad
Are they conversation starters or substitutes? Well, I hope they're conversation starters.
Robert Krulwich
Yeah.
Jad Abumrad
Because maybe that would be a beginning.
Andrew Zolli
It kind of in my mind goes back to, like, the beginning of the automobile age.
Jad Abumrad
This is how Andrew puts it.
Andrew Zolli
There was a time when automobiles were new and, you know, they didn't have turn signals, the tools. They did have, like, the horn didn't necessarily indicate all the things that we use it to indicate. It wasn't clear what the horn was actually there to do. Was it there to say hello? Or is it there to say get.
Robert Krulwich
Out of the way?
Andrew Zolli
And over time, we created norms. We created roads with lanes, we created turn signals that are primarily there for other people so that we can coexist in this great flow without crashing into each other.
Jad Abumrad
And we still have road rage.
Andrew Zolli
And we still have road rage. We still have places where those tools are incomplete.
Jad Abumrad
Thanks to Andrew Zolli. Many, many, many, many thanks. Yes, definitely, for bringing us that story and for reporting it with me for so long. And to Arturo, who you kept bringing.
Robert Krulwich
Back into the studio to keep.
Jad Abumrad
Yes, thank you very much to Arturo and the whole team over there. And by the way, they have changed their name. It's no longer Trust Engineering. It is the Facebook Protect and Care team. Really? Yeah. We had some original music this hour from mooninite. Thanks to them. Props to Andy Mills for production support. And also Andrew Zolli put together a blog post. If you go to Radiolab.org, you can see it, which covers some really interesting research that we didn't get a chance to talk about. And if you've ever sent an email with a little smiley face, you're definitely going to want to read this. Radiolab.org, i'm Jan Abumrad.
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This episode of Radiolab dives into the inner workings of Facebook’s “Trust Engineering” team (later renamed “Protect and Care”), focusing on their attempts to make conflict resolution and emotional communication smoother on the platform. The story traces how Facebook responded to the ever-growing number of reported photos by building new tools—based on behavioral science and language analysis—to nudge users toward more understanding, empathetic digital interactions. The episode explores both the promise and the profound ethical questions of using “trust engineering” at unprecedented social scales.
“Pictures of puppies reported for hate speech.” – Jad Abumrad (06:20)
“It was maybe a shared puppy…maybe it’s your ex wife’s puppy.” – Arturo Bejar (07:10)
“It’s always good to mirror the way people talk… when you just say ‘embarrassing’… it’s silently implied that you are embarrassing. But if you say ‘it’s embarrassing’, well, then that shifts the sort of emotional energy…” – Jad Abumrad (09:18)
“We weren’t expecting to see that big of a shift.” – Arturo Bejar (11:44)
“Turns out the ‘I’m sorry’ doesn’t actually help. It makes the numbers go down.” – Arturo Bejar (15:03)
“I’ve been a research subject and I had no idea.” – Andrew Zolli (17:25)
“There is a power imbalance at work…highly centralized power and highly opaque power at work.” – Kate Crawford (20:50)
“That is a profound democratic power that you have.” – Kate Crawford (22:58)
“We created turn signals so we can coexist in this great flow without crashing into each other.” – Andrew Zolli (30:43)
If you’ve never heard this episode, this summary captures:
You’ll get both a look at how Facebook engineers nudge user behavior, and a sharp discussion about the broader implications of those nudges—ranging from the language of kindness to the ethics of massive-scale A/B testing on a digital population.
For more context and related research, visit radiolab.org.