Podcast Summary: Ramsey Everyday Millionaires

Episode: Should I Use My Bonus to Buy Into the Business I Work For?
Date: December 1, 2025
Hosts: Dave Ramsey, Rachel Cruze
Special Guest (Caller): Melissa from Hartford, Connecticut

Main Theme

This episode tackles a common dilemma for employees: whether to invest a year-end bonus back into their company for equity or use it to accelerate personal financial goals, especially debt reduction. The hosts share their signature Ramsey wisdom, guiding listener Melissa through the decision with practical, experience-based advice.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Caller’s Situation (00:15 - 01:15)

• Melissa’s Context:

  • Works for a home health agency with a bonus structure: 5% of gross profit above her sales quota, capped at $2,500/quarter, with a pooled lump sum payout at year-end.
  • Considering whether to use the bonus to buy equity in her company or pay down her mortgage (her last remaining debt).

  “I'm wondering if I should take that lump sum and invest it back into the company for equity or if I should focus on paying off my mortgage, which is my last remaining debt.” — Melissa (00:43)

2. Dave’s Take on Minority Equity in Private Companies (01:16 - 02:16)

• Strong Warning Against Buying Minority Shares:

  • Investing as a minority shareholder in a private business is too risky: no control, no liquidity, potential for poor or reckless management by majority owners.
  • Compares it unfavorably to investing in individual stocks—worse due to being unable to exit easily.
  • Emphasizes that if you don't own 51%, you “have to stand there and watch” others make potentially poor decisions.

  “You could wake up six months later, the owner starts doing cocaine, runs the thing into debt, runs the whole thing into zero. And all your money's worth zero. And you have absolutely no governmental, say, the governance documents when you're a minority shareholder.” — Dave Ramsey (01:25)
  “It's almost like investing in a single stock. It's worse. It's worse. Okay, because you can't get out of it.” — Dave Ramsey (01:55)

3. Deeper Dive: Melissa’s Current Financial Picture (02:17 - 03:40)

• Mortgage Pressure:

  • $650,000 left on her home mortgage (with high taxes causing additional stress).
  • $410,000 in a brokerage account; $200,000 in 401(k)s; small emergency fund.

• Dave’s Recommendation:

  • Encourages Melissa to use the brokerage account to aggressively pay down the mortgage.
  • Acknowledges that it feels scary but positions it as the best way to reduce stress and take control.

  “You sound like you've been listening a while and you know we're going to tell you to take the 410 and put it on the mortgage. You knew that, right?” — Dave Ramsey (03:05)
  “It's also scary to have 650,000 breathing down your dadgum neck, right?” — Dave Ramsey (03:13)

4. Additional Practical Steps (03:40 - End)

• Utilize Bonus as Extra Mortgage Payment:

  • Any year-end bonus should also go toward the mortgage for quicker debt freedom.

• Refinancing Suggestion:

  • Recommends refinancing if rates have dropped to improve monthly cash flow.

  “Refinance and get you. Current rates are down. Let's get the thing refinanced. And if you get a bonus at the end of this year, too, Melissa. That's going to be some extra cash to throw at it, too.” — Dave Ramsey (03:40)

• General Principle:

  • Invest in things you can control and exit easily; avoid complexity and illiquidity of minority private business investments.

  “Invest in something you can control the outcome and. Or get out of. Minority shareholder positions aren't one of them.” — Dave Ramsey (04:00)

Notable Quotes & Moments

• On minority shareholder risk:
  “If you don't own 51%, your vote don't count and they can vote for stupid. And you have to stand there and watch it.” — Dave Ramsey (01:34)

• On the alternative:
  “Invest in something you can control the outcome and. Or get out of. Minority shareholder positions aren't one of them.” — Dave Ramsey (04:00)

• On emotional side of debt:
  “It's scary to have 650,000 breathing down your dadgum neck, right?” — Dave Ramsey (03:13)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• 00:15 — Melissa introduces her bonus structure and equity question
• 01:16 — Dave issues warning about buying into private companies as a minority
• 02:17 — Discussion of Melissa's financials and mortgage stress
• 03:05 — Dave gives explicit recommendation to pay down the mortgage
• 03:40 — Advice to refinance and use bonus on mortgage
• 04:00 — Final principles on investing and control

Summary Takeaway

Dave Ramsey and Rachel Cruze emphasize that ordinary people build extraordinary wealth not by taking risky, illiquid bets in private businesses where they lack control, but by steadily reducing their own debt and investing only in vehicles they control or can exit. For Melissa, the clear path is to avoid buying company equity, aggressively pay down her mortgage with available assets and bonuses, and take advantage of low rates via refinancing. The Ramsey approach: “Invest where you have control—the rest is just stress.”