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This episode is brought to you by SmartVestor. Connect with an investing pro near you at RamseySolutions.com SmartVestor Kayla is in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Hi, Kayla, how are you?
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Hi, how are you?
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Better than I deserve. What's up?
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So I had a question about term life insurance. I've been listening about you saying that we need about 10 to 12 times our annual income. And I just, I guess from my point of view it seems like that's very, very high. And maybe I'm just like missing something in the calculations. And so I'm just hoping to kind of get an idea of like why, why that number you pick?
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That's a great question. Thank you so much. I appreciate that. Because a whole bunch of other people probably wondering exactly the same thing. If you are so glad you called. So to start with, it is not universal. Number one, everyone does not need life insurance. It's if people are counting on your income to live and you die, then they're up a creek, right? And as you build wealth through your life and get out of debt through your life and your net worth increases through your life, you progressively need less insurance to the point that you're self insured. I'm 65, I'm worth millions of dollars and I don't have a dime of life insurance. Okay. My wife will be just fine if I die. Okay. As a matter of fact, she's kind of planning it. Okay. So, but that's because we're out of debt and have built wealth. You follow me? And there's no kids to raise. They're all, the kids are all grown and gone and so forth, okay. Jade, on the other hand, has two littles and she and Sam are raising a family right now. Okay. And so different positions in life. So if you're 20 and you have no spouse and no kids, you don't need much life insurance because no one's counting on your income. So that's, that's the sidebar, that's the caveat. But then back to your original meat of your question is let's say you're 34, you have two kids and you make $60,000 a year and you're spouse makes $70,000 a year, okay? That's when we would say if you got a house mortgage, you got some student loans you're still paying off, you're working the baby steps, you're a normal 34 year old in America today. Oh, you definitely need 10 times. And the reason is this $60,000 income earner. 10 times would be 600,000. 12 times would be 700,000. So if that person died, let's say that was the husband, he died and left the wife behind with two littles and half the income that used to be there. That wife could take that 600,000 and invest it. If she made 10% on 600,000, it creates 60,000 of income without touching the nest egg that is created. The goose will keep laying that golden eggs perpetually. If you invest 600,000 at 10% in a good growth stock mutual fund, it should average that or more. Then she's going to have the same income off of that mutual fund that her husband used to produce.
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And you did not sacrifice retirement.
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Yeah. And she didn't have to starve to death. Okay. And so that's where it leaves her in reality. And we've got thousands of those stories over the years, but that's where it comes from. You invest the 10 times at 10%, then you end up with replacing the income of the person. And that's what life insurance is for. That makes sense.
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Yes, I think so. Yeah.
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Okay, so if, you know, if you. What's your situation? How old are you?
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I'm 35.
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Okay. Single or married?
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I have, I'm married. We have three kids. Two in middle school, one in high school.
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Okay. And what's your net worth?
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Our net worth is roughly about 200,000.
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Okay. So you're doing pretty good. All right. How much debt do you have?
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We don't.
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Okay. Good house or anything.
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Well, how else? We have a little bit left. There's a little bit less than 100,000.
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Okay, well, you're ahead of the game. Agreed.
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Yeah.
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You're doing better than average for your age. Okay. Funny, I picked out 34aminute ago. Huh. For the example. But. Yeah, but the but that is the exact average. So what does your husband make?
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My husband makes about 80,000.
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So if he had a million on him and we invested that at 10%, it would make $100,000 minus taxes, you'd have 80,000 bucks. And we would not miss his income. We'd miss him, but we wouldn't miss his income. And here's the weird thing. If he's healthy, if he's not obese and he doesn't smoke, that million dollars on that 30 something year old is very inexpensive.
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Okay.
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It's like the cost of a pizza. I mean it's nothing when you look it up.
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So have you priced it out yet, Kayla?
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Yes. Yeah, we had gone through Xander and had a couple estimates and so we had priced it out. I was just trying to figure out exactly like where, where we should land with that.
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So truthfully, a Megan is a little much for y' all because you're in such good shape. Because if you didn't get his whole income replaced, as good a job as you've done, you'd probably be okay. But for the difference in the cost and 800 grand and a million on policy so low, I'm going to go ahead and beef it up a little bit. And even later on when the kids were grown and gone and we had some wealth, Sharon wanted me to keep life insurance for a while. And I kept it for a little while. Swi, Sharon wants it. There was no reason for it whatsoever. Mathematically. She just wanted some.
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She let it go.
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I finally talked her out of that a few years ago. But for about a decade I kept life insurance for no apparent reason other than Swi said I'd rather have that million dollar policy than another diamond. I'm like, wow, good, okay, you can have it. It's just a gift to you. But you understand it's not good financial planning. You understand it's not what I teach. And she's like, I don't care what you teach. I want it okay to be a.
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Fly on that wall.
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But that's, that's where the it comes from. If you, if you take 10 times or 12 times your income, your spouse could invest that amount at 10% and we have replaced you. If something happens to you financially, obviously no one could replace you. You're special. But yeah, right. But anyway, so yeah, that's the thing. You're gonna be okay.
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And then as you age, like let's talk about that. Once you've aged out of it, like when you feel, when you feel like you've net worthed out of it. Let me call it that.
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Well, the kids are grown 15, we say 15 to 20 year level term. That's a good point. Because 15 to 20 years from now the kids will be grown and gone.
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That's right. And they're making their own money, they're.
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Doing their own thing. They don't, you know, they're not a liability anymore financially. 15 to 20 years from now you'll be out of debt, 100% house and everything.
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That's right.
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Because we tell you never take out more than a 15 year mortgage. So you're going to be completely debt free 15 to 20 years from now. And 15 to 20 years from now you probably have a million bucks or more in your 401k because you will be investing in baby step four, 15% of your income. And so your, your assets are rising, your debts are going down and the kids move out. Then it takes less to support you and you set up with good financial planning, working the baby steps, a situation where you become self insured.
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Right. We're really at that point the only thing you're thinking about is your health.
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Yeah.
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And caring for your health. And so there you go.
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Yeah, but we're not. If again, if something happens to me today, we've done all of those things and then some.
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Right.
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So Sharon's more than okay and vice versa. I'll be okay. You know, without her income it'd be okay. She doesn't have an income, but that's good. So that's other than mine because it's ours and all that.
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That's right.
Podcast: Ramsey Everyday Millionaires
Hosts: Dave Ramsey & Ramsey Network team
Episode Date: October 27, 2025
This episode focuses on demystifying the reasoning behind the long-standing Ramsey advice: purchase term life insurance coverage equal to 10–12 times your annual income. Through a listener call and an in-depth breakdown, hosts explain why and how this principle helps ordinary people protect their families, achieve financial peace, and lay the groundwork for building wealth—even in the face of the unexpected.
Life Insurance Is For Replacing Income:
Personal Examples:
The Math Behind the Rule of Thumb:
Memorable Metaphor:
Purpose:
The Role of Net Worth & Life Stages:
Anecdote:
Transition to Financial Independence:
On Self-Insurance:
On the Affordability of Term Policies:
On Emotional Reasons for Keeping Insurance:
On Replacing Income:
On Outgrowing the Need for Life Insurance:
The Ramsey approach to term life insurance—10–12 times annual income—is based on enabling survivors to maintain their lifestyle by investing the death benefit and living off the returns. Coverage should be generous while dependents and debts remain, then phased out as the family builds wealth and achieves independence. This episode balances practical math, real-life listener questions, and relatable humor to reinforce this key wealth-building step.