Andy Purcell (6:05)
Okay, well, first of all, you're 25, bro. You. You don't have a ton of decision, real adult decision making experience. Let's be real, you know, and when you don't have all that experience, it's natural to second guess yourself. So we all go through this. It's not just you. We all go through a transition period where, you know, all the way up until maybe we're done with college, we're kind of getting told what to do and how to do it. And then, you know, some people younger than others, there's always, you know, nuance. But typically when we are in our young to mid 20s, we are learning how to make decisions, feeling the consequences of those decisions, and either building up our trust in ourselves or taking away. And what I would say to you is that the fact that you're aware of this is a huge advantage because most people aren't aware. They just continue to make bad decision after bad decision after bad decision, meaning they're making whatever decision they need to make that makes them feel good. Now, they don't understand delayed Gratification. They don't understand thinking ahead of what the decision will actually produce down the road. And the fact that you're aware of this at a young age is really, really, really, really good. It's a good indicator that you are going to build a very good skill set of making the right decisions when these decisions are to be made. So you have to understand that your confidence and your belief in yourself is really only going to come after you've made good decision after good decision after good decision. And then a few bad ones too, right? And then we learn from those lessons, and then we become either very confident or we. We stay unaware. We don't get really beat down. Because the people who continue to make wrong decision after wrong decision, they see life as something that's like, happening to them. Like, they are not thinking, like, I'm making this decision in November and then in December, my life sucks. They're not understanding that they're unaware. So making bad decisions doesn't necessarily destroy someone's confidence. It destroys their life. So the fact that you are understanding that there is a decision to be made, there are consequences down the road, that's a great thing. But the way you're going to become confident in is by making the best decision that you can make now and then understanding, you know, what the result of that is with your own experience. And as you get older and as you go through this process, you will become more and more and more confident in your decisions. And that goes for both your life and your career, whatever else you're working on. You know, there's still times in my life, knowing what I know about business, you know, where I'm like, I don't know. I don't know, like, what should we do? You know, and then we work out the options and we make the best decision. And when we make the best decision, that doesn't always mean it actually is the best decision. Sometimes you just have to make a decision, see what happens, and then make an adjustment, which I would say is really how things actually work in life. You know, not many times have I made a decision when I was young that worked out exactly the way I thought it was going to work out. What it did was, is it. It directed me in a right direction. And then when I went down that path, I had to make multiple pivots as I went down the path to really get where I was trying to go. But the important thing, the. The real important thing here to. Is not even the question that you ask, it's that you have to make a decision. Okay, Most people will analyze and analyze and analyze and analyze, and they never choose. And because they never choose, life passes them by. And then they end up at, you know, 50 years old saying, coulda, woulda, shoulda, no, you should just pick some. And whatever happens, happens. You learn, you know, and, and then you, you apply again. And so that's the process of, of development. You know, we make the best decision that we can make right now. We listen to our gut, we look at the facts, we make it on logic. There's very few decisions in life that should be made around emotion. We make those decisions, we go down the path, we figure out if it's. If it's working or not. And then we make pivots. And that's just how it goes, man. And I know that, like, you guys consume all of this information all day on Instagram from all these people who legitimately haven't done a thing telling you how to do things and what their philosophy is or this or that or this. I would encourage you to listen to what people say who have actually accomplished what it is you want to do and live the kind of life that you want to live and ignore all these theore theoretical bozos on the Internet who honestly don't know shit, because if they did, they would be not just writing memes on the Internet. Okay? So make the decision. Make it the best you can go down the path when you recognize that the decision is not working, which you have to be patient. You make a pivot or you make a complete different directional change. You don't make a complete different directional change until you've tried multiple pivots and you realize this isn't going to work, right? Like, a lot of people will ask me, they say, well, when should I quit? When should I quit my business? You know, my. I'm. I've got this product. Look, dude, if you, if you go. If you go down the path and you figure out for real that that product is not going to get you where you want to go, meaning you can't scale it, there's no demand for it. It's not a good, strong product. Eventually you gotta find a new product or you're just going to be trying to stick a square peg in a round hole. It does not work. So there are times that I don't talk about this very much, but there are times when you have to make complete directional changes. The reason I don't talk about it very much is because most people think that that happens soon, when in reality you have to go down the path and try all the different routes. It's kind of like a mouse in a maze. All right, like, you're like, oh, I know the cheese is over that way. So I'm gonna go this way. This. That didn't get me there. I'm going to go this way. That didn't get me there. And then I'm going to find the way to the cheese. And like, if you don't go through that process with your product to the point where you have a really good understanding of why it's not going to work, not just your emotional beliefs or your frustration or your anger or your impatience, meaning you logically can say, I, there's not a market for this. It's not going to be scalable. It's not going to work out the way I want. Then you have to make a change. And that goes for anything. You can plug product in with relationship. You can plug product in with fitness. Okay. You got to figure the out. And if. Here's what I'll say, if one person's done it, you could probably do it too. So the decision making process and have any confidence in that is, is something. It's one of those things that you have to do your best and work out the nuances to get where you're trying to go. And after you do that enough and you make enough good decisions, you'll start to trust yourself and you'll say, I know how to make the right decisions.