Reclaiming with Monica Lewinsky: Episode Featuring Sophia Bush
Release Date: June 3, 2025
Guest: Sophia Bush
Host: Monica Lewinsky
Introduction
In this compelling episode of Reclaiming with Monica Lewinsky, host Monica engages in an intimate and honest conversation with actress and activist Sophia Bush. Known for her roles in One Tree Hill and her activism work, Sophia brings a wealth of personal experience and insight into the discussion about reclaiming one's identity and agency. The episode delves deep into themes of personal growth, overcoming public scrutiny, and the journey toward self-acceptance.
Setting the Stage: Public Image and Personal Agency
Monica begins by expressing her admiration for Sophia's ability to publicly navigate and reclaim her narrative. She references an essay Sophia wrote for Glamour, highlighting a powerful quote:
“I will not carry anyone's projected shame. Fuck yes.”
[01:54]
Monica probes whether this declaration was a response to internal struggles with shame or a rejection of external projections. Sophia clarifies it was a combination of both, emphasizing her daily commitment to shedding imposed shame.
“It was all of the things... And I will not carry... I did all the things everyone told me to do.”
[02:16]
Navigating Public Scrutiny and Personal Transformation
Sophia discusses the challenges of being a public figure, particularly how public scrutiny can reduce a multifaceted individual to a simplistic persona.
“You are flattened. You are put on social media... you are essentially steamrolled to be made two dimensional.”
[03:27]
She reflects on her personal journey, sharing how following societal checklists—such as marriage and career milestones—led to feelings of emptiness and loneliness despite outward success.
“I made the checklists and I built the life and I pintersted the house. And I did it... I didn't get happier... I got more and more sad.”
[04:10]
Sophia emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself the freedom to change paths, even when it defies societal expectations.
“Because you don't know what you don't know until you do.”
[05:16]
The Toll of Public Life and Finding Inner Strength
The conversation shifts to the personal toll that public life can take, particularly for women who face heightened scrutiny and misogyny. Sophia shares her experiences with public shame and the necessity of reclaiming her worth through therapy, coaching, and personal reflection.
“Post traumatic stress disorder... It's fine you guys get dragged through the press. It's great.”
[30:56]
Monica relates by sharing her own experiences with public shaming, fostering a sense of solidarity and mutual understanding between the two women.
Reclaiming the Body and Emotional Well-being
Sophia delves into the physical manifestations of her trauma, detailing the somatic experiences that signaled her need for change. She discusses the importance of listening to one's body and the journey toward reconnecting with her physical self through somatic therapy and other healing practices.
“I have had this fight to show up with my capacity for compassion and my capacity for rage.”
[34:31]
Monica and Sophia explore the concept of the body as a source of wisdom, highlighting the significance of somatic awareness in healing from trauma.
“The body having wisdom, the body being something to listen to and to understand.”
[37:34]
Interview with Michelle Obama: A Highlight
A significant portion of the episode highlights Sophia's experience interviewing Michelle Obama on her podcast, Work in Progress. Sophia recounts the logistical challenges and emotional depth of the conversation, emphasizing the importance of seeing Michelle Obama beyond her public persona.
“I was like, this feels sexy. And she was like, still is.”
[50:20]
Sophia describes the interview as a profound moment of connection and mutual recognition, where both women could be seen and heard as individuals rather than just public figures.
Practical Steps to Reclaiming Self
Towards the end of the episode, Sophia shares practical strategies that have aided her in reclaiming her sense of self and maintaining emotional balance.
“Set a timer for 30 minutes... walk around... five minutes off.”
[43:05]
She explains how this simple practice fosters trust between her mind and body, serving as a foundational step in her healing process. Monica commits to trying this technique, underscoring its accessibility and effectiveness.
Final Thoughts: Embracing Personal and Collective Reclamation
In concluding the conversation, both Monica and Sophia discuss the broader implications of reclaiming one's identity in the face of societal pressures. Sophia articulates her ongoing work in balancing personal reclamation with activism, aiming to create spaces where everyone can reclaim their power.
“I'm working on really reclaiming my core and not letting it be infiltrated by other things...”
[54:26]
Monica applauds Sophia's efforts and the episode wraps up with heartfelt expressions of gratitude and mutual support, leaving listeners inspired to embark on their own journeys of reclamation.
Conclusion
This episode of Reclaiming with Monica Lewinsky offers a profound exploration of personal resilience and the courage required to redefine oneself amidst external pressures. Sophia Bush's candid sharing of her struggles and triumphs serves as a beacon of hope for anyone seeking to reclaim their truth and live authentically. The conversation is not only a testament to individual strength but also a call to collectively foster environments where such reclamation is possible and celebrated.
Notable Quotes:
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“I will not carry anyone's projected shame. Fuck yes.”
— Sophia Bush, [01:54] -
“Life is way too fucking long to be miserable and it's way too fucking long to be terrible to other people.”
— Sophia Bush, [05:27] -
“I've got to reclaim my core and not let it be infiltrated by other things.”
— Sophia Bush, [54:26]
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