Mom Dommy *TEASER*

Summary

Red Scare – "Mom Dommy TEASER" (Nov 10, 2025)

Hosts: Anna Khachiyan and Dasha Nekrasova
Summary Prepared For: Listeners seeking in-depth insight and memorable moments from this teaser episode

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Episode Overview

In this teaser, Anna and Dasha dive into their personal frustrations and ironic engagement with local politics, gentrification, and zoning battles. Blending characteristic irreverence with genuine exasperation, they reflect on housing struggles, urban corruption, and the bleak realities of community organizing, offering a signature Red Scare mix of cynicism, humor, and social commentary.

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Key Discussion Points

Anna’s "NIMBY Crash Out" & YIMBY Algorithm Feeds

• Anna describes a spiral of obsessive involvement over local building developments, referencing her deep dives into Department of Buildings (DoD) regulations and tax abatement policies.
• She humorously admits to becoming the very crusader-type she often mocks, swept up in arguments about fraud and corruption on Twitter:
  • "I had a total NIMBY crash out…like I was deep on the DoD website, like downloading building plans…" (00:04)

Irony, Self-Awareness & Online Activism

• The hosts poke fun at people's love of distancing themselves from earnestness.
• Anna claims:
  • "I'm the only one crashing out around zoning corruption." (00:55)
• Dasha concurs, recognizing how personal experience is often what drives people into (reluctant) activism:
  • "Well, yeah, because something personally affected you. Just like something personally affected me." (01:04)

The Grim Reality of Local Politics

• They discuss the futility and misery of involvement in community boards and local government:
  • "You have to get involved in local politics, which is horrible." (01:25)
  • "Thankless and thankless and demoralizing work." (01:34)
• Anna laments the downtrodden types at community meetings and the David vs. Goliath struggle against developers:
  • "Everyone there is also like downtrod. It's really black-pilling." (01:38)

Anecdote: The Flooded Widow

• Anna shares a story about an elderly, rent-controlled tenant in her building whose apartment flooded due to shady developer tactics:
  • "Her apartment flooded because of the drilling reg that didn't have DoV approval but was allowed to proceed." (01:48)
• Implies the systemic disregard for ordinary people’s lives:
  • "These developers…just roll in and start ruining your life." (02:07)
  • "Then they get permission retroactively because they say, oh well, time is money. We've already gone this far." (02:13)

Satirical Solution: Zo Ron & Euthanasia

• Dasha delivers a dark-joke "solution" for capitalist urban decay:
  • "That's why I say the euthanasia is a great policy proposal for Zo Ron because what do you do with 80-year-old widows whose apartments flood into the pod?" (02:21)
• Anna follows up with a sardonic comparison to Soviet and Balkan bureaucracies:
  • "It's so Soviet. It's…worse than Soviets Balkan." (02:34)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Anna (About crashing out):
  "I'm the only one crashing out around zoning corruption." (00:55)
• Dasha (On local politics):
  "Thankless and thankless and demoralizing work." (01:34)
• Anna (On developers):
  "They just roll in and start ruining your life." (02:07)
• Dasha (Joking about housing policies):
  "Euthanasia is a great policy proposal for Zo Ron because what do you do with 80-year-old widows whose apartments flood…" (02:21)
• Anna (Summing up the existential mood):
  "It's so Soviet. It's…worse than Soviets Balkan." (02:34)

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• NIMBY Crash Out & Twitter Rants: 00:00 – 00:55
• Personal Stakes in Local Politics: 00:55 – 01:19
• Thankless Nature of Civic Engagement: 01:20 – 01:38
• A Widow’s Flooded Apartment – Developer Corruption: 01:39 – 02:13
• Dasha’s Satirical Policy Proposal & Soviet Parallels: 02:13 – 02:47

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Tone & Style Highlights

The episode’s signature tone is caustic, self-conscious, and bleakly funny—Red Scare at its most conversational and sardonic. Anna and Dasha’s frustration with "ironically detached" online culture and weary resignation toward real-life activism shine through, as does their willingness to punctuate grim anecdotes with dark, satirical humor.

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Transcript

[A]

You're like, you know how it is when you get whipped up. You know, I, I had a total NIMBY crash out. Yeah. Riley came home from work. I told the girls in the spot I was acting like Candace. Like I was like looking at like I was like deep on the DoD website, like downloading like building plans, like doing. Talking about like the tax abatement the building's gonna get now and how it's unjust and how they're all lying and blah blah. The court case. He was like, you're acting like Candace. And then. Yeah. And then the algorithm like gives me more yimby stuff. It makes me chimp out. And then I'm quote tweeting some like assemblyman being like, and this. You're lying for this and this and this reason.

[B]

And.

[A]

I'm like getting. See people actually, people love to sound like ironic. And above it all.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I'm the only one crashing out around zoning corruption.

[B]

I know. Well, I know I'm the only one.

[A]

At the community board meeting.

[B]

Well, yeah, because something personally affected you. Just like something personally affected me. And you have to like speak out against it and raise awareness and all this stuff and actually you're probably right. And I'm probably right about what?

[A]

You mean the bombs?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

But how are you going to get involved on a community level?

[B]

Yeah, like what can you do?

[A]

Well, you can, you can go to the community board meeting. Yeah, you can, you can do things. But you have to get involved in local politics which is horrible.

[B]

Like thankless and thankless and demoralizing work.

[A]

Everyone there is also like downtrod. It's really black pilling. They're all. You realize how much you're up against and how all these people are. There's a woman in my building who, a widow, rent controlled apartment. Okay. Like old lady widow. Her apartment flooded because of the drilling reg that didn't have DoV approval but was allowed to proceed. Like these developers, and I'm not going.

[B]

To say what kind, what race these.

[A]

Developers are, but they just roll in and start ruining your life.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And they don't even have permission to. And then they get permission retroactively because they say, oh well, time is money. We've already gone this far. That's what they try to do.

[B]

Yeah, well, that's why I say the euthanasia is a great policy proposal for Zo Ron because what do you do with 80 year old widows whose apartments flood into the pod?

[A]

That's. I just, it's so Soviet. It's, it's yeah, it's like good. It's worse than Soviets Balkan.

[B]

That is true.

[A]

And Balkan outside.