Redefiners Podcast Summary

Episode Title: Leadership Lounge: The Art of Feedback - How to Have Honest and Candid Conversations
Release Date: November 20, 2024
Hosts: Hoda Tahoun & Clarke Murphy
Guests: Dee Fitzgerald, David Lang, Sylvia Largo
Location: Various Russell Reynolds Associates Offices (Sydney, Chicago, Barcelona)
Duration: Approximately 15 minutes

Introduction

In the episode titled "The Art of Feedback - How to Have Honest and Candid Conversations," Russell Reynolds Associates delves into the nuanced world of feedback within leadership dynamics. Hosted by Leadership Advisor Emma Coombe and featuring insights from Leadership Advisors Dee Fitzgerald, David Lang, and Sylvia Largo, the discussion centers on mastering the delicate balance of giving and receiving feedback effectively to foster growth, innovation, and an inclusive workplace culture.

Framing Feedback Effectively

Dee Fitzgerald emphasizes the importance of focusing on behavior rather than personality when delivering feedback:

[01:40] Dee Fitzgerald: "I think the most critical skill for leaders giving feedback is framing the feedback around behavior rather than personality."

She illustrates this by contrasting subjective comments with specific behavioral observations, highlighting how the latter approach facilitates actionable and unbiased feedback. Dee points out that specificity reduces the likelihood of bias, particularly benefiting female leaders who often receive more subjective feedback.

Emma Coombe adds that immediate and direct feedback is not only kinder but also more effective:

[02:26] Emma Coombe: "...it is kinder to give more direct feedback that isn't vague or too subtle, but it's in the moment. It's actionable, it's constructive, and it's helpful."

Handling Disagreements in Feedback

David Lang addresses the challenges when feedback is disagreed upon:

[03:17] David Lang: "Not everybody takes feedback in the way that you want them to receive the feedback. Right. It has a lot to do with timing, it has a lot to do with the emotional state that the receiver may be in."

He advocates for a two-way conversation, encouraging feedback givers to listen for understanding and find common ground. David underscores the necessity of maintaining a clear and respectful message while being open to adapting perceptions based on dialogue.

Emma Coombe draws parallels to team sports, illustrating how engagement and dialogue transform feedback into a growth-oriented conversation:

[03:06] Emma Coombe: "What would your advice be if the person you're giving feedback to disagrees with you?"

Encouraging Upward Feedback

The conversation shifts to upward feedback, with David Lang highlighting the role of psychological safety:

[05:15] David Lang: "Upward feedback is always a challenge... If the direct report feels like there's an environment of what we would call psychological safety... upward feedback actually becomes something that a direct report will offer regularly and proactively to their leaders."

He advises leaders to actively solicit feedback through leading questions and proactive engagement with various organizational levels.

Emma Coombe references Mary Barra, CEO of General Motors, as an exemplar leader who successfully cultivated a Speak Up for Safety program to promote honest feedback:

[06:03] Emma Coombe: "...she created a Speak up for safety program targeted specifically to encourage upward feedback from employees and leaders alike about safety concerns at the firm."

She warns of the high costs of inadequate feedback, citing examples like shock profit warnings resulting from suppressed feedback channels.

Receiving Feedback Constructively

Sylvia Largo discusses strategies for constructively receiving feedback:

[10:40] Sylvia Largo: "Active listening is one. Are you listening to understand or are you listening to reply?... Just leaning, stay there, stay with the feedback, stay with the question, ask further questions for clarification."

She emphasizes the importance of active engagement, clarification questions, and non-defensive exploration to fully understand and utilize feedback.

Emma Coombe relates this to the challenges faced by newer generations, underscoring the need for leaders to develop resilience in receiving feedback:

[11:33] Emma Coombe: "...nurturing a feedback culture, actually creating the resilience to receive that feedback is not going to be altogether straightforward..."

Obtaining Diverse Feedback

Sylvia Largo introduces the concept of a Board of Mentors and team debriefs as effective methods to obtain diverse and constructive feedback:

[12:41] Sylvia Largo: "Generally I recommend to my coaches and people I provide feedback in our assessment exercises. It means that you select people both internally and externally, people that you admire and you respect for different reasons."

She also advocates for regular team debriefs post-projects to discuss successes and areas for improvement, fostering a continuous feedback loop.

Benefits of Acting on Feedback

Dee Fitzgerald outlines the multifaceted benefits of acting on employee feedback:

[14:49] Dee Fitzgerald: "One of the key benefits of feedback is that it fosters innovation in organizations. When I see leaders encourage feedback and input from their teams, it really empowers people to share new ideas and come up with creative solutions."

She points out that empowered employees contribute to creativity, risk-taking, and a culture of continuous innovation, all of which are critical for business success.

Emma Coombe echoes these sentiments, highlighting that feedback enhances employee engagement and loyalty:

[15:26] Emma Coombe: "When feedback is acted on, you're much more likely to feel engaged with the organization and express loyalty."

She concludes by framing feedback as a gift that unlocks potential and drives inclusive leadership.

Conclusion and Key Takeaways

The episode wraps up with a succinct summary of the critical points discussed:

• Focus on Specific Behaviors: Effective feedback targets specific actions rather than personality traits to ensure clarity and reduce bias.

• Foster a Two-Way Dialogue: Engaging in open conversations allows for mutual understanding and constructive resolution of disagreements.

• Create Psychological Safety: Establishing an environment where honest upward feedback is encouraged and safe ensures continuous improvement and trust.

• Active Listening and Clarification: Leaders must listen to understand, ask clarifying questions, and remain open to feedback without becoming defensive.

• Diverse Feedback Channels: Utilizing methods like Boards of Mentors and team debriefs ensures comprehensive and varied feedback sources.

• Acting on Feedback Drives Innovation: Responding to feedback not only fosters a culture of innovation but also enhances employee engagement and loyalty.

Emma Coombe encourages listeners to embrace feedback with an open mind and commitment to growth, emphasizing its transformative power for both individuals and organizations.

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