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That's fellowship homeloans.com ally terms apply c site for details Fellowship Home Loans Mortgage Lending by the Book Nationwide Mortgage Bankers DBA Fellowship Home Loans Equal Housing Lender NMLS Number 819382 Christianity is a relationship, not a religion. God answers all of our prayers, preach the gospel, and when necessary use words. You've probably heard a lot of these phrases before, maybe you even believe them, but none of them are exactly true. Today we are continuing our most misused series. This time we are talking about popular Christian sounding phrases that are almost true but not quite and diving into the truth that the Bible is actually shares for us. This episode is brought to you by our friends at Good ranchers. Go to good ranchers.com use code ALI at checkout. That's good ranchers.com code ALI. Hey guys. Welcome to Relatable. Happy Monday. Hope everyone has had a wonderful day, a wonderful week so far. If you have not listened to the episode at the end of last week with Ashley Sheets sharing her testimony that ended up going viral, the post of her husband talking about her past got so much backlash even from Christian conservatives. You should go here. Ashley in her own words. Super, super powerful story of God's redemption. Just amazing. Um, also, just one more thing before we start, and I just don't want to forget to tell you this, that God's eternal plan of redemption is going off without a hitch. It is. It still is. Isn't that incredible? No matter what you have going on in your life, your particular circumstance, no matter what unforeseen situation you are in, it was not unfore to God. God is never surprised. He's never taken it back. He's never thrown off. He is never looking down, wondering how in the World, did you get yourself into this mess? I did not see this coming. Oh my goodness. I don't know what to do. Let me put some plans together. Let me come down there and clean up the mess. Oh my goodness. Let me get together with my angels, try to figure out what's going on. That is so not God. God is suspended in the eternal now. He's not limited by space and time like we are. So he sees all of it. He knows all of it. And Romans 8:28 promises us that all things work together for the good of those who love God, who are called according to his purpose. That does not mean that things are going to work out the way that we think that they should, the way that they the the way that we want them to here in this life. It might mean that healing for you, that restoration for you, that fulfillment for you only comes in heaven, only comes fully, at least in eternity. We don't know that we are going to get all of the things that we pray for in this life. But we can trust that God is taking care of us, that he is good, that he does things for our good, to make us holier, to make us more dependent upon him, to make us more satisfied in Him. And in that we can rejoice. It's actually really freeing when we realize that we deserve no good thing. That if God only gave us his son Jesus to die on the cross for our sins, then that would be enough to call God merciful and gracious and good, and everything else is just icing on the cake. And the Lord gives and the Lord takes away. Blessed be the name of the Lord. And we can just thank God for that. And sometimes that's easier said than done. That is absolutely true. But we trust in God's character that Jesus Christ never changes. He's the same yesterday, today, and forever. Hebrews 13:8. And that he is coming back and he will defeat evil once and for all. And one day, there won't be any more cancer. There'll be no more abortion. There will be no more disappointing news. There will be no more sin. You won't be tempted anymore. There will be no more failure. There will be no more disappointment. There will be no more bad news. There will be no more disagreement. Jesus will rule in perfect peace, and we will be with him forever and ever. That's what we have to look forward to. So even when the burden feels really heavy, even when the social media feed feels toxic, even when the news seems really dire, even when there are wars and rumors of wars, there is a God who claims victory. And the day of victory has already been determined, just like the day of your death has already been determined. So we get to live not only in hope, but also completely boldly knowing that we have a God who is sovereign over it all and promises to take care of us. So I always just want to comfort not only you, but myself with that. It's really important to preach the truth not only to others in your life, to disciple your kids, yes, to encourage those around you, if you're a pastor, preaching to your congregation. Congregation, but also to instruct yourself using God's word, using the truth of his word. We never graduate from that. We never graduate from the gospel. We never graduate from the fundamentals of the faith. God has given us these tools to rest in and to give us comfort and to give us wisdom. And in light of that, I am bringing back a form of an old series that we have done on relatable called Most Missed, Most Misused. Most Misused. And today it is about three Christian mythical mottos. And I'm going to break them down and tell you what they mean in popular culture and why they are not true and what God's word actually says about them. So it's relationship, not religion. That's one. Number two, God answers all prayers. Number three, preach the gospel and when necessary, use words. So I came up with a long, long list of common misused Christian sounding mantras. And I thought, okay, if I only do one of these per episode, this series is going to last forever. Um, so I'm going to try to knock out two or three per episode. It won't be every single week consecutively. We'll kind of do it here and there, just like we have done in the past. Now, these particular phrases you've probably all heard before, maybe you've even said these before because they sound really good and in some sense they sound correct. But each of these phrases actually range from incompletely correct to completely incorrect. And I want to go through each of them today to dig into what the Bible actually says about these ideas and why what scripture actually offers us in exchange for these trite sayings is actually so much better. Uh, words are really powerful, which is why mantras are powerful. They have a way of sticking in people's mind, especially if they rhyme or it's an alliteration. And it's why I have some mantras on my show that we've created over the years. Politics matter because policy matters because people matter. God's eternal plan of redemption is going off without a hitch, raise a respectful ruckus. All kinds of things that we have said over and over again over the years to try to remind us of what is true. And progressives also are really good at this. Love is love. No human is illegal. There is something that sounds really beautiful and even instinctively true in these phrases. But as Christian thinkers, we don't judge whether something is true based on how something seems or how it sounds, or how catchy it is, or what our instinct says, or how something makes us feel that is true. Whether a politician is saying it, or whether I'm saying it, or any other advocate, activist, podcaster, or someone in your life is saying it. We judge whether something is true based on reason, based on logic, and most of all, in the truth of God's word. Because God is the inventor of logic. He is the source of all truth, and he has given us this really clear guide to seeking wisdom through the Bible. Like I said earlier, the format of today's episode is going to be familiar to my OG relatable listeners, because you'll remember that back in the beginning years of the show, we did this series called Most Misused, where we went through some of the most widely known Bible verses that are often misconstrued and misapplied. Today. We discussed the misapplication, and then we would go more deeply into the text to answer the question, what does this really mean? So, for example, Psalm 37:4, Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Uh, that verse is used in popular parlance to mean that if you are a Christian and you want something, you will have it. The idea that the existence of that desire is evidence of God's promise to give it to you. In reality, of course, if we delight in the Lord, he will give to our hearts desires that align with his desires. And in the context of that passage, which we've talked about, Psalm 37 a lot on this show, we see that God promises that one day his people will have peace. The peace they desire, the victory they desire. And what we see over and over again is that the true interpretation of Scripture, in any passage, but especially these most misused passages, Psalm 37, 4, Philippians 4, 13, Jeremiah 29:11. The true interpretation is always much deeper and much better than the popular prosperity gospel interpretation of it. So I loved those verses. I felt like I learned so much through them and was so encouraged. And even though that was several years ago, I really, I haven't brought it back in so long because I felt like we'd gone through all the verses that are misused the most. But I wanna now revive the series doing something a little bit different. Instead of using those verses, using popular phrases that Christians so often hear and say that I believe are misstated or at least misunderstood and misapplied. And what we say and what we believe matters in Christianity a whole lot. We are saved by our beliefs, specifically the belief in Christ's sacrifice for us. So it's a really big deal what goes on in our mind and our heart. And based on those beliefs, we are to say what is true, preaching the gospel, making disciples of all nations. So let's do it. Let's get into some of these popular phrases, how they're used and what is actually true. Before we get into the first one, let me pause tell you about our first sponsor for the day. It's Alliance Defending Freedom. So thankful for ADF and everything they do to fight for the sanctity of life, the rights of women and girls to our own private spaces, to our own sex exclusive sports teams. Also fighting for religious liberty, for freedom of speech. 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I see it a lot in comments. And I think people meanwhile, especially when they are evangelizing to people who have maybe come out of legalism or they have no idea what Christianity is and they're confused about some of the rules and the standards and you'll hear people kind of rush to say, well, you don't need to worry about those. It's not about a religion, it's about a Relationship. And what these well meaning people mean is that they want to push us away or push this person away from legalism and into daily conversation with and pursuit of Jesus. And there is part of that that is really true and really good as we'll get into. But let me just give you some examples of this kind of being used by some popular teachers. Joyce Meyer tries to make this distinction
