Dr. Dan Koch (6:23)
So on the one side, you've got panic over a decreasing population, and on the other side, you have panic over an increasing population. There are a couple more similarities that I see between these messages. Number one, they both focus on catastrophic futures. They engage in a form of potentially catastrophizing, which is a cognitive distortion, also known as a thinking error. Within cognitive therapy, the worst possible outcomes of a potential situation are really the only ones that we consider likely, right? So as I. And if I'm feeling anxious, I'm gonna catastrophize more because the catastrophic thoughts match my current emotional state. This is called mood congruent thinking. It's extremely common and really important in cognitive therapy and cognitive theory. So they're both saying, here is a future catastrophe. Interestingly, they are inverse catastrophes of each other. And then the second thing that they share is they contain an inherent moral prerogative if they're taken to their logical conclusions. Right? So if overpopulation is a real big problem, then we should all think about how many children we're having. And actually, a good global citizen will be conscious of the way that his or her choices about family might affect all these other people living now or future people. Similarly, if the underpopulation fear is the real fear, well, then the individual choices a person makes today about having children reflect on whether they are a good global citizen in terms of affecting the people living today or in the future. Now, I will make this personal because it matters to me. I feel it more because of my own history with this question. There was a time, maybe eight, 10 years ago, where Jaffrey, my wife, and I were doing a lot of thinking about starting to try and have kids and thinking about that whole world and kind of wondering if we're doing the right thing. We're thinking a lot about global warming. We're thinking about our carbon footprint, environmentalism, recycling, sort of. The zero waste movement is a major kind of moral issue for Jaffrey. I would say it's kind of maybe her main sort of socially related moral issue, whereas, I don't know, mine might be, like, refugee policy or something like that. So this is a big thing for her. So we've been talking about it for a long time. And I want to give my lifelong friend Lohan Baumgarten some credit here because I floated in this group text with him and two other buddies that I would, you know, maybe we shouldn't have kids because of the carbon, you know, stuff. And he was like, Dan, he's like, stop the presses. This is a very personal decision for you and Jaffrey to make. And I don't think you should make a decision about whether or not you should have children or more or fewer children based on, like, current scientific projections. And at the time, I was like, okay, I see the logic of that. And it was really helpful for me to hear. Now, all these years later, I think just a little pinch of fairy dust and perfect wisdom delivered direct to me from my friend. And I fully agree with him. Now, I would make the same argument for anybody who's thinking about this or, you know, just this could be applied to other things too. Childbearing is just sort of an obvious way to look at it because it has this absolute math to it. Overpopulation, underpopulation, adding kids, not adding kids. There's a nice elegance to it. It's very straightforward. And I think it's really interesting to consider as a side example, the question of immigration in American politics. These fears can also be catastrophic. So a catastrophic treatment on the right is, okay, too many immigrants, it's gonna dissolve our cultural heritage. That's gonna lead to other problems. It's also gonna maybe be on our safety net and social services. So maybe that'll be a big economic problem and lead to a bunch of crime. So we need to restrict immigration. We need fewer people coming here. And then on the left, there can be a form of catastrophe that's like, if we don't have enough immigration, we will have a demographic decline. For instance, in this case, a left leaning person might have a United States specific argument about birth rate and say we need to bring in immigrants to replace the birth rate. This is actually probably a view that I hold, politically speaking, if people want to come here and they're willing to do the kind of work we don't want to do, and we're not having enough babies, get them in here. But notice that's a left leaning argument. It's using the same structure, but it's restricting the lens to only the United States of America as opposed to the globe. Right. And that will keep us from national stagnation, economically or cultural stagnation, because we just get kind of two up our own butts. We're like two inbred, so to speak. The thing that's interesting there is, number one, it muddies the waters and shows how the data can be used to make different kinds of arguments. And then the second one is that catastrophizing does a lot of work here. You are probably more likely to buy the argument that we need to restrict immigration around questions of cultural dissolution. If you've heard versions of the replacement, a great replacement theory, that Democrats are bringing all these people in on purpose to register them as Democrats and then run white Christian America out of town, basically. To the extent that you think that catastrophic future is real, you are going to be motivated by fear and you're going to be. You're going to find yourself more in lockstep with an immigration argument. The thing there is just that, like the catastrophizing, which is so powerful and any human being could be subject to the power thereof, it really can warp things. I mean, it distorts them literally. We call it a cognitive distortion, right? It distorts our cognitions. So I've got four takeaways from this overall situation here. Number one, nobody knows the future. The best we can do is model it with varying levels of accuracy. Hopefully those models are getting more accurate in general through time, but there's a lot of uncertainty baked in anytime we're looking at the future. Number two, whether or not to have children is a huge decision, maybe one of the most human decisions a person can ever make. I know that many children are the natural result of sex and not necessarily some explicit decision to have kids. But here I'm speaking more directly to those who are considering this stuff more carefully. And I think we should give ourselves grace for the difficulties in making such a huge and central decision. And we should be careful what advice we're listening to around that. Number three, catastrophizing in this case can work both ways. I really just mean to say catastrophizing can make you afraid of something. In this case, I think it's interesting because it's like too many people or too few people. They are literally mutually incompatible. And which is it again? Back to number one. We don't know. We don't know the future. Finally doing the right thing in this situation, specifically as regards the future of Earth and the human race, this is a genuine unknown. Contributing more children to the Earth might make things on the whole worse if the overpopulation or extreme warming futures are real. Alternatively, contributing fewer children to the Earth might make things on the whole, worse. If the birth crisis and underpopulation worries are real. You don't know, I don't know. And nobody asking for you to become a founding member of their substack knows either. None of us know. So we grope forward in the dark. We do our best, and we try and read the best science we have access to and we just give it our best shot. And in the meanwhile we can notice things that we are doing, like catastrophizing, that are maybe getting in the way. So onward and upward to you, my lovely listeners. Thank you guys for sticking in here. And really, I think this is a nice bleed into my conversation with Kevin Kelly around protopianism, because he's basically saying it's neither utopianism nor dystopianism. And in one way what we're talking about here, these over and underpopulation, these are both dystopian futures. And then they're sort of like techno optimist utopian futures that sometimes are around, especially in Kevin's circles. And he sort of identifies himself as none of the above. 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Our jewelry experts are here to help you find or create the perfect gift in store or online. Book your appointment today and unwrap love this season only at K. I am joined today by Kevin Kelly. Kevin is a writer, a futurist, founding editor of Wired magazine, and Kevin's work explores technology, culture and biology, sort of the evolution therein. And he's known for what he calls a protopian optimism, which is the first thing that I want to ask you about Kevin. So thanks for being here. And what is protopianism? I understand it's somewhere in between. It's neither dystopian about the future nor utopian about the future. What's this middle spot you've staked out?