From Medal of Honor: Showing Up On Veterans Day

Summary

Podcast Summary: Revisionist History – The Alabama Murders

Special Episode: From Medal of Honor – Showing Up On Veterans Day

Date: November 11, 2025
Host: J.R. Martinez (with producer Ryan Sweikart)
Podcast Series: Medal of Honor (distributed through Pushkin Industries in the context of Revisionist History: The Alabama Murders)

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Overview of the Episode’s Main Theme

This special Veterans Day episode is an intimate conversation between host J.R. Martinez (Iraq War veteran, burn survivor, and advocate) and producer Ryan Sweikart. The discussion centers on the meaning of Veterans Day, the importance of genuine connection with veterans, the transformative power of storytelling, and the simple but profound act of “showing up” — both in military service and in everyday life. J.R. reflects on his personal journey (both as a soldier and a public figure), the difficulties and rewards of sharing military and trauma stories, and what listeners can expect from the upcoming season of "Medal of Honor."

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Key Discussion Points and Insights

1. Valuing Veterans Beyond “Thank You for Your Service”

[03:30 – 05:43]

• J.R. Martinez encourages listeners to go beyond perfunctory thanks, urging meaningful engagement:

  “Don’t make the decision for that individual. Let that individual tell you if they're ready to talk.” — J.R. Martinez [05:43]

• He draws a contrast between adults’ tentativeness and children’s raw curiosity, suggesting adults should keep some of that “fearlessness” when reaching out.
• The importance of allowing veterans to dictate what they want to share; don’t project discomfort or fears onto them.

2. J.R. Martinez’s Story: Identity, Trauma, and Recovery

[05:57 – 13:33]

• J.R. recounts his decision to enlist after 9/11, feeling both uncertainty and patriotism:

  “The military now became that opportunity for me. It was an opportunity for me to go serve, get discipline… a one stop shop.” [06:20]

• He describes the Humvee explosion in Iraq that nearly killed him, the experience of being trapped in a burning vehicle, and the lessons learned from survival:

  “When things start to feel a little overwhelming… I like to close my eyes. I like to connect with my breath and I like to connect with my thoughts.” [09:48]

• The trauma of being medically discharged, confronting a shattered identity, and adjusting to a new physical and psychological reality.
• The turning point: being coerced by hospital staff (“like a mother/son dynamic,” [12:15]) to visit another patient, realizing the healing power of simply “showing up” for others.

3. The Double Message of Veterans Day

[13:33 – 14:33]

• Martinez highlights that his message is for both civilians (to reach out) and veterans (to stay engaged, resist isolation):

  “It probably feels in the short term better to isolate yourself. But the long term, in order for you to be what you are destined to be, we have to be willing to, like, just keep showing up.” [13:35]

4. “Showing Up” — The Secret of Heroism

[14:33 – 17:36]

• A central motif of both his military/recovery experience and the Medal of Honor podcast; “showing up” is more decisive than perfect preparation:

  “They didn’t have extensive training… when a moment asks somebody to show up, they just showed up and they figured it out… That’s why I think many of them are like, why am I being awarded this incredible honor?” — J.R. Martinez [14:49]

• Reminds listeners that alleged “superheroes” are ordinary people who responded at the right moment; heroism starts with presence, not perfection.

5. Public Storytelling & Dancing With the Stars

[18:50 – 21:48]

• Martinez shares how his time on "Dancing With the Stars" became a platform for veteran storytelling and public healing.
• His week-3 dance was particularly meaningful:

  “We danced to the song … ‘If You’re Reading This’ … telling the story of so many men and women. … In the ballroom … every single person was standing up. … Thank you for telling that story.” [20:57–21:48]

• Parallel drawn between the power of narrative in reality television and in podcasting.

6. The Hard but Necessary Work of Veterans Sharing Their Stories

[21:59 – 23:34]

• Martinez advocates for more veterans to “share and talk as much as they feel comfortable with,” for their own healing and public empathy:

  “You fought for yourself, man. Like, not just everybody else, but for you, too.” [22:20]

• Reframing of “service” to include self-care and the right to heal.

7. Reflections on Veteran Identity

[23:34 – 25:32]

• On developing and reconciling multiple identities (soldier, survivor, veteran) over two decades:

  “It gave me a space … to identify the greatness that lied in me. … I have no regrets, man.” [24:02]

• Continued sense of purpose through teamwork and storytelling, likened to serving in the military.

8. Looking Ahead: Season 3 of Medal of Honor

[25:32 – 26:22]

• Teasers for the upcoming season (May 2026): listeners can expect further inspiring stories underscoring human potential and perseverance.
• Martinez invites the audience to participate via a listener survey, reinforcing the podcast’s commitment to community and shared purpose.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments (with Timestamps)

• On Reaching Out to Veterans:

  “Just go shoot from the hip, man. … Don’t make the decision for that individual. Let … them tell you if they’re ready to talk.” — J.R. Martinez [04:57–05:43]

• On Survival and Hope:

  “I had this false sense of hope that someone was going to come pull me out — and they did.” — J.R. Martinez [09:52]

• On Healing through Service:

  “All I needed to do was just show up. … That gave me part of my identity back — the ability to serve.” — J.R. Martinez [12:18-13:00]

• On “Superheroes” and Humanity:

  “It’s easy to look at the things that these guys do as just sort of like these amazing heroics. But really, it’s just the confluence of, like, this training, this ability, and the right moment. … They’re not superheroes. … We all have this.” — J.R. Martinez [16:15–17:14]

• Teaching Civilians and Veterans Alike:

  “For as much as I’m talking to the listener that’s potentially a civilian, I’m also talking to that vet.” — J.R. Martinez [13:35]

• On Dancing with the Stars:

  “I finished the routine, man, and I’m crying… In the ballroom…every single person was standing up. The response was: Thank you. Thank you for telling that story.” — J.R. Martinez [21:48]

• On Self-Compassion:

  “You fought for yourself, man. Like, not just everybody else, but for you, too.” — J.R. Martinez [22:20]

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Important Timestamps

• [01:08] – J.R. Martinez’s Veterans Day message
• [03:54] – Advice for civilians reaching out to veterans
• [06:20] – J.R.’s military enlistment and early feelings
• [08:47] – Humvee explosion and lessons from survival
• [12:18] – Healing through helping others
• [14:49] – The theme of “showing up” in the podcast
• [18:50] – “Dancing with the Stars” experience
• [22:20] – Message to veterans about self-worth and healing
• [25:36] – Anticipation for next season of the podcast

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Tone and Language

The tone is warm, honest, and encouraging. J.R. Martinez’s candor about both pain and hope makes the episode deeply human and accessible — never preachy, but gently challenging listeners to show up for veterans (“and for each other”) in more courageous ways.

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Conclusion

This episode is a moving call to action — not just to honor veterans, but to engage bravely in real connection and storytelling. It is both a personal testimonial and a preview of the transforming power of service and narrative that listeners can expect in the upcoming season of "Medal of Honor." Through his vulnerability, humor, and authenticity, Martinez renews the meaning of Veterans Day for civilians and veterans alike, reminding us: everyone has a story, and sometimes all you have to do is show up.

Transcript

[Ryan Sweikart]

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[Ryan Sweikart]

Pushkin.

[J.R. Martinez]

Today we celebrate Veterans Day. It's a time for us to reflect on the sacrifices made by the men and women who have served and protected this country across generations. I'm J.R. martinez. In the last season of Medal of Stories of Courage, I had the privilege of telling the heroic stories of some of the bravest veterans to ever put on the uniform. Like Sal Junta, who ran through a hail of bullets to save his best friend from capture. Or Carl Sitter, the wounded Marine captain who refused to be evacuated until the job was done. Ordinary men who were thrust into impossible situations, who didn't just meet the challenge of the day, but plowed through it. If you've been listening to our show, you know the value of that kind of courage. But I'm here to tell you that everyone who has ever put on the uniform has a story. So today I'd like to encourage you to talk to the veterans in your life. And don't just thank them for their service, ask them about it. It shouldn't end with just a thank you. We're hard at work on the next season of Medal of Honor, and it's coming in May of next year. But in the meantime, I want to hear from you about what you'd like to hear from us. We put together a listener survey. Tell us what you love about the show, what we can improve on, stories you think we've missed. As we observe this Veterans Day, we're recommitting ourselves to not just making the show, but making it better. And you can help us to take the survey head to Bit Ly Mohsurvey. That's Bit Ly Mohsurvey. That link is also in our show Notes. For this episode, I sat down with my producer, Ryan Swykert, to talk about what we owe our veterans today and what we can expect in the upcoming season of Medal of honor.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Well, J.R. i am so happy to be sitting with you here in Pushkin Industries in beautiful New York City.

[J.R. Martinez]

Yes, sir. It's nice. Beautiful, cool outside. Here I am walking, you know, in New York, and I'm like. And a lady sneezed. I was like, bless you. And she just kind of looked at me, you know, and just kept it moving. And I was like, oh, I love New York. Right? Like, and it's.

[Ryan Sweikart]

I'm really excited to be talking to you about, you know, the things that you learned making this show and what the listeners can expect this upcoming season and today's Veterans Day. It's interesting. Like, I have veterans in my life, and, you know, as a civilian, sometimes it feels like maybe you don't want to broach the subject with somebody to get them to talk about bad things that happened to them.

[J.R. Martinez]

Yeah.

[Ryan Sweikart]

What would you say to that?

[J.R. Martinez]

Let them tell you. Let them dictate. You'll know immediately if this individual was. Wants to talk and if they do, how much they want to share. Why are we underestimating that they're capable of telling us? A lot of us don't want to infringe because they don't want to pry because they're afraid, you know, But I think a lot of people don't want to infringe because they're. They don't want that vet to be like, it's none of your business. I don't want to talk about it because how it's going to make us feel.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Exactly.

[J.R. Martinez]

You know, you do these little events, and, you know, you get. You get around kids, and kids are like. Kids have no filter, man. I mean, as brutally, as raw as it may be, at times when a kid would come up to me and, like, what happened to your face? I mean, straight up, man, these kids are brutal. But at the end of the day, I mean, it's inspiring to see these kids that are doing that. And I think, as adults, to some degree, like, we need to kind of, like, still carry a little bit of that inner child in us because they're, you know, curious, fearless.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Just ask a question.

[J.R. Martinez]

Just go shoot from the hip, man. And Veterans Day, you know, again, we're so used to going up to a vet, you know, and say, thank you for your service. And what do they say? Thank you. And they're like, all right, have a good day. Walk away. Right. What happened there? Yes, you allowed someone to feel appreciated, and that is equally important. However, you. You just walked away not knowing what that person did, not knowing what you really thank them. For that person now doesn't really know you, versus if you approached them and said, you know, yes. If you want to lead with the hey, I just want to say thank you for your service. Really appreciate it. And they're like, thank you. And I'm like, would you mind telling me, like, what, what did you do in the military? You know, where'd you serve?

[Ryan Sweikart]

Just starting a conversation with the veterans in your life, right?

[J.R. Martinez]

That's it? Yeah, that's it, man. I just tell people, like, don't make the decision for that individual. Let that individual tell you if they're ready to talk.

[Ryan Sweikart]

I want to back up just a little bit.

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[Ryan Sweikart]

So a lot of listeners are familiar with your story, but I think a lot of new listeners might not be. And being that it's Veterans Day today, I was wondering if you could just tell me the story of when you became a veteran.

[J.R. Martinez]

Absolutely not.

[Ryan Sweikart]

All right. That's okay. I just wanted to ask.

[J.R. Martinez]

There we go. There it is. Put it in practice already. I love it, man.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Completely understand. Yeah, I wouldn't want to talk about it either.

[J.R. Martinez]

Exactly. There you go. See? And that's. But that's the way to do it. So essentially I was a senior in high school when 911 took place. And like everybody, of course, confused, afraid, but also, I think just felt this deep patriotism of, what can I do? I want to do something. And so the military now became that opportunity for me. It was an opportunity for me to go serve. It was an opportunity for me to get more discipline. It was an opportunity for me to travel, get money, for college, all the things. It was a one stop shop. And so off I go to the army as an infantryman. And six months after I enlisted, I found myself in, in combat in Iraq. At first I didn't really feel like I played a role. I was like, what? I mean, I'm not really doing anything here. Like, I mean, I'm not helpful to anybody. I don't know any of this stuff. And it took one of my leaders to give a briefing to our unit. And in that briefing, he talked about the importance of service. He talked about the importance of every single person in the role that they played on accomplishing our mission. And he was giving this whole speech, man, and I literally was like, oh, my God, all right, I get it now. I do play a role. I do matter. I am part of this team. And, you know, I was only in Countryman for three and a half weeks. That's it. And then on the 5th of April of 2003. I'm driving to Humvee through a city called Karbala when the front left tire runs over a roadside bomb. There were three other guys in the Humvee. They were all thrown out, but I was trapped inside. And within a matter of seconds, this Humvee was now engulfed in flames. And, you know, I can't get out for five minutes that I was trapped inside of this burning Humvee. I was in and out of consciousness because I had 30 degree burns. But the biggest thing that was threatening whether I was going to survive or not, was the fact that I had inhalation damage. So I was inhaling all the smoke from the fire. I had broken ribs. It was hard for me to breathe. So this is what it sounded like. It was like, help, help. Like that. And then there would be these moments where my body would get really heavy. Like my eyes would get heavy, my body would start to kind of get weak, and my eyes would be on the verge of closing and they would close. But when my eyes closed, there's two things that I vividly remember. One is feeling my breath. I could feel myself breathing or trying to. And the second thing is my thoughts. And then I would tell myself, don't keep your eyes closed, because if you do, that's it, you're giving up. Someone's going to pull you out, open your eyes. And I would open my eyes and I would continue to scream and yell. But what I learned from the 5th of April of 2003 is that hopefully I and the listener, we won't find ourselves in a burning situation right where we're trapped. Hopefully that's not the case. However, life in itself, because it could be overwhelming and a lot of pressures can feel like we're in a burning situation. And so what I've learned from that five minutes that I was trapped inside of that Humvee is that when things start to feel a little overwhelming, when things start to feel a little out of control, I just like to close my eyes. I like to connect with my breath and I like to connect with my thoughts.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Well, and ask for help.

[J.R. Martinez]

Right, and ask for help.

[Ryan Sweikart]

That's the other thing.

[J.R. Martinez]

And trust that people will show up for you. I had to trust in those five minutes that somebody was going to show up. I had this false sense of hope that someone was going to come pull me out. And they did. And I was pulled out of the Humvee, started the medevac process, put into a medical induced coma, ended up in San Antonio, Texas. And then three weeks later, Came out of my medical induced coma to my new reality. You know, after my injury, I was in a medical induced coma for three weeks. And when I came out of my medical induced coma, the first question, no different than any other service member that I asked the medical team was, when can I get out and when can I get back with my unit and finish my tour? And the first bombshell, if you will, that they dropped on me was they told me that I wasn't going to be allowed to stay in the army. I was going to be medically discharged. That was really hard for me because I started to create this identity of, okay, I love this, this military thing, I love this, this uniform. I love this concept of service. Like, I love being a part of this. And now you're taking that away from me also. Within the same, like, week and a half, I saw my face and my body for the first time understood the severity of my injury. And so I always say to people, you know, two weeks after I came out of my coma, I lost both of my identities. Like, I didn't know who I was. And I mean, at that point I was just kind of going through the motions, just kind of surviving the day. I had to really let go of the pressure of what long term was going to look like. And I started to really focus on just the short term, the now, the today. And six months later, I'm asked to visit a patient who was in the hospital, essentially navigating the same thing I was navigating six months prior. And I was encouraged to go in and talk to him. And, you know, like a typical 20 year old, I was like, now, now, now. And, you know, the staff who had at that point became more like my friends and family. And this nurse, Ms. Walker, she was like, no, go in there. And I was like, fine, I'll do it. Gosh. I mean, literally, like a, a mother, son dynamic.

[Ryan Sweikart]

And do you know why you were so reluctant to go?

[J.R. Martinez]

Because I was like, I'm 20. What, what am I gonna say? I don't know what I'm gonna say to this individual. Like, I have nothing to offer. And that was my first mistake. Because what I realized when I walked into that room and he was definitely in a bad place, I realized all I needed to do was just show up. And I remember having a 45 minute conversation with this patient. And when I left, I was like, hey, man, I'll come back tomorrow. He's like, yeah, man, I'd appreciate that. Like, it was a completely different vibe in his room. And I started visiting patients every day. And what that did is that gave me, what part of my identity back, the ability to serve. I realize I can serve again in a different way, in a different capacity, but I can serve. I learned that I needed to be vulnerable. The more that I've done that, I have found some really incredible people that I call my family now. I have created deeper connections with people that I probably never would have had. I continued to keep this sort of shield in front of me, just trusting that not everybody, but there are a hell of a lot of people out there that are equipped to show up for you, but you also have to equally let them know that you need that.

[Ryan Sweikart]

It sounds like a Veterans Day message.

[J.R. Martinez]

That's it, man. You know, as much as I'm put, you know, we're talking to the listener that's potentially a civilian, I'm also talking to that vet. It's hard walking the streets of the world. Even if there's only 500 people that live in your town or there's 5 million people in New York City, you know, in the same burrow as you right now, it's hard and it's easy to feel isolated, and it probably feels in the short term, better to isolate yourself. But the long term, in order for you to be what you are destined to be, we have to be willing to, like, just keep showing up. And the military, they taught us that. And just because we're not in it anymore doesn't mean that that goes away. Show up for others, and through that, you start to kind of discover more about yourself. And that was true for me as I started to discover so much more about myself by just showing up for others.

[Ryan Sweikart]

You talk about showing up and, you know, working on this podcast, you've seen that, like, yes, a lot of these guys are very heroic, and a lot of the things they did were amazing, but they got in those positions in the first place by just showing up.

[J.R. Martinez]

Yeah.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Do you wanna talk a little bit about that?

[J.R. Martinez]

Yeah, man. I mean, working on season two of Medal of Honor and listening to season one with Malcolm, it just reminded me of how important it is to simply just show up, to just. Just be there. Like, you don't have to have all the answers. I mean, you listen to some of these individuals in season two, and they didn't have extensive training. They didn't have combat training. They didn't get the luxury to go to this school and that school. I didn't. Right. Like, that's a common theme in some of these stories. Yet when A moment asks somebody to show up. They just showed up and they figured it out. Like, guys were able to just navigate it and do some incredible things that I think they surprised themselves, which is why I think many of them are like, why am I being awarded this incredible honor? Like, why do I deserve this? Right. I think anybody would have done that. I think we all would have tried to navigate it the same way. And if there's anything you take away from this podcast, it's simply being inspired by these stories that for some of us, including myself, they feel like, no, these are fictional stories. There's. I can't. No, that's not real. That happened. We.

[Ryan Sweikart]

I mean, it's easy to look at the things that these guys do as just sort of like these amazing heroics.

[J.R. Martinez]

Yeah.

[Ryan Sweikart]

But really, it's just the confluence of, like, this training, this ability, and the right moment.

[J.R. Martinez]

Yeah, you're. I mean, and a lot of them, it's just like, like, what would I have done? What would I have done if there was someone with a machine gun, like, in a position? Like, would I have charged in? What would I have done? And so you easily start to kind of think these are, like, just superheroes, and they're not. They're human beings. We all have this. We really do. And I just love that we. I get to be part of the team to help keep these legacies alive and then help people that are listening realize that they, too, can be like Carl Sitter, they can be like Jefferson DeBlanc. They can be like all these individuals that we've covered in the first two seasons of Medal of Honor. It's a reminder for all of us as human beings, as Americans, as listeners of this podcast, when we're listening to these stories to just keep showing up. We want to run away. But showing up might actually allow you to realize the true hero that is in you, that is just waiting for that moment to come out.

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[Ryan Sweikart]

JR I actually recently learned that you were on Dancing with the Stars. I did not know this about you. You're a man of many talents.

[J.R. Martinez]

You know, man, sometimes I forget that I was on Dancing with the.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Not only were you on Dancing with the Stars, my friend, but you won.

[J.R. Martinez]

The winners and new champions of Dancing with the Stars, JR And Karina.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Which makes you infinitely a better dancer than I could ever be. But how did this come about? And, like, I'm just curious about how and if you talked about being a veteran on the show.

[J.R. Martinez]

Yeah, I was on that show, and it was veteran first. It really was promoted. Like, we have this veteran on the show. And what was cool about it is, yes, I went on to show the world that I have a personality. Obviously, I could dance, but I was just like, this character. Like, I just. I'm silly. I'm goofy and. But people were like, oh, that's cool. Here's a guy that, you know, some people will look at me, like, scary to see, you know, like, the scars and whatever. But look at him. He's actually, like, clowning, laughing, silly, like, he's just a goofball. And so it was awesome. And I remember week three, I did a rumba. We danced to the song, Tim McGraw's song. If you're reading this, you did a.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Rumba to a Tim McGraw song. Yeah. Okay, I gotta look at that.

[J.R. Martinez]

If you're reading this, the lyrics are. He's telling a story of a service member, so he writes a letter to his wife. Essentially, he's saying, if you're reading this, I passed away while in the military. I remember sitting in the rehearsal room with Karina Smirnoff, my partner, and I was like, yeah, this is an important story to tell. Before we danced, they showed the package again, and it was about my recovery. And, oh, man. Just thinking about it, like, they showed all these people. They interviewed them behind my back. I had no clue. They put this package together, which is the worst thing to do to somebody that's about to dance in front of millions of people.

[Ryan Sweikart]

You had to watch this before you watched it.

[J.R. Martinez]

I had to watch it. Oh, my God. And so I'm standing there watching it, waiting for this package to end. The Announcer to introduce us. And then the music starts playing, and we go. And I tell you, dude, by the time we started, I. I had tears in my eyes, like. And it wasn't just about me. It was like, I'm telling the story of so many men and women. I finished the routine, man, and I'm crying. I only, like, 90 seconds. That's how long we dance on the show. And probably the last 45 seconds of that routine, I'm crying. In the ballroom where they filmed Dancing with the Stars, every single person was standing up. The response that we got from that, what people told us, was, thank you. Thank you for telling that story.

[Ryan Sweikart]

I think that's interesting because that's pretty much what you're doing on this show too. You know, you are in conversation with these interviews with these veterans who've done these amazing things, and you're telling their stories.

[J.R. Martinez]

Yeah.

[Ryan Sweikart]

I think one theme we're circling here in this conversation is storytelling and how important that is to. To the veteran experience. Right.

[J.R. Martinez]

100%. And we need more vets to be willing to share and to talk as much as they feel comfortable with.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Why is that important?

[J.R. Martinez]

Because it is important for people to learn about who we are, one. So, again, we can have a connection. But, you know, we like to say in the military, we fought for your freedom. We fought for your right. And I think some of us, we lose sight of that when we come home and we're struggling. And what I like to remind them is like, okay, it's easy to say you fought for everyone else's right, but you also fought for your own. You deserve to live. You deserve to heal. You deserve to go through your process to get the out. You deserve that. You fought for yourself, man. Like, not just everybody else, but for you, too. I tell my story, and I'm hoping that there's a vet that's listening right now or a loved one of a vet, and they're like, you know what? All right, maybe what I'm struggling with, it's okay, but I should reach out. Maybe it encourages the listener right now to say, you know what? Oh, man, I need to have a little bit more compassion and not just look at them as, like, trained robots that just. No, they're human beings that have lives, that have emotions, that have feelings, that have the same desires that we do. They have aspirations. Right. Like, they have those same things, but they also still have those complications, like we all do.

[Ryan Sweikart]

One of the things I noticed you said earlier was that you had developed this identity as a soldier, right? And that was something that didn't come easy to you at first. You weren't really sure what you were doing there. And then you had leadership that helped you find that identity. Right? But then you get injured and you have a new identity. Right. And for the past 20 years, you've been a veteran, and I just wonder, you know, what you've Learned in those 20 years with this identity of being a veteran.

[J.R. Martinez]

I'm proud. I'm proud of the initial decision to join the military, not really understanding this fraternity that I was joining. I'm grateful because it gave me the opportunity to discover myself. It gave me a space, a platform to identify the greatness that lied in me. It gave me the avenue to discover that. And the military helped me find this concept of service, helped me find this importance of teamwork and how to show up and how to be a leader and how to get people, you know, to buy in. And I'm grateful. I have no regrets, man. Absolutely none. I mean, it's kind of hard to really encapsulate, like, what my life has been over the last, you know, two decades. I mean, it's. It's kind of wild, to be honest. I've kind of like the Forrest Gump, in a sense, of just kind of, like, just, yeah, sure, I'll try that. Sure. I mean, I never hosted a podcast like this, you know, and here I am doing that. This. Working with this incredible team and telling these incredible stories, and I feel the passion and the love to tell these stories in such a careful way that we do them justice. And it makes me feel like I'm kind of back in the military in a sense, like I'm part of this team.

[Ryan Sweikart]

What are you looking forward to in this upcoming season of Medal of Honor?

[J.R. Martinez]

Oh, man. What you guys have up your sleeve, what you guys do and how you do all this research and put all these stories together, and, you know, I'm the final piece that comes in and helps, you know, try to tell them. It's unfortunate that it's May of next year when episode one's gonna be released, you know, because I feel like I'm like, I want this now. Well, the good thing is you can go listen to season one and season two. Right? But I'm just. I'm excited to just learn and to just be inspired, because I know there's a lot of stories in there that are just gonna be incredibly motivating and inspiring and a reminder of what humans are capable of doing.

[Ryan Sweikart]

And I can tell you just from having worked on some of the stories coming up that they're capable of a lot.

[J.R. Martinez]

Yeah, I can't wait, man. Incredible things coming up. I can't wait. So I hope everyone that's listening now, I hope that you put some sort of alert reminder May 2026, Medal of Honor season three. I hope you tune in as well and we can go on this journey together. But before that, as I said in the opening click on that link in the show notes. I mean, truly, when we say this, we mean that we want to hear from you. We want to understand what are some things that you want to know, what are maybe some subjects, maybe some individuals. Whatever it is, this is a community. And we want our listeners to feel like they're part of our community because they are. They matter. We want these stories to continue to live. So reach out to us, communicate with us. But set that alert, that reminder for May 2026 season 3 episode 1 all.

[Ryan Sweikart]

Right, JR thank you so much for doing this.

[J.R. Martinez]

It was a pleasure, my man. Thank you so much. Yeah, same here, brother. We want to thank you again for listening to this special episode of Medal of Honor. Once again, we'd love to hear from you. If you have a couple of minutes, please take our listener survey head to Bit Ly Mohsurvey. That's Bit Ly Mohsurvey. That link is also in our show notes. This episode of Medal of Stories of Courage was produced by Ryan Sweikart. Our editor is Lydia Jean Cott. Sound design and additional music by Jake Gorski. Our executive producer is Constanza Gallardo. Original music by Eric Phillips. And I'm your host, J.R. martinez.

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