Austin (27:12)
Yeah, Christina, this one's tough, right? Because you know your monthly mortgage is 4,100 bucks and you're like, how do we get it down to 3,500 or 3,000, right? Or like, how do you get it down? You have a mortgage rate of 3% instead of 6.7. And our reality is I don't think mortgage rates are going to be in the 4% percent range at all anytime soon. Right. We're thinking maybe fives next year if we're lucky. But I don't know it all. It all depends on the 10 year yield, which is a misconception. A lot of people think it depends on the Federal Reserve cutting interest rates Nothing to do with that. The framework that I use is refinancing. Your mortgage comes with an upfront cost, a couple thousand dollars, right? So your monthly payment is 4,100 bucks. My general rule of thumb is if you can recoup over the next 18 to 36 months your entire upfront comp cost in monthly mortgage payment savings because of a lower interest rate, then it makes sense. So that's kind of the framework I like to use. Like, when does it make sense? It makes sense when you can like recoup on your cost to refinance over the next 18, 24, maybe 36 months, depending on your situation. It just seems like you guys are pinched for cash. And unfortunately that means either one a career change. Maybe you're really good at sales, like go do sales for someone else that has a better compensation plan. Or you know, it seems like if you're, you're making great money and the compensation plan change is like actually affecting you pretty badly, maybe there's a world where you can do what you're doing for a competitor, right? Maybe they have a better compensation plan then. So there's a lot of different ways to think about this. But just know, Christina, we're rooting for you and we hope that our sort of framework around the mortgage refinancing helps your situation. So our next question comes from Lex on Instagram. Lex says, hi, Austin and Robert. We'd love your take on our situation as we try to make smart long term decisions for our family. We're both 49. We met later in life and had a child in our mid-40s who is now 4 years old. Years old. My husband earns $200,000 a year in a stable corporate role with good benefits taking home 8, $400 a month. I've built a strong career in communications and consulting. But after a layoff in 2023 and a consulting slowdown in 2025, I've had no income since May. We bought our home in 2023, unfortunately, right before my layoff. And the home's value is 1.3 million. We owe 1 million on it. It's a 3.4% mortgage with an 8% HELOC, which means the mortgage and together is $6,600 a month. We have roughly $300,000 of equity in the home. We have a $600 a month car loan, $800 a month student loans, $800 a month credit card and other living expenses of just under 2,000amonth. We've already burnt through our emergency fund and we're now selling stocks out of a $30,000 brokerage account to make ends meet. Our combined 401ks are worth around 650,000. We love our current community and our daughter's school, but the cost of living is steep. We're open to renting or even relocating, but we value stability for our daughter. I've been applying in networking constantly while balancing childcare. It's the first real dry spell I've faced. I've worked since I was 14 and it's hard not to contribute financially. I've explored everything from becoming a Pilates instructor to acquiring a small business to launching an app and right now I feel like I'm just spinning my wheels. We'd love your perspective on whether to hold onto our home and write out this period or sell it and reset in a lower cost area. We also want to how do we protect our long term wealth while covering short term needs and any short term financial moves that you think that we should prioritize? We both have worked really hard to build a life that we love, but we feel stuck between playing defense and taking bold action. Lex, I am so glad that you reached out to us because I've got, I've got the solution. Here's the solution. And we read this actually ahead of time and I was like, okay, this will be fun to think through. But then it didn't hit me till after I read it the second time. Here live. Your husband earns 200,000 a year year in his stable corporate role. But he's only taking home $8,400 a month. That means he's taking home 100,000 of his 200,000 salary. Where's the other $100,000 a year going? Because at a effective tax rate of 20%, you're still talking about $60,000 a year. $5,000 a month of after tax dollars. That is going somewhere. Where is it going? Is he contributing to his 401ks? He doing, you know, different types. You mentioned good benefits. I don't know what's going on behind the scenes here, but you need to pause all of that and you need to make sure that that 5,000amonth is coming home to you guys. You don't need to be putting in a 401k. You don't need to be putting it into a life insurance policy through your work. You don't need to be putting, don't need to be doing any of that stuff. You need to make sure that $5,000 a month extra is coming home to you now we're talking about 13,400amonth. That changes your life. The second thing I want to talk about is I empathize of having a dry spell and not being able to do 2023. Time to get a job, though. Time to go wait tables. Time to go throw boxes at Walmart for 18 bucks an hour. Time to go scoop at Chipotle time. Like, go get a job. That's. I mean, I'm trying to be nice, but I'm also not because you've been kind of like, like it's been two years. Like, let's just go get a job. I understand that you might want to, you know, go make the 120k that you were making before. As the corporate person, I was the president of the company. I hear you. Hopefully that comes around in your future. But we are in crisis mode. In crisis mode doesn't mean I've got the flexibility to save out for that one cool dream job at the dream location that I want to work at. It means, sure, I'm applying to those things, but I'm also now doing doordash every single day, or I'm also working at, you know, Walmart for six hours and doing part time here at Publix or whatever it might be to make that 12, 15, 18 an hour. That's going to help us get across the finish line. Because again, you guys are in crisis mode. You've spent through the emergency fund, you're cashing out the investments, you're doing everything and you're saying, hey, we don't even sell the house. Like, we can't do this anym. I think there's about $60,000 a year that could be headed toward your husband if you play your cards right. And there's another probably 30,000 a year, maybe more that you could contribute. So now we're talking about a $90,000 a year difference. $90,000 more a year hits your bank account. You're not in this situation anymore.