Rich Habits Podcast: Episode 150

Build Wealth Without Counting Every Dollar

Released: December 29, 2025
Hosts: Austin Hankwitz & Robert Croak

Episode Overview

In this milestone episode, Austin and Robert break down why traditional budgeting fails most people and introduce the "anti-budget"—a streamlined, automation-focused approach to building wealth. The discussion is packed with practical steps, actionable guardrails, and mindset shifts, revealing how you can create financial progress without tracking every last transaction. Listener questions cover family wealth strategies, whole life insurance, and how to manage a windfall investment win.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Why Traditional Budgeting Fails

[01:39–02:43]

• Most budgeting systems are tedious, time-consuming, and unsustainable.
• "Only 41% of Americans use a budget. And of those people that do budget, 73% say they failed at it within the first year." (Robert, 01:40)
• People become mentally exhausted from tracking, leading to poor decisions and eventual abandonment.

2. What is the Anti-Budget?

[02:43–04:09]

• The anti-budget prioritizes automation over micromanagement.
• "Automate your savings and investments first, then spend the rest guilt free." (Austin, 03:07)
• Reverse budgeting: Pay yourself first, automate the rest, and stop stressing over daily transactions.

3. Step-by-Step Anti-Budget Framework

Step 1: Calculate Your Savings Rate

[04:09–05:48]

• Decide what percentage of income goes to savings/investments, then automate it.
• "We recommend...to save 15% to 20% of your take-home pay if you ever plan to retire with dignity." (Robert, 04:20)
• Starting even 1% higher each year yields major compounding benefits.
• Millionaires average 23% savings rates vs. 4% for the average American.

Step 2: Build Your Automation System

[05:48–08:30]

• Open separate accounts for spending, emergency savings, and investments.
• Set up automatic transfers the day after payday.
• "Don't keep everything in one checking account...Separate accounts create clarity." (Austin, 06:29)
• Automate bills (rent, utilities, subscriptions) to prevent late payments and reduce stress.

Step 3: Create Spending Guardrails

[11:05–12:46]

• Reject restrictive category limits in favor of simple, specific rules.
  • Example: 24-hour rule for purchases over $100—sleep on it before buying.
  • Quarterly subscription audits: "Audit your subscriptions often enough to make an impact, but not so often where you feel like you're micromanaging your life." (Austin, 12:29)
• Always shop with an explicit list to prevent impulse buys.

Step 4: Guilt-Free Spending Account

[12:46–14:43]

• By automating high-priority financial goals, leftover funds can be spent freely.
• "One of the most powerful aspects of the anti-budget is guilt free spending...the remaining money has psychological clearance for spending and no stress." (Robert, 13:42)
• Avoids the all-or-nothing mindset that causes binge spending after a setback.

When to Use the Anti-Budget vs. Traditional Budget

[14:43–16:45]

• If living paycheck to paycheck: Start by intensely tracking for a limited period—no-spend January challenge suggested.
• Traditional budgets are best for tight situations; anti-budget fits when you have positive cash flow but dislike micromanagement.

Mindset Takeaways

[16:45–19:01]

• Most wealthy people do budget in some form; different styles work for different personalities.
• Focus on compounding and major financial decisions; tracking every penny isn’t always necessary.
• Don’t let tracking overwhelm your focus on growing your income and learning.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• "Remember, we don't want to see anyone on our watch becoming Walmart greeters at 70 years old."
  – Robert, [04:35]

• "If you had the mentality of okay, 1%, I can save 1% more...get up to that 15, 20, 25% savings rate, that's what's going to allow you to retire with dignity."
  – Austin, [05:48]

• "If you want that $14 avocado toast, go for it. Because you've set everything else and you're in the right place for your wealth building strategies."
  – Robert, [08:24]

• "When people feel guilty about purchases, they're actually more likely to engage in binge spending later on...the same psychology applies to budgets."
  – Robert, [13:32]

• "Traditional budgeting works for some people. If you love spreadsheets, if tracking every dollar makes you feel in control, keep doing that. But for most people, it's miserable and it's unsustainable."
  – Robert, [17:26]

Important Timestamps & Highlights

• [01:39] Why budgeting fails most people
• [03:10] Definition of anti-budget and reverse budgeting
• [04:09] Step 1: Calculate & gradually raise your savings rate
• [05:48] Step 2: Automate with multiple accounts
• [08:30] Automate bills & spending calendar
• [11:05] Step 3: Guardrails—24h rule, subscription audits
• [12:46] Step 4: Guilt-free spending and its psychological benefits
• [14:43] When you really need a traditional budget—no-spend January
• [16:45] Mindset of wealthy people about budgeting
• [19:01] Avoiding focus solely on tracking; income growth matters

Listener Q&A Highlights

Q1: Building Wealth as a Young Immigrant Family

[23:11–27:35]

• Advice:
  • Build a solid savings base before diversifying into real estate or more speculative investments.
  • Separate emergency fund from house savings.
  • Focus effort on getting $100k–$250k invested before branching out.
• “Stop looking around at all these different opportunities and...lock in on getting hundreds of thousands of dollars invested into the markets.” (Austin, 24:42)

Q2: Should I Cancel My Whole Life Insurance Policy?

[27:35–32:15]

• Advice:
  • Whole life is generally not the best wealth-building tool for most people—high fees, low returns.
  • Term life is preferable; invest saved premiums in the market.
  • “Yes, you're getting played, sadly...We love term life insurance. We do not agree with whole life insurance and IULs as a form of investing.” (Robert, 28:13)

Q3: How to Sell a Large Single-Stock Position & Manage Tax?

[33:10–37:16]

• Advice:
  • Mind the capital gains thresholds: split sales over two years to stay under the 20% long-term rate.
  • Prioritize diversification to reduce risk—even if it means paying some taxes.
  • “If you can kind of break it up between a 2025 sale and a 2026 sale...that's how I would approach it.” (Austin, 36:08)

Tone & Style Reflection

• Conversational, direct, and supportive with a smattering of humor.
• Very practical—no hype, just honest, actionable advice.
• Mindset tips blend with specific financial tactics.
• Encouragement to embrace whatever budgeting style is sustainable for you.

Final Thoughts

Automation and simplicity are at the heart of building sustainable wealth for those who find traditional budgets intimidating or unsustainable. The anti-budget allows you to focus on high-impact decisions (saving, investing, income growth), relieve financial anxiety, and actually enjoy your hard-earned money. For complex or high-stakes situations, targeted tracking or professional guidance may still be needed.

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