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Summary

Podcast Summary: Scamfluencers Episode: Dying for Sex Release Date: April 15, 2025 Host/Author: Wondery

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Introduction

In the episode "Dying for Sex" from Wondery's gripping series Scamfluencers, hosts Scaachi Koul and Sarah Hagi delve into the murky waters of online relationships and the deceptive allure of influencers who exploit personal connections for ulterior motives. This episode spotlights the story of Molly and her tumultuous first date with an aspiring screenwriter, dubbed "Toyota Guy" to protect identities.

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Meet Molly and Toyota Guy

[00:56] Molly Introduces Toyota Guy: Molly recounts her initial meeting with Toyota Guy at a local bar, painting a vivid picture of early-stage romance.

Molly: "So Toyota guy and I met at the Local Peasant, which was like this little bar really close to my house at the time."
[00:56]

Nicky Boyer (Host): Expresses nostalgia for the bar setting, emphasizing the relatable backdrop of the story.

Nicky Boyer: "I love that bar."
[01:06]

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The Progression of the Date

The conversation transitions into the development of Molly and Toyota Guy's date, highlighting the shift from casual conversation to intimate encounters.

Molly’s Account: Describes the natural progression from small talk to physical intimacy, illustrating the rapid escalation typical in influencer-fueled relationships.

Molly: "We started with small talk... and then things got a little handsy... our legs touch."
[01:21]

Nicky Boyer: Questions the transition from conversation to casual sex, setting the stage for deeper analysis of such encounters.

Nicky Boyer: "So far so good. Right? But how do you move from casual conversation to casual sex?"
[01:34]

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An Unexpected Turn

As the date unfolds, unexpected and uncomfortable moments emerge, revealing potential red flags in Toyota Guy's behavior.

Molly's Experience: Details a sudden and awkward incident where the physical intimacy takes an unexpected and uncomfortable turn.

Molly: "And then his dick came out. But I don't even remember... it was all like."
[02:27]

Nicky Boyer: Reacting with bewilderment, he highlights the bizarre and inappropriate nature of the incident.

Nicky Boyer: "He's a magician."
[02:33]

Molly's Description: Paints a chaotic scene where Toyota Guy struggles to control his actions, leading to an embarrassing situation in a quiet, upscale neighborhood.

Molly: "He was writhing around... something was going to happen... his car alarm started going off really loud."
[03:17]

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Aftermath and Reflections

Post-incident, Molly reflects on the dating experience, questioning the motives and authenticity behind Toyota Guy's actions.

Molly’s Reflection: Expresses confusion and discomfort, indicating a mismatch between her intentions and Toyota Guy's behavior.

Molly: "It was so fast... what's he doing?"
[02:51]

Nicky Boyer: Speculates on Toyota Guy's state of mind, adding a layer of questioning to the narrative.

Nicky Boyer: "Did he just hit puberty?"
[03:17]

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Seeking Closure and Understanding

Molly expresses a desire to understand Toyota Guy's perspective, hinting at unresolved questions and the need for closure.

Molly’s Willingness: Shows openness to revisiting the past to gain clarity, despite potential embarrassment.

Molly: "I would love that, and I'm sure it would be super embarrassing for me, but I don't care."
[05:14]

Nicky Boyer: Encourages further exploration of Toyota Guy’s side of the story, emphasizing the importance of understanding all perspectives.

Nicky Boyer: "We need to be like, hey, here's what's really going on. Will you be a guest on the podcast?"
[04:49]

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Conclusion

"Dying for Sex" serves as a cautionary tale about the complexities of modern dating, especially within the influencer landscape. Through Molly's story, Scamfluencers exposes the vulnerabilities and manipulations that can occur when personal desires clash with deceptive intentions. The episode underscores the necessity of transparency and authenticity in relationships, particularly those amplified by social media personas.

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Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Molly on Meeting Toyota Guy:

  "So Toyota guy and I met at the Local Peasant, which was like this little bar really close to my house at the time."
  [00:56]

• Nicky Boyer on Transitioning to Intimacy:

  "But how do you move from casual conversation to casual sex?"
  [01:34]

• Molly Describing the Unexpected Incident:

  "And then his dick came out. But I don't even remember... it was all like."
  [02:27]

• Nicky Boyer Reacting to the Situation:

  "He's a magician."
  [02:33]

• Molly on the Aftermath:

  "It was so fast... what's he doing?"
  [02:51]

• Molly on Seeking Closure:

  "I would love that, and I'm sure it would be super embarrassing for me, but I don't care."
  [05:14]

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Final Thoughts

"Dying for Sex" is a compelling episode that navigates the intricate dynamics of online relationships influenced by deceptive personas. Through honest storytelling and critical analysis, Scamfluencers invites listeners to reflect on their own interactions and the broader implications of influence in the digital age.

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Transcript

[Nicky Boyer]

Hey, I'm Nicky Boyer. Dying for sex is all about stepping out of your comfort zone and exploring sex, desire and self discovery in a totally unfiltered way. It's the story of my best friend and I's journey to embrace our desires, try new things and live without regrets. It's fun, real, and all about finding freedom and being unapologetically you. So good it inspired a TV show. I'm going to play you a clip from the podcast now, so be sure to follow the series on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts. One of Molly's first dates was with a 20 something aspiring screenwriter. He had a Japanese car. His name, well, we're not using real names, people's privacy and all that. So let's call him. Let's just call him. What was the name of the car?

[Molly]

Toyota.

[Nicky Boyer]

Let's call him Toyota. The Toyota guy.

[Molly]

So Toyota guy and I met at the Local Peasant, which was like this little bar really close to my house at the time.

[Nicky Boyer]

I love that bar.

[Molly]

It's cute, right?

[Nicky Boyer]

Molly and Toyota guy started with small talk. He told her he just got back from Europe and he was making a short film. She told him she was recently divorced and loved living alone. You know, typical first date stuff.

[Molly]

He was cute and like we would, you know, we were chatting and then things got a little handsy, you know, where there's like a hand, brushes a hand kind of by mistake, but not really. And then on the, on the leg, and then the legs touch.

[Nicky Boyer]

So far so good. Right? But how do you move from casual conversation to casual sex?

[Molly]

And then it was like, you know, hey, well, you know, let's go home. I'm going to go home, but I'll walk you to your car first. Oh, you know.

[Nicky Boyer]

And where were you guys like parked? He was just parked on the street.

[Molly]

Yeah. So he was parked in like the Shishi neighborhood. Okay. So we walked up like past Ventura, like south a bit, and then down one of those blocks and we got to his car and it was kind of like, eh, why don't we just make out in your car? And I don't remember who offered it, but we kind of like understood that we were just going to make out in his car. Okay. You know, so I feel like we started in the front seat, but it was just not comfortable enough. So we kind of tumbled into the back seat like without leaving the car. We just kind of like rolled into the backseat and we were kissing and I think my bra came off. I'm pretty sure it Did.

[Nicky Boyer]

Oh, yeah, Wait, it just came off.

[Molly]

Like, just came off on its own. It was like, amazing. I'm out of here.

[Nicky Boyer]

He's a magician.

[Molly]

Yeah. I don't want to do this anymore. So. Yeah, so it came off and then. And then, you know, and then his dick came out. But I, like, I don't even remember. I don't remember. I think I touched it. But the pinky, like, I don't really. But it was so fast. Like, it was all like. And it was one of those, like, what's he doing?

[Nicky Boyer]

Like, set the scene. Like, what was he doing?

[Molly]

Like, he was on top of me, writhing around. And it was one of those, like, straight out of like, one of those movies where, like, all of a sudden, like, he was young, but he wasn't that young. He was in his 20s, but it was like. It was one of those, like, you knew something was going to happen, you know, and it was gonna happen sooner than either of us was prepared for it to happen.

[Nicky Boyer]

Oh, my God. Did he just hit puberty?

[Molly]

Yeah, it was a little like. And so he's like, like. Cause I think I touched it with a hand, a finger, and that was too much. And he was like, ugh. And so. And so all of a sudden his head is darting around and he's like, looking around, looking around, trying to figure out, like, where he's gonna come. Cause I don't. He doesn't want to come in the car or on his stuff or on his date. Like. And so, like, you know, so what he does is he opens the back of the back door and he, like, you know, jerks it into the really nicely manicured lawn. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Oh, yeah.

[Nicky Boyer]

Let me get this straight.

[Molly]

Yeah.

[Nicky Boyer]

So he was so aroused, but he had the ability to, like, not jizz on you. Not jizz in the car. He opens the car door, jizzes on the lawn, and then what? Like, do you just say, oh, is that good? Like, what do you say after that? I've never seen anybody open a car door and jizz.

[Molly]

So it really wouldn't have mattered what I said because at that point his car alarm started going off really loud.

[Nicky Boyer]

No.

[Molly]

Yeah, yeah. So he's coming and the car alarm is like, woo, woo, woo. In this, like, really posh, quiet neighborhood.

[Nicky Boyer]

That neighborhood is straight out of the Brady Bunch. Traditional ranch style houses, manicured lawns. You'd almost expect. Expect Mr. And Mrs. Brady to come running out in their bathrobes to see what the commotion was all about.

[Molly]

Oh, my.

[Nicky Boyer]

I would have given anything to have.

[Molly]

Been walking my dog on that side. I know, I know, I know.

[Nicky Boyer]

Molly was off and running. She had dates lined up for weeks, but I still had questions, like, what was it like for Toyota guy? What was he looking for? And what was the date with Molly like for him? What was it like to be on the other side of Molly's adventures in dating? I think we need to be like, hey, here's what's really going on. Will you be a guest on the podcast? I want to hear his version of the story and ask him questions.

[Molly]

I would love that, and I'm sure it would be super embarrassing for me, but I don't care.

[Nicky Boyer]

Yeah. Really? You don't?

[Molly]

No. Why?

[Nicky Boyer]

No, I love that. Yeah, of course. I never thought he'd talk to me, but then he actually responded and after a few texts, I called him, but I had no idea if he was going to pick up. That was just a taste of all the spice. Follow Dying for Sex. Plus all new bonus episodes on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts. You can binge the entire original series early and ad free right now on Wondry. Start your free trial of Wondry plus in the Wondry app, Apple Podcast or Spotify.